Towards healthy relations in married life:Few tips

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1] Respect each other's sentiments.
2] Believe in giving more than expecting.
3] Let the partners grow as an individual also.
4] Never allow IN-LAWS to become the focus of discussion/argument.
5] Understand each other honestly.
6] Focus on positives of each other and strengthen these inputs further.
7] Take lots of time to point a finger at each other...remember we all have weaknesses but patience is the key here.
8] Controversies be nipped in the bud instantly and move on.
9] It was your choice to come together and hence take fullest responsibility to make it succeed.
10] Never miss a chance to love each other.
11] Say i love you often[specially men] as it is the food for at least women.
12] Never criticize each other in public[Specially you..the men as they hate it from deep inside and become revengeful]
13] Never go to sleep before settling the argument/dispute if any.....never prolong it...don't leave food...you will loose wieght..hey-2.
14] Appreciate quickly and criticize rarely...condemn NEVER.
15] Never abuse/criticize the in-laws...Specially for men...WARNING...YOU WILL LOOSE MUCH MORE]
16] Only way a women can be handled is through LOVE...no other way takes you to happiness....Mr MEN.
17] Never question the capabilities of a man..ladies are you listening...his ego is bigger than you...and he can throw out any thing under the sun to salvage his ego and self respect.
18] Spare some quality time for each other every day...inspite of hectic shedule of one or both.
19] Make each other feel special always.
20] Never allow ANY RELATIONS between two of you...YOUR UNION IS SACRED.
21] Neglect the whole world but never each other.
22] Have tremendous mutual faith as faith moves the world.
23] Discuss things frequently and see reason.
24] Go out ,see the world,meet new people and ROCK in life.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE TO ALL.


The inputs are exclusive from my experience of married life.Koe kammi ho tou purri kar diyo mei bhi seekhh lyungga.
 
yes kaku there is one mor thing n i.e. 'fate'. sumtimes it happens dt 1 might end up wid as wrong person tht despite all dese efforts, things wont work out...simply coz ur luck was bad. so a marriage's success largely depends on luck tht wat kinda fellow u tied up wid.

Marriage is a one way ticket 2 hell/heaven. all gamble. n d way out is 2 expensive. play on ur own n nobody else.
 
kaka manne apni sochi jabbe to isstai kahi 7 saal ho liye hum donua ne ibb to nasihat deke hi kaam chala le hain bera hai manani koi se ne nahi 1 dusre ki :D kaka main bhi to suthra hu :Dphotu to aavega hi

baki apka exp. bahut kaam aavega mharee jisa ke jinke bhya ke naam kaa darr baith raha hai


Tu appna dhhyan raakh rei BIBEKKE..........dusryan nei yo nasihat ka tokkrra matt pakkdawei JABBALDASTI..hey-2-2.BTW tera phottu sutherra se rei....Good!
 
kaka manne apni sochi jabbe to isstai kahi 7 saal ho liye hum donua ne ibb to nasihat deke hi kaam chala le hain bera hai manani koi se ne nahi 1 dusre ki :D kaka main bhi to suthra hu :Dphotu to aavega hi

baki apka exp. bahut kaam aavega mharee jisa ke jinke bhya ke naam kaa darr baith raha hai



Jyahein te te likhya se yo sab kuchh akk tum fayda thhao iss cheez ka arr jindaggi saffal bannao saare........Mannei blla lye re byah mein....mein thara GIFFTT lyaunga donnuwan ka.......Arr bass ek SAKKORA BOONDDI KA RAYTA PEEUNGGA...hey-2...katti bi kharcha na karwauun tharra.
 
kaka fer to chori bhi dhund do mahre donua khatar :) fer chahe to gift bhi manna laiyo urr khub khaiyo :)


Jyahein te te likhya se yo sab kuchh akk tum fayda thhao iss cheez ka arr jindaggi saffal bannao saare........Mannei blla lye re byah mein....mein thara GIFFTT lyaunga donnuwan ka.......Arr bass ek SAKKORA BOONDDI KA RAYTA PEEUNGGA...hey-2...katti bi kharcha na karwauun tharra.
 
Aap humney Baaniya banaogey manney deekh gee,

yea 24 point ka matlab manney to yeo samajh aaya hai :-
Aadmiyeo tumney saari baat mannee hai or jananiyeo kee her khushi ka
dhyan rakhna hai specially inkey peehar walo ka.

Jananiyeo tum bhee koi baat tey man ea liya karo in becharya kee.

Regards

1] Respect each other's sentiments.
2] Believe in giving more than expecting.
3] Let the partners grow as an individual also.
4] Never allow IN-LAWS to become the focus of discussion/argument.
5] Understand each other honestly.
6] Focus on positives of each other and strengthen these inputs further.
7] Take lots of time to point a finger at each other...remember we all have weaknesses but patience is the key here.
8] Controversies be nipped in the bud instantly and move on.
9] It was your choice to come together and hence take fullest responsibility to make it succeed.
10] Never miss a chance to love each other.
11] Say i love you often[specially men] as it is the food for at least women.
12] Never criticize each other in public[Specially you..the men as they hate it from deep inside and become revengeful]
13] Never go to sleep before settling the argument/dispute if any.....never prolong it...don't leave food...you will loose wieght..hey-2.
14] Appreciate quickly and criticize rarely...condemn NEVER.
15] Never abuse/criticize the in-laws...Specially for men...WARNING...YOU WILL LOOSE MUCH MORE]
16] Only way a women can be handled is through LOVE...no other way takes you to happiness....Mr MEN.
17] Never question the capabilities of a man..ladies are you listening...his ego is bigger than you...and he can throw out any thing under the sun to salvage his ego and self respect.
18] Spare some quality time for each other every day...inspite of hectic shedule of one or both.
19] Make each other feel special always.
20] Never allow ANY RELATIONS between two of you...YOUR UNION IS SACRED.
21] Neglect the whole world but never each other.
22] Have tremendous mutual faith as faith moves the world.
23] Discuss things frequently and see reason.
24] Go out ,see the world,meet new people and ROCK in life.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE TO ALL.


The inputs are exclusive from my experience of married life.Koe kammi ho tou purri kar diyo mei bhi seekhh lyungga.
 
good topic............

kaka jiii.. bhote ee badhiyaa yo te jii......... saara exp jhaad diyaa aade........ bahut badhiyaaaaaa jiii lage raho jiiii
 
katti sahi kaad diya sarans baat to 24 thi per matlab aap aali 2 baat hi thi
hahahahahaah :D:D


yea 24 point ka matlab manney to yeo samajh aaya hai :-
Aadmiyeo tumney saari baat mannee hai or jananiyeo kee her khushi ka
dhyan rakhna hai specially inkey peehar walo ka.

Jananiyeo tum bhee koi baat tey man ea liya karo in becharya kee.

Regards
 
yes kaku there is one mor thing n i.e. 'fate'. sumtimes it happens dt 1 might end up wid as wrong person tht despite all dese efforts, things wont work out...simply coz ur luck was bad. so a marriage's success largely depends on luck tht wat kinda fellow u tied up wid.

Marriage is a one way ticket 2 hell/heaven. all gamble. n d way out is 2 expensive. play on ur own n nobody else.

Fate...Yes to some extent but it does not govern everything.

Whatever Dev sahib is saying after marriage, for me stage before marriage is more important, If one has chosen right partner these 24 things (most of it) will come naturally.
 
4] Never allow IN-LAWS to become the focus of discussion/argument
yo point numer 4 hai na yo ha saari ladaia ki jadd.
 
1] Respect each other's sentiments.
2] Believe in giving more than expecting.
3] Let the partners grow as an individual also.
4] Never allow IN-LAWS to become the focus of discussion/argument.
5] Understand each other honestly.
6] Focus on positives of each other and strengthen these inputs further.
7] Take lots of time to point a finger at each other...remember we all have weaknesses but patience is the key here.
8] Controversies be nipped in the bud instantly and move on.
9] It was your choice to come together and hence take fullest responsibility to make it succeed.
10] Never miss a chance to love each other.
11] Say i love you often[specially men] as it is the food for at least women.
12] Never criticize each other in public[Specially you..the men as they hate it from deep inside and become revengeful]
13] Never go to sleep before settling the argument/dispute if any.....never prolong it...don't leave food...you will loose wieght..hey-2.
14] Appreciate quickly and criticize rarely...condemn NEVER.
15] Never abuse/criticize the in-laws...Specially for men...WARNING...YOU WILL LOOSE MUCH MORE]
16] Only way a women can be handled is through LOVE...no other way takes you to happiness....Mr MEN.
17] Never question the capabilities of a man..ladies are you listening...his ego is bigger than you...and he can throw out any thing under the sun to salvage his ego and self respect.
18] Spare some quality time for each other every day...inspite of hectic shedule of one or both.
19] Make each other feel special always.
20] Never allow ANY RELATIONS between two of you...YOUR UNION IS SACRED.
21] Neglect the whole world but never each other.
22] Have tremendous mutual faith as faith moves the world.
23] Discuss things frequently and see reason.
24] Go out ,see the world,meet new people and ROCK in life.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE TO ALL.


The inputs are exclusive from my experience of married life.Koe kammi ho tou purri kar diyo mei bhi seekhh lyungga.

Dekh chaacha...meree baat dhyaan tae sunnn....
Itne niyam tae kisse PhD degree len tahin bhi na yaad karne padte honge!!!
Yahre bhodiya nae raaji raakhan tahin yeh sab yaad raakhne pad ge tae
kaman-khan tahin kad tem rehvega????? :eek:

Seedhi err saral si baat sae. Look after the bano when it counts the most
;);););););)...hit the right spots where it matters the most...err phir
chahey kitne hi keench-2 ke kharaante maar liye...ko dikat na. :cool:

Baalkan ne khaam-khan beechlaan laag re so chaach...the best solutions
are simple and elegant...
 
Dekh chaacha...meree baat dhyaan tae sunnn....
Itne niyam tae kisse PhD degree len tahin bhi na yaad karne padte honge!!!
Yahre bhodiya nae raaji raakhan tahin yeh sab yaad raakhne pad ge tae
kaman-khan tahin kad tem rehvega????? :eek:

Seedhi err saral si baat sae. Look after the bano when it counts the most
;);););););)...hit the right spots where it matters the most...err phir
chahey kitne hi keench-2 ke kharaante maar liye...ko dikat na. :cool:

Baalkan ne khaam-khan beechlaan laag re so chaach...the best solutions
are simple and elegant...

Aaihaye love guru!!
bahoot achhe rathi sahab - lagta hai khoob maje ho rahe hai aajkal
 
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