सही कहो सो गोयत भाई . मैं तै न्यू कहू सु जन्म दिन ही नही मनाना चाहिए .
objection over-ruled... my lord.
i think the thread is talking off/abt a vry prudent प्रथा... जिसमें सब जाटलेंडर्स birthday boy/gal के घर जाते हैं और उसे पर्सनली विश करतें हैं.
i personally dont find anything wrong with the thread being in "about JATland"
...par ritu madam ki samaz mein na aave hai...Are ritu ji jaisa ki aapne kaha ki agar koi member kabhi log in karta hai to vo wishes dekh kar bada kush hoga...no vo ye jaroor sochega ki duniya kitni bavli hai:thappad . jaan na pichan ar hum tere mehman...are birthday wish koi amrat ka piyala to hai na ak koi member jib kafi samay baad back aavega to use khusi hove gi
...Mein aap logo ko mana nahi kar raha hu par question sence ar non sence ka hai..Sahi kaha brahm bhai aapne
who looks the things only with glasses of materiality... Change these glasses dear bother... U'll find whole world your family... I affirm....
) I'm really happy to see u here supporting the members who do a little job of greeting other forum members on their b'days.
Now the problem is this Rajeev ji, we have a big draw back in our society that , here, people try their best to interfere in other's business. They try to frustrate others who are doing some exemplary work and undertaking sincere efforts for communal harmony and solicit warm relations with other. And some like to interfere only to make fun of them. They worthlessly try to create complicacy and their efforts to oppose this sterling work are beyond my understanding. They feel proud when an innocent member puts his views about his "honest efforts" and furnishes a clarification to them by doing so. Indeed, their poor mentality is yearning for sympathy.
Now the only thing which is in our hands is this that we should start to turn a deaf ear to them instantaneously and disregard their opinions. This is the only and the simplest solution for this dilemma.
Hi all,
Pls don't take my words in wrong sence but I have noticed ki aaj kal jatlanders ko koi kaam nahi reh gaya hai..Unhe time pass ka ek sabse aacha optin JL per mil gaya hai . vo hai birthday wish karna
Kisi Bhi JL member ka birthday hota hai to team pahunch jati hai birthday wish karne. Mein ye nahi kehta ki ye galat hai par aap members muze batayege ki jo member joining ke baad se JL par aaya tak nahi hai, Na hi usne koi reply kiya , na koi thread likha ..means no contribution in any means ..then what is the mean for all that..
Mein yahan par koi bhi bakheda nahi karna chahuga . Muze pata hai ki aap log yahi kahege ki hamari marji...It's ok it's your deceision..par koi sence nahi banti.
Lage raho india......
Again pls koi bakheda nahi...just simply reply
Friends, you can blame me totally for missing B'day Threads as i am/was totally against them and campaigned for the voting with Rajesh Bhai which resulted into a bad news for freelance B'Day wishers. ( Thanks to Satyeshwar
Well, for all those who are in favour of starting a few threads almost everyday for B'Day Wishes and who thinks that freedom of starting new threads at jatland is their birth right would probably like to spare some time to check this link and obviously the polls to get back the beautiful moments ( posting b'day threads ) of their precious life.
Please have a look :
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=19304
If you know a person closely, he will feel better when you personally call or wish him/her instead of posting a thread to show the world that you are wishing someone. I suppose that wishing b'day is not a social work by any means.
If you personaly don't know a person than you can post a Profile Visitor Msg or PM him/her for the wishes.
It seems a rubbish idea to add almost 10,000 ( members of jatland ) extra threads every year to burdon the Jatland server.
. It's strange that some people just wish randomly. WE do have lots of examples of :
1. Blank Posts.
2. Half Liners.
3. totally irrelevant posts.
4. History mixed with Chemistry!
5. Curse on our religious Gods.
6. Casteist and sect specific / targetting posts.
.... I mean if someone has enough time, is lured with so much affection & desperation and is so excited about wishing someone a happy birthday then let him do ... whats the issue !! 
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Friends, you can blame me totally for missing B'day Threads as i am/was totally against them and campaigned for the voting with Rajesh Bhai which resulted into a bad news for freelance B'Day wishers. ( Thanks to Satyeshwar
Well, for all those who are in favour of starting a few threads almost everyday for B'Day Wishes and who thinks that freedom of starting new threads at jatland is their birth right would probably like to spare some time to check this link and obviously the polls to get back the beautiful moments ( posting b'day threads ) of their precious life.
Please have a look :
http://www.jatland.com/forums/showthread.php?t=19304
If you know a person closely, he will feel better when you personally call or wish him/her instead of posting a thread to show the world that you are wishing someone. I suppose that wishing b'day is not a social work by any means.
If you personaly don't know a person than you can post a Profile Visitor Msg or PM him/her for the wishes.
It seems a rubbish idea to add almost 10,000 ( members of jatland ) extra threads every year to burdon the Jatland server.
If someone doesn't wish to receive any such message then he can easily choose the option of allowing only moderators & contacts to message him ....... & this option is just a click away to be exercised. Believe me ... I sware ..... !!!
Anil, the link i provided in my previous post was not specifically for you but it was for everyone who is posting as well as reading the discussion going on this thread.
Thanks , my point was that though I am against daily 5-6 threads on Birthday wishes , there ain't any wrong in wishing someone in his/her visitor messages so I was making clear what I was intending to say!
I think you still remember that few months back there was almost a competition between some members that who will post the B'day wishes thread for whom. B'day threads are not allowed these days and maybe new members don't know how, when and why that happened. To avoid any discussion on this topic here again i just posted that link so that new members can read and analyze.
My memory is not SMA , its an EMA with weights biased towards the recent happenings!
Renu also brought forward a genuine point when strangers fill up someone's mail box with trucks full of unwanted wishes
All these people need exclusive training from Shweta for that wonderful "click"magic tool!
So, in my opinion one should at least know about the person whom they are wishing instead of checking out daily calender and doing the job.
Much better than killing time on spitting abuses , sarcasm , anger on fellow Jats and/or making differencing remarks on Jats of UP / Haryana and/or fighting on the history of Jats and/or relating everything to Jats