Opinions on having Muslim friends

[singhsonia]

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

 

[sidchhikara]

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

People talk bad about Jats also. So ... what if nobody wanted to be your friend?
How old are you?

 

[sannand]

Every community has its share of good & bad people. Always choose best of 'em to befriend. However, that does take some good interpersonal skills.

Good luck!

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

 

[bishanleo2001]

I do agree with you Siddarth bhai(10/10).Many of my friends were used to be warned to have a Jat as their friends.

So Sonia jee at the time of making friends not only listen to your heart but also your mind too, n do'nt judge people on what people say about them but on how u feel about them. btw who gave you such a wonderfull advice (probably there is 80% chance that your parents did n you already know why)?

Those people who asked you not have a muslim friend may be ask you one day not to live in a country who had a muslim "Abdul Kalam" as their president, n even the country you are living in right now, its president "Barack Hussain Obama" is also a muslim born.So Sonia jee use some of your own sense not of the other and do'nt hate people just because of their religion but because of their wrong doing (watever religion they belong).

Otherwise precaution is always better depending on what kind of friendship you are having and I am sure we have good and bad people in every religion n every cast.

P.S.: I am sorry if my "Parvachan" offended any one & sonia jee you are free to make your own decisions....

People talk bad about Jats also. So ... what if nobody wanted to be your friend?
How old are you?

 

[rocky0036]

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

how can we say that muslim are bad . i dnt think so i had many muslim friend they were very sweet but ab contect nhi hota mera



ये बात सबको पता है की हिन्दू या मुस्लिम होने से पहले वो एक इंसान होता है
फिर भी एक बात है की जहा हम रहते है वह के म्ह्होल का काफी फर्क पड़ता है

 

[skarmveer]

Muslims key liyea Dharm say badhker kuchh nahi hota na fir wo koi bhee relation ho.

Jayadater muslims kattervaad mein vishvaas rakhtey hai is liyea inkay yahan rishton kee koi eahmiyat nahi hoti. Specially ladies ko to kabhee inka bharosa nahi kerna chahiyea kukee yea aapnee behan kay sath bhee behan ka rista nibhaingey ya kuchh or.......koi nahi janta. Jab jayadater log inkay bareey mein bura kahtey hai to kuchh to burai jarur hogi fir bhee aap padhee likhee hai or samjhdaar hai isliyea soch samjh ker faisla karey.

Jahar ko hamesha chakh ker hee yea faisla nahi kiya jata kee wo jahar hai ussey logo key kehney say bhee maan lena chahiyea. Is liyea sabhee cheejay khud karkay dekhna jaruri nahi hota logon key experiance ka bhee fayada uthana chahiyea.

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

 

[cooljat]

.

Couldn't agree more Sid bhai !!

Sonia either u r too young n novice to ask sucha crap question or you're acting over smart !!

Answer Sid's question first ..

People talk bad about Jats also. So ... what if nobody wanted to be your friend?
How old are you?

 

[bagamalik]

You can observe after all over study of history about muslims.
but one thing unke liye dharm ke aage koi relation ki value nahi hoti but may be single person are good than his community, SO BE CAREFUL BABY

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

 

[ajayverma1973]

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

Hindu-Muslim dange karwana chahti ho kya jo aisa question publick forum main poochh rahi ho.

You can ask such question by sending personal messages.

 

[kapdal]

Hi All,
I wanted to know your opinion on having muslim friends. I have some friends who are muslims but I have been told or heard lot of bad stories about these people. what do you personally think about it


sonia:boxing

You should add a poll to this. If the majority decides in favor, go ahead and continue your friendship, otherwise break it immediately. Also, next time you have to go to the loo, come and ask for everyone's opinion here.

 

[ravichaudhary]

You should add a poll to this. If the majority decides in favor, go ahead and continue your friendship, otherwise break it immediately. Also, next time you have to go to the loo, come and ask for everyone's opinion here.

Dear Kapil

This is a serious question form Sonia and important to her.It behooves us to give it and her, the respect asked for.

Please do not treat it lightly and belittle it.

Ordinarily this post would be deleted.

In the interest of guidelines, let it stay an example of what not to post.


Ravi Chaudhary

 

[ravichaudhary]

On first looking at this thread, my immediate reaction was – What is doing in the history section.?

It should be in the General Talk section or in current affairs.

On reflection , though, this section is perhaps the better choice.

To answer such a question, one has to look as to what the Historical experiences were.

Start with the archives on this section.

There is also the saying that History tends to repeat itself.

To Sonia’s question then:

1) it is good to have friends, the more the better. Then also, why should the Muslim community be singled out, for questioning.

There are good people and bad people in every community, and that in itself should not be a determinant in itself.

We should have good and cordial relations with every being, human .

It is not enough to act on ‘hearsay’ and stereotype a community. That would be irrational and unfair.

If the question is a personal one, the next logical question is how far does one wish the friendship and relations to go?

Is one contemplating – marriage for example?

The study of the history of the community can give some pointers.

The marriage kind of relationship succeeds better when both partners have common cultural factors – community, Dharam, Religion, language, country of abode etc etc.

There are plenty of support systems which help out as their will be trials and tribulations in life.

Marrying outside the culture of your own community , will bring its obstacles and hurdles, most of which are not obvious in the heady first flushes of emotion.

The Vedic and Hindu religions are by nature very tolerant and open minded about people marrying in and people coming into these Dharams are assimilated quite easily.

People who marry out, generally do not find the same acceptance, and end up giving up their traditions.

Ravi Chaudhary

 

[rocky0036]

Jayadater muslims kattervaad mein vishvaas rakhtey hai is liyea inkay yahan rishton kee koi eahmiyat nahi hoti. Specially ladies ko to kabhee inka bharosa nahi kerna chahiyea kukee yea aapnee behan kay sath bhee behan ka rista nibhaingey ya kuchh or.......koi nahi janta. Jab jayadater log inkay bareey mein bura kahtey hai to kuchh to burai jarur hogi fir bhee aap padhee likhee hai or samjhdaar hai isliyea soch samjh ker faisla karey.

Jahar ko hamesha chakh ker hee yea faisla nahi kiya jata kee wo jahar hai ussey logo key kehney say bhee maan lena chahiyea. Is liyea sabhee cheejay khud karkay dekhna jaruri nahi hota logon key experiance ka bhee fayada uthana chahiyea.

kyun muslim aapni bhen ko bhen or maa ko maa nhi samjta
haan mhool ka frk padta hai bt itna bhi nhi bhai saab ki wo rishton ki eahmiyat nhi jante

na jaane kitne hindu or haan jaat maine asie dhek hai jo aapne hi maa--baap ka izzaat nhi karte muslim ko kyun dosh de rhe ho bhai saab

yr hamhari soch hai ki hamhe samne wale ke sath kya karna hai
ye muslim or hindu se fark nhi padta
kya hindu hindu ko nhi marta
hindu main to aaj kal bhai bhai ko mar rha hai kya ye sab bhool gye aap

hindu dharam main sab dharmo ko ek samman samja jata
or bhai saab aaj kis dharam ka majak bana rhe ho.........

aapne bhai saab dunia dheki hai
mere se tho itne bade ho aap kud bhi soch sakte ho

jo dil mile ho na tho koi muslim hota hai na koi hindu

main her kiski respect karta hai

hamhe dusro ke dhekne se phle aapne aapko dhekna chiye
aaj ham kha hai
insaan insaaniyat se banta hai na dharam na majhab se

insaan insaaniyat se banta hai na hindu na muslim se

insaaniyat hi karam yhi dharam

asie na jane kitne hi muslim hai aapne desh main
jo desh ke liye jaan tak de sakte hai
we have no right to say that they are bad

 

[lrburdak]

Friendship with somebody is a personal factor. It has nothing to do with any community or religion. Religion of a person is historical and geographical factor. We are Hindu because we are here in India on this side of Sindhu where Muslim religion could not spread as it did beyond Sindhu river on that side. Had we been on that side of Sindhu we would have been Muslims as is the case with many Jats in Pakistan. But they love all Jats be it Hindu, Muslim or Sikh. We have in our history section religion wise population of Jats:


Hinduism 47%

Sikhism 20%

Islam 33%

It is not advisable to differentiate on the basis of religion. I think forget the religion and come under the banner of Jat Sangh.

So make friends in all religions as many possible.

 

[vivekgathwala]

bhai ............exceptional case are always there ..............baki ye kam k bande konya hamare liye or is desh k liye .................is deah ka bhattta t inki vajah t hi baith raha s inke vote bank ki rajniti n ek aaam hindu ko itna garib bana diya h ki vo aaj do waqt ki roti nahi kha pata


baki sonia ji ..........ya aap na bhi puchte ..to bhi aapne ebra s ki aapne k karna s ............

 

[skarmveer]

Mein bhee sabhee Insano ko baraber hee manta hun per .......

Keun Duniya mein sabsay jayada Muslim aatankvaadi hai ?

Keu yea kesee bhee dharm key sath milker nahi rehpaatey.

Shiya or sunnee hee eak dusrey ko nahi sehan ker patey fir oroo kee baat kaya.

Keu aaj bhee crime mein yea sabsay aagey hai.

Or Bhai jahan tak bhai- behan ka sawal hai yea Chacha, Mama kee betiyeo say bhee saade ker saktey hai fir is restey kee eahmiyat kaya hai.

Mere aapna anubhav hai kee inkey mata-pita baake sabhee dharmo say jayada dukhee rehtey hai. Kam say kam 10 parivaroo mey mera aana - jana tha jo kee sirf isliyea band kiya hai kee yea aapney ma-baap ko bhee theek dhang say nahi rakh paatey to or kaya umeed kee ja sakti hai.

Bhai saari duniya kehti hai kee jahan muslims hain wahan hinsa jarur hai.

kyun muslim aapni bhen ko bhen or maa ko maa nhi samjta
haan mhool ka frk padta hai bt itna bhi nhi bhai saab ki wo rishton ki eahmiyat nhi jante

na jaane kitne hindu or haan jaat maine asie dhek hai jo aapne hi maa--baap ka izzaat nhi karte muslim ko kyun dosh de rhe ho bhai saab

yr hamhari soch hai ki hamhe samne wale ke sath kya karna hai
ye muslim or hindu se fark nhi padta
kya hindu hindu ko nhi marta
hindu main to aaj kal bhai bhai ko mar rha hai kya ye sab bhool gye aap

hindu dharam main sab dharmo ko ek samman samja jata
or bhai saab aaj kis dharam ka majak bana rhe ho.........

aapne bhai saab dunia dheki hai
mere se tho itne bade ho aap kud bhi soch sakte ho

jo dil mile ho na tho koi muslim hota hai na koi hindu

main her kiski respect karta hai

hamhe dusro ke dhekne se phle aapne aapko dhekna chiye
aaj ham kha hai
insaan insaaniyat se banta hai na dharam na majhab se

insaan insaaniyat se banta hai na hindu na muslim se

insaaniyat hi karam yhi dharam

asie na jane kitne hi muslim hai aapne desh main
jo desh ke liye jaan tak de sakte hai
we have no right to say that they are bad

 

[ajayverma1973]

Keun Duniya mein sabsay jayada Muslim aatankvaadi hai ?

Keu yea kesee bhee dharm key sath milker nahi rehpaatey.

Shiya or sunnee hee eak dusrey ko nahi sehan ker patey fir oroo kee baat kaya.

Keu aaj bhee crime mein yea sabsay aagey hai.

Or Bhai jahan tak bhai- behan ka sawal hai yea Chacha, Mama kee betiyeo say bhee saade ker saktey hai fir is restey kee eahmiyat kaya hai.

Mere aapna anubhav hai kee inkey mata-pita baake sabhee dharmo say jayada dukhee rehtey hai. Kam say kam 10 parivaroo mey mera aana - jana tha jo kee sirf isliyea band kiya hai kee yea aapney ma-baap ko bhee theek dhang say nahi rakh paatey to or kaya umeed kee ja sakti hai.

Bhai saari duniya kehti hai kee jahan muslims hain wahan hinsa jarur hai.

Fully agree

 

[rocky0036]

Keun Duniya mein sabsay jayada Muslim aatankvaadi hai ?

Keu yea kesee bhee dharm key sath milker nahi rehpaatey.

Shiya or sunnee hee eak dusrey ko nahi sehan ker patey fir oroo kee baat kaya.

Keu aaj bhee crime mein yea sabsay aagey hai.

Or Bhai jahan tak bhai- behan ka sawal hai yea Chacha, Mama kee betiyeo say bhee saade ker saktey hai fir is restey kee eahmiyat kaya hai.

Mere aapna anubhav hai kee inkey mata-pita baake sabhee dharmo say jayada dukhee rehtey hai. Kam say kam 10 parivaroo mey mera aana - jana tha jo kee sirf isliyea band kiya hai kee yea aapney ma-baap ko bhee theek dhang say nahi rakh paatey to or kaya umeed kee ja sakti hai.

Bhai saari duniya kehti hai kee jahan muslims hain wahan hinsa jarur hai.

bilkul bhi asia nhi bhai saab
muslim itne bhi bure nhi hai
haan pakistani bhi sare bure nhi hai
pakistan ke jo common people hai wo aaj bhi aapne hindustaniyo ko aapna bhai mante hai
...........ager sabki in sabko itna bura samjte hai tho india se kickout kyun nhi karte
aapne india main bhi bhut muslim hai
army main bhi muslim mil jate hai

per haan itna jarur khe sakte hai jha pe wo rhate hai na
kha ka mhool karab hota hai
kuch bure muslim ke karan ham sari muslim com bura nhi khe sakte bhai saab

mere class main 10 muslim ladke they
wo nature wise panjabi or baniyo ke ladko se bhut acche they

 

[rocky0036]

bhai ............exceptional case are always there ..............baki ye kam k bande konya hamare liye or is desh k liye .................is deah ka bhattta t inki vajah t hi baith raha s inke vote bank ki rajniti n ek aaam hindu ko itna garib bana diya h ki vo aaj do waqt ki roti nahi kha pata


baki sonia ji ..........ya aap na bhi puchte ..to bhi aapne ebra s ki aapne k karna s ............

ab malik bhai saab ne ek theek baat khi hai ye
ager muslim desh ke liye itne hi katarnaak hai tho
exmple ke lie sonia ji
ab aap sab sonia ji ke bare main kya khana choge

 

[bagamalik]

Keun Duniya mein sabsay jayada Muslim aatankvaadi hai ?

Keu yea kesee bhee dharm key sath milker nahi rehpaatey.

Shiya or sunnee hee eak dusrey ko nahi sehan ker patey fir oroo kee baat kaya.

Keu aaj bhee crime mein yea sabsay aagey hai.

Or Bhai jahan tak bhai- behan ka sawal hai yea Chacha, Mama kee betiyeo say bhee saade ker saktey hai fir is restey kee eahmiyat kaya hai.

Mere aapna anubhav hai kee inkey mata-pita baake sabhee dharmo say jayada dukhee rehtey hai. Kam say kam 10 parivaroo mey mera aana - jana tha jo kee sirf isliyea band kiya hai kee yea aapney ma-baap ko bhee theek dhang say nahi rakh paatey to or kaya umeed kee ja sakti hai.

Bhai saari duniya kehti hai kee jahan muslims hain wahan hinsa jarur hai.

Sir i think you are RIGHT