Those guilty of "Within Gotra" marriage should be ostrasized by JAT's... Yes or No ?

[navdeepkhatkar]

शाबास!! खेंच क ले लो !! जुन्सा जीतेगा उसने एक बोरी बादाम सत्येश्वर की ओड़ त इनाम में !!

उस बोरी में २ एक मुठी मैं भी गेर दूंगा

 

[jsrana]

भाई जसप्रीत वैसे तो आप पढ़े लिखे और ग्यानी हैं और बात आप की समझ में भी आ गयी है | फिर में कहना चाहूँगा कि ईस समाज को सुद्रढ़ और सवस्थ बनाए रखना हम सब की जिम्मेवारी है | ये तभी संभव हो सकता है जब हम समाज के बनाए हुए नियम और कायदों का पालन करें | दूसरा जिस तरह से कोई भी माँ बाप आपने बच्चों का भविष्य बुरा नहीं देखना चाहता उसी तरह से हमें ये विश्वास होना चाहिए कि हमारे पूर्वजों ने भी ये नियम और कायदे हमारे और समाज के हित के लिए ही बनाए हैं | फिर भी अगर समय के साथ साथ कुछ बदलाव की जरूरत है तो उस के लिए संस्थाएं भी बनायी गयी हैं जो समय समय पर इसका अवलोकन और विचार करती हैं और अगर उपयुक्त लगे तो बदलाव भी लाती हैं | जैसे स्वामी दयानंद व गुरु नानक ने समाज के नियमों में बहुत सारे बदलाव सुझाये और हमारे समाज ने उन्हें अपनाया भी |


रही बात सजा देने की तो जैसे पहले भी बताया जा चुका है कि ज्यादातर घटनाओं में माँ बाप या दुसरे करीबी रिश्तेदारों ने ही ये सजाये दी हैं ना कि किसी सामाजिक संस्था ने | बाकी हम सब ही ईस सख्त सजा के खिलाफ हैं लेकिन जिस तरह से बिमारी ठीक करने के लिए एक चिकित्सक को भी कई बार अंग को काटना पड़ता है ईसी तरह से हमें भी ईस बिमारी को रोकने के लिए कुछ तो सख्त कदम उठाने ही पड़ेंगे वरना ये छूत कि तरह फ़ैल जाएगी और हमारे सामाजिक ढाँचे को ही ले डूबेगी |


धन्यवाद सहित |

 

[drrajpalsingh]

I do not give myself so much credit or importance to believe that I am on a mission to change the course of society. That would be an extremely hilarious proposition.

I believe we are here to discuss our opinion on issues that affect our community as logically as possible. And logically almost always involves science. If people bring it down to personal level, for whatever reason it shows them in a very bad light. At that point they have already lost the discussion and it defeats the purpose of the forum.

As for you, I was saddened to see that you couldnt take a neutral approach in spite of your experience and educational background. But I guess, we are all human after all and will pick sides for whatever reason.

And as I said, I have already furnished enough reference material to settle the scientific side of things. I always maintained that the debate is more about customs and traditions as scientific basis is lacking.

Friend,

How you assess me has nothing to do with the topic of debate. We are discussing human behaviour versus science. Please remember, Science is a good servant but bad master. Please introspect has science not overtaken you and made insensitive to human sensibilities. Gather courage to comment on me after going through my last posted comments with open mind and of course without any sort of prejudice.

With due regards

 

[navdeepkhatkar]

That is correct. Slowly and slowly differences between communities and cultures are going to melt away.

10 years now, if this forum is around (it should be as it presents a tremendous platform) we might be amazed to look back and realize that so many of us were justifying same-gotra marriage.

This is called confidence ..

 

[rekhasmriti]

i knew it---rather i was so damn sure

koi na koi toh misunderstood karega hi

" jab tane genetics ka A,D aur C b na aata to itna kyu dhol bajave se...

Mrs Rekha mujhe ni pata aapko kya aata h aur kya ni,lekin ek baat suno aap,jab tak aapko khud kuch na paat ho to kuch mat likha karo...pehle uski kuch knowledge le fir yaha likh"

i know a,b ,c of genetics---n i know very well blogs n articles se genetics nahi aata


jaise maths bina pen n paper ke nahi aata----wasie hi genetics-----xillion on combiunations---n it does has formula----i m sure chromosomes n all toh padha hi hoga

be it mr. swaich or any other JL------genetics is just too complicated

agar nahi yakin hota------chk with any professor- or reseracher

which dhol u r talking about --------joh bolns tha---point rakhna tha---woh pehli hi rakh chuki hoon--many posts back

meine toh kuch kaha hi nahi

just said the comment u have passed " b*********-------that is gross------n that is------no matter what the excuse is

sorry------aasan hota hai kya????????

i only say so----ke kissi ko bura lag jaye----toh plz do not take it by heartr---that was not personal


" offence likh do aur bich me kuch ni hota.."

i guess aap toh meri post mei ctrl+F karke sorry hi dhoondhte hoge

plz carefully see----usmei content kya hota --------better read content first then see that sorry part


" aur ni likh sakte to discussion me aana he band kar do.."

thnx for d advice------
i guess one who can not keep decency of discussion-----he need to walk out

just b'coz u r in discussion----that does not give u any right---to use such words( humari hi zaban kharab hoti hai)

template-hahahahaahahah

theek sir g-----aap ismei khush toh----issi mei hi sahi ---yeah i do use template----aur kuch?????????????????

Please Note : i know zyada bol gayee------but u have this nature of provoking n accusing------

still bhaisab-----i was not personal-----extremely sorry agar apko bura laga ho toh ( FROM TEMPLATE)

jab tane genetics ka A,D aur C b na aata to itna kyu dhol bajave se...

Mrs Rekha mujhe ni pata aapko kya aata h aur kya ni,lekin ek baat suno aap,jab tak aapko khud kuch na paat ho to kuch mat likha karo...pehle uski kuch knowledge le fir yaha likh.

last me SORRY ya no offence likhne se discussion me participate ni kiya jata......agar kuch likhe ho to uski responsibility likhne wale ki hoti h.......

P.S:
Rekha ji aapne ek template bana rakhi hai jisme satart me SIR G likh do aur last me last me SORRY ya no offence likh do aur bich me kuch ni hota....so is template se hat kar kuch likho mam..aur ni likh sakte to discussion me aana he band kar do......

 

[rekhasmriti]

in agreement sir g

I think both the protagonists and antagonists of the same gotra marriages have used all the ashtars and shastras in their armoury; so time has arrived to take rest, if you please. Cease fire, re-equip with latest arguments supported by reference material and we can meet again !!!



Thanks

 

[samarkadian]

plz carefully see----usmei content kya hota --------better read content first then see that sorry part

Yes , I also don't understand why people don't read your genuine content.? Content ka zamana hi nahi raha. So Sad.

 

[rekhasmriti]

this was awesome-Ved, vani, dand , bhed

Galati sudharne ke char pravdhan banaye hue hain.
Ved, vaani, Dand, Bhed. Ved yani gyan, pahle aadmi ko gyan do, gyan dene ke baad bhi baat samajh mein aa jaye toh thheek hai otherwise we must use Vani, oose kade sabdon ka prayog karke samajhana chahiye, agar fir bhi nahi manta hai toh wah Dand ka adhikari hai aur last mein aise aadmi se bhed (ostracized) karna hi uchit hi. Totally infected persons are not supposed to be the part of society.

 

[drrajpalsingh]

this was awesome-Ved, vani, dand , bhed

That is why crime rates were under manageable limits in the society!! Spare the rod and spoil the child is an old proverb.

 

[drrajpalsingh]

Yes , I also don't understand why people don't read your genuine content.? Content ka zamana hi nahi raha. So Sad.

Indeed, genuine concern for want of understanding among the common folk seconded beautifully !!! Perhaps, this may be due to the fact that people do not use microscopes to find out 'Content' in certain posts.

 

[sanjeev_balyan]

That is correct. Slowly and slowly differences between communities and cultures are going to melt away.

10 years now, if this forum is around (it should be as it presents a tremendous platform) we might be amazed to look back and realize that so many of us were justifying same-gotra marriage.

and as per yr advance and progressive thoughts,
when members of this thread will be at heaven or hell or on death bed ,
there great grand sons and daughters will be marrying each others.

I don’t know , yr view now ,
but as per yr dream of marriages after 10 years,
Their next generation shall be discussing on the same topic in this thread
to justify the marriages between brothers and sisters with solid and advanced medical genes study.

 

[rekhasmriti]

hahahahahahahahhhaha

So very expected----------------------gosh

i knew it-----aur koi kuch kahe na kahe

tumne comment zaroor marna hai

kabhi toh-------surprise me

a decent post---without any sarcasm

kahan se ki hai Sarcasm mei PhD

annoyinggggggggg-------is it the right word


curious---is it just me ---with whom u r so sarcastic-------

aur mei jane doon---tum ho hi aise ( waise bhi kar kya loongi)


n cherry on cake-----is----- u have just a great fan following---
people they like ur posts
fishhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Yes , I also don't understand why people don't read your genuine content.? Content ka zamana hi nahi raha. So Sad.

 

[rekhasmriti]

" Spare the rod and spoil the child"

meaning?

That is why crime rates were under manageable limits in the society!! Spare the rod and spoil the child is an old proverb.

 

[rekhasmriti]

missed one thing

worst on worse is -----
jab bhi kissi post ko dislike karna hota hai

toh " dislike " option nahi milta

Yes , I also don't understand why people don't read your genuine content.? Content ka zamana hi nahi raha. So Sad.

 

[virj]

hahahahahahahahhhaha

So very expected----------------------gosh

i knew it-----aur koi kuch kahe na kahe

tumne comment zaroor marna hai

kabhi toh-------surprise me

a decent post---without any sarcasm

kahan se ki hai Sarcasm mei PhD

annoyinggggggggg-------is it the right word


curious---is it just me ---with whom u r so sarcastic-------

aur mei jane doon---tum ho hi aise ( waise bhi kar kya loongi)


n cherry on cake-----is----- u have just a great fan following---
people they like ur posts
fishhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

----------- knew it---rather i was so damn sure

koi na koi toh misunderstood karega hi

" jab tane genetics ka A,D aur C b na aata to itna kyu dhol bajave se...

Mrs Rekha mujhe ni pata aapko kya aata h aur kya ni,lekin ek baat suno aap,jab tak aapko khud kuch na paat ho to kuch mat likha karo...pehle uski kuch knowledge le fir yaha likh"

i know a,b ,c of genetics---n i know very well blogs n articles se genetics nahi aata


jaise maths bina pen n paper ke nahi aata----wasie hi genetics-----xillion on combiunations---n it does has formula----i m sure chromosomes n all toh padha hi hoga

be it mr. swaich or any other JL------genetics is just too complicated

agar nahi yakin hota------chk with any professor- or reseracher

which dhol u r talking about --------joh bolns tha---point rakhna tha---woh pehli hi rakh chuki hoon--many posts back

meine toh kuch kaha hi nahi

just said the comment u have passed " b*********-------that is gross------n that is------no matter what the excuse is

sorry------aasan hota hai kya????????

i only say so----ke kissi ko bura lag jaye----toh plz do not take it by heartr---that was not personal


" offence likh do aur bich me kuch ni hota.."

i guess aap toh meri post mei ctrl+F karke sorry hi dhoondhte hoge

plz carefully see----usmei content kya hota --------better read content first then see that sorry part


" aur ni likh sakte to discussion me aana he band kar do.."

thnx for d advice------
i guess one who can not keep decency of discussion-----he need to walk out

just b'coz u r in discussion----that does not give u any right---to use such words( humari hi zaban kharab hoti hai)

template-hahahahaahahah

theek sir g-----aap ismei khush toh----issi mei hi sahi ---yeah i do use template----aur kuch?????????????????

Please Note : i know zyada bol gayee------but u have this nature of provoking n accusing------

still bhaisab-----i was not personal-----extremely sorry agar apko bura laga ho toh ( FROM TEMPLATE)

-----------------------------------------------
u r absolutely right-

so many times---u won't find authentic info in google as well

libraray------i was last time in college

now again ----no time

but waise sir g ------

jo miene mention kiya bout colony---was i wrong??????????

aap ne toh i believe bahut sari books padhi hongi

please help me understand------kindly clear my curiousity ---of this colony wala thing

Without naming anyone, Can access of some people be limited to Time pass threads. All their posts belongs to that category.

 

[drrajpalsingh]

" Spare the rod and spoil the child"

meaning?

You are not so naive! Nonetheless, Spend a few rupees and purchase a good dictionary!!!

 

[vikasjat]

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[vikasjat]

"SAME GOTRA MARRIAGE" ka discussion over ho liya.......kyuki SWIACH bhai ne b Custom as well as Scientific reason pata lag gye hain ki hum ise support kyu ni karte. aur vo is se agree b hain.

So ab yaha koi new topic liya jaye.

 

[swaich]

Rekha ji, if I can share some feedback about your posting style:

1. Avoid sms lingo. It puts people off and reveals lack of seriousness in writing. Agreed its faster and easier but makes for the least impact on the reader.
2. Write in paras. You write in singular sentences. This kills the flow of your thoughts. To maintain better flow write in paras with each para containing a specific thought rather than multiple sentences one after the other.

You are very active on the forum and do not shy away from experessing your thoughts. With a little polishing your posts will make for better reading. I hope you take my suggestions in good spirit.

 

[sure]

missed one thing

worst on worse is -----
jab bhi kissi post ko dislike karna hota hai

toh " dislike " option nahi milta

Dislike is first step towards “HATE”, I don’t support this approach. Thankful to moderators for this and hope moderators will not promote such things in future and will remain with positive approach. Regards