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[addy]

Daer All,
Came over sm peronalised vendetta regarding APNA JL in some of the posts..I openly submit that this site and all the wonderful people managing it can never be questioned in any form. Here is what it gives me,you & us all:

1. Homely feeling to all those sitting thousands o' miles away.

2. A Common platform to discuss all that affects our lives & that too in such a befitting manner.

3. Blessings and views of some of the wisest and most well meaning seniors of the community.

4. The means to find our own brethern in an alien land.

5. Above all, its very much true..a place away from the vices of the cyber world..Thnx 2 our moderators and Admins..Great going ..Keep it up Folks..

"Aagr mujh mein buraayi na hoti to main bhi Bhagwaan hota
Kucch to acchaiyaan hain nahin to ek bura Insaan hota."

 

[dkumars]

gud post ... i like the content and i m agred too. But the title is bullshit. Giving a feeling of boot licking.

This site is gud and modertors are doing a good job but not best.
U might not have visited other forums.

Tryout pakistan defence forum... u will come to know what intellect is and what is moderation. I m not a member but simply i read their posts and their rule regulations.

 

[ssgoyat]

dkumar....!!!!

ye lo

abb yahan bhi ....uff..

and what do you mean by boot licking..???

why do you always create such kinda craps everywhere... !!!


MODS...PLS. Lock this thread, otherwise the same crap will begin here as well..

 

[dkumars]

ye lo

abb yahan bhi ....uff..

and what do you mean by boot licking..???

why do you always create such kinda craps everywhere... !!!


MODS...PLS. Lock this thread, otherwise the same crap will begin here as well..

dont u know its meaning ??? If not then try googling ... U btter know in which context i wrote that.

I wrote what i felt. And u r not my teacher that i will ask u what to write n where. U just mind ur own business otherwis fotto yaha se. Samjhe mohan pyaare, bholllluuuuuuu ... :rock

 

[keshavdahiya]

1. Homely feeling to all those sitting thousands o' miles away.

2. A Common platform to discuss all that affects our lives & that too in such a befitting manner.

3. Blessings and views of some of the wisest and most well meaning seniors of the community.

4. The means to find our own brethern in an alien land.

5. Above all, its very much true..a place away from the vices of the cyber world..Thnx 2 our moderators and Admins..Great going ..Keep it up Folks..

Hooda kayi bei tei tu ghanni shyaani baat karr dei sei...
er pher aagle minute dhisall jya hai... Para jumping ghanni karr li dekhe sei....kitt gayab ho rehya tha ?....kayi dinaa mein diikhya iib ke ??

Yeah I agree with you that this platform has some pros...but then most of the time whats been discussed here is shear frustation....or either the thread is diverted to a unknown zone by some highly intellect people who have no idea what they talk about.....
we really need high quality of moderation and above all need to chalk down as to why there are only a few Active people around...and why some people have left and dont visit anymore........
being available here on jland just to reply to post by comments like below
- I agree
- khudos to the person
- naveen bhai i am with you
- yeah we shud all get together
- bhinn ki bhinn (I know i ve been doing this, but only with people whom I know)
etc etc....
its not absolutely necessary to reply sometimes like the ways above...we need to dev some resistance and refrain our selves frm talking $#@T.. sometimes people just jump on the thread and then EGO takes charge.......ki mein kyun.....isne mere tahin nyun kyukar keh di...............yu ND kyun paak rehya hai.....yu master kyun paak rehya hai....mein iske updesh kyun padhun....lyo merri bhi free kii advice.......hahaha
U know thot processing unit in our head sometimes is really heated up
er pher 2 min baad nyu baat aa jya sei ke JAT tei isse hi hoya karen bhai.........bezaati kyun karri merri........

crux is >>how can we improve the world if cannot improve ourselves.....(aadhyatmik vichaar, i heard them somewhere, not trying to be preacher..hehehe)

P.S these virtual forums wont do any gud to the community......but this can be a platform for like minded people to join hands......"Company and thots reveals ones character"
I personally have met many GEMS thru jland.......and have been repelling many *^$#@%& which is person specific....

 

[ssgoyat]

boot licking...:rock

bullshit....:rock

 

[ssgoyat]

dont u know its meaning ??? If not then try googling ... U btter know in which context i wrote that.

I wrote what i felt. And u r not my teacher that i will ask u what to write n where. U just mind ur own business otherwis fotto yaha se. Samjhe mohan pyaare, bholllluuuuuuu ... :rock

रै डट जा ओ भाई डट जा. ... किम्मे न धरा इन बात्ता मैं ....

 

[vijay]

I totally agree that Dev ( dkumars ) seems harsh here ....... but he is absolutely right if we like to talk some sense here.

The people who are admiring mods like anything else should just try to visit some other community sites and analyze what's happening there. What is the real meaning of moderation ?

But this doesn't meant that we should criticize our mods at first hand ..... rather we should think positively and try to find out a way that how can we raise our Jatland at that level and as Mods are the basic pillers of any community site, so they should lead with examples.

Regarding members ..... everybody have their personal preferences.

Soldiers even sacrifice their lives for the country while Golfers get irritated if their play is disturbed.

 

[vijay]

It's almost one and half years .. since long i was waiting for this post from you

we really need high quality of moderation and above all need to chalk down as to why there are only a few Active people around...and why some people have left and dont visit anymore........

This is Jatland buddy ....... you know better than me.

People don't like to find out solutions for the problems but everybody have a new problem for each and every solution.

About moderation i already stated what i want to say somewhere else .... if people want to ponder about .... otherwise it doesn't make any sense that i repeat all that again and again.

But yes ... the real moderation is not what our mods are doing here ... no doubt about that

being available here on jland just to reply to post by comments like below
- I agree
- khudos to the person
- naveen bhai i am with you
- yeah we shud all get together
- bhinn ki bhinn (I know i ve been doing this, but only with people whom I know)
etc etc....

I think you forget to add ....

"I second your thoughts"

its not absolutely necessary to reply sometimes like the ways above...we need to dev some resistance and refrain our selves frm talking $#@T.. sometimes people just jump on the thread and then EGO takes charge.......ki mein kyun.....isne mere tahin nyun kyukar keh di...............yu ND kyun paak rehya hai.....yu master kyun paak rehya hai....mein iske updesh kyun padhun....lyo merri bhi free kii advice.......hahaha
U know thot processing unit in our head sometimes is really heated up
er pher 2 min baad nyu baat aa jya sei ke JAT tei isse hi hoya karen bhai.........bezaati kyun karri merri........

well said

This reminds me again and again that famous cartoon by Shail Hooda. I hope you remember that too.

"Company and thots reveals ones character"

And the language reveals ones education and family preachings

I personally have met many GEMS thru jland.......

That's why ONLY i am still here

 

[dkumars]

ye lo

abb yahan bhi ....uff..

and what do you mean by boot licking..???

why do you always create such kinda craps everywhere... !!!

Let me tell u one first and last rule of any forum... This is not necessary that u like a post always... U can criticize the post. There is no harm in that but one shud not go personally on the individual. Like what u did in the above post.


MODS...PLS. Lock this thread, otherwise the same crap will begin here as well..

How many similar appeals will u make ?

boot licking...:rock

bullshit....:rock

Thanks

रै डट जा ओ भाई डट जा. ... किम्मे न धरा इन बात्ता मैं ....

Gentleman u came individually. Arr ibb tu manne updesh de hai. Oon tai tere jise gyaani ki baat maannan ka kimme vichaar nahi par fir bhi maan ne mein koi burai nahi kyuki chahe tum galat sahi par baat tum sahi keh rahe ho.

I totally agree that Dev ( dkumars ) seems harsh here ....... but he is absolutely right if we like to talk some sense here.

The people who are admiring mods like anything else should just try to visit some other community sites and analyze what's happening there. What is the real meaning of moderation ?

But this doesn't meant that we should criticize our mods at first hand ..... rather we should think positively and try to find out a way that how can we raise our Jatland at that level and as Mods are the basic pillers of any community site, so they should lead with examples.

Regarding members ..... everybody have their personal preferences.

Soldiers even sacrifice their lives for the country while Golfers get irritated if their play is disturbed.

Thanks Vijay for the support to my thoughs. I m not writing this coz u supported me but i feel there is still some space to improve. Many other forums do it better than here.

Infact this is a gud platform and most poular Jat site but saying this is the best is completely wrong as per me. From content to members to moderators to everything, there is lot of space for improvement. I dont come here to be serious and discuss something great( except in some exceptional cases) coz my expectations are quite low here.

We shud accept the fact. Whether it is gud or bad.
If i say my organization is best which i work for, my institute where i study, my thoughts, my knowledge, my community, my country then i thing that is quite wrong. I love all of them but they need not to be the best and we all know that where we stand.

Boot Licking: I said that coz this thread is started parallel to a similar thread where criticsm is goin on the same topic. So, this is quite obvious feeling.

Here, i repeat please dont mistake me. I still say our moderators are doing a great job. They know their responsibilities well. No one is paid for that but still they are devoting their time here and maintaining a balance. But still they can improve over it.

 

[vijay]

Here, i repeat please dont mistake me.

"Unlike most of the members here" ..... at first i read what is being posted instead of who is posting and then reply accordingly.

No mistakes ..... so far

 

[ygulia]

I have been member of this forum since last couple of months only.
I am going to express my personal observation about the behaviour of majority of active members of this forum:
1. This forum has various subgroups which you can recognise just by reading their comments.They try to support each other irrespective of the fact that whether the person has contributed positively towards the thread.
2. If some one try to crticise the idea of a senior member of the forum then his/her supporter will intervene and gag the voice of the new member who was not aware of the politics on this site.
3. There are few members who have only one job: They look for errors of spelling etc. and when it comes to contribution then they will just write, most of the times, I agree with so and so(These so and so are common names for them)
4. In the last but not the least I would say that we should use polite language in our criticism. There are certain words which might appears harsh but some times the use of those words is need of the hour to put some one on right track...............
5. Aur kai bhai te is forum me Thanedaar hai.............Ek dum kah dete hai lock kar do...........
"Boot licking" was not so harsh word as used by Devender, but members of the forum reacted at once and they reacted in harsh manner :I mut say>>>>>>> Jutiya samet uske ser pe chad ge>>>>

This is purely my personal view..................

 

[dkumars]

4. In the last but not the least I would say that we should use polite language in our criticism.
This is purely my personal view..................

This is very true. Critisicm should also be polite amy be sarcastic. Just to append one more thing, criticize the post if u feel but not the individual. Do not go personally.

 

[cooljat]

Great show, ...Carry on!... Rock on!...


Rock on!...
Jit

 

[ssgoyat]

thanks dk n ygulia for your inputs !!!

@ DK..

Thanks DK, for finally accepting that "criticism should be polite" also "critisize the post not individual"

otherwise "sorry always seems to be the hardest word"

my point of view's were:-

:Since this same thread , with arguements is running there too, so there is no point drag it here.
:There too, i had requested to lock that thread since, it was creating a series of stiff argumnets...which infact is against the harmony of this site..
:When i saw that same criticism here, n that too with harsh words....it made me upset.

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@Mr. y gulia

1. This forum has various subgroups which you can recognise just by reading their comments.They try to support each other irrespective of the fact that whether the person has contributed positively towards the thread.

"such kinda subgroup exists everywhere, jatland is also no exception, and only such kind of arguments, divide us into groups, and since it being a jatland...and we'll all know this is always in our blood that we can't unite, we don't accept anybody to dominate on us...That's the bitter reality of ours.Once Pt. Jawahar Lal Nehru Said " Dilli ke aaspas ek aisi kaum basti hai jo jab chahe dilli pe kabja kar sakti hai, but...."


....so we should avoid such arguments, and stop them"


2. If some one try to crticise the idea of a senior member of the forum then his/her supporter will intervene and gag the voice of the new member who was not aware of the politics on this site.


" I didn't support any senior member here, i only wanted to end this argument here.
Mr. Amardeep Hooda is also a new member here, infact, his posts are even less than you

so first put yourself into his shoes, had u been at his place, and if sombody had used " boot licking" word for you, what you would have felt as new member, did you see....he step back from this thread...it's only because of our's fault..we gaged his voice.

I've been the member of jatland from the past 4 years, in the beginning,i also felt the same, my voice is being gagged,no body is paying attention to me, and everybody is pulling my leg....i quit..and came back after 3 years again

and it's been only this April 08 , that i have become an active user

Had you been visited chaupal, on very first day ....you wouldn't have come for a month...

but slowly slowly, it takes time to mix up with ppls....there will always be such issues, so don't worry...and don't get afraid..

and it's been only this April 08 , that i have become an active user...


3. There are few members who have only one job: They look for errors of spelling etc. and when it comes to contribution then they will just write, most of the times, I agree with so and so(These so and so are common names for them)

Certainly but, despite being a stong force of more than 10000 members, but only few are active...a little more 50..

reason being is...only few peoples, like to come and participate in discussions....did you see, post reviews of any thread sometimes crosses 1000 but only 30-35 members manage to post,

Infact this is the first ever time, that i'm ever writing this much..

if they are even writing a single ,line,that's enough, atleast we could feel there presence..or maybe they're just playing with their personal post scores..

4. In the last but not the least I would say that we should use polite language in our criticism. There are certain words which might appears harsh but some times the use of those words is need of the hour to put some one on right track...............

I fully agree with this point..
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@Y gulia

अर्र भाई थानदार तो बनना ही पड़ता है, झगडा सुलझाने के लिए....ना तै आडे भी उठा - पटक शुरू हो ज्यागी :boxing जुकर उस थ्रेड मे माच रहे सै....:rock

@dk
चाहे तुम ग़लत सही, पर बात सही कह रहे हो.....हा हा हा ......:rock....:rock

bhai ne mere tai gentelman keh diya, ar gyanni bhi....me te ghani rajji sa ho gaya....

 

[dkumars]

@dk
चाहे तुम ग़लत सही, पर बात सही कह रहे हो.....हा हा हा ......:rock....:rock

bhai ne mere tai gentelman keh diya, ar gyanni bhi....me te ghani rajji sa ho gaya....

Chalo koi nahi bhai ... aap hi sahi ... Aapki ye labhi post padh kar achha laga.

Abb bataiye thread ko kis direction mein le jana hai ???
Aap bhi apne inputs dijiye subject ke baare mein ???
Do u really think that this site, moderators and our community are the best ? Drop few lines boss.

 

[ssgoyat]

sure dk

Chalo koi nahi bhai ... aap hi sahi ... Aapki ye labhi post padh kar achha laga.

Abb bataiye thread ko kis direction mein le jana hai ???
Aap bhi apne inputs dijiye subject ke baare mein ???
Do u really think that this site, moderators and our community are the best ? Drop few lines boss.


First of all Is thread ko to yahin rok dena chahiye....us pehle wali thread me hi ke kam gehma-gehmi thi, jo yahde bhi wahi baat shuru ho gayi...

My Inputs are as follows:
1) Site :- This site is best, coz it being the only of it's kind...we have no other platform to share our words.

2)Moderators:-Not Always, no body is perfect...No engine has 100 % efficiency.

3)Our Community:-Well, this is a long topic to discuss.If i'll make my candid comments here, certainly, i'll be banned, depicting as NON-JAT User..

so we'll know our's bitter reality, and lot's of ppls have given their gyaan in different threads.


Regarding Moderator's..

I'll surely drop few lines:

Well, after 3 years , this april when i become an active user again.. i went to chaupaal.Had tough arguments with MOD, and got banned. Which made my strong comeback this time. And now i'm ready to face everybody here. No matter how much they criticize me, n keep pulling my legs.

Second time: This time also i was about to be banned over a very small little thing, but i explained my points well..and the matter got sorted out.

So these all things haapens in family, we're JAT...brave n strong...nothing can stop us..

regarding moderators:- The are doing their job well, nobody is perfect as i said earlier, this groupism will always exists, but that shouldn't be the cause of worry, if you're right.

Nobody is paying them, they are doing it voluntarily...we should be thankful to them, that the are slicing time for JL from their personal lives...burning their midnight oil...checking each n every thread n posts...keeping an eye over chaupaal

Do talk straight to any MOD, if you face any problem, and if they don't listen....then make a voice...speak with admin...

but don't use harsh words, and never point at individual...

that's it..


regards
satinder goyat
The coolest(/HVAC) Jat

 

[bislas]

Main agree hun ki thread ko yahin rok dena karna chaiye......lekin mujhe yahan aisa mahsoos hua ki koi kuchh kahata hai..uski tang khichai suru ho jaati hai......Mujhe nahi lagta in baaton se koi natiza nikalta hai......Dusron se apne ko compare karna achhi baat hai...lekin kaam yahin khatam nahi ho jata...compare to main bhi apne aap ko Bill Gates se karunga.....lekin kya main Bill Gate ban sakta hun..???? Shayad nahi... Shayad haan! agar main uski tarah sochun aur us soch ko implement karon........Agar hum chahte hain ki JATLAND should be best portal. Hume suggestions per discussion chaiye....... How can we improve the jatland.....?? Baad main unhe implement bhi hona chahiye.
Waise mera ek idea hai ...Jatland main ek section hona chaiye suggestion and complains ...hum ek thread suru karana chaiye ki ye section ho ya nahi..??
kyon SS ???/

Chalo koi nahi bhai ... aap hi sahi ... Aapki ye labhi post padh kar achha laga.


First of all Is thread ko to yahin rok dena chahiye....us pehle wali thread me hi ke kam gehma-gehmi thi, jo yahde bhi wahi baat shuru ho gayi...

My Inputs are as follows:
1) Site :- This site is best, coz it being the only of it's kind...we have no other platform to share our words.

2)Moderators:-Not Always, no body is perfect...No engine has 100 % efficiency.

3)Our Community:-Well, this is a long topic to discuss.If i'll make my candid comments here, certainly, i'll be banned, depicting as NON-JAT User..

so we'll know our's bitter reality, and lot's of ppls have given their gyaan in different threads.


Regarding Moderator's..

I'll surely drop few lines:

Well, after 3 years , this april when i become an active user again.. i went to chaupaal.Had tough arguments with MOD, and got banned. Which made my strong comeback this time. And now i'm ready to face everybody here. No matter how much they criticize me, n keep pulling my legs.

Second time: This time also i was about to be banned over a very small little thing, but i explained my points well..and the matter got sorted out.

So these all things haapens in family, we're JAT...brave n strong...nothing can stop us..

regarding moderators:- The are doing their job well, nobody is perfect as i said earlier, this groupism will always exists, but that shouldn't be the cause of worry, if you're right.

Nobody is paying them, they are doing it voluntarily...we should be thankful to them, that the are slicing time for JL from their personal lives...burning their midnight oil...checking each n every thread n posts...keeping an eye over chaupaal

Do talk straight to any MOD, if you face any problem, and if they don't listen....then make a voice...speak with admin...

but don't use harsh words, and never point at individual...

that's it..


regards
satinder goyat
The coolest(/HVAC) Jat

 

[dkumars]

Main agree hun ki thread ko yahin rok dena karna chaiye......lekin mujhe yahan aisa mahsoos hua ki koi kuchh kahata hai..uski tang khichai suru ho jaati hai......Mujhe nahi lagta in baaton se koi natiza nikalta hai......Dusron se apne ko compare karna achhi baat hai...lekin kaam yahin khatam nahi ho jata...compare to main bhi apne aap ko Bill Gates se karunga.....lekin kya main Bill Gate ban sakta hun..???? Shayad nahi... Shayad haan! agar main uski tarah sochun aur us soch ko implement karon........Agar hum chahte hain ki JATLAND should be best portal. Hume suggestions per discussion chaiye....... How can we improve the jatland.....?? Baad main unhe implement bhi hona chahiye.
Waise mera ek idea hai ...Jatland main ek section hona chaiye suggestion and complains ...hum ek thread suru karana chaiye ki ye section ho ya nahi..??
kyon SS ???/

Bhia jo aapne kaha bahut sahi hai par ek baat mein add karnaa chahta hoon. Why to have discussions and suggestion chaiye... I mean kissi bhi system ko sudhaarna apne aap se shuru hota hai. Hamien kissi aur ko sudhaarne ki jaroorat nahi, apne ko sudhaar lete hai bas sab sudhar jaayenge. To discussion and suggestions ke baad kyu ... aaj se abhi se shuru kartein hai. Bolo kya kar sakte hai JL ke betterment ke liye ? Apna ye ladakku behviour ko sudaarne ke liye ???

 

[bislas]

Dkumar ji .....
dekha na aap mujhe hi sudharne lage........abhi aapne hi kaha hai apne se suru karo...maine to yahan ek suggestion diya hai...aap isse fir galat direction de rahe ho.....Maine to koi ladko behaiour nahi dhiya...agar tume aisa lag to..I AM VERY SORRY.....
waise main is topic per aage baat nahi karna chahta...

Bhia jo aapne kaha bahut sahi hai par ek baat mein add karnaa chahta hoon. Why to have discussions and suggestion chaiye... I mean kissi bhi system ko sudhaarna apne aap se shuru hota hai. Hamien kissi aur ko sudhaarne ki jaroorat nahi, apne ko sudhaar lete hai bas sab sudhar jaayenge. To discussion and suggestions ke baad kyu ... aaj se abhi se shuru kartein hai. Bolo kya kar sakte hai JL ke betterment ke liye ? Apna ye ladakku behviour ko sudaarne ke liye ???