Which one u choose?

aryasatyadev said:
Pls, throw a little more light on the words in red.... so that you get better replies and everybody benefits from that
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Kids m talking about those who will never grow up as per parents thoughts and perceptions b'coz they always have one good statement to speak out "ki humne umr khaayi hai, tum abhi bacche ho.....baat maan liya karo"

Thoughts of single person and that of couple.......

........single person can be between 18 to 32 years of age as after that I dont think children listen to their parents if any argument takes place. (Rest, m not sure what is that exact phase of life when a child stops listening to his/her parents)

........thoughts of couple (parents bounded in old customs and traditions) are such that they never try to give some space to their children to breathe and let them feel themselves whether it was healthy or not.
 
In my opinion, Option of Family Life is best, Because when you are facing problem, only family members are always with you (in most of the cases)


choudharyneelam said:
Which one you choose out of the two and why?
  1. To live as single
  2. To live married life
Which one you choose out of two and why?
  1. Friends company/ur own social group
  2. Family life
I just want to know the replies as because of these two different options in our life we disturb one or the other at times.

So, how to make a balance between the two.
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PAWANCHAUDHARY said:
In my opinion, Option of Family Life is best, Because when you are facing problem, only family members are always with you (in most of the cases)
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Sorry, I can never agree on this statement....My mother is such a strong lady who always maintained her mental/emotional balance and also proved to be a good support to my father....though my father also supported her with all immediate steps whenver required and there was nobody to support them (we were just little kids when we seen all the difficult phases of life in a family which can never be wiped out from our memories).

They really have big heart that even after facing all difficulties and suffering all the pain they still can forgive people and helping same people. But as a child I still have hate feelings somewhere, only a formality left behind just because of parents.

From all those experiences only I learnt a person is lucky if his/her spouse is good as ancestors dont remain with you for whole life.

So, Mr. Pawan you can say.......family member but not family members
 
choudharyneelam said:
Sorry, I can never agree on this statement....My mother is such a strong lady who always maintained her mental/emotional balance and also proved to be a good support to my father....though my father also supported her with all immediate steps whenver required and there was nobody to support them (we were just little kids when we seen all the difficult phases of life in a family which can never be wiped out from our memories).

They really have big heart that even after facing all difficulties and suffering all the pain they still can forgive people and helping same people. But as a child I still have hate feelings somewhere, only a formality left behind just because of parents.

From all those experiences only I learnt a person is lucky if his/her spouse is good as ancestors dont remain with you for whole life.

So, Mr. Pawan you can say.......family member but not family members
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Neelam, when we are kids we think that whatever our parents are doing is good and there is nothing better than that, but this feeling remain with us till we reach 15 years of age..... after that we persume that whatever our parents are doing is wrong and nobody can do worse than this, and this feeling sadly persists till 30 years of age..... during this time we try to oppose all the decision taken by our parents.... but at this time our parents are in the age bracket of 40 - 55 years and they are in the process of trying to get back what they had lost during the second phase by arguing with thei parents and brothers and sisters and relatives so they try to forgive and forgot the whole incident for wich we as "young people" have only hate in our heart.....
That is the only reason why the parents says that "You are still a child and will not understand" because by saying so they are trying to avoid a possible confrontation, which from their own experience they know will lead to nowhere except some broken hearts and heartburns....
 
aryasatyadev said:
Neelam, when we are kids we think that whatever our parents are doing is good and there is nothing better than that, but this feeling remain with us till we reach 15 years of age..... after that we persume that whatever our parents are doing is wrong and nobody can do worse than this, and this feeling sadly persists till 30 years of age..... during this time we try to oppose all the decision taken by our parents.... but at this time our parents are in the age bracket of 40 - 55 years and they are in the process of trying to get back what they had lost during the second phase by arguing with thei parents and brothers and sisters and relatives so they try to forgive and forgot the whole incident for wich we as "young people" have only hate in our heart.....
That is the only reason why the parents says that "You are still a child and will not understand" because by saying so they are trying to avoid a possible confrontation, which from their own experience they know will lead to nowhere except some broken hearts and heartburns....
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Sir, your explanation is good. :)

Though its true to some extent but if I take it personally (in relation to the reply given to Mr. Pawan) then I would only say that what all you organised/disposed to explain me stands wrong in our case.

Rest, I don't want to say more as its all personal.
 
choudharyneelam said:
Which one you choose out of the two and why?
  1. To live as single
  2. To live married life
Which one you choose out of two and why?
  1. Friends company/ur own social group
  2. Family life
I just want to know the replies as because of these two different options in our life we disturb one or the other at times.

So, how to make a balance between the two.
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Answer to first question is married life
reason : Everyone needs a companian in his/her life. Life without life partener is not complete. You have someone to share your joy and griefs of life. These happy moments are because of him/her.

Answer to second question is Family life with friends. Friends also becomes your part of life. you also need them. You replied yourself your first question . why we need friends ? life partner is also friend a special friend.
 
deepshi said:
Akeley aye they akeley jaana hai
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:oक्या बात दीपसी जी ...जिंदगी से इतनी नाराज क्यूँ है ,
..........जाना तो अकेला ही पड़ता और आपके साथ कोण जायेगा :rock
 
choudharyneelam said:
Which one you choose out of the two and why?
  1. To live as single
  2. To live married life
Which one you choose out of two and why?
  1. Friends company/ur own social group
  2. Family life
I just want to know the replies as because of these two different options in our life we disturb one or the other at times.

So, how to make a balance between the two.
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Person will never Happy.........When he/she live single. He/She want to marry. When married with someone........he/she feels when was not married.....I was more Happy than today.....So be happy in every condition and every step of life. Never Complains about what you have.


arrr woh kahya kare na Dada barge log

"KAALE SAR AALE KA KADE NA BHARE"
 
Actually your love for beer made me recalled Dennis Ritchie
Creator of C and UNIX. If you remove these two from
computing world nothing much left. And I heard this Genius
lived just on beer for a week and wrote initial version
of UNIX. All other OS just inspired by UNIX only.


"Dennis Ritchie is twice as bright as Steve Jobs, and only half wrong."
- Jim Gettys

i think Steve Jobs is twice as bright as Bill Gates.

btw how could you enjoy beer in Jaipur(me born and brought up there) unless you have converted
your fridge into a beer kegerator. Otherwise if you really want to enjoy
it go to Paris or Holland.
 
so right......
Lavisha said:
U cant chose, There is no choice as such !

These all are dif stages of life , but at diff point of life u want all and every one of them..... U need Family , U need frends , u need someone who loves u and sometimes u just wana be single , a freak !
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rajivsp said:
btw how could you enjoy beer in Jaipur(me born and brought up there) unless you have converted your fridge into a beer kegerator. Otherwise if you really want to enjoy it go to Paris or Holland.
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Paris or Holland for beer:confused::confused::confused::confused: There is no beer place like Germany, Munchen's oktoberfest, Heidelberg's beer festivals. Germans are famous for their beers. I wouldn't call Heineken a beer compared to what is available in Germany.
 
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