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raj_rathee
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Oh . . .
I am late here . And consent with Charit Sheoran.
Some of us are taking it lightly, some enjoying it, and some are agree with the issue!! I would like to ask you one question is that, What would your response if she were your sister?
Kya fir bhi aap logo ke yahi response rehta?
Put your's in this case and then think!!. What our culture says? Is our culture allowed to behave like this on such a social place?
The person who has written this message, is not guilty for his deeds, We the Indians adopting western culture, and this was the demo of the same and here are the Pros and Cons of the same.
Suppose, If the moderators bans him, could it change his mentality? No way . . .
Its very easy to comment on or to advice when the objects are not related to us.
I am late here . And consent with Charit Sheoran.
Some of us are taking it lightly, some enjoying it, and some are agree with the issue!! I would like to ask you one question is that, What would your response if she were your sister?
Kya fir bhi aap logo ke yahi response rehta?
Put your's in this case and then think!!. What our culture says? Is our culture allowed to behave like this on such a social place?
The person who has written this message, is not guilty for his deeds, We the Indians adopting western culture, and this was the demo of the same and here are the Pros and Cons of the same.
Suppose, If the moderators bans him, could it change his mentality? No way . . .
Its very easy to comment on or to advice when the objects are not related to us.
Though I didnt wanna comment here anything but Mahender Bhai's reply provoked me....gud reply Mahender bhai.....but this is the paradox of Indian society...we talk a lot about gender similarity, we support the women rights, we pretend to be open minded but at the end of the day Hypocracy creeps in!!!
I believe our whole society is full of Hypocrats n its a curse!! I see its a long long way to go for the very improvments...
Salutations to u Kadwa bhai....gud eye-opening inputs!
Rock on
Jit
I believe our whole society is full of Hypocrats n its a curse!! I see its a long long way to go for the very improvments...
Salutations to u Kadwa bhai....gud eye-opening inputs!
Rock on
Jit
navingulia
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hmm
See,
Strong reaction is in Jat genes, so lets have a sobering effect first.
Firstly, simply tell the person that this is not done.
Secondly, he didnt use vulgar language and he did not stalk, so please dont skin him alive or publicly bash him.
Yes, the admin should take preventive measures.
Those who have reacted strongly also fine, those havent also fine.
About the sister issue, there is hardly any guy here who never wrote a love letter and when he wrote it, it was to some one's sister only.
We have to prevent it in future but avoid over reacting.
Sam, take me as your elder brother, report it to the admin and let them take care of it. Dont let such a thing discourage you from visiting Jatland or any other place for that matter.
cheer up guys
See,
Strong reaction is in Jat genes, so lets have a sobering effect first.
Firstly, simply tell the person that this is not done.
Secondly, he didnt use vulgar language and he did not stalk, so please dont skin him alive or publicly bash him.
Yes, the admin should take preventive measures.
Those who have reacted strongly also fine, those havent also fine.
About the sister issue, there is hardly any guy here who never wrote a love letter and when he wrote it, it was to some one's sister only.
We have to prevent it in future but avoid over reacting.
Sam, take me as your elder brother, report it to the admin and let them take care of it. Dont let such a thing discourage you from visiting Jatland or any other place for that matter.
cheer up guys
navingulia
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Raj Rathee sir, sibji kaat te tai 3 saal ho liye, eeb tai saag sa e randhaiga mera 
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dreamer
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Hello ,
Aaj ek baar phir se ... padha post ko .... yaar yeh general discussion ki jagah personal debate lag raha hai
... everybody has different perspectives 
... so i request moderators to close this thread 
... its not helping at all .... i think if such was a case .. then at least more than one complained should be there ... 
moderators pls do the best ASAP .. Rest in peace
Aaj ek baar phir se ... padha post ko .... yaar yeh general discussion ki jagah personal debate lag raha hai
... everybody has different perspectives ... so i request moderators to close this thread ... its not helping at all .... i think if such was a case .. then at least more than one complained should be there ... moderators pls do the best ASAP .. Rest in peacepaveldahiya
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bhaiyon ram ram,
ek baar phir pada yeh thread meine. har koi yahan pe isska solutions doond raha hia ..agar ladake propose karna chhodein aur yeh jimedari ladakiyon ke kandhe pe aa jaye to sari musibat hal ho sakti hia...kyon ki mujhe nahin lagta ki koi ladaka aisi mail milne pe uss proposal ko reject karke publicly thread create karega..aur..moderators se sawal poochega...aur usse hamare sis wagarah wale questions bhi khatam ho jayenge shayad...Baki sab badiya hia...
ek baar phir pada yeh thread meine. har koi yahan pe isska solutions doond raha hia ..agar ladake propose karna chhodein aur yeh jimedari ladakiyon ke kandhe pe aa jaye to sari musibat hal ho sakti hia...kyon ki mujhe nahin lagta ki koi ladaka aisi mail milne pe uss proposal ko reject karke publicly thread create karega..aur..moderators se sawal poochega...aur usse hamare sis wagarah wale questions bhi khatam ho jayenge shayad...Baki sab badiya hia...
pavel sahabh very nice solution............bhaiyon ram ram,
ek baar phir pada yeh thread meine. har koi yahan pe isska solutions doond raha hia ..agar ladake propose karna chhodein aur yeh jimedari ladakiyon ke kandhe pe aa jaye to sari musibat hal ho sakti hia...kyon ki mujhe nahin lagta ki koi ladaka aisi mail milne pe uss proposal ko reject karke publicly thread create karega..aur..moderators se sawal poochega...aur usse hamare sis wagarah wale questions bhi khatam ho jayenge shayad...Baki sab badiya hia...
fir ladke aise post dalne suru kar dege lol
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msingh
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poore saal maine best dialogue
,,,poore saal kee best dialogue maare see vinod nee iss post maine ,,,,,
ek ek chun chun kee
Sam rahi aap ki post kii baat ..so this is what i have for you
You are not the only one i am sure on jatland who is recieving proposals on this jatland ,,,,,there are many more but they do not go public and at the same time you could have handled it by just ignoring ,....making and issue out of it is not a solution
,,,poore saal kee best dialogue maare see vinod nee iss post maine ,,,,,
ek ek chun chun kee
Sam rahi aap ki post kii baat ..so this is what i have for you
You are not the only one i am sure on jatland who is recieving proposals on this jatland ,,,,,there are many more but they do not go public and at the same time you could have handled it by just ignoring ,....making and issue out of it is not a solution
Hadd kardi yaar aapne to Samu...
I feel so much at home with these kinds of meaningful posts... feels like I was missing it... I think we should discuss this properly with moderators and have a poll too... I am sure this kind of behavior by a Jat boy has something to do with Jat history and lack of aggressive Jat leader in Rajasthan... there got to be some connection...
Since you took me seriously against all my expectations let me say this...
We guys also sometime get these kinds of emails from girls... do we ever complain in public?... No... kyunki hamame dusron ka dard samajane ki aur chupchap sahane ki kshmata hai... I know how painful is it be bugged by emails by silly bleeding anguished hearts... its easy for girls to gather sympathy in such cases but it gets very hard for a guy because everyone thinks guy is to be lucky if he is target of unsolicited offers and expects him to behave the opposite... to feel like poor john you have to be poor john...
mind mat karna samu majaak kar raha hoon... (wase mind ho to beshak kar bhi lena
-vinod
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paveldahiya
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Dudee saab support ke liye bahut dhanyavad hia ...kyon ladakon ko badnaam kar rahe ho....kuch to farak chhodo ladakiyon aur ladakon mein...bechare ladakon mien kahan itni himmat hia ki woh itne proposal ke julm saha ke...aage aayein aur publically thread create kar ke moderator se personal questions poochein...lol..
Ya Guys r Guys!!
Ya.......... guys r guys really!!....they never miss a chance a to give the so called "line" to the girls they see around.............. i mean most of them r like that........... it becomes irritating many a times really!! & the special thing is that.......... every time they give "Line" for the first time!!!!!!!
Ya.......... guys r guys really!!....they never miss a chance a to give the so called "line" to the girls they see around.............. i mean most of them r like that........... it becomes irritating many a times really!! & the special thing is that.......... every time they give "Line" for the first time!!!!!!!
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samranwa
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Dekha!
How do MEN come forth to defend themselves!! Whatever they do is GREAT!!
Humm.... I remember a friend of mine cracking this joke,
Ladki, bus aur train, eik jati hai doosri aati hai.... Ladke aur autorikshaw, eik bulao saala chaar aate hain!!
Regards,
Sam.
How do MEN come forth to defend themselves!! Whatever they do is GREAT!!
Humm.... I remember a friend of mine cracking this joke,
Ladki, bus aur train, eik jati hai doosri aati hai.... Ladke aur autorikshaw, eik bulao saala chaar aate hain!!
Regards,
Sam.
aur kya expect kar sakti ho tum is male dominated jatland par.neither moderators nor males or females are going to come to defend you.ignore or leave the site.thts the only solution.sadak par jab koi sarfira comment marke jata hai to vaha kon sa moderator ya defender aata hai.is jatland ko bhi vahi samjho galti se aapna ghar mat samjh lena.
Dekha!
How do MEN come forth to defend themselves!! Whatever they do is GREAT!!
Humm.... I remember a friend of mine cracking this joke,
Ladki, bus aur train, eik jati hai doosri aati hai.... Ladke aur autorikshaw, eik bulao saala chaar aate hain!!
Regards,
Sam.
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samranwa
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Ritu Mam,
Eik jatni jatni,
do jatni bahut,
teen jatni kardai,
char jatni maut...
Kahan gayi voh lines? and voh jatni?? Jatni to hatne ki, bhagne ki, ignore karne ki baat nahi karti!!! And yahan to char se bhi bahut zayada hain? Why is this a male dominated jatland? Why don't we come to equalize.... Balance of power?? Is this a problem with these men to give chance to us?
Why so?
Let me be here to bear all fruits of this male dominated jatland.. let me see what happenes next!!!
Aap kyun down lag rahi ho mere ko??
Regards,
Sam.
Eik jatni jatni,
do jatni bahut,
teen jatni kardai,
char jatni maut...
Kahan gayi voh lines? and voh jatni?? Jatni to hatne ki, bhagne ki, ignore karne ki baat nahi karti!!! And yahan to char se bhi bahut zayada hain? Why is this a male dominated jatland? Why don't we come to equalize.... Balance of power?? Is this a problem with these men to give chance to us?
Why so?
Let me be here to bear all fruits of this male dominated jatland.. let me see what happenes next!!!
Aap kyun down lag rahi ho mere ko??
Regards,
Sam.
u r rt .char jatni mil jaaye to maut ban sakti hai par kya worth hai aise sarfire ya aisi site for that much attention.there r many more important things in life.ha aur ignore karna hi behtar hota hai kai bar.why to give this much importance to these useless pms .
i might seem rude but this is the reality.
all the bestt
ritu
i might seem rude but this is the reality.
all the bestt
ritu
Dear Sam
kya yeh pehli baar hai kissi ne aapko propose kiya hai ki aap itni pareshaan ho gayi ya aapko sabke saamne kuch aisa bola jisse ki aisa lage ki aapne usse propose kiya...........???agar kuch aisa hota to main maan bhi sakti thi ki aap ka aise react kerna jayaz tha.......but agar aisa nhn hai to yeh jo thread aapne chalayi hai....sry to say.....it was useless.......
or ek baat batao uss ladke ne aapke ghar jaker bola hai???ya kahin jaa ker poster laga diya ho.....ki aapki badnami ho gayi ho.....ya aapko abuse kiya ho....???arrey agar usse aap achche lage or agar usne aapko chupke say pm bhej bhi diya to galat kya???aapka jo bhi jawab hota aapko simply usse ek pm bhej ker khatam kerdena chahiye tha.......aapko iss baat ko sabke beech mein laaker kya milla.....kuch nhn siwaye logo ke bekar ke comments ke........or theek hai yahan baat discuss karo lkn mere acc yeh to koi baat hi nhn thi...bekaar mein iss baat ka issue bann gaya.........
or isme moderator bhi kya ker sakte hai.......usse ban ker denge bus.....but if he really loves u to wo aapko kahin bhi kaise bhi bol dega......yeh to shukar maniye ki sharafat sai bus itna hi bola.....main uski side nhn le rahi hun but jo fact hai so hai.......
achcha ek baat batao....ki agar aap kissi ko pasand kerti ho to kya aap usse nhn bolengi......or kissi ko pasand kerna ya na kerna kissi ke haath mein nhn hota....yahan jitne log 'love' per jo kuch bhi keh rahe hai unhone bhi kissi na kissi ko kabhi na kabhi pasand kiya hoga......or shayad aapne bhi........lkn kissi ne kaha hoga or kissi ne nhn...or kissi ko pasand kerna galat nhn hai....its jst ur feelings....u cant help it...and u cant even stop anyone frm liking u or stop anyone frm expressing his feelings in frnt of u...and atleast not frm this thread...........orkut bhi to log use kerte hai.....uss per roz na roz koi bhi aaker propose maar jaata hai...tab kya kare.....kisko jaaker complain kare......???arrey agar wo like kerta hai to kerne do.....apna aapa sahi hona chhaiye bus.....koi kuch bhi kahe.......haan manti hun kissi ko bura lag jaata hai koi hass ker taal jata hai.....lkn iss cheez ke liye thread chalana....bekaar hai...........
or plz aise mat show karo ki u never liked anyone and never expressed ur feeling in frnt of him.....agar ladke propose kerte hai to ladkiyan bhi kerti hai...or yahan ladki ya ladke wali baat nhn hai bus feelings ki hai.... jiske mann mein aayi usne keh diya.......so not an issue........
main maanti hun ki aapne yeh thread kissi achche motive sai chalaya hoga lkn log iss baat ko nhn samjhenge....ulta aap per hi ungli utha dete
hai.......yahan ek jaatni ho ya dusri....ya koi jat.....agar aisi koi mail aaye or agar aapko nhn manzoor to simple mana kerdo......isse issue mat banao.........
or kayi baar lakde aise hi chance maarne ke liye bhi aisa kerde hai....to isliye aisi baaton ko ignore ker dena chahiye.....bajaye iske ki thread chala dena chahiye......
rest is upto u......mere lekhe iski ek kithab chaap do.....logo ko koi fark nhn padega.....sirf mazze lenge......
kya yeh pehli baar hai kissi ne aapko propose kiya hai ki aap itni pareshaan ho gayi ya aapko sabke saamne kuch aisa bola jisse ki aisa lage ki aapne usse propose kiya...........???agar kuch aisa hota to main maan bhi sakti thi ki aap ka aise react kerna jayaz tha.......but agar aisa nhn hai to yeh jo thread aapne chalayi hai....sry to say.....it was useless.......
or ek baat batao uss ladke ne aapke ghar jaker bola hai???ya kahin jaa ker poster laga diya ho.....ki aapki badnami ho gayi ho.....ya aapko abuse kiya ho....???arrey agar usse aap achche lage or agar usne aapko chupke say pm bhej bhi diya to galat kya???aapka jo bhi jawab hota aapko simply usse ek pm bhej ker khatam kerdena chahiye tha.......aapko iss baat ko sabke beech mein laaker kya milla.....kuch nhn siwaye logo ke bekar ke comments ke........or theek hai yahan baat discuss karo lkn mere acc yeh to koi baat hi nhn thi...bekaar mein iss baat ka issue bann gaya.........
or isme moderator bhi kya ker sakte hai.......usse ban ker denge bus.....but if he really loves u to wo aapko kahin bhi kaise bhi bol dega......yeh to shukar maniye ki sharafat sai bus itna hi bola.....main uski side nhn le rahi hun but jo fact hai so hai.......
achcha ek baat batao....ki agar aap kissi ko pasand kerti ho to kya aap usse nhn bolengi......or kissi ko pasand kerna ya na kerna kissi ke haath mein nhn hota....yahan jitne log 'love' per jo kuch bhi keh rahe hai unhone bhi kissi na kissi ko kabhi na kabhi pasand kiya hoga......or shayad aapne bhi........lkn kissi ne kaha hoga or kissi ne nhn...or kissi ko pasand kerna galat nhn hai....its jst ur feelings....u cant help it...and u cant even stop anyone frm liking u or stop anyone frm expressing his feelings in frnt of u...and atleast not frm this thread...........orkut bhi to log use kerte hai.....uss per roz na roz koi bhi aaker propose maar jaata hai...tab kya kare.....kisko jaaker complain kare......???arrey agar wo like kerta hai to kerne do.....apna aapa sahi hona chhaiye bus.....koi kuch bhi kahe.......haan manti hun kissi ko bura lag jaata hai koi hass ker taal jata hai.....lkn iss cheez ke liye thread chalana....bekaar hai...........
or plz aise mat show karo ki u never liked anyone and never expressed ur feeling in frnt of him.....agar ladke propose kerte hai to ladkiyan bhi kerti hai...or yahan ladki ya ladke wali baat nhn hai bus feelings ki hai.... jiske mann mein aayi usne keh diya.......so not an issue........
main maanti hun ki aapne yeh thread kissi achche motive sai chalaya hoga lkn log iss baat ko nhn samjhenge....ulta aap per hi ungli utha dete
hai.......yahan ek jaatni ho ya dusri....ya koi jat.....agar aisi koi mail aaye or agar aapko nhn manzoor to simple mana kerdo......isse issue mat banao.........
or kayi baar lakde aise hi chance maarne ke liye bhi aisa kerde hai....to isliye aisi baaton ko ignore ker dena chahiye.....bajaye iske ki thread chala dena chahiye......
rest is upto u......mere lekhe iski ek kithab chaap do.....logo ko koi fark nhn padega.....sirf mazze lenge......
satyeshwar pad liya.par kahne aur karne me bahut fark hota hai.me galat bhi ho sakti hu.par meri to har female ko yahi advice hai ki ignore or leave.there is no point in proving urself here.for example upar ek post me somebody has compared her to rakhi sawant.mere hisab to aise comments edit ho jaane chahaiye.khair ab mujhe isse aage kuch nahi kahna yaha.jiske jo jee me aaye karee.
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