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From last many days the way threads and posts are running its giving me feeling that Samar was correct that time.
I don't know might be the reason behind that is the points going to be awarded but really things are not going good and the grace and level of discussion is going down day by day.:(
May be some where i m also involved in this but this has be avoided and taken care by the members itself.
A humble request please don't start leg pulling in this thread if u have something sensible to say than carry on otherwise please excuse.
 
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Nishantrathi82 said:
Hi all

From last many days the way threads and posts are running its giving me feeling that Samar was correct that time.
I don't know might be the reason behind that is the points going to be awarded but really things are not going good and the grace and level of discussion is going down day by day.:(
May be some where i m also involved in this but this has be avoided and taken care by the members itself.
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Mein aapki baat ka puran roop se samarthan karta hoon
We have to take intiative to improve jatland and stop making comments on each other. humour remains humour unless someone is not facing problem with that. All i can do is that if someone is facing problem from my side he/she can come and say you are commenting directly or indirectly i can avoid my comments on his /her thread.
 
My take is that if someone is commenting on you then don't take it too seriously.We are already having n numbers of issue in our life so if u r going to add this one also then u r in mess with urself.

If u don't like any comment then better not to apply rather than indulging in word game.
:)
 
True… I am in absolute accord with the points highlighted by Nishu and would like add what I can figure out is .. it’s the same set of people doing it again and again.............
 
I also humbly agree with all of you. We should also take things in right spirite.

Posts and answers can not be in robotic fashion, different people have different way of expressing themselves and that should be respected:rock.

anilsangwan said:
Even I agree with Rahul/Nishant that we should improve the level of our discussions!
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Nishant the bigger problem is that people don't want to see people changed:o Everyone is proud/ intelligent/ mature/ highly self-respected and NO ONE wants to look down so initial minor argument becomes serious as nobody wants to step back. Whether accept it or not WE ALL PRETEND TO BE GREATER THAN WHAT ACTUALLY WE ARE:) but not all have a heart to accept it. Its just a fight of complexes be it SUPERIOR or INFERIOR:)
Nishantrathi82 said:
Hi all

From last many days the way threads and posts are running its giving me feeling that Samar was correct that time.
I don't know might be the reason behind that is the points going to be awarded but really things are not going good and the grace and level of discussion is going down day by day.:(
May be some where i m also involved in this but this has be avoided and taken care by the members itself.
A humble request please don't start leg pulling in this thread if u have something sensible to say than carry on otherwise please excuse.
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Nishantrathi82 said:
Hi all

From last many days the way threads and posts are running its giving me feeling that Samar was correct that time.
I don't know might be the reason behind that is the points going to be awarded but really things are not going good and the grace and level of discussion is going down day by day.:(
May be some where i m also involved in this but this has be avoided and taken care by the members itself.
A humble request please don't start leg pulling in this thread if u have something sensible to say than carry on otherwise please excuse.
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Nishant, your observation is absolutely correct, but it depends only on that person who feel that somebody has replied him personally. Because normally we give our views and shares our experiences with each other on most of the topic. But things become worst when somebody feels that the reply he or she has got is addressing to him or her personally. So be cool when you enter to JATLAND and don't try to make unnecessary and objectionable comments to each other. I think by this way we can keep JATLAND a cool place. If any other JL member have any other positive point regarding the same than please share with us.

Thanks !
 
Sunita Ji, I humbly disagree with you,,,,,

Complexes hamesha Inferior hi hote hain,,,,,Superior ko to koyi complex hota hi nahi,,,,he/she is above these things if that person is really superior:rock


sunitahooda said:
Its just a fight of complexes be it SUPERIOR or INFERIOR:)
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Sachin Ji ye superiority ussey hota hai jo galatfehmi ka shikar hota hai aur khud ko sabse superior samjhta hai:o par hota nahi;)
sachinb said:
Sunita Ji, I humbly disagree with you,,,,,

Complexes hamesha Inferior hi hote hain,,,,,Superior ko to koyi complex hota hi nahi,,,,he/she is above these things if that person is really superior:rock
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sachinb said:
Sunita Ji, I humbly disagree with you,,,,,

Complexes hamesha Inferior hi hote hain,,,,,Superior ko to koyi complex hota hi nahi,,,,he/she is above these things if that person is really superior:rock
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Sachin, I humbly disagree with you :)

It might be the fact that Superiors don't have any complexes but people do have superiority complex and that's the problem.
 
In reference to above discussion , i will say only ki this is the reason y jats can't be united...:cool:

Ab shayyad wahan discussion ki jarurat na padey is sandarbh main:D

sunitahooda said:
Sachin Ji ye superiority ussey hota hai jo galatfehmi ka shikar hota hai aur khud ko sabse superior samjhta hai:o par hota nahi;)
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satyenderdeswal said:
In reference to above discussion , i will say only ki this is the reason y jats can't be united...:cool:

Ab shayyad wahan discussion ki jarurat na padey is sandarbh main:D
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Satyender ji discussion to ye vahan bhi karenge kyonki JAAT kabhi bhi haar nahi manta chahe uske saamne jaat bhai kyon na ho. Aur shayad isi kamee ki vajah se UNITY nahi hai.
 
sachinb said:
Dear Sir,

So we have agreed to disagree:)
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Sachin , Sunita and Vijay are right , these days people have superiority complex , you can chose difft names for that , you can also refer to a thread by me in general section called "Markovish behaviour".

Regards,
anil
 
Ek bai aade tai faarig hotey hi udhar rookh kar dengey
anilsinghd said:
Sachin , Sunita and Vijay are right , these days people have superiority complex , you can chose difft names for that , you can also refer to a thread by me in general section called "Markovish behaviour".

Regards,
anil
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Ok agree superiority complex is the main problem but atleast we guys i mean those who had posted their views here and wants to make the JL a place of decent and healthy discussion can we keep ourself cool by not replying to any rediculous posts even if they are directly commenting on us. What we can do in that case just compliant against that guy to the Mods rather then behaving in same manner and start posting indescent posts.
 
Nishant i myself have tried it many times but there are people who understand silence(ignorance) and there are others who don't, who like to insult and be insulted. Such people use others to attack on members and problem is such members don't even use their brain they are BORN WITH.
Nishantrathi82 said:
Ok agree superiority complex is the main problem but atleast we guys i mean those who had posted their views here and wants to make the JL a place of decent and healthy discussion can we keep ourself cool by not replying to any rediculous posts even if they are directly commenting on us. What we can do in that case just compliant against that guy to the Mods rather then behaving in same manner and start posting indescent posts.
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