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what about intercaste marriage?
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how cananybody compare sonia with kalpana.kalpana to shan thi garv thi desh kai do not undestand how can people give wrong example like this to prove themselves.and on top of that some are approving theirviews too.very sad.
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rajeshrathee
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There are two category of people, one who has taken a step and are happy with that and the other one, who will take a step in future or..............
Now first thing should be as wether all of the participating members believe in the concept of LOVE or not, be that a love before a marriage, which is translated into a succesful marriage or a love which has developed after or some years of marriage or that between a mother and son I mean may be between any two individuals.
Second thing is what if you love someone from other caste or other religion and get the same feelings reciprocated. Now here either you are so strong from inside that you just don't allow that feeling or (Chemical loche) as some of the chemists described it here, to come up.
Next thing is the courage to accept the reality. What you call someone who ditches the other party just because some of the Hardliners/Ideologists (Jo kal ko apki katti ungali par......bhi na kare), just for the sake of writing some words, are against that. I will call that such persons don't desrve to be humans.
As I said earlier its a question between two individuals and they and their family should decide. And as a person should care for the happiness of their family, it should be vice versa. When I got married there were many person (my fathers friens, who were ideologist but today many of them are mum and happy because theie own children has gone for love marriages within the caste and outside thier caste)
A happy marriage is the backbone of a HAPPY HOME and a home consist of compatible individuals, not society and ideologists and tommarow if you are succesful then everyone will run after you.
This is my last post in this thread and again to top the cream:-
I think, that Intercaste or inter religion marriage will be a love marriage and just make sure that its not an infatuation, its a true love and secondly the other half is compatible.
Love can happen anywhere, imagine koi Lath lekar kisi ko kahe ki "Kar pyar issi se"
Its your life and you have a right to live it the way you want to live and further Sawari apne saman ki khud jimmedar hai.
Now first thing should be as wether all of the participating members believe in the concept of LOVE or not, be that a love before a marriage, which is translated into a succesful marriage or a love which has developed after or some years of marriage or that between a mother and son I mean may be between any two individuals.
Second thing is what if you love someone from other caste or other religion and get the same feelings reciprocated. Now here either you are so strong from inside that you just don't allow that feeling or (Chemical loche) as some of the chemists described it here, to come up.
Next thing is the courage to accept the reality. What you call someone who ditches the other party just because some of the Hardliners/Ideologists (Jo kal ko apki katti ungali par......bhi na kare), just for the sake of writing some words, are against that. I will call that such persons don't desrve to be humans.
As I said earlier its a question between two individuals and they and their family should decide. And as a person should care for the happiness of their family, it should be vice versa. When I got married there were many person (my fathers friens, who were ideologist but today many of them are mum and happy because theie own children has gone for love marriages within the caste and outside thier caste)
A happy marriage is the backbone of a HAPPY HOME and a home consist of compatible individuals, not society and ideologists and tommarow if you are succesful then everyone will run after you.
This is my last post in this thread and again to top the cream:-
I think, that Intercaste or inter religion marriage will be a love marriage and just make sure that its not an infatuation, its a true love and secondly the other half is compatible.
Love can happen anywhere, imagine koi Lath lekar kisi ko kahe ki "Kar pyar issi se"
Its your life and you have a right to live it the way you want to live and further Sawari apne saman ki khud jimmedar hai.
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monikadahiya
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Samar singh ji,
We all respect kalpana chawla only cuz of her achievements.. or for that matter any indian who does india proud.. we dont respect them cuz of their inter caste or inter religion marriages.. what do you know about their marital lives??
Waise ek toh bhala ho jaga in examples se ..ki thode bohot apni inter caste marriages ko justify kar lenge cuz of these examples.. magar kaheen nyu na ho apni biwi/pati gar kalpana dikhan laag jya
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rajeshrathee
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Ek kahawat hai Krishan ji kare to Lilla , hum kare to Luchapan
Madam ji,with due respect, aap apna view do , ek dusere ko support karo ya na karo, apki marji, kisi ne kuch kaha kya apko, mujhe kisi ka view acha laga or usse support kiya to taklif..
Its not fair.
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rajeshrathee
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Ek sawal sabhi budhijivi Jatlanders se:-
Srishti ki rachna kaise hui:-
Adam Eve theory ya kuch or?
Srishti ki rachna kaise hui:-
Adam Eve theory ya kuch or?
monikadahiya
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lagta hai kai logon ko attention deficit disorder ho rya hai.. naam bhi nahee liya aur apne hathiyar kaadh ke tayaar...manne te koi muhavra bhi naa aamta...by god
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rajeshrathee
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Respected Mam
No personalisation please, it is not accepted from someone like you. Please mind you language mam. Attitude problem kise hai, everyone knows? Everyone is putting their views why you are taking it to your heart? If you have something healthy to contribute do it, may be a lot of person will learn from that
narenderkharb
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What Is Right
Hi Rajesh
The basic question was/ is ,what is right Intercast or intracast
Now the point was that since we owe a great to our parents who sacrifice a lot for us we as a human being has a duty to look for their happiness and their prestige also.
Some one who say that it is only me who has the sole right to decide whom to marry or not is basically a selfish and ungreatful person as he would have not been what he is today, had their parents not sacrificed a lot for him.
It is OK the parents may keep quite or weep afterwards but in some corner of their heart they will have a deep sorrow.
My point was, we should not let them face any sorrow or humilation ,it is not only our duty but it is the right thing to do also.
Now For a person who has gone with the locha or what ever it is and than commited to a lady ingnoring his parents than it is the most cowardice to run away from that loche effect or love later saying what my society will say this or that.
If commited one must stand for his /her love against the whole world that is like a real JAT .
And an intracast marriage is certainly more successful than intercast marriage I need not to explain reasons for this as most of us are aware of those.
Hi Rajesh
The basic question was/ is ,what is right Intercast or intracast
Now the point was that since we owe a great to our parents who sacrifice a lot for us we as a human being has a duty to look for their happiness and their prestige also.
Some one who say that it is only me who has the sole right to decide whom to marry or not is basically a selfish and ungreatful person as he would have not been what he is today, had their parents not sacrificed a lot for him.
It is OK the parents may keep quite or weep afterwards but in some corner of their heart they will have a deep sorrow.
My point was, we should not let them face any sorrow or humilation ,it is not only our duty but it is the right thing to do also.
Now For a person who has gone with the locha or what ever it is and than commited to a lady ingnoring his parents than it is the most cowardice to run away from that loche effect or love later saying what my society will say this or that.
If commited one must stand for his /her love against the whole world that is like a real JAT .
And an intracast marriage is certainly more successful than intercast marriage I need not to explain reasons for this as most of us are aware of those.
With due respect to everyone here...
Totally with you on this!!
Loving/respecting other castes, races or religion for that matter, would make me a less proud jat, would affect my love for the fellow jats....HELLO!!!!.....What are you talking about???!!!!
Life and the ways to live life are not BLACK & WHITE!!
Totally with you on this!!
Well, allow me please.
Loving/respecting other castes, races or religion for that matter, would make me a less proud jat, would affect my love for the fellow jats....HELLO!!!!.....What are you talking about???!!!!
Life and the ways to live life are not BLACK & WHITE!!
monikadahiya
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Totally with you on this narender!! We all respect other religions/castes..but marriage is a different issue all together.
monikadahiya
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Sir ji,
aapse bhi kayee cheezon ki umeed nahi thi, but u did it irrespective of what the other person would feel! agar kisi ne yaha irrelevant examples diya and somebody supports him/her, toh atpata hee lagta hai.. attitude hai mere mein ..and that too JAT ATTITUDE.. and i am proud of it.. atleast i am not suffering of any complexes or any disorders!!
and bhai jatni ka dil hai, aise faaltu ki cheezon ko dil par nahi leti ,so dont you worry about me! apni fikar kare and be happy!
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rajeshrathee
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Sir whatever everyone is saying is fine, I accept whatever you said, But now if the parents are agree and they are very happy then.......................
Secondly woh gana hai na " Har kisi ko saara jahan nahi milta kabhi jameen to kabhi aasman nahi milta"
No one is fully happy in this world,
I say put your views but why personalise that if you don't have a logical reply
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rajeshrathee
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Respected Lady
Upar likhe do words ke allawa kuch or word bhi bol diya karo, hum bhi apni vocabulary badha le
monikadahiya
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Respected Lady
Upar likhe do words ke allawa kuch or word bhi bol diya karo, hum bhi apni vocabulary badha le
sirf vocab kyon, kaho toh puri angrezi hee sikha dyu
.. jatni style .. magar distance learning course 
..yudhvirmor
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I think discussion is not going in right way.
We are making it personal issue. As we all agreed it’s a personal choice and can’t be forced.
But I suggest all to try to love somebody in our caste if possible.
Sabhi se ek aur request hai ak chamar chudon main matna byah kariyo
Kale kale balak kaka kahenge toh maja saa nahin ayega
We are making it personal issue. As we all agreed it’s a personal choice and can’t be forced.
But I suggest all to try to love somebody in our caste if possible.
Sabhi se ek aur request hai ak chamar chudon main matna byah kariyo
Kale kale balak kaka kahenge toh maja saa nahin ayega
narenderkharb
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Sorry Poonam ji if you could not get my point.
What I said had nothing to do with love of any one for fellow jats or proudness thing ,The point is Why should a person who believes in and wants to see cast race religion free world should be a part of forum that has in bold letters written that This site is for Hindu Jats only,is this voluntary assosiation, not a contravention of his own ideals?
And second a frank openion from him regarding name jatland of site, as it again cast race denoting word.
it applies to everybody .
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