upendersingh
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Will be using Vishal's post for further comments:
इस से पहले में अपने मन की बात कहूँ, में कुछ बाते कहना चाहता हूँ, जो सभी JL members को भी दिखाई पड़ती हैं
1. You an emotional and good hearted person - Emotional aur goodheartedness has become more of male thing it seems. Girls are taking advantage of it.
2. You are an open person - this openness may be branded as your weakness by the girl. and she will resent your sharing your life on a public dashboard if you let her know about this.
3. You are courages but not rebel without cause - She'll never come to you unless you've risen to a status of her father or more.
4. You are a sensitive person, not just sensitive alone but also a thinking and intelligent person who analysis his life and actions in a broad spectrum. - She does not care about you. She's never even called you. Your love and care is one sided. I think she does not even think of you.
5. You tend to chart your own path, an explorer who lives life on his terms without antagonizing others, even though some of them you and family may have termed as mistake (e.g. quitting studies at the age of 17), but many things were right - Improve your life. Do the 400-500 dand baithaks again. Explore further life. Happy people are liked by all and happiness is the best cure to gain anything. Unhappiness and Devdas attitude only takes people to sympathy and pity.
6. Even when you made mistakes, you have the "wisdom" to see the mistakes, "courage" to accept/confront it and the "resilience" to bounce back. I truly respect such people. - Be strong and the world will fall in line. lament and no one will even bother. Even continued lamenting will be bother for your sympathiser's eventually.
Note: I am not disagreeing with Vishal here. Just using his post.
P.S.: If the girl had been a Jat girl, i think the situation would have been a bit different.
Amit, she is 33+. Generally, girls don't remain unmarried till this age. Since last 5 years I have been continuously watching her from the distance. Status is not a problem now. I can train her in editing, proofreading, translation etc. I can provide her a lot of work to do at home. If they have 10 rs. property I too have 7 rs. property. Not a big difference. Actually problem is not this that I threaten them. I am not any mafia don and they are not so weak. Actually if hardwork, good deeds, austerity have any effect, then I am surely going to win this battle. Look at the period mate, 13 years of self control. Do you think that it is a co-incidence that I am talking such crazy stuffs here and there she is single yet? It can't be a co-incidence. What about the knowledge I have got in my mind. Had your friend too got such knowledge in his mind? Read the lines below I got in my mind.
This world has some rules to follow. One of these rules is that if all are given hapiness here then what will those be given who work hard. And if hard worker is given happiest life here then what will that person be given who will also perform austerity (penance).
Understand this with this example:
There is a landlord who has 1000 acres of land and has employed thousands of workers to work in that land. Some workers work hard for 2 hours, some for 4 hours, some 6, and so on. Now who should be given more salary? If the landlord gives 3000 Rs. to all then they will oppose who work hard for more than 2 hours. So landlord will have to give the salary according to the hard work. 3000 rs. to 2 hours, 6000 to 4 hours and so on.
This whole world (earth) is like a 1000 acre land. The creater of this world is (some invisible power or god) is employer or lord of this unniverse and we are workers here. Who will be best here he will be given best.
These are some of the points. I have a lot more. I am following these rules. Do you think that abovewritten lines are just logicless and foolish thoughts? If it is so then what do you think about this world? Do you think this world has no rules? If yes, then what are your thoughts about life? Is hardwork, self control, austerity etc. rubbish?
But yes, I agree. Anything may happen. The guarantee of my success is 50.1%, but 49.9 % chances are also there. I have gone far in river. To cross it is easy or not, but coming back is surely tougher and foolishness. If I had to come back, I should have thought about it 8-9 years ago. Now I can't come back, mate. I succeed or fail, I can't.
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