jyotikohar
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saharan ...........meri post padh le pehlam !!@ravinderjeet ji susrad rtk me ae sae ar peehar bhi !!! ya nokri le ja rhi sae agra tae. jukar rtk me ib koye na pawe olha kadde aapne nuye manne agra me nhi dikh li hai koye bhi
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saharan1628
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sir ji..with due respect..just wanna say that...agar log chunni/dupatta nahi odhte to kya lugaayiyan ne bhi nahi odhna chahiye...
sahar mai kai ladkiyaan suit ke saath jeans pehanti hain er dupatta nahi odhti...to,generally, lugaayiyon ko bhi sirf suit-salwaar bina chunni ke pehn na chaahiye
saharan1628
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to sir ji ya acchi baat hai ya buri...??? manne jyaada dhyan na diya VP ji kaise likhte hain
ravinderjeet
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kaam kaaji janaaniyon ko to bilkul nahi lenaa chaahiye,aoustan ek ladki din bhar me 500 baar apnaa pallu sidhaa karti hey , to wo kaam karney me adchan ban jaataa he ,aur uss ladki kaa dhayaan bhi kaam se bhatak kar pallu par hi jaataa hey , fir bus me train mey bhi yatraa kartey samay kaafi muskilon kaa saamnaa karnaa padtaa hey, kitney hi accident duppatta fansney ke kaaran ho jaatey hein,kaam kaaji mahilaaon ke liye isko sambhaalnaa muskil hi hotaa hey.ghar gaon me to chaltaa hey ,kyonki wahaan kaa maahol alag hey,baaki apni-apni soch.
ravinderjeet
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gadhmadh kahyaa karein issey likhaney ney
saharan1628
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sir ji manne na bera iss word ka kya matlab hota hai..Kahin gadbadh(gadbad) to nahi likh rhe the
ravinderjeet
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jiskaa nichod naa nikley(gadhmadh)
saharan1628
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okkkk.....guess that's not a good thing..
Ya I agreed that i can't have any clear views(either black or white kinda thing) regarding this subject,but thought It would be nice to share one incident related to this subject..
I may not want my future wife(ebbe narre saal pade hain byaah hon mai
) to carry out olah but I really like it on women whenever I visit villages..
so guess Yes to it in villages but No in cities...but is there any clear cut distinction b/w villages and cities
Ya I agreed that i can't have any clear views(either black or white kinda thing) regarding this subject,but thought It would be nice to share one incident related to this subject..
I may not want my future wife(ebbe narre saal pade hain byaah hon mai
) to carry out olah but I really like it on women whenever I visit villages..so guess Yes to it in villages but No in cities...but is there any clear cut distinction b/w villages and cities
yoh kaam ar baat salute ke layak sa. meri shadi 1981 me hui thi, gaam mein thay, patni teh ohla nahin kadwaya, mere dada doo bhai thay, dono khush hue, oran ne to bate banai thee, mere teen bhatijo ki shadi bhi hui hai unki patnio ko bhi ghunghat nahi karwaya, or uske baad ib pichhle panch salon me jo bhi paddilikhi bahu gam mein aa rahi saa wo ghunghat nahi karti. sab normal ho gaya. ham sab ko iss burai ko mitana chahiye.
ravinderpannu
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ha ha ,,Gadhmadh ( GOL-MOL)...!!
P.S. sorry discussion me thoda hasya ras aa gya..!!
Mujhey to lagta hai yea hamey un per chhod dena chahiyea jinhey olha karna hai wo chahey to karey or na chahey to naa karey. Iskay liyea jor jabardasti karna sahi nahi hai. Mein or mere wife dono delhi mein hee paida hua hai per fir bhee wo Ghunghat(Olha) karti hai jabkee hamrey ghar kay sabhi logon ney mana kiya tha. Merey say chhotey bhaiyo kee wife merey Pitaji key samney nahi karti per ghar say bahar jati hai to jarur karti hai chahey wo thoda hee ho.
Agar man say kiya jai to iskay bahut fayeday hai, jaise kee koi aapsay faltoo baat nahi kareyga, Sunderta jayada dino tak barkarar rehti hai, Baal jaldi say kharab nahi hotey.
Merey ghar kay aas-paas kai bahuay hai jo mujhsay parda (Olha) karti hai or jab kabhi unka dhayan nahi jata to mein apna munh fer leta hun taaki ye sharm bani rahey.
Mera eak bachpan ka dost hai jo abhi mere jaankari mein sab say jayada padha likha hai usnay double MA, Mfil,PHD, D.lit, LLB, or kai degree ley rakhi hai or uskee wife MA Eco. hai Delhi mein Rehti hai or fir bhee kuchh logon say Olha Karti hai. Meiney us-say (Dost) say puchha kee bhai yea bhabi keu parda karti hai yea to bahut modern hai to usnay kaha kee bhai yea apnee marji say karti hai or kuchh hee logo say karti hai or jahan tak karvaney kee baat hai to mera to kehna manti hee nahi fir mein kesey karvaonga.
"Mera vichar say to jo chahey karey na chahey na karey koi jor jabardasti nahi honi chahiye"
Agar man say kiya jai to iskay bahut fayeday hai, jaise kee koi aapsay faltoo baat nahi kareyga, Sunderta jayada dino tak barkarar rehti hai, Baal jaldi say kharab nahi hotey.
Merey ghar kay aas-paas kai bahuay hai jo mujhsay parda (Olha) karti hai or jab kabhi unka dhayan nahi jata to mein apna munh fer leta hun taaki ye sharm bani rahey.
Mera eak bachpan ka dost hai jo abhi mere jaankari mein sab say jayada padha likha hai usnay double MA, Mfil,PHD, D.lit, LLB, or kai degree ley rakhi hai or uskee wife MA Eco. hai Delhi mein Rehti hai or fir bhee kuchh logon say Olha Karti hai. Meiney us-say (Dost) say puchha kee bhai yea bhabi keu parda karti hai yea to bahut modern hai to usnay kaha kee bhai yea apnee marji say karti hai or kuchh hee logo say karti hai or jahan tak karvaney kee baat hai to mera to kehna manti hee nahi fir mein kesey karvaonga.
"Mera vichar say to jo chahey karey na chahey na karey koi jor jabardasti nahi honi chahiye"
ravinderpannu
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Baat to theek hai ji..
Jiska ji karda ho kad le..ar ooon b hamne dekhya hai ak ohla kadan k fyade b sain,,.jukar muh suthra reh sa' dhul maati ni lagdi,,..Ar Jukar jyoti ji kad ri sain ''kotki'' karann khatir..!!
sunitahooda
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खाप इबे बीज़ी है एक और अहम् फैसला लें मै अक्क "छोरियां नै जींस पहरणी चाहिए अक्क ना" तो जब जींस बंद हो जागी तो आगला मुद्दा होगा अक्क बुरका पहरना चाहिए अक्क ना....तुम बात करो हो ओहला बंद कर्वाण की....ये मुसलमान तै पाछे जांगे ...इब्बे देखो इनका ऊँट किस करवट बैठे :d
ravinderjeet
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ऊँट तो बैठ लिया | लोट मारणी रह री स | और १० साल पाछे कोए छिदी-ए दिखे गी ओहला काढ़े
tomarhitesh23
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Firstly , ek bhai ne kaha ghunghat musalmano ko riwaj tha.... mere khayal se hindus ka bhi tha... but still the time has changed ... and we should change along with it.... but before adopting a new life style and leaving any old custom... firstly we should think about the advantages and disadvantages of new and old both and should adopt adequate things out of them... i would like my wife to follow this custom atleast whenever she is with my elder family members and relatives ... i think this way we can pay respect to our senior family members as they are accustomed to it.
ravinderpannu
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Bhai Tomar,
1. Kade kise granth me padya sa k ya Hindua ki b pratha thi ya manyata thi..!
2. Can u plz share some advantages and disadvantages of the same.
3. You would like your wife to follow this tradition,,..question is whether your wife likes it or not...??
Bhai tu to rahwe b Amrika me sa' ..koi amrican wife hogi to wa to jama b na kade...( PS : plz dont take on a serious note. )
4. Respect to dene wale k dil me ho sa'..Ohla is not a symbol of respect...plz read a few of the posts in the thread.
Brother, thanks for your respect feelings for parents & elders, but dear can elders be respected by covering face, no not at all. secondly your wife is daughter of your parents, should their daughter cover her face from them. Thirdly this practice started to avoide bad eyes & reaction of bad people, if it is so, than do our parents have bad eyes for their children, donnot we believe our parents. As per available info on the subject, this practice started after muslims came and even if during hindu rule if some lady had to cover her face, it was also to avoide the greedy eyes of powerful & uneducated people in the society. BUT NOW SUCH PROBLEM IS NOT EXISTING IN OUR SOCIETY, so why should we carryon such slavery type of custom. Regards
tomarhitesh23
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Firstly , ek bhai ne kaha ghunghat musalmano ko riwaj tha.... mere khayal se hindus ka bhi tha... but still the time has changed ... and we should change along with it.... but before adopting a new life style and leaving any old custom... firstly we should think about the advantages and disadvantages of new and old both and should adopt adequate things out of them... i would like my wife to follow this custom atleast whenever she is with my elder family members and relatives ... i think this way we can pay respect to our senior family members as they are accustomed to it.
@PANNU :- I have already bolded , just to show that it is my wish.... not a compulsion ...
@Fateh :- I have written the reason "our senior family members as they are accustomed to it."
mainn wahi karunga jisme main mere bade khush honge... unki khushi main hi meri khushi hai.... baki apni apni sooch... wahi karo jo man kare....
@PANNU :- I have already bolded , just to show that it is my wish.... not a compulsion ...
@Fateh :- I have written the reason "our senior family members as they are accustomed to it."
mainn wahi karunga jisme main mere bade khush honge... unki khushi main hi meri khushi hai.... baki apni apni sooch... wahi karo jo man kare....