How much does salary affect in arrange marriage.

ravinderjeet said:
उर्मिला जी ने जाणकारी कोणी ज्यां तें माड़ी मोटि बात शक के तौर पे बुझ ली ते के होया |

Ravinder jee, any old saying, a particular usage of language etc can shed light on history. People who are new to the language sometimes catch things that habitual users of the language don't.
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Punarjanm hai marriage.........badhiya jagaah bhi ho sake s ..... Er isi Jagah bhi ho sake s ki saans na aawe maans ne....."......."........ Par jit jisa bhi ho ja........ Us ne sambhaal le aadmi to jeewan safal s.... Naa to salfaas............Er byah arranged ho ya love aala.."....... Miya biwi pe hai safal aur Vifal banaana......
 
आज काल मेट्रीमोनी आली साईंटआं पे ७० % लोग /लुगाइयां के डाटा तलाक्सुदा के सें | जब एक बे-ए ना निभा सके ते आगे के टोहन्दे हान्डे सें बेरा ना | सब दुसरे तें ते पुरण समर्पण चाहवे सें पर आपणा आपा कोणी देखदे |सेलरी नहीं , समर्पण सफलता की कुंजी स |
 
आपसे पूर्ण रूप से सहमत हूँ रविन्द्र भाईसाहब. धन तो एक कारक है बहुत सारे कारको में से. प्रतिबद्धता सबसे ज्यादा जरूरी है, आजकल लोगो को आज़ादी चाहिए कुछ भी करने की.
चाहे वो नैतिक हो या नहीं, बस ये लोग पच्छिम की तर्ज पे दौड़े जा रहे हैं. पता नहीं कहाँ रुकेंगे...
 
deependra said:
ha ha ha that's true, but bhai you should share your experience and let Shivam know that how much salary affect the arranged marriage....:)
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bhai meri k puchega .. acha tem tha wo .. or aachi kismat thee .... wo aaye the dekhan diwali aale din .... or mere tai to bas 2 e swal puche the .. tankha kitni se or chori kisi chahiye ... bhai tankha to bata di thee sachi aapaan ne to nu bhi bata diya tha ki PF kat ke itne rapiye de h haath me.. .... or chori aale question par kuch bola nahi gaya ... or teen din pache EID the jad gahr aale gaye thee dekhan .. aapi to gaye nahi bhai dekhan ki bhaii aane pe to natya nahi ja ... .... or unke chori samjh me aagi .. or meri raand si kaat di ...

or mera chota bahi h majakia .. jad ghar aalan ne haan kari to bola .. ki bas ek jagah hi barfi khaoge k .. ????

to bhai baat ka saar yo se ki jo rakesh bhai ne kaha wo satya h ... ki jo karam me h wo koi susra kite lako lo waei aavegi .... :):)
 
ghar aala ne karan do apna kaam, unke tasali hone bhe jaruri hai..........
kitna kama hai kitna nhe byah pache kush rakhe bus, ye jyada jaruri hai, salary se....
 
deependra said:
चाहे वो नैतिक हो या नहीं, बस ये लोग पच्छिम की तर्ज पे दौड़े जा रहे हैं. पता नहीं कहाँ रुकेंगे...
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Natik (i.e., Moral) is subjective and is influenced by culture/society. Many Western countries have better record than India on implementing Human Rights, showing philanthropy etc - which come under the gambit of Morals.
 
rakeshsehrawat said:
You win!!
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without the popularity vote.

Look at how many people liked your views and other people's views compared to mine (none). You have some nice, big group of like minded individuals and people like me perhaps "outsiders"! ( without whom there would hardly be any discussion of this entertainment type)
 
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urmiladuhan said:
Natik (i.e., Moral) is subjective and is influenced by culture/society. Many Western countries have better record than India on implementing Human Rights, showing philanthropy etc - which come under the gambit of Morals.
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What I intended to say is something should not be followed blindly until it doesn't have a better impact on the person who is following as well as on the society. In my above post, following blindly means the tolerance power has reduced drastically on the theme of self-freedom leading to more divorce cases.
 
deependra said:
What I intended to say is something should not be followed blindly until it doesn't have a better impact on the person who is following as well as on the society. In my above post, following blindly means the tolerance power has reduced drastically on the theme of self-freedom leading to more divorce cases.
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Traditionally, men have always been in a position of power over women. With women's education has come their financial independence. This, in my opinion, has led to the "drastic decrease" that you mention. I think one would agree that it is the tolerance power of woman that has shifted.
 
Kaha se kaha !! This thread is going like a river, turning, twisting and taking whatever comments come in !

Maine kuch kaha to main dukhi karrar diya gaya !!

Simple si bhasha me baat ya hai, "You can come to know by other methods about the salary of groom, then why ask directly."

About arrange marriage, please avoid your view, first read how and why it was came into picture then comment.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arranged_marriage_in_India
 
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