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aryasatyadev
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Rishton ko kasauti par mat kaso, rishton ko rishte rahne do, imtehan lene se aap pareshna honge
आजमाइश बेहतर है भ्रम में जीने से
कुछ टूटेगे दुःख भी होगा जानते है
पर जो बचहेगे वो कितने मज़बूत होग्गे
होग्गे शायद एक दो ही भल्ले
पर दिल के कितने करीब होग्गे
कुछ टूटेगे दुःख भी होगा जानते है
पर जो बचहेगे वो कितने मज़बूत होग्गे
होग्गे शायद एक दो ही भल्ले
पर दिल के कितने करीब होग्गे
rishton ko kasauti par mat kaso, rishton ko rishte rahne do, imtehan lene se aap pareshna honge
aryasatyadev
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kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahaan pe
do pal milte hain saath saath chalte hain
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hain
yahaan sab apne hi dhun mein deewaane hain
kare wohi jo apna dil theek maane hain
kaun kisko pooche kaun kisko bole
sabke labon par apne taraane hain
le jaaye naseeb kisko kahaan pe
kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahaan pe
khwabon ki yeh duniya hai khwabon mein hi rehna hai
raahen le jaayen jahaan sang sang chalna hai
waqt ne hamesha yahaan naye khel khelen
kuch bhi ho jaaye yahaan bas khush rehna hai
manzil lage kareeb sabko yahaan pe
kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahaan pe
do pal milte hain saath saath chalte hain
jab mod aaye toh bach ke nikalte hain
yahaan sab apne hi dhun mein deewaane hain
kare wohi jo apna dil theek maane hain
kaun kisko pooche kaun kisko bole
sabke labon par apne taraane hain
le jaaye naseeb kisko kahaan pe
kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahaan pe
khwabon ki yeh duniya hai khwabon mein hi rehna hai
raahen le jaayen jahaan sang sang chalna hai
waqt ne hamesha yahaan naye khel khelen
kuch bhi ho jaaye yahaan bas khush rehna hai
manzil lage kareeb sabko yahaan pe
kitne ajeeb rishte hain yahaan pe
aryasatyadev
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Haath chhoote bhi to rishte nahin chhodaa karte
waqt kii shaakh se lamhe nahin todaa karte
jis kii aavaaz mein silvat ho nigaahon men shikan
aisi tasveer ke tukde nahin jodaa karte
shahad jeene ka mila karta hai thodaa thodaa
jaane vaalon ke liye dil nahin thodaa karte
lag ke saahil se jo bahtaa hai use bahne do
aisi dariya ka kabhi rukh nahin modaa karate
malikseema
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No one feels another's grief ,no one understands another's joy.....
.People imagine they can reach one another............
In reality they only pass each other by.
malikseema
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I can't help it detesting my relations........
I suppose it comes from the fact that none of us can stand other people having the same faults as ourselves..........
I suppose it comes from the fact that none of us can stand other people having the same faults as ourselves..........
aryasatyadev
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No one feels another's grief ,no one understands another's joy.....
People imagine they can reach one another............
In reality they only pass each other by.
Seema Ji, Rishte aapko aage badhate hain, Jinda rakhte hain, Jinda rahne ka bahana dete hain, Apke chehre ki muskurahat hain rishte, aapke sir ka taaz hain rishte.......... socho agar rishte naa hon to hum kya jungle ko chhod ke bahar nikal sakte the.......
malikseema
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I agree with u satya ji.....but rishton mein hi dhoka milta hai....as jiss par hum yakken karte hain wohi aapka yakken tod dete hain.
Rishte hi Rulate hain ......Rishtey hi chhere par kabhi mayusii late hain....
its just the........attachment of relations which makes u strong n weak.
I may sound depressing n negative here but its the second side of coin.......i do belive in relations n very devoted to mine ones......but still u cant deny the DHOKA in relations n that too by the near ones.
Arya ji,
Rishte agar aapko jungle se laye toh wapas jungle mein bhej bhi sakte hai!!
Remember the discussion on another thread about EXPECTATIONS being at the root of disappointments/ unhappiness!!! Par kya kare, jaan hai toh expectations hai auro se ya apne aap se!!
Rishte agar aapko jungle se laye toh wapas jungle mein bhej bhi sakte hai!!
Remember the discussion on another thread about EXPECTATIONS being at the root of disappointments/ unhappiness!!! Par kya kare, jaan hai toh expectations hai auro se ya apne aap se!!
i wrote this long time back...........
RISHTAE NAATE RISHTAE NAATE
KAHNE KO YE HE DIL KI BAATE
PAR YE RISHTAE NAATE HI TO HE
JO HAANSI ME HAMARI MILAKAR AAPNI HANSI
KHILKHILATAE HE
TO KABHI ROTO KO CHATI SE LAGAKAR
SANTWANA DE JAATE HE
INHI RISHTE NAATO KI BADOLAUT GARMI KI CHOOTHION ME
NANA NANI KE GAHR JAANE KE LIYE DIN GINE JAATE HE
DADA DADI SE BATE KARKE TUTLATE HE YE RISHTE NAATE
MA SI LAGTI HE MAUSI AUR CHACHA KI SHAADI
ME GHODI PAR CHADKAR LENE JATE HE CHACHI YE RISHTAE NAATE
RO RO KAR BANDH JAYE JAB HICHKI
TO MA KI LORI BANKAR SULA JAATE HE YE RISHTAE NAATAE
PAPA SE APNE JID MANVANE KO ASOO DIKHAKAR AD JAATE HE YE RISHTAE NAATE
YE NAATE JO DEEWANA BANA KAR KISI KA MAHFIL ME YAAD DILAKAR
USKI RULATE HE TO KABHI AKELE ME HAASATE HE BENAM HOKAR BHI
YE RISHTE NAATE
YE NAATE JO SAAT PHERO KE SANG JUDKAR AGNI KE SAMAKSH ARDHANGINI BANA JATE HE
YE NAATE JO HOLI KE RAANGO KE SAANG DEVAR BUNKAR BHABHI KO CHED JAATE HE TO KABHI DIDI KI SHAADI ME SALI BANKAR JIJA SE APNE TAKRAR MITHI SI KAR JAATE HE
HOTE NA AGAR YE RISHTE NAATE
KAHTE HUM KINSE OR KARTE KAISE
HUK SE YE DIL KI BATE HAR MOL SE UPAR ANMOL HE YE RIHTAE NAATE
RISHTAE NAATE RISHTAE NAATE
KAHNE KO YE HE DIL KI BAATE
PAR YE RISHTAE NAATE HI TO HE
JO HAANSI ME HAMARI MILAKAR AAPNI HANSI
KHILKHILATAE HE
TO KABHI ROTO KO CHATI SE LAGAKAR
SANTWANA DE JAATE HE
INHI RISHTE NAATO KI BADOLAUT GARMI KI CHOOTHION ME
NANA NANI KE GAHR JAANE KE LIYE DIN GINE JAATE HE
DADA DADI SE BATE KARKE TUTLATE HE YE RISHTE NAATE
MA SI LAGTI HE MAUSI AUR CHACHA KI SHAADI
ME GHODI PAR CHADKAR LENE JATE HE CHACHI YE RISHTAE NAATE
RO RO KAR BANDH JAYE JAB HICHKI
TO MA KI LORI BANKAR SULA JAATE HE YE RISHTAE NAATAE
PAPA SE APNE JID MANVANE KO ASOO DIKHAKAR AD JAATE HE YE RISHTAE NAATE
YE NAATE JO DEEWANA BANA KAR KISI KA MAHFIL ME YAAD DILAKAR
USKI RULATE HE TO KABHI AKELE ME HAASATE HE BENAM HOKAR BHI
YE RISHTE NAATE
YE NAATE JO SAAT PHERO KE SANG JUDKAR AGNI KE SAMAKSH ARDHANGINI BANA JATE HE
YE NAATE JO HOLI KE RAANGO KE SAANG DEVAR BUNKAR BHABHI KO CHED JAATE HE TO KABHI DIDI KI SHAADI ME SALI BANKAR JIJA SE APNE TAKRAR MITHI SI KAR JAATE HE
HOTE NA AGAR YE RISHTE NAATE
KAHTE HUM KINSE OR KARTE KAISE
HUK SE YE DIL KI BATE HAR MOL SE UPAR ANMOL HE YE RIHTAE NAATE
aryasatyadev
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I agree with u satya ji.....but rishton mein hi dhoka milta hai....as jiss par hum yakken karte hain wohi aapka yakken tod dete hain.
Rishte hi Rulate hain ......Rishtey hi chhere par kabhi mayusii late hain....
its just the........attachment of relations which makes u strong n weak.
I may sound depressing n negative here but its the second side of coin.......i do belive in relations n very devoted to mine ones......but still u cant deny the DHOKA in relations n that too by the near ones.
Sachhi baat hai ki bharosha hi dhokhe ki niv banta hai or bharosha karne ke liye pahle relation devlop hona jaroori hai...so hum 99% riston me hi dhokha khate hai..kyu ki rista nahin hoga to faith nahin banega..or faith nahin banega to dhokhe ka saval hi nahin...! Kabhi kabhi Log (people), dhoke se rishte banate hain kabhi kabhi rishte me dhokha karte hain,,, rishtey bana lo,, and develop warmth and effection, with purity and with love and effection,,, shed ego's and show your feelings,, we should develop and try to maintain......
aryasatyadev
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Which one do you endorse Ritu ji......
for me it is second which is close to my heart.......
aur in dono situations me mental state bahut hi different hogi.jungle me akele rahna aur bahar aake fer jungle me akela rahne me
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second one is still close to my heart .....i wrote it 10 yrs back.its still true for me for all the relationships i mentioned in it.
vineetaenator
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I guess its just ur perspective ….wat I feel is first u need to be comfortable with urself .I mean self love is first love….In this world most of the ppl don’t understand that its not being a selfish……. Be selfish to seek happiness .Love ur company first..connect with urself .If you ask anyone how much u feel loved in my presence then there is no love….there is judgment…….where is judgment there is no love….you will always be unhappy if u will depend on outer world…..No one can make u happy or sad its just depend on u wat u want to be
Whenever you enjoy something, you are in tune with yourself and you are in tune with the universe--because your center is the center of all.So let this small insight be a climate for you: do only that which you enjoy, otherwise stop
.Love ur company first..connect with urself .If you ask anyone how much u feel loved in my presence then there is no love….there is judgment…….where is judgment there is no love….you will always be unhappy if u will depend on outer world…..No one can make u happy or sad its just depend on u wat u want to be Whenever you enjoy something, you are in tune with yourself and you are in tune with the universe--because your center is the center of all.So let this small insight be a climate for you: do only that which you enjoy, otherwise stop
akshaymalik84
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I guess its just ur perspective ….wat I feel is first u need to be comfortable with urself .I mean self love is first love….In this world most of the ppl don’t understand that its not being a selfish……. Be selfish to seek happiness
Whenever you enjoy something, you are in tune with yourself and you are in tune with the universe--because your center is the center of all.So let this small insight be a climate for you: do only that which you enjoy, otherwise stop
Rightly said!
As Mother teresa said,"If you judge people, you have no time to love them"
We always keep analysing our relationships from start to end .......ye hota to ye hota.....agar aise karte to ye acha hota....and we end up messing all the things.
Rahi baat dhokhe ki...........to mostly duniya Pyar mai hi dhokha khati hai(my opinion).....or jab pyar kiya hi tha......to dhokha kaisa........I think love is unconditional!
is baat pe kuch yaad aaya...........sayad kabhi-kabhi movie ka hai.....
kabhii kabhii mere dil mein Kayaal aataa hai
ki zindagii terii zulfon kii narm chhaaon mein
guzarane paatii to shaadaab ho bhii sakatii thii
yah tiraagii jo mere ziist kaa mukaddar hai
terii nazar kii shuaaNo mein kho bhii sakatii thii
magar ye ho na sakaa
magar ye ho na sakaa aur ab ye aalam hai
ki tuu nahiin, teraa Gama, terii justuzuu bhii nahiin
guzar rahii hai kuchh is tarah zindagii jaise
ise kisii ke sahaare kii aarazuu bhii nahiin
zamaane bhar ke dukhon ko lagaa chukaa huuN gale
guzar rahaa huuN kuchh anajaanii rahaguzaaron se
muhiib saaye merii simat bharate aate hain
hayaat-o-maut ke par-haal khaar-zaaron se
na koii jadaa, na mannzile, na roshanii kaa suraag
bhaTak rahii hai Kayaalon men zi.dagii merii
inhiin Kayaalon mein rah jaauuNgaa kabhii kho kara
main jaanataa huuN mere ham-nafasa, magar yuuN hiin
kabhii kabhii mere dil mein Kayaal aataa hai
Again i would like to say, if we can not love the person whom we see[with whom we have spent so much time(Good or bad) in any relation], will we be able to love the GOD, whom we can not see.....can not ignore.....and we always on our knees before GOD when we are at our lowest.....trying to save us and our beloved ones (RISHTEY).....
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