what about intercaste marriage?

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Bhai Sanjeet ne ek ek baat ekdum sahi kahi hai.
I wish ki meri inter-caste ho jaaaye bina ghar me thukaayi hue...meri himmat si nahi ho rahi koi mere ghar me baat faila do....hehehe[:D][:D]!

Thanks,
Sumit
sanjeetsparp said:
Are yaar jo jis ko theek lage ... karo ... kon sa cast ke ladko ya ladkiyon ki gurantee le sakta hai ki shaadi ke baad ek doosre ka sir nahi phodenge .... jis ko jo pasand ho shaadi ker lo ... wo apni apni thinking hai ki ... shaadi se pehle jaan pechaan .. pyaar wyaar ho ya na ho ... per ye main jaroor kahunga ki ek doosre ko jaan-na bahut jaroori hai .... Baaki Shaadi ek doosre pe bharosa/Viswaas ho tabhi chal sakti hai werna intercast ker lo ya inter religin ker lo ya cast main ker lo nahi chalegi.....

Baaki customs and other things ek environment main reh ke sab jaan jaate hain ..... or adjust hone main sab ko time lagta hai .....

Are wah main to kaafi kuch jaan gaya hoon ..... Good .. ghar walon se baat kerni padegi ab to
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sanjeetsparp said:
Are yaar jo jis ko theek lage ... karo ... kon sa cast ke ladko ya ladkiyon ki gurantee le sakta hai ki shaadi ke baad ek doosre ka sir nahi phodenge .... jis ko jo pasand ho shaadi ker lo ... wo apni apni thinking hai ki ... shaadi se pehle jaan pechaan .. pyaar wyaar ho ya na ho ... per ye main jaroor kahunga ki ek doosre ko jaan-na bahut jaroori hai .... Baaki Shaadi ek doosre pe bharosa/Viswaas ho tabhi chal sakti hai werna intercast ker lo ya inter religin ker lo ya cast main ker lo nahi chalegi.....

Baaki customs and other things ek environment main reh ke sab jaan jaate hain ..... or adjust hone main sab ko time lagta hai .....

Are wah main to kaafi kuch jaan gaya hoon ..... Good .. ghar walon se baat kerni padegi ab to
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tauuuuuuu.............eibb lok nuoey hande ke;)
 
sumitsehrawat said:
Bhai Sanjeet ne ek ek baat ekdum sahi kahi hai.
I wish ki meri inter-caste ho jaaaye bina ghar me thukaayi hue...meri himmat si nahi ho rahi koi mere ghar me baat faila do....hehehe[:D][:D]!

Thanks,
Sumit
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Hmmmmmmmm............ghar lok jaagi baat to padoss main bhi jaagi...........padossee kasek hai terre:p
 
inter caste or intracaste,,,GUYS,,, u shud alwaz marry the gal u like or may like in future in most probability,,,else it may b a living hell,,,for both of u

moreso for the gal!
 
Aagle saal tera number bhi meri aali category main aana hai

prashantacmet said:
tauuuuuuu.............eibb lok nuoey hande ke;)
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Bhai je main e tauuuuu soon te tu bhi ek saal chota sai mere te ...... tu pher chhota tau hua ke ....... ke keraan bhai ebe te 2 saal or nyu e haandna hai ..... tera baseba ho liya ke nahi ...... na hua sai te meri aale category main tu aalega ...... manne pher DnD sir ya kaka wali category main daalega ke .........
 
sanjeetsparp said:
...... na hua sai te meri aale category main tu aalega ...... manne pher DnD sir ya kaka wali category main daalega ke .........
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अरै संजीते, तुम सारे इस तागे नै रबड़ की ढ़ाळ खींचते रहो बेशक । पर भाई, मन्नै तै पहल्यां इसमें जो लिख दिया वो-ए भतेरा । और मेरी कुण-सी category बणा दी तुम सारां नै? जाट category सै भाई, "inter-caste" कोनी !
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dndeswal said:
अरै संजीते, तुम सारे इस तागे नै रबड़ की ढ़ाळ खींचते रहो बेशक । पर भाई, मन्नै तै पहल्यां इसमें जो लिख दिया वो-ए भतेरा । और मेरी कुण-सी category बणा दी तुम सारां नै? जाट category सै भाई, "inter-caste" कोनी !
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Na DnD sir ji baat intercast ki nahi ..... wo te Age Group ki baat chaal rehi thee .... Ek Bhai manne Tau keh tha er mere te ekke saal chhota tha .....te main us ne bataaon tha ke bhai aagle saal tu bhi Tau aali category main aa le ga ....

Baaki sab ke liye baat te ya sai 1000 maan te 250 te nyu e rehne hain ..... aage lyaani te bahar te e padegi un tahin ... kise na kise ne to ... kyun cast inter cast ka chaaker ger re so saare.... Jat te aade kuch e state main hain ... jaane te baher e padega kise na kise ne .... erna jo ye 1000 pe 250 rehne hain ye ke letta geran khaater raakhne hain ke .. jo paache daant chadwaate haandenge .....

Eb is ne majboori keh lo chaahe .... society ka adoption keh lyo .. ye kaam te ib hoyaan sareinge
 
sanjeetsparp said:
Na DnD sir ji baat intercast ki nahi ..... wo te Age Group ki baat chaal rehi thee .... Ek Bhai manne Tau keh tha er mere te ekke saal chhota tha .....te main us ne bataaon tha ke bhai aagle saal tu bhi Tau aali category main aa le ga ....

Baaki sab ke liye baat te ya sai 1000 maan te 250 te nyu e rehne hain ..... aage lyaani te bahar te e padegi un tahin ... kise na kise ne to ... kyun cast inter cast ka chaaker ger re so saare.... Jat te aade kuch e state main hain ... jaane te baher e padega kise na kise ne .... erna jo ye 1000 pe 250 rehne hain ye ke letta geran khaater raakhne hain ke .. jo paache daant chadwaate haandenge .....
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हां संजीत, तेरे छोटे भाई कै बाळक हो ज्यागा, उस दिन "ताऊ" तै तू भी बण जावैगा ! अर ये 250 भी किसै-ना-किसै के तै ताऊ बणैंगे जरूर, चाहे ब्याह हो या ना हो ।

कुदरत का कुछ ना बेरा । हो सकै सै कोए बड्ड़ी लड़ाई होण आळी हो जिसमैं घणे फौजी अर सिविलियन मारे जावैं, घणी लुगाई रांड हो जावैं । उस बखत ये 250 काम आवैंगे लत्ता गेरण खातिर - hehehe !

टाईम हो तो जरा गौर फरमाना:

Kismat ka Ultaa Chakkar

"Vo To Phir Khaddi Ho Gayi"

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Jiss tae Jee karae naa, uss tae e karr liyo bhai..;)
Haanga hona chahiye..
..aakkhir main..
Ottnee to hum nae e hai..!!:eek:
 
So much wisdom at this one place. I am amazed at the depth of all wise man here. here is my two bit wisdom, doesn't matter who you marry, all woman are same, Jib asaan patti ley ka paran sein sareee ek shi langaan sein. :)
This is what happens when you get married, its your state of mind & Brain--left has nothing right and right has nothing left. The best thing a married man can do, always keep complimenting your wife by saying, "dear your idea is the best I have ever heard, what will I do without you"
 
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According 2 me......itz an individual's own decision 2 go 4 inter -caste or intra-caste.....but then d most imp thing dat matters is understanding.....if u both have feelings fr each other n understand each other well..it hardly matters weather u r a jat or a non-jat.....but ya one more thing is 2 b considered.....feelings of our parents....no offence but jat families are very conservative n so is our society....so they usually dont agree fr inter-caste(although dere is no harm!!!:confused:)....n even if our parents evn agree fr us,dis society will make dere lyf hell.....jst donno y ppl cant live widout underestimating n talking non-sense bout others....

Ohmie God!!!! i hv written so mch...but ya 2 conclude...dere is no harm in inter-caste marriage!!!!.:)....
 
Radhika madam ker di na ulat pher ...... ghar aale kis ke man te maane hain .. menaane pade hain ......
er ker lyo yaar jis ne kerna hai ..... charaterstics to dono cases main ek jaise hi hain yaar ....... sapne sab ke beraaber ho hain .....
Baki ek baat or suni hai .... jis ki jit likh rakhi hai na ude e hogi .....:cool:
 
i agree.....

sanjeetsparp said:
Radhika madam ker di na ulat pher ...... ghar aale kis ke man te maane hain .. menaane pade hain ......
er ker lyo yaar jis ne kerna hai ..... charaterstics to dono cases main ek jaise hi hain yaar ....... sapne sab ke beraaber ho hain .....
Baki ek baat or suni hai .... jis ki jit likh rakhi hai na ude e hogi .....:cool:
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ya ryt.....i completely agree wid u.....but sumtms its just impossible 2 convince ur parents.....isnt it???
so wot should b done in such cases.......should v think bout our family or jst bout our future....n get married to d 1 whom v luv.....????????
or should v sacrifice our love n get married according 2 our parents choice...????
if v marry according 2 our choice(against our parents)..den our families ll never b able 2 liv upto d societies' level....n if v marry according 2 dere choice...v'll nt b happy.....
actually its very confusing.....n ya...u need guts 2 take either of d steps....neither u can leave ur family so easily nor u can think bout living widout dat special one of urs.....
 
Our Parents doing everything for us since birth, how can we go against their wish.

Since our birth our parents doing nearly everything for us till we grow and say them I am in love I want to marrey someone whom I love either you agree or I leave you. This is the position of most of the lovers, is it right ?

If we compare our parents with a person whom we know from last 1-2-3-4
years and we feel this our futur then what about parents, for them we are their futur.

If we not care the wishes of our parents then how will we garantee that we are able to fulfil the wishes of each-other.

radhikaahlawat said:
ya ryt.....i completely agree wid u.....but sumtms its just impossible 2 convince ur parents.....isnt it???
so wot should b done in such cases.......should v think bout our family or jst bout our future....n get married to d 1 whom v luv.....????????
or should v sacrifice our love n get married according 2 our parents choice...????
if v marry according 2 our choice(against our parents)..den our families ll never b able 2 liv upto d societies' level....n if v marry according 2 dere choice...v'll nt b happy.....
actually its very confusing.....n ya...u need guts 2 take either of d steps....neither u can leave ur family so easily nor u can think bout living widout dat special one of urs.....
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I really do not understand how one can stop love for or love less his/her parents. Parents are parents and are the Gods. One's love for his/her parents is immeasurable and so never fluctuates. It is holy huge and sacred. Some people dismiss God's existence and some say God is one. I believe God is one with only two forms...the one in a father and the one in a mother.

How we live today and how our parents lived when they were our age are two completely different environments. With time, things around us change, and so the living environment. And, this environment defines our way of living. Obviously, there got to be differences in opinions. The solution is to narrow, as far as possible, that generation gap. And mostly, the onus for this is on us, the younger generation. To make this happen is no fool's work. One got to be mentally sound and mature enough to lead this transformation.

Loving a girl/boy outside one's community(why they exist?? -- another debate) is no crime. And of course, if one cannot convince his/her parents for marriage outside the community or caste then he/she should not marry. 'Should not marry' because if one cannot convince one's parents on things and/or issues and their resolutions then he/she cannot really convince any other human being (husband/wife/children included) at the same or later point in time. And, differences, how-so-ever petty, are bound to happen in any relationship. Tomorrow, it may be with one's spouse too.

Of course, nothing beats marrying the girl/boy(any community) one loves with parents approval and blessings.

Thanks,
Sumit

skarmveer said:
Since our birth our parents doing nearly everything for us till we grow and say them I am in love I want to marrey someone whom I love either you agree or I leave you. This is the position of most of the lovers, is it right ?

If we compare our parents with a person whom we know from last 1-2-3-4
years and we feel this our futur then what about parents, for them we are their futur.

If we not care the wishes of our parents then how will we garantee that we are able to fulfil the wishes of each-other.
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