How Jat girls think of Jat Boys?

[dkumars]

sahi kaha .......aapko pata hoga mai sach mai delhi gai nhii mene kuch dekha bhi nhi kaisa hota hai...we generally talk wat we see...........jo dekha samjha bol dia....may b the reallity is diifferent....so keep on discussing....al the best

Anju ji, the example i cited is related to Delhi but that is same everywhere, i guess. I do not mean only Jats and Delhi or only Delhites see Jats that way. Similar could be in Rajsthan also. Jats are marshal blood(as history says) so they all have same similar traits and mostly agression. So, I consider Rajsthan Jats also in same category.

Waise, gud to see ur nice views towards jat boys. This may help them seeing gals among their own community

 

[sunitahooda]

Generally girls other than jat girls say about Jat boys> ke aaj kal to sab branded kapddey pehney ghoomtey hain, pata hi nahi lagta ke JAT hain ya punjabilekin muh khulltey hi pata chal jata hai ki JAT hain Arr fer mere jissey JAT boys ki samarthak ko bhi khulli hansi aati hai ....arr chahe laddke kitni bhi koshish kar lein sophisticated bann-ney ki gahmolli attitude deekhey jaa sai. Behad short-tempered, fizool ke restriction laaniye, dabbu hoya karein. Ek saheli nai kahi thi ke Jat laddke laambey-thadey hoya karein arr haan suthrey bhi....arr time-pass karan mai number one par zindagi bhar tayi haath pakkdan ki himmat na hoti....byah ke time Maa-Baap ke sapoot bann jya sain. Par jissey bhi hon theek hon sain....Straight-forward, humorous, daring, bold, give due respect to elders arr Punjabiyan ki dhaal goddyan tayi haath sa le ja kai nyu na dhakossla kartey akk paah choo diye but in most of the cases around i've seen them mistreating their wives even if they are HIGHLY EDUCATED and WORKING AT HIGH POSTS like DCPs and CIVIL ENGGRS and SPTD.of CUSTOMS i've seen and experienced they fail to feel emotions in women

 

[jyotikohar]

personally i feel ki niskarsh nikala hi nahi ja sakta
jaise i hv seen 3 men in mah life

1. MERA BHAI...........usme attitude kut kut ke bhara tha ,bhabhi ko bahar (starting of their wedding lyf) le jane me use sharam aati thi
never show his care (i know he care 4 her)
ek cover sa chadha rakha tha usne.................dont know y? halanki hamri family khule vicharo ki hai...............
2. MERE JIJAJI..................devta manas kahya karen na ve use hian hum to kahya karein akk gg tanne bera na ke karam kare the akk tanne LOHACH JI mille.
na faltoo ka attitude
agar help karni hai didi ki to sab ke shami bhi kar denge aar nahi to clearly nahi hai

aur ji 3. MERE PATIDEV............ve kimme katti teesre dhaal ke manas hain actually mixture sa hai aman ke nature me thoda mere bhai wala sa thoda jijaji wala sa..........
COOL MANAS koye marta maro jeeta jiyo tension leni nahi tension deni nahi

so aap conclusion pe pahunch hi nahi sakte ki jaat ladke aise hote hian waise hote hian?

WO KAHYA KAREN NA AKK PANCHO ANGALIYAN EK SI NA HOTI WAHE BAAT HAI...............

 

[shweta123]

personally i feel ki niskarsh nikala hi nahi ja sakta
jaise i hv seen 3 men in mah life

1. MERA BHAI...........usme attitude kut kut ke bhara tha ,bhabhi ko bahar (starting of their wedding lyf) le jane me use sharam aati thi
never show his care (i know he care 4 her)
ek cover sa chadha rakha tha usne.................dont know y? halanki hamri family khule vicharo ki hai...............
2. MERE JIJAJI..................devta manas kahya karen na ve use hian hum to kahya karein akk gg tanne bera na ke karam kare the akk tanne LOHACH JI mille.
na faltoo ka attitude
agar help karni hai didi ki to sab ke shami bhi kar denge aar nahi to clearly nahi hai

aur ji 3. MERE PATIDEV............ve kimme katti teesre dhaal ke manas hain actually mixture sa hai aman ke nature me thoda mere bhai wala sa thoda jijaji wala sa..........
COOL MANAS koye marta maro jeeta jiyo tension leni nahi tension deni nahi

so aap conclusion pe pahunch hi nahi sakte ki jaat ladke aise hote hian waise hote hian?

WO KAHYA KAREN NA AKK PANCHO ANGALIYAN EK SI NA HOTI WAHE BAAT HAI...............

Di, very rightly said

I myself hasve seen so much of variation in Jat men & women, Jat girls & boys that it can never be concluded as to ki Jat ladke aise hote hain ya ladkiyaan aisi hoti hain siwaay kuch general characteristics ko chod ke

Maine ek se badhkar ek bevkoof ladke bhi dekhe hain aur samajhdaari ke icons bhi ..... kuch aisi ladkiyaan dekhi hain jo receptionist ki naukri karne lag jaaye to aise itraati hain ki maano Sonia Gandhi ke baad saari power bas unhi ke paas hai, aur kuch aisi bhi jo kaafi highly qualified hokar bhi ghar aur baahar har jagah idealism ki jeeti jaagti misaal ban jaati hain ....

Haan aisa hota hai akasar ki Jats (Boys & girls both) thode jyada aggressive hote hain..... gussa jaldi aa jaata hai aur chala bhi jaldi jaata hai ..... unke liye unki 'naak' bahut ahmiyat rakhti hai .... ek baar koi unki naak ki izzat rakh le to wo ekdum se polite bhi ho jaate hain .... agar izzat hai unki to wo compromises bhi kar lete hain aur kaafi adjustments bhi ....
wo dikhaave se thoda door hi rehte hain ..... par ve apne 'dhakkadpan' ko jaroor dikhaana chahte hain khaaskar males ... ...... Jats comapatively imaandaar hote hain .....

jaisa maine pehle bhi kaha hai aajkal sab kuch mixed sa culture hota ja raha hai khaaskar Metros me to yaha par in sab characteristics me bhi badlaav aa rahe hain ...

aur kayi baar aisa hota hai ki Jats do fronts pe jeevan jeete hain apna .... wo kaise ? .... Wo aise ki Jats tarakki kar rahe hain par abhi kar rahe hain ! Kayi aur community ke log kuch field me already kaafi tarakki kar chuke hain aur un jagaho pe Jats ko unke taur tareeko ko dekh kar unse deal karna seekhna padta hai ...... Jats simple hote hain dil se mostly ..... to unko apni is simplicity ko kayi baar practicality ke saath bhidwaana padta hai .... agar unhe aur community ke logo ke saath kaam karna hai to ..... isliye kayi baar wo jaise hote hain baahri dunioya me apne ko thoda 'modify' karke present karte hain ..... aur isko hum kayi baar kisi aur sense me samajh lete hain jaisa ki Devender ne bataaya hai kayi jagah ....

Issi baat pe mai ye kahungi ki Jat ladkiyan aur ladke ... jaise dikhte hain waise ho ye jaruri nahi isliye unke bahaari haav bhaav se unke vyaktitva ki pehchaan kar paana jara mushkil hai ... time lagta hai .... :rock

 

[choudharyneelam]

Generally girls other than jat girls say about Jat boys> ke aaj kal to sab branded kapddey pehney ghoomtey hain, pata hi nahi lagta ke JAT hain ya punjabilekin muh khulltey hi pata chal jata hai ki JAT hain Arr fer mere jissey JAT boys ki samarthak ko bhi khulli hansi aati hai ....arr chahe laddke kitni bhi koshish kar lein sophisticated bann-ney ki gahmolli attitude deekhey jaa sai. Behad short-tempered, fizool ke restriction laaniye, dabbu hoya karein. Ek saheli nai kahi thi ke Jat laddke laambey-thadey hoya karein arr haan suthrey bhi....arr time-pass karan mai number one par zindagi bhar tayi haath pakkdan ki himmat na hoti....byah ke time Maa-Baap ke sapoot bann jya sain. Par jissey bhi hon theek hon sain....Straight-forward, humorous, daring, bold, give due respect to elders arr Punjabiyan ki dhaal goddyan tayi haath sa le ja kai nyu na dhakossla kartey akk paah choo diye but in most of the cases around i've seen them mistreating their wives even if they are HIGHLY EDUCATED and WORKING AT HIGH POSTS like DCPs and CIVIL ENGGRS and SPTD.of CUSTOMS i've seen and experienced they fail to feel emotions in women

Ekdum sahi vichaar prakat kiye aapne.....comparison karne par hi apne logon ka pata chalta hai and that's why I find them all good...kamiyan kisme nahin hoti

 

[sachinb]

Sunita ji baaki saari baat maani par yaa emotion aali baat nahi hajam hoavegi,,,,,sab te faaltu emotions to Jat Chhore samjhe se aapni ghar-aaliyan ke,,,,,

aap DCPs ar Superintendents ne samjhaao ke ghar mein thaani-daari na dikhave,,,,,,,ye bhi ghar aale ne kati ardali samajh le se:rock

Arr fer mere jissey JAT boys ki samarthak ko bhi khulli but in most of the cases around i've seen them mistreating their wives even if they are HIGHLY EDUCATED and WORKING AT HIGH POSTS like DCPs and CIVIL ENGGRS and SPTD.of CUSTOMS i've seen and experienced they fail to feel emotions in women

 

[sunitahooda]

Chahey manne 1000 ya lakh bai kehni paddey Sach tai Sach rehga....arr ibb tayi aade JL pai jyadatar loggan nai bera sai mai bina saboot ke na kahya karu kimme

Arr lugayiyan nai k thekka tha rakhya sai DCPs arr Suptd ko samjhaney ka....MATLAB AKAL TAI FER BI CHHORIYAN MAIYE FAALTU HOYIjai itney OONCHEY OHDEY pai jaye pachey bi lugayi samjhaveingi tai UNKI AKAL KA KE ACHAAR ghallega

Ye jo tere laal haraff sai na ye uss haaye-taubba ka jawab sai jo tum chhorey macha rey so ek taggey mai ke CHHORIYAN mai attitude ghana ho sai....dekh jitt Chhoryan nai samjhan ki baat aave udde chhori saari marodd bhool kai bi chhoryan nai akal ki baat samjhan mai jutt jaya karein....aakhir JAT-JAT aala rishta ho sai na....jai chhorey kimme be-akalli kare to badnaami to jat kaum ki hovegi yani chhoriyan nai bera ho sai kad ATTITUDE deekhana sai arr kad NA....arr saachi bata BINA ATTITUDE KE BI KOYE MAANAS HO SAI....MANNE TAI BINA ATTITUDE KA MAANAS ZINDA LAASH LAAGYA KARE

Sunita ji baaki saari baat maani par yaa emotion aali baat nahi hajam hoavegi,,,,,sab te faaltu emotions to Jat Chhore samjhe se aapni ghar-aaliyan ke,,,,,

aap DCPs ar Superintendents ne samjhaao ke ghar mein thaani-daari na dikhave,,,,,,ye bhi ghar aale ne kati ardali samajh le se:rock

 

[sachinb]

ha ha ha,,,,,,binya attitude ke manas ka to bera nahi par Jat kati nahi hoya karte,,,,,,,

ib asli baat suno,,,,Jat Chhorya mein AANDI-TUDE ho attitude nahi,,,,,yu attitude to chhoriyan mein ho se,,,,,,,,chhoriyan ne kaho ke ATTITUDE chhod ke AANDI-TUDE apna le

,,,,ya to bhot badhiya baat se ke aap mhaare tain samjhao so,,,,,,,suthra dhaala samjhaya karo,,,kati jama,,,,,,

pher aapne samjhaye hoda ki baat maan lyo ke chhoriyan mein mada sa ghana ho se yu Atitude ar Jat chhorya main jarurat ke hisaab ka

main nyu kahun tha ke Lugayian ne samjhaan khatir lugayi aali akal ki jarurat se,,,,,,,,,hum to pher aapne tarike te samjha saka se:rock

Chahey manne 1000 ya lakh bai kehni paddey Sach tai Sach rehga....arr ibb tayi aade JL pai jyadatar loggan nai bera sai mai bina saboot ke na kahya karu kimme

Arr lugayiyan nai k thekka tha rakhya sai DCPs arr Suptd ko samjhaney ka....MATLAB AKAL TAI FER BI CHHORIYAN MAIYE FAALTU HOYIjai itney OONCHEY OHDEY pai jaye pachey bi lugayi samjhaveingi tai UNKI AKAL KA KE ACHAAR ghallega

Ye jo tere laal haraff sai na ye uss haaye-taubba ka jawab sai jo tum chhorey macha rey so ek taggey mai ke CHHORIYAN mai attitude ghana ho sai....dekh jitt Chhoryan nai samjhan ki baat aave udde chhori saari marodd bhool kai bi chhoryan nai akal ki baat samjhan mai jutt jaya karein....aakhir JAT-JAT aala rishta ho sai na....jai chhorey kimme be-akalli kare to badnaami to jat kaum ki hovegi yani chhoriyan nai bera ho sai kad ATTITUDE deekhana sai arr kad NA....arr saachi bata BINA ATTITUDE KE BI KOYE MAANAS HO SAI....MANNE TAI BINA ATTITUDE KA MAANAS ZINDA LAASH LAAGYA KARE

 

[sunitahooda]

Ye sab fizool ki baat sain....arr humney to NAKLI baatan ki aadat paddri sai kyunki chhorey laambi-laambi pakau baat chhodtey rehya karein. Jathar tai ghana bolleingey. Isse AANDI bi na hotey jissi tu haank rehya hai....situation aan dey fer aandipanney ka bera lagya kare. Arr chhori bi kum na hoti par unki himmat arr sabar ka bera kimme museebat ho abbe shyami aaya kare....Chhorya(tere) ki dhal pehlyan na APNI KHAAL TAI BAHAR AAN KI KOSHISH KARYA KAREIN Arr himmat mai manne aaj tayi manne apne Papa dekhey arr Bhai mai shaleenta ki wajah tai ussi himmat na thi jo mere Papa mai. Par ek bai jarurat aan pai uss nai bi ek respected maanas kaakh mai tha liya tha....par jo asli mai thadey hoya karein we nyu kuran-kuran na karya karein. Yani chhorey BORR ghani paadya karein:tamatar
No matter how much educated they are but soon come out of their layers.

ha ha ha,,,,,,binya attitude ke manas ka to bera nahi par Jat kati nahi hoya karte,,,,,,,

ib asli baat suno,,,,Jat Chhorya mein AANDI-TUDE ho attitude nahi,,,,,yu attitude to chhoriyan mein ho se,,,,,,,,chhoriyan ne kaho ke ATTITUDE chhod ke AANDI-TUDE apna le

 

[shweta123]

ha ha ha,,,,,,binya attitude ke manas ka to bera nahi par Jat kati nahi hoya karte,,,,,,,

ib asli baat suno,,,,Jat Chhorya mein AANDI-TUDE ho attitude nahi,,,,,yu attitude to chhoriyan mein ho se,,,,,,,,chhoriyan ne kaho ke ATTITUDE chhod ke AANDI-TUDE apna le

,,,,ya to bhot badhiya baat se ke aap mhaare tain samjhao so,,,,,,,suthra dhaala samjhaya karo,,,kati jama,,,,,,

pher aapne samjhaye hoda ki baat maan lyo ke chhoriyan mein mada sa ghana ho se yu Atitude ar Jat chhorya main jarurat ke hisaab ka

main nyu kahun tha ke Lugayian ne samjhaan khatir lugayi aali akal ki jarurat se,,,,,,,,,hum to pher aapne tarike te samjha saka se:rock

Pehle kaho ho aap ak ki Jat kati na hote bina attitude arr fer iske ghana hon te bhi raajji konii aap .... aur aap nyu kaho ho ki lugaiyan ne samjhaan ki khatar lugayi aali akal ki jarurat sai .... to aap bhi rakha karo ho ke ye waali akal spare me? ...... kaam konii chaalta dikktaa aapka is akal ke binaa.....

 

[sunitahooda]

I think that JAT BOYS cant take and adhere to the feeling of rejection by a JAT GIRL and instead of taking it positively they try to put the blame on MODERNISM, now who can define a term like modernism?And if girls are blamed to be ULTRA modern then let me ask ARE BOYS untouched of this ongoing modernism? Ya ladkey aaj bhi jhotta-buggi/ Oont-rehddey ya Bail-gaadi mein college/ office jatey hainunko bhi to cycle/motor-cycle ya cars ki jarurat paddti hai na. Agar laddkiyan future needs ko dhyan mein rakh kar suitable match chahti hain to iss mein bura kya haiWaise suitable match milna itna asaan nahi hai and IT TAKES A LIFE TIME TO FIND OUT WAS IT SUITABLE OR UNSUITABLE

Pehle kaho ho aap ak ki Jat kati na hote bina attitude arr fer iske ghana hon te bhi raajji konii aap .... aur aap nyu kaho ho ki lugaiyan ne samjhaan ki khatar lugayi aali akal ki jarurat sai .... to aap bhi rakha karo ho ke ye waali akal spare me? ...... kaam konii chaalta dikktaa aapka is akal ke binaa.....

 

[shweta123]

I think that JAT BOYS cant take and adhere to the feeling of rejection by a JAT GIRL and instead of taking it positively they try to put the blame on MODERNISM, now who can define a term like modernism?And if girls are blamed to be ULTRA modern then let me ask ARE BOYS untouched of this ongoing modernism? Ya ladkey aaj bhi jhotta-buggi/ Oont-rehddey ya Bail-gaadi mein college/ office jatey hainunko bhi to cycle/motor-cycle ya cars ki jarurat paddti hai na. Agar laddkiyan future needs ko dhyan mein rakh kar suitable match chahti hain to iss mein bura kya haiWaise suitable match milna itna asaan nahi hai and IT TAKES A LIFE TIME TO FIND OUT WAS IT SUITABLE OR UNSUITABLE

Actually I havent heard till date about anyone who looks for an "UN-SUITABLE" match until and unless that person himself is "unsuitable" in all regards ...

Dont know why some boys cant face rejection even when they know that they can nowhere stand with the girl they are dreaming to marry .... ... If someone is not eligible then why should he even hope to marry someone who is far more eligible and even if they dream that way, then why do they say stupid things about such girls ... let those girls decide when and whom to marry ! :thappad

And why in the world they are picking this topic of 'marriage' ...... .... ye baat aayi kaha se .... .... kahi rejection se ........ .... anyways... hope they understand what the topic is about !

 

[anilsinghd]

I think that JAT BOYS cant take and adhere to the feeling of rejection by a JAT GIRL and instead of taking it positively they try to put the blame on MODERNISM, now who can define a term like modernism?And if girls are blamed to be ULTRA modern then let me ask ARE BOYS untouched of this ongoing modernism? Ya ladkey aaj bhi jhotta-buggi/ Oont-rehddey ya Bail-gaadi mein college/ office jatey hain unko bhi to cycle/motor-cycle ya cars ki jarurat paddti hai na. Agar laddkiyan future needs ko dhyan mein rakh kar suitable match chahti hain to iss mein bura kya hai Waise suitable match milna itna asaan nahi hai and IT TAKES A LIFE TIME TO FIND OUT WAS IT SUITABLE OR UNSUITABLE

Sunita ji , rejection is not a great feeling , so it is not specific to rejection by Jat girls. To play down stupid arguments , giving specific arguments ain't justified , dont fall in trap of being only specific unnecessarily

Actually I havent heard till date about anyone who looks for an "UN-SUITABLE" match until and unless that person himself is "unsuitable" in all regards ...

Dont know why some boys cant face rejection even when they know that they can nowhere stand with the girl they are dreaming to marry .... ... If someone is not eligible then why should he even hope to marry someone who is far more eligible and even if they dream that way, then why do they say stupid things about such girls ... let those girls decide when and whom to marry !

And why in the world they are picking this topic of 'marriage' ...... .... ye baat aayi kaha se .... .... kahi rejection se ........ .... anyways... hope they understand what the topic is about !

Shweta as Sunita ji said that it takes a lifetime to find out whether the match was suitable or not and I whole heartedly agree. Barring total mismatch , I do not find the story of being very picky about your life partner appealing. There is not "the" match , there is always "a" match.

This is a part of my orkut "ideal match" :
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i believe in the randomness of things , so "anyone" chosen from a "set of OK"( and this set seems to me to be pretty large) girls would produce the same level of happiness
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And i do believe in the same, again as i reminded Sunita ji , the same applies to you. Lets not fall in trap of arguments for the sake of it for disproving something that already defies logic

Hope you appreciate that!



PS : Shweta , use less emotion icons

 

[ritu]

aahe mera patti te katti tere bhai jisa hai attitude part minus kar do....er aman jisa in no tension lena and dena part.

personally i feel ki niskarsh nikala hi nahi ja sakta
i hv seen 3 men in mah life

1. MERA BHAI...........usme attitude kut kut ke bhara tha ,bhabhi ko bahar (starting of their wedding lyf) le jane me use sharam aati thi
never show his care (i know he care 4 her)
ek cover sa chadha rakha tha usne.................dont know y? halanki hamri family khule vicharo ki hai...............
2. MERE JIJAJI..................devta manas kahya karen na ve use hian hum to kahya karein akk gg tanne bera na ke karam kare the akk tanne LOHACH JI mille.
na faltoo ka attitude
agar help karni hai didi ki to sab ke shami bhi kar denge aar nahi to clearly nahi hai

aur ji 3. MERE PATIDEV............ve kimme katti teesre dhaal ke manas hain actually mixture sa hai aman ke nature me thoda mere bhai wala sa thoda jijaji wala sa..........
COOL MANAS koye marta maro jeeta jiyo tension leni nahi tension deni nahi

so aap conclusion pe pahunch hi nahi sakte ki jaat ladke aise hote hian waise hote hian?

WO KAHYA KAREN NA AKK PANCHO ANGALIYAN EK SI NA HOTI WAHE BAAT HAI...............

 

[sunitahooda]

Yaar Ritu & Jyoti apney ghar aalyan ki tareef mai tum nayi thread chala lyopar aade nyu bata dyo akk tum JAT chhoryan ke barey mai ke socho so....apart from Baap/Bhai/Pati/Beta....to judge them on a general criteria....

aahe mera patti te katti tere bhai jisa hai attitude part minus kar do....er aman jisa in no tension lena and dena part.

 

[dkumars]

Yaar Ritu & Jyoti apney ghar aalyan ki tareef mai tum nayi thread chala lyopar aade nyu bata dyo akk tum JAT chhoryan ke barey mai ke socho so....apart from Baap/Bhai/Pati/Beta....to judge them on a general criteria....

Y to leave them ... aren't they jat or thy aren't chorre??? Jiske bhi baare mein sochoge woh kissi na kissi ka Baap/Bhai/Pati/Beta hoga hi. Apno ko chod kar doosro par comment karna kaafi aasaan hota hai chahe apne auro se bhi bure kyu na ho.

 

[sunitahooda]

Jats to hain par not "Chhorey" Chal fer mai bata dyu....Mere papa bold/daring/supportive/honest/straight forward/obstinate & loving/caring/ MAN OF HIS WORDS Bhai Kabhi naram kabhi garam/ loving/understood us/maa and his wife so well....mera bhai Vivek Hooda....helping/mature/arrogant/short-tempered/intelligent/handsome/smart/dependable/difficult to decide if he's broad-minded or narrow minded(depends on situation i guess)/very kind-hearted and most of all ADAMANT to marry JAT GIRL ONLY

Y to leave them ... aren't they jat or thy aren't chorre??? Jiske bhi baare mein sochoge woh kissi na kissi ka Baap/Bhai/Pati/Beta hoga hi. Apno ko chod kar doosro par comment karna kaafi aasaan hota hai chahe apne auro se bhi bure kyu na ho.

 

[sumeetsuhag]

thas thas thas thas

 

[grewalrakesh]

jatni.says...ND chhore....cool guys..kyoon MBE kar rahe...ho..

 

[sunitahooda]

Chalo jab tum apne-aap nai THAS samjho so to koye ke kar sake sai

thas thas thas thas