Live in relationships ..?

Are you in favour of Live-in relationships

  • yes

    Votes: 17 16.8%
  • no

    Votes: 77 76.2%
  • may be yes..may be no

    Votes: 7 6.9%

  • Total voters
    101
Not illegal if the individuals are above the voting age and are not married elsewhere.

Regards,

Urmila.

Ideots are the fellows who give place to those INDIVIDUALS in their house. When HE/SHE (Those individuals) become eligible for voting should be thrown out of house. Why to put money on a lame horse?
 
Rakesh jee, your post does not defend your assertion that it is the education of girls that is responsible for their behavioral problem i.e., 'nakhra' and for dissolution of marriage in India. What in your opinion is the role of education in this problem? How can it be rectified?

Regards,

Urmila.
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Excerpt from : http://www.indidivorce.com/divorce-rate-in-india.html

Even though India still boasts of that nearly hundred percent of the marriages are a success, rapid urbanization and awareness of various rights are now instigating the divorce rate to shoot up. Empowerment of women has initiated the dissolution of marriage in urban areas as financially educated women are now open to the option of ending the relationship rather than to bear life long abuses silently. The campaigns on gender equality are now giving rise to ego clashes between the husband and wife, especially if the wife too is the bread earner of the family.

A survey states that over the past four years the divorce rate in Delhi, the capital city of India has almost doubled and is projected to be 12000 by the year 2008. In 2006, Bangalore, the IT hub of India it was recorded that 1,246 cases of divorce were filed in the court that pertain to the IT sector exclusively. It has been estimated Mumbai has shot up to 4,138 in 2007 while cities that are acknowledged for their cultural richness and social values like Kolkata and Chennai, are no less behind. Agro based states like Punjab and Haryana are now seeing an increase of 150% of divorce rate since the last decade. Kerala, known to be the most literate state has experienced an increase of divorce rate by 350% in the last 10 years.

Around 20 years back India had a negligible divorce rate of around 5%. But based on the increasing number of divorce being filed today, the divorce rate in India is expected to rise up at a faster rate by the ensuing year.
But your does Bas farak itna hai mein Angreji mein mada sa kamjor hoon:)
 
Rakesh jee, I never said that education of women leads to behavioral problems (nakhra), but your post says so. Would you like to elaborate on your assertion?

I will say the behavioral problems (nakhra), is self respect, which everyone should have..


Not illegal if the individuals are above the voting age and are not married elsewhere.

Regards,

Urmila.

Agree, but does society and culture allows that..???Mite be fateh ji was saying samething..
 
Rakesh jee, I never said that education of women leads to behavioral problems (nakhra), but your post says so. Would you like to elaborate on your assertion?

Regards,

Urmila.



मैडम जी इतने बावले तो न लगते की अपना लिख्या होया भी न समझ आवे ! रिसर्च तो मन्ने करी नहीं है पर जो देख्या है वो लिख दयु हूँ ! आज समाज कई उतार चढाव से गुजर रहा है एक और तो मोडर्न समाज है दूसरी और हमारी संस्कृति है ! आज की छोरी पढ़ी लिखी है नौकरी भी करे है पर छोरे के माँ बाप तो पढ़े लिखे कोणी आर होवे भी तो बात एक ए है ! बुढ़ापे में आके आदमी बात देखे है साँझ ने बालक आवे हाल चाल पूछे दो घडी बतलावे कीमे सेवा पानी करे ! पहलम यु काम बहु कर दिया करती इब बहू भी नौकरी पेशा है ! जब व घरा आवे आर मान ल्यो जे सुसरे ने गलती तें कह दी की बहू एक कप चा प्या दे तो समझो रेल आगे झोटा आ गया कटे ए कटे ! गयी वो भागवान लुगाई जो परिवार की सोच्या करती पढ़ी लिखी तो आते ए कह है एक मन्ने बंगलोर तें बढ़िया ऑफर आया है तू भी नौकरी छोड़ दे बंगलोर चलेंगे ! घर में माँ बाप तें फालतू सासु सुसरे की चले है और इसके चलते मियां बीवी में भी कलह हो जाती है ! जो आपके घरवालो से रिश्ता नहीं जोड़ सकी वो आपसे जोड़ेगी ? ऊपर तें ये कानूनविद ये न्यू कह हैं जे लुगाई अपने पति से शारीरिक सम्बन्ध न बनाना चाहे और पति जबरदस्ती करे तो वो बलात्कार है पति बहार जाये वो कानून की अवहेलना है ! और ये कानून बना लिया लुगियां ने ढाल मन्ने अपने काना तें कहती सुनी हैं पूरी उम्र सारा कुनबा जेल में सड़ोगे ! में किसे काम के हाथ नहीं लाऊ घर का काम करवाना था तो अनपढ़ ल्याते!

खैर आपका यु आर्टिकल भी या ए बात कह है मन्ने माडा सा मेरे हिसाब तें कह दी ! बुरा मत मानना ये मेरे अपने विचार हैं मेरा किसी का दिल दुखाने का विचार नहीं है अगर किसी को गलत लगता है तो वो अप्पति जाता सकता है ! में खुदा नहीं की हर बात सही ही कहू !
 
Everyone likes power
American and Japanese company were taken under consideration and asked to hire eleven people each for best results

Japanese hired one manager and 10 workers
Americans hired 10 manager and one worker

Americans failed

Again given chance Japanese did same and Americans again hired 10 managers and 11 workers in India for same salary as that of worker.

Again Americans are failing

Power should be centeralised command should be in one hand only for best results

To many egoes always lead to clash.

Jatland is best example
 
I will say the behavioral problems (nakhra), is self respect, which everyone should have..

Riya jee, 'nakhra' is a negative behavior while self respect is a positive behavior. One does not need to show 'attitude' = nakhra to show self respect. 'Attitude' problem is a reflection of low self esteem.

One's self respect is evident when he/she treats others kindly and with respect.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
I will say the behavioral problems (nakhra), is self respect, which everyone should have..

Riya jee, 'nakhra' is a negative behavior while self respect is a positive behavior. One does not need to show 'attitude' = nakhra to show self respect. 'Attitude' problem is a reflection of low self esteem.

One's self respect is evident when he/she treats others kindly and with respect.

Regards,

Urmila.
That remains respect upto certain limit then translates into ego and finally arrogance and most interestingly it is like bad breath the one who's having never knows about it.
 
And and what basis should the centralised command be given to 'one hand', Rakesh jee ? On merit or on the basis of age?

Regards,

Urmila.

Yes

Do you think that a 25 year old PHD is better then a man of 65 years experience? That's what where clash occurs aaj ghar mein aayee ar saara kunba bas uski e sune uski e mane wa e chaudhran ho gharki sabte baddi wa chalana sikhawegi sabne


Yu e to nakhra hai Sara raula e chaudhar ka hai Madam ji
 
Rakesh jee this is what I am saying, age is no _absolute_ reflection of merit. Neither is a degree certificate. yo rola kukar bandh ho pher?

Regards,

Urmila.

Meri soch ye kehti hai ki aadmi do cheejo se bada mana jata hai Kad ya Pad
Either his age is more then you or his position in society is above yours.

Recognition of women in Indian society is either Daughter of or Wife of

Man is recognised be Son of only
 
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Ideots are the fellows who give place to those INDIVIDUALS in their house. When HE/SHE (Those individuals) become eligible for voting should be thrown out of house. Why to put money on a lame horse?

I think such individuals must be financially independent FIRST and FOREMOST before deciding to choose a Live in Relationship. Otherwise, you are right, they are likely to be thrown out of their parents house! Same thing about same Gotra Marriage - had they been independent of their families, they probably would not have lost their lives.



Regards,

Urmila.
 
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Someone have to take order to keep things working otherwise there will be no COMPATIBILITY issue with everyone and we will keep on trying.

Wo kehya karein kise ne to neechi kheenchni padegi

That brings us to the question, how does one decide who will give orders and who will be the follower? Is it on the basis of merit = pad = position or age OR gender?

Regards,

Urmila.
 
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