the search for Mr.Right

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Very rarely people show their true colours ....they either over estimate themselves ...or hide their inner feelings

watched munna bhai part 1 last week and loved the part where he advises the girl who is going on a blind date in a restaurant ...to observe how the guy treats and behaves with people less fortunate that him ..if he is kind then obviously he is Mr.Right ...if he is obnoxious ...well dump him ...

on the same lines ...my aussie friend mum ...advised me if the man is kind to his mother he is Mr.Right .. but if he lives with his mum ...run away as far away as you can!!!

well in the indian context ...can't really take the second advise..!!

so ...will request any such subtle insights that the members have used as pointers in the selection of their partners ....
 
first point 'dont think too hard', jyada sochne se iraade kamjor ho jaate hain

I followed only one point and it has worked beautifully for us. If heis the mr right, you will be very comfortable being with him, in his presence, talking to him, listening to him. Comfort is the thing, you can feel it.

The only thing when I met khushi was like 'how comfortable we were with each other', it was literally like being alone. i mean as comfortable as being alone.

Maybe its becoz we both are very accepting towards each other and infact towards every one.

In recent times i have seen people looking for partners they can show off in terms of looks/money/status. Well, they have a right to but as far as i am concerned it is a pity. I am yet to see one such happy couple.
 
Hi! Nirmiti,

Well, I guess one should keep oneself mind open & free from any prejudices....than spend some time observe & if u feel comfortable, getting positive vibes from the person....I guess thats right choice!!

Positive Vibes r crucial aspect!! :) :)

This is what I believe.....hope it helps!!


Rock on
Jit
 
Bhai Jite,
Waise tere ar shobhit mai tai ek jana ladki hovai e tai thaari jodi ekdum badhiya jamti. par eeb ke karaan, eeb tai thamnai do dhuundni padaingi
:D:D:D
 
Ha!Ha!Ha! bhaisaab aapne to rogg saa kaat diya!!! :eek::eek: :D :D
Waise Bhaisaab yo Veeru-Jai ki joddi jukkar hai!!
We are forever friends.....he's more than a bro to me!!

Aur haan Bhaisaab.....koi meri match ki Jatni ho to bataiyo (5'8"+) ;) :p

Rock on!...
Jit

navingulia said:
Bhai Jite,
Waise tere ar shobhit mai tai ek jana ladki hovai e tai thaari jodi ekdum badhiya jamti. par eeb ke karaan, eeb tai thamnai do dhuundni padaingi
:D:D:D
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He must respect other girls/ladies and as Naveen said if you feel comfortable means if you are your real self and dont have to think TWICE in doing anything then you got a RIGHT MAN and he should be protective....here i mean not IMPOSING :) and who doesn't differentiate between yours n his RESPECT/ DIGNITY. Who speaks as well as LISTENS to you or if he understands your WSHES without telling....NOTHING LIKE IT ;)
 
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well buddy i m mor inspired by rang de basanti. jaise koi bhi desh perfect nahi hota, oose banana padta hai. waisan maafik koi bhi man "right" nahi hota banana padta hai. kilkiiiiiiiiiii

jokes apart i believe (personal view, with no intention 2 advice others 2 test it) that there is nothing "right". wat is right 2dy cn sound wrong 2 u tommorow. a person changes with times and circumstances. i m nt wat i was 5 yrs back. i wont b wat i m 5 yrs later. as d time adds chapters 2 one's life, one achieves mellowness of different shades. so my philosophy is if u feel lov and respect at d same time 4 a fellow just marry. marrying mr. right is a condition. conditions lead 2 compromise later on if nt met and d whole life turns 2 b nuthing bt compromise; and compromise cn give u only umberella no roof. in nut shell lov and respect shud b d criteria, it gives enuf strength to live evn with mr wrong. y seek only right. 1 person cn b right thru out. neither side--boy or girl
 
miss right ke bare me bhi bata koi kade mere jise bhole bhale chore kaa nash ho jaa :D:D
 
sunitahooda said:
He must respect other girls/ladies and as Naveen said if you feel comfortable means if you are your real self and dont have to think TWICE in doing anything then you got a RIGHT MAN and he should be protective....here i mean not IMPOSING :) and who doesn't differentiate between yours n his RESPECT/ DIGNITY. Who speaks as well as LISTENS to you or if he understands your WSHES without telling....NOTHING LIKE IT ;)
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sunita e bina bataaye koi na samjhta jiji. gone r d dys whn ppl had time 2 sit nad brood or analyse. nobody's intuition is reliable thse dys and i dnt blame ppl 4 tht since who has time 2 ponder with dilligence over anything in such running-against-time life. jiji tanne main janu su ja maare comment kar diya. nvr take such risk. expressionism is still d best art. abstract art is meant 4 few insanes.
 
wohi to main bhi keh raha hu ki ladies first, Miss Right ki baat karo pehle Mr. Right to mere barge kahi honge ......:D:D
 
thik se ji naa manno to ker lo nash choriyan kaa pehla per 1 ne to bacha liyo kade sarra ka bhya ho jhya urr Mr. Right hannde unke balkan ne kahani sunata :)
 
Jai ek bacha bhi lee tai tere tai byah karwa kai hojaga KHADDA NAAS....yo tai ho kai rehga....bakri ki maa kad taayi khair manaavegi:D tu kalli manna maane....koye tai kittey tere naam ki bi paida holi sai:p
vivekdh said:
thik se ji naa manno to ker lo nash choriyan kaa pehla per 1 ne to bacha liyo kade sarra ka bhya ho jhya urr Mr. Right hannde unke balkan ne kahani sunata :)
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nirmiti said:
will greatly appreciate serious inputs...

Very rarely people show their true colours ....they either over estimate themselves ...or hide their inner feelings

watched munna bhai part 1 last week and loved the part where he advises the girl who is going on a blind date in a restaurant ...to observe how the guy treats and behaves with people less fortunate that him ..if he is kind then obviously he is Mr.Right ...if he is obnoxious ...well dump him ...

on the same lines ...my aussie friend mum ...advised me if the man is kind to his mother he is Mr.Right .. but if he lives with his mum ...run away as far away as you can!!!

well in the indian context ...can't really take the second advise..!!

so ...will request any such subtle insights that the members have used as pointers in the selection of their partners ....
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Well, its true, when it comes to the situation that one knows that he or she is being judged & if the judgment is favorable then he will be bestowed with a ‘shaadi ka laddoo’ :p then he will surely put his best foot forward & try projecting himself as someone really nice to be with! All the good things will be projected distinctively and even the dark ones are clothed in a good packet! ;) But, basic instincts of a person cant live under this cover of shelter for quite long ! So, it depends on how much time u have at ur disposal to arrive at the judgement. Any person's true character can also be judged by his body language, his attitude, mannerism & a lots more which comprise a whole set of personality! So, if one can read these things then he will surely get some signs as to the true colour of the person, unless the person is just an expert at covering !! :rolleyes:

 
sabse badiya tarika naveen bahisaab kaa hai comfort feel karo to sab right hai
 
When i found Ravinder Dahiya reading this thread....cudn't stop myself from inviting him to post....n he replied ke mai to MISS RIGHT hi tohunga....:D;) SO guys STATUTORY WARNING-Make necessary changes in topic while you do a customised search for respective partners:D!!!!
 
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