Resolutions!!!
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rajkphogat
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akshaymalik84
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Hi all,
Any new year resolution(s) for 2010, that you would like to share on good old JL? (Irrespective
of how long the resolutions would last)
My new year resolution- not to sweat the small stuff and crappy people.....
Thanks
A new years resolution is like an infatuation, first you work hard on it then you loose interest.
Thinking for 2010 ....I, me, mine
Bina matlab jane, accha keh diya, dhanyawad.
Bhavaarth hai-
Not to worry about trivial/little/unimportant things and mean/vulgar/cheap/contemptible people.
Baki aap google kar ke vistaar mein jaan sakte hai inn shabdo ka arth.
Bhavaarth hai-
Not to worry about trivial/little/unimportant things and mean/vulgar/cheap/contemptible people.
Baki aap google kar ke vistaar mein jaan sakte hai inn shabdo ka arth.
rajkphogat
Banned
Oh teri k
Resolution kiya to bhi mean/vulgar/cheap/contemptible people k liye- Achhe admiyan ki kami thi k :rock:rock:rock
Acche logon kii kami nahin hai, issiliye toh cchoti soch wale logon ke taraf dhyan dene ki zaroorat nahin......
akshaymalik84
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sunillathwal
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Few yrs back, i made a resolution of never make any resolution thereafter... and i never did. Take as it comes, come what may!!
ravinderjeet
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akshay yo to bhai cutkalaa ban gyaa.haansi rokey tein bhee naa rooki.
rajkphogat
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Aki tere vichar te yaar merlya te bhot milan laggey, Vichar b kapi marey se k .
Mai bhi kai dina te yo thread shuru karan ki sochu tha par har baar nu soch ki reh jaan tha ek mere is thread me Tere siva kham kha k comment kun dega????????????
rajkphogat
Banned
Acche logon kii kami nahin hai, issiliye toh cchoti soch wale logon ke taraf dhyan dene ki zaroorat nahin......
Bus itni chij k liye resolution kar dala
Acha hai par kachha hai ye.
brahmtewatia
Active member
you can feel shy as many times you like, for so many other reasons... ensure you are n'vr bitten again !!!My new year resolution- not to sweat the small stuff and crappy people.....
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i dont have any resolutions this year, i dont keep them any more ! cos m sick n tired of those broken resolutions. but yaaa few wishes for the year 2010.
sudeepdular
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Anjoo.....that‘s the only problem....Not to worry! Because when you think not to worry you actually worry. The only way to enjoy the life and its episode is to become a watcher, a spectator....become a witness to your surroundings. The moment you say this is bad or this is good you tend to become judgemental by indulging in thought process. When there is a thought, there is no serenity. Mind itself is a very energy consumer. Have you ever noticed when a person falls on the road, we laugh. Why... it’s because we witness that fall, and enjoy the scene rather than indulging in thought. The moment you say..Ohh bechara gir gaya...! The fun part is gone! Once i was in a GD and said something controversial, the entire group went against me with their criticism. And at the end of that GD someone asked me that everyone was against you, why you were so calm and unaffected. I said i was enjoying everyone’s comments; I was witnessing each and every argument rather than thinking. Thinking is very tiring. I get tired when i think. So i avoid thinking too much and speak spontaneously. The wider the gap of witness and mind.... the lesser the gap of your happiness with your consciousness. As someone has aptly said-“How simple "laws of attraction" can be converted to rocket science” isn’t it.
So what you can do next time when you come across any trivial/little/unimportant things and mean/vulgar/cheap/contemptible people, let them cross before your eyes, don’t shut your eyes; become the witness of their existence.As far as resolution is concerned.... it requires the brain to think, to plan, to adherence and discipline! Isn’t worrisome? Why should I reinforce this burden on me that too voluntarily.9 to 5 job is not enough...?
Yup..hail saint Sudeep ur rightAnjoo.....that‘s the only problem....Not to worry! Because when you think not to worry you actually worry. The only way to enjoy the life and its episode is to become a watcher, a spectator....become a witness to your surroundings. The moment you say this is bad or this is good you tend to become judgemental by indulging in thought process. When there is a thought, there is no serenity. Mind itself is a very energy consumer. Have you ever noticed when a person falls on the road, we laugh. Why... it’s because we witness that fall, and enjoy the scene rather than indulging in thought. The moment you say..Ohh bechara gir gaya...! The fun part is gone! Once i was in a GD and said something controversial, the entire group went against me with their criticism. And at the end of that GD someone asked me that everyone was against you, why you were so calm and unaffected. I said i was enjoying everyone’s comments; I was witnessing each and every argument rather than thinking. Thinking is very tiring. I get tired when i think. So i avoid thinking too much and speak spontaneously. The wider the gap of witness and mind.... the lesser the gap of your happiness with your consciousness. As someone has aptly said-“How simple "laws of attraction" can be converted to rocket science” isn’t it.
As far as resolution is concerned.... it requires the brain to think, to plan, to adherence and discipline! Isn’t worrisome? Why should I reinforce this burden on me that too voluntarily.9 to 5 job is not enough...?
used to deal with people at work..other colleagues used to fume over the customers and take it personally, but I found them interesting.
Used to say..uve got either good customers or amusing customers haha..the more irate or mad he/she was, ((which was quite rare) the more fun it was, coz I knew they were cursing the product, and not us
n err...sometimes my colleagues accused me of being detached
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sudeepdular
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hahaha deepshikha.... even if they are cursing you...they are giving more importance to you rather then product.
hahaha deepshikha.... even if they are cursing you...they are giving more importance to you rather then product.
the irony is they never did and sometimes said "yeah I know its shooting the messenger" or "not personally you but them"..n I nodded n was like "yeah yeah..hear ya,,but cant comment haha"
Appreciate your advice, thanks.
Anjoo.....that‘s the only problem....Not to worry! Because when you think not to worry you actually worry. The only way to enjoy the life and its episode is to become a watcher, a spectator....become a witness to your surroundings. The moment you say this is bad or this is good you tend to become judgemental by indulging in thought process. When there is a thought, there is no serenity. Mind itself is a very energy consumer. Have you ever noticed when a person falls on the road, we laugh. Why... it’s because we witness that fall, and enjoy the scene rather than indulging in thought. The moment you say..Ohh bechara gir gaya...! The fun part is gone! Once i was in a GD and said something controversial, the entire group went against me with their criticism. And at the end of that GD someone asked me that everyone was against you, why you were so calm and unaffected. I said i was enjoying everyone’s comments; I was witnessing each and every argument rather than thinking. Thinking is very tiring. I get tired when i think. So i avoid thinking too much and speak spontaneously. The wider the gap of witness and mind.... the lesser the gap of your happiness with your consciousness. As someone has aptly said-“How simple "laws of attraction" can be converted to rocket science” isn’t it.
As far as resolution is concerned.... it requires the brain to think, to plan, to adherence and discipline! Isn’t worrisome? Why should I reinforce this burden on me that too voluntarily.9 to 5 job is not enough...?