Saadi KE time kon kon se gotar chhodne chahia ?

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bagamalik

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Dear All Member of Jaatland,

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Aaj yeh problem dekhane ko mil rhi hai ki saadi karte time hume kon kon se gotar chhodne chahia. kyonki bhut se Villages me (mostly in Haryana) Apna, maa ka, Daadi, Nani or pure village me jitne jaat gotar hai vo sab me aap saadi
nahi kar sakte.

To es karan yeh problem hoti hai ki jldi se rista nahi hota.

or yadi koi eska ullangan karta hai to bahut jhagde hote hai or panchayte hoti hai.

Jabki other cast for example in case baniya wo sirf aapna hi gotar chhodte hai or maa ke gotar me bhi saadi kar lete hai.

Abhi tak jaato me koi fundamental nahi hai ki kon kon se gotar chhodne chahia.

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apna gotra,maa ka gotra,dadi ka gotra or nani ka gotra hi chodne chahiye.. village main gotra tab choda jata hai tab 1 gotra bahulya matra main ho.....4-5 gotra wale parivar ko itna jyada importance nahin dete......:boxing:boxing


bagamalik said:
Dear All Member of Jaatland,


Aaj yeh problem dekhane ko mil rhi hai ki saadi karte time hume kon kon se gotar chhodne chahia. kyonki bhut se Villages me (mostly in Haryana) Apna, maa ka, Daadi, Nani or pure village me jitne jaat gotar hai vo sab me aap saadi
nahi kar sakte.

To es karan yeh problem hoti hai ki jldi se rista nahi hota.

or yadi koi eska ullangan karta hai to bahut jhagde hote hai or panchayte hoti hai.

Jabki other cast for example in case baniya wo sirf aapna hi gotar chhodte hai or maa ke gotar me bhi saadi kar lete hai.

Abhi tak jaato me koi fundamental nahi hai ki kon kon se gotar chhodne chahia.

Aap logo se gujaris hai provide your view taki koi privartan ho jai
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nkharub said:
apna gotra,maa ka gotra,dadi ka gotra or nani ka gotra hi chodne chahiye.. village main gotra tab choda jata hai tab 1 gotra bahulya matra main ho.....4-5 gotra wale parivar ko itna jyada importance nahin dete......:boxing:boxing
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ab nani ka gotra bhi nahi chodte

gaon ka main gotra choda jata hai

agar guhand mein koye gotra specified ho to wo bhi choda ja hai

mhare guhand madina hai humare gaon se dangi gotra mein riste nahi hote. Purane bhaichare bhi dekhe ja hain. Isliye biyah mein budhe thera ki salah leni jaroori hai.
 
I think there are mainly three gotras which generally avoided for JAT marriage. self,Mother,grandmother.

Now a days people also put emphasis not to leave Grandmother gotras otherwise it will be hell for big gotras like Malik,dahiya etc.
 
humare yahan to gaon ke gotra ka koi chakkar hi nahin...

bas mum dad n dadi ka gotra chhodte hein...

waise bhi jat to kafi kam reh gaye hein...itne gotra chhodenge to na jaane shadi kaise karenge :eek:
 
bhavnasingh20 said:
humare yahan to gaon ke gotra ka koi chakkar hi nahin...

bas mum dad n dadi ka gotra chhodte hein...

waise bhi jat to kafi kam reh gaye hein...itne gotra chhodenge to na jaane shadi kaise karenge :eek:
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Bhawna ji jatland pe bhi 13 hazar hain. Jat abhi luptpray parjatiyo mein nahi aaya hai.Chinta na karo biyah ho jaga.
 
hamare gaon me bhi ma,dadi,or khud ka gotra choda jata hai .waise hamare gaon me jato ke kai gotra hai.... lekin gaon punia bahulya hai isliye dusra koi gotra nahi choda jata.... or han hamare purane bhaichare kai gaon ke sath hai isliye un gaon me bhi vivah nahi ho sakta..ek gaon hai ''rajli'' hamare, gaon se kafi dur hai lekin bhaichare ki vajah se vhan vivah nahi ho sakta.
 
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :D :D :D ar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey :D
 
Great Anil Bhai,

Congrates,ultimately u surpassed all the hurdles and come out as
a winner.


anilsinghd said:
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :D :D :D ar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey :D
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Hame bhi Maan, Dalal, Deshwal, Siwag(Sinhwag,sehwag,siwal etc) kyoki ye chaaro bhai the jinke naam se ye gotra start hue aur Ahlawat, Malik kyoki ye maa, Dadi ke gotra hain chhodne padte hain....Par chinta ki koi baat nahi Jato mein gotra bhi to hundreds mein hain.
 
anilsinghd said:
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :Dar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey :D
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Dekho tamaasha.....!!! Leel-2 kisa kaddiyan k maah k likkddann ne ho ra sei.....byah k naam pe..... :D :D



Btw Gotr - Khud+Maa+Dadi ka chhoddna chahiye.... mharey illakey mein toh yoh e chalann sei... Lekin "love marriage" aale baalak toh bhai Khud na bhi na chhoddtey !!! Unki marji bhai.... Samvidhann mein aisa kuch likha nahi hai.... so no one can stop !
 
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anilsangwan said:
Dekho tamaasha.....!!! Leel-2 kisa kaddiyan k maah k likkddann ne ho ra sei.....byah k naam pe..... :D :D
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ise ise comment fenkne ho to ise taaaga nai humour mein dalwa liya kar Leel-1 :D


kilkiiiiiiiiiiii @ kadiyaan k maah !!! :D :D:rock
 
Shukar mahre itni lambi list na hai gotra choodan ki nai toh mai kuwari e mar jati hahahahahaha Waise toh ibb bhi koi gurantee nai hai ;-)


anilsinghd said:
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :D :D :D ar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey :D
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anilsinghd said:
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :D :D :D ar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey
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Anil ...................bahut bahut shukar hai akk teri sagai ho gi ....itne gotar chodde pache tae bhaut musqil kaam tha par chalo.............ho gya kaam!!!!!!!!:)congrts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
anilsinghd said:
dalal , dahiya , ahlawat , punia , gudaaniya , deshwal , sinhwal , maan , rana , jatrana ar ek do aur they ! :eek::eek::eek:

jis din mere bade bhaai ( taau ka ladka ) ne batayi thi ki itna chodne hain , us din hi keh di thi ki : byaah tai ho liy naa !! :rock:D

lekin fix ho gaya kisi tariyaa :D :D :D ar yeh saar ebhi chooot gey :D
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Chal bhai ghaana he pereshan tha tu bhi ib paaka hoogaya to feer ab to kisse ko tension leen ke jaroorat koni jab Anil bhai ka ho gaaya to feer sabka hoojaga :D
 
deepika said:
Shukar mahre itni lambi list na hai gotra choodan ki nai toh mai kuwari e mar jati hahahahahaha Waise toh ibb bhi koi gurantee nai hai ;-)
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yeh itne thaappe aale sain is site pai , koi saa karo kimai is "kanya" ka bhi ! :D

waise inke bharose bhi matna rahiyo , main bhi kati raambh raambh ke mar liya tha , kisi ne kimai bhi na kara :D
 
jyotikohar said:
Anil ...................bahut bahut shukar hai akk teri sagai ho gi ....itne gotar chodde pache tae bhaut musqil kaam tha par chalo.............ho gya kaam!!!!!!!!:)congrts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Haan jiji mushkil tha katiii , thaape aalan ke bhi gode se toot liye they katiii !!! :D:rock


Thanks for the wishes :)

Nishantrathi82 said:
Chal bhai ghaana he pereshan tha tu bhi ib paaka hoogaya to feer ab to kisse ko tension leen ke jaroorat koni jab Anil bhai ka ho gaaya to feer sabka hoojaga :D
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mere yaar nyun matna kaho tum :( katii hi eent si maaro so tham to !! :o:D
 
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