Honey, Its all about love: Romantic Pyar ke Nyare Nyare Kisse

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Will be using Vishal's post for further comments:

इस से पहले में अपने मन की बात कहूँ, में कुछ बाते कहना चाहता हूँ, जो सभी JL members को भी दिखाई पड़ती हैं

1. You an emotional and good hearted person - Emotional aur goodheartedness has become more of male thing it seems. Girls are taking advantage of it.

2. You are an open person - this openness may be branded as your weakness by the girl. and she will resent your sharing your life on a public dashboard if you let her know about this.

3. You are courages but not rebel without cause - She'll never come to you unless you've risen to a status of her father or more.

4. You are a sensitive person, not just sensitive alone but also a thinking and intelligent person who analysis his life and actions in a broad spectrum. - She does not care about you. She's never even called you. Your love and care is one sided. I think she does not even think of you.

5. You tend to chart your own path, an explorer who lives life on his terms without antagonizing others, even though some of them you and family may have termed as mistake (e.g. quitting studies at the age of 17), but many things were right - Improve your life. Do the 400-500 dand baithaks again. Explore further life. Happy people are liked by all and happiness is the best cure to gain anything. Unhappiness and Devdas attitude only takes people to sympathy and pity.

6. Even when you made mistakes, you have the "wisdom" to see the mistakes, "courage" to accept/confront it and the "resilience" to bounce back. I truly respect such people. - Be strong and the world will fall in line. lament and no one will even bother. Even continued lamenting will be bother for your sympathiser's eventually.

Note: I am not disagreeing with Vishal here. Just using his post.
P.S.: If the girl had been a Jat girl, i think the situation would have been a bit different.


Amit, she is 33+. Generally, girls don't remain unmarried till this age. Since last 5 years I have been continuously watching her from the distance. Status is not a problem now. I can train her in editing, proofreading, translation etc. I can provide her a lot of work to do at home. If they have 10 rs. property I too have 7 rs. property. Not a big difference. Actually problem is not this that I threaten them. I am not any mafia don and they are not so weak. Actually if hardwork, good deeds, austerity have any effect, then I am surely going to win this battle. Look at the period mate, 13 years of self control. Do you think that it is a co-incidence that I am talking such crazy stuffs here and there she is single yet? It can't be a co-incidence. What about the knowledge I have got in my mind. Had your friend too got such knowledge in his mind? Read the lines below I got in my mind.

This world has some rules to follow. One of these rules is that if all are given hapiness here then what will those be given who work hard. And if hard worker is given happiest life here then what will that person be given who will also perform austerity (penance).
Understand this with this example:
There is a landlord who has 1000 acres of land and has employed thousands of workers to work in that land. Some workers work hard for 2 hours, some for 4 hours, some 6, and so on. Now who should be given more salary? If the landlord gives 3000 Rs. to all then they will oppose who work hard for more than 2 hours. So landlord will have to give the salary according to the hard work. 3000 rs. to 2 hours, 6000 to 4 hours and so on.
This whole world (earth) is like a 1000 acre land. The creater of this world is (some invisible power or god) is employer or lord of this unniverse and we are workers here. Who will be best here he will be given best.

These are some of the points. I have a lot more. I am following these rules. Do you think that abovewritten lines are just logicless and foolish thoughts? If it is so then what do you think about this world? Do you think this world has no rules? If yes, then what are your thoughts about life? Is hardwork, self control, austerity etc. rubbish?
But yes, I agree. Anything may happen. The guarantee of my success is 50.1%, but 49.9 % chances are also there. I have gone far in river. To cross it is easy or not, but coming back is surely tougher and foolishness. If I had to come back, I should have thought about it 8-9 years ago. Now I can't come back, mate. I succeed or fail, I can't.
 
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Naa Ravinder bhai .... iska matlab yoh hai ki har jeev mein pyaar bhara hai..... usko express karann ka tareeka nyaara s.... Ebb iss kutruuuu ne dekho........ baaki kuutru to maalik ne jeebh tein chaat ke.... ya fer pooochhdd hila ke pyaar dikhaawein s.... lekin iss ne apne "i love you" bolna e seekh liya......

Er aap ka aur Bhabhi ji ka "I love you" aala kissa bahut sahi s.... asli Jaat aala tareeka. Keep it up !

re jhakoi yo ke dikhaa diyaa ,eeh kaa matalab to yo s ak mahaare tein to kuttey bhi aachhey.
 
Naa Ravinder bhai .... iska matlab yoh hai ki har jeev mein pyaar bhara hai..... usko express karann ka tareeka nyaara s.... Ebb iss kutruuuu ne dekho........ baaki kuutru to maalik ne jeebh tein chaat ke.... ya fer pooochhdd hila ke pyaar dikhaawein s.... lekin iss ne apne "i love you" bolna e seekh liya......

Ek baat ko samghne ke do pehlu..Sakaratmak aur nakaratmak ;)
 
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i agree completely...with this quote..sir aap te isse comment ki umeed na thi ...i thought this thread was about love ,not infidelity.

Ritu ji, I have simply tried to expose the hypocrisy of pseudo moralists in a lighter and oblique vein. It is upto you which way you interpret. People would do every damn thing but give sermons of morality to others. This is the order of the day.

PS: Will not be able to write more on this thread due to some constraints. Have decided to sign off here itself.
 
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Sunita ji,

I did not get the significance of the example you quoted.You find the declaration of affection by a guy on JL as छिछोरे प्यार के प्रदर्शन, yet you support and admire the post by UKNOWHO with public declaration and finer details?(Not to forget that the guy on JL married the girl of his affections, so we can safely say that the relationship involved TWO people and not ONE, and the affections were MUTUAL).

एक तरफ आप विचार और विचारधाराये बदलने में विश्वास रखती है, and on the other side you object to questions that go against the popular mandate...questions that you realize are valid enough to discourage a member to post freely...:)

Anyways, my sincere apologies that I digressed from the topic of Romeo and Juliet, assumptions, imaginations,delusions, obsessions...errrr....LOVE!!!

Regards
VP Ji unka byah horya hai arr ek baalak bi ho rya hai....ye gaatha likhne ka mera tatparya yahi tha ke kise ke kaam mai taang manna adao....

Anjoo- Mujhe nahi lagta ki meri assumptions galat hain Upender Ji ke expressions ke bare mein....na hi aisa prateet hota ki cheap publicity ke liye unhone ye likha hoga.....so due respect to his feelings n expression of the same should be given. Jaisa ki maine apne prasang mein imagine karke likha jo ki sirf example tha ;)....waise hi unhoney bhi soch-samajh ke hi likha hai< ye meri assumption nahi hai. Warna log likh-likh ke panne bhar dete.

Ab iss baat ko humey itna tool nahi dena chahiye ke ek worthy member aage se kuch likhne se pahle 100 baar sochey aur himmat karke likh bhi dey to baar baar editing mein itna time kharch karde ki last mein frustrate ho kar "DELETE" ka khattka daab dey:o aur irritate ho kai ye kahe- Issi-tissi karao konya likhta mai....aur sabki tarah korrey swaad lyunga....then we'll be left only with READERS n n WRITERS....its good to have people like Upender who don't pretend to be what they are not and we force them to be what we want them to be:o
P.S.- Jahan tak mujhe samajh aaya ye thread apni aap-beeti prem kahaniya likhne ke liya shuru kiya gaya tha...Naa ki kisi ney likh diya to usko cross question karne ya usko embarrassing situation mein dalne ke liye. Mujhe Upender Ji mein bachon jaisa bholapan nazar aaya....mujhe nahi pata meri ye assumption kahan tak theek hai
 
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Originally Posted by vpsingh

पत्नी नै भी बेरा था इब पति का भाजन का दर तो सै नहीं हांड फिर के आज्यागा घर नै . पत्नियाँ तो ताने देती रहती है, इनकी आदत होती है. दो चार बार डार्लिंग बोल दो खुश हो जाती हैं.
अब शरीफ आदमी को ज्यादा पन्ने खोलने पर मजबूर मत करो I फिलहाल कुछ ज्यादा याद नहीं आ रहा, याद आया तो जरूर share करूंगा किश्तों में.


VP Singh ji ab to aap puri baat bata he do...........sharmao mat kuch na hove aade, vaise bhi ya 18+ thread hai.......
aapke experience se hume kuch na kuch sikhne ko he milega.......... col. ki padahai to bot kar li ab is subject ki padhai bhi kar leva....
aap bus aan do aur bhi badiya badiya kisse...................
 
"This a masala thread for 18+ fun loving audience to share all things about romantic love."

Ye line is thread ki starting me likhi hai.
jo bhi JL member is thread me aaye vo pehle iska matlab samajh le fir koi reply kare.
main kuch dino se dekh raha hoon ki kuch members aise bhi hai jo yaha aakar cross questioning karte hain. bolte hain isne ye kuch likha, ye galat hai, vo galat hai etc etc....
to aapko samajhna chahiye ki sabki apni personal life hai jo vo karta hai karne do, aap bich me tang kyu adate ho?
agar kisi ko apni baat likhna sahi lagta hai to likhne do, jab use galat ni lagta to aap kyu faltu me yaha bol k apna time waste kyu karte ho......
agar itni he cross questioning karni hai to aur bahut se threads and sections hain waha ja kar dil khol k karo....

ye thread sirf isliye hai ki agar kisi ne apni love related bate share karni hai to dil khol k karo....
jaise Sunita ji likha ki "likhne wale k thread pe jyda questioning karoge ki ye ni likhna tha, naam kyu likha, aapne ye kyu kiya etc etc to vo bhi likhne se pehle 10 bar sochega, likh diya to edit karega, ya last me bolega ki delete karu su koni likhta kuch bhi"

to sabhi JL members se request hai ki is thread me aaye to aaram se aaye, padhe, koi apna kissa ho to likhe aur agar cross questioning k mood me ho to plz is thread se chup chap nikal le, yaha aakar jyda DADA ya DADI na bane........ itni samajhdari apne ghar pe dikhave na ki yaha..............


kisi ko bhi meri ye wordings achi na lagi ho to bhai sorry advance me lekin sab sach likha hai aur fir bhi koi na mana itna padh k to bhai k bolu uste besharm manas koni dharti pe.

Regards
 
hahhahahhahahhaha k baat aj sare k sare chup chap kyukar hain?
aaj koi apni love story e na likra...............k baat koi kanoon lagu hogya k is thread pe???????????????

ebbe is duniya me pyar mohabbat zinda hai bhai.....to kuch to likho...........sare k sare itne khamosh kyu baithe ho????????????????

bhai mera to koi kissa koni....mane to auro ki seva kari se aur milaye se.........
hahahahhahaaha
ek aadha kissa likhunga monday ne....
filhal to yo thread fir se aabad karna se........ kissa likhe ka fayda e k jab koi aave naga to...........
 
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Upender ji,

I respect how you feel and wish you all the best that you get what you desire. I gave you a woman's perspective that your beloved may not like it being mentioned about her and her family on a public forum. In fact, very few women would appreciate it. Sunita ji also gave an example from JL where the girl was unhappy when she found out that everyone knew about her affair on JL.

Regards

@anjoo

Thanks. Actually, whatever I have told here about her, that’s not enough to trace her. But, ok, I will not mention her name now. Actually when I tell about this whole story then I feel a bit uncomfortable if I don’t mention her name, but fine, no need.
I don’t know whether she is aware or not. No contact of any kind since 26.09.98. I keep doing turbo search on google for her, but never got anything related. Our relationship is not bad so I think no harm.
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tu likhe jaa..
aawaniya ki chinta na kar...

ye jo gaal bake sein ye sab bhi din mein 10 baar is thread ne dekhe sein.. ... hahahhaa...

is se related ek baat yaad aagi....

mere nanihaal mein ek baar ek balaji ke jaagran ka aayojan tha.....
jagran ne glamorous banaan khatar (ar thode pisse lagan khatar) ek naachan aali chhori bhi bula li...(orchestra type. team..)..

ibb pehlyan to wa chhori bhajan bhujan pe naachti rahi...
fer tere mere barge chhore bole, ek do filmy gaana pe bhi naach k dikha de..
fer wa chhori filmy gana pe naachan laag gi (koi ashlillta nahi.. simple dance)...
to bhai kuch budhe badere jo thode sharam kha re the we bole bhai hum chaale.. tham dekho ye naach.. arr ve chale gaye aapne aapne ghara...(kuch budhe baithe rahe)

ek budha baba tha.. wo kaambal odh ke baitha rha raat ne 2.30 baje tak.. sare dance k suwaad lete raha (nothing wrong in it )...
arr bhai wo 3 baje k kareeb tagda chho mein aakar bola...."ra tham is baandar naach ne band karo, mein sab khinda dunga ye thara tabela.."

arr dhamki si dekar usne wo program band karwa diya (it was going smoothly and many girls, women were watching/enjoying)..

ibb bhai budha baba tha.. baat to maan li uski sabne arr program band karwa diya.. par bata ibb ise babbe ko kya kahoge...
daaki suwaad bhi le gaya arar jab khud ne neend aawan laagi to daang baja gaya... hahahhaha

kissa likhe ka fayda e k jab koi aave naga to...........
 
tu likhe jaa..
aawaniya ki chinta na kar...

ye jo gaal bake sein ye sab bhi din mein 10 baar is thread ne dekhe sein.. ... hahahhaa...

is se related ek baat yaad aagi....

mere nanihaal mein ek baar ek balaji ke jaagran ka aayojan tha.....
jagran ne glamorous banaan khatar (ar thode pisse lagan khatar) ek naachan aali chhori bhi bula li...(orchestra type. team..)..

ibb pehlyan to wa chhori bhajan bhujan pe naachti rahi...
fer tere mere barge chhore bole, ek do filmy gaana pe bhi naach k dikha de..
fer wa chhori filmy gana pe naachan laag gi (koi ashlillta nahi.. simple dance)...
to bhai kuch budhe badere jo thode sharam kha re the we bole bhai hum chaale.. tham dekho ye naach.. arr ve chale gaye aapne aapne ghara...(kuch budhe baithe rahe)

ek budha baba tha.. wo kaambal odh ke baitha rha raat ne 2.30 baje tak.. sare dance k suwaad lete raha (nothing wrong in it )...
arr bhai wo 3 baje k kareeb tagda chho mein aakar bola...."ra tham is baandar naach ne band karo, mein sab khinda dunga ye thara tabela.."

arr dhamki si dekar usne wo program band karwa diya (it was going smoothly and many girls, women were watching/enjoying)..

ibb bhai budha baba tha.. baat to maan li uski sabne arr program band karwa diya.. par bata ibb ise babbe ko kya kahoge...
daaki suwaad bhi le gaya arar jab khud ne neend aawan laagi to daang baja gaya... hahahhaha

hahhahahhahahhahaha sahi kahi bhai Narinder.......aapko yo kissa aaj ki situation pe katti 100% fit hai.
aade JL pe bhi yohi haal hai aaj ki sab padhe se aur sara ka sab ne bera hai kon kisa hai per fir bhi apne aap ne vidhyan mane se..... per realty ya hai ki ye bolaniya bhi us baba ki dhala se jiske bare me aapne abhi bataya hai.
 
Amit, she is 33+. Generally, girls don't remain unmarried till this age. Since last 5 years I have been continuously watching her from the distance. Status is not a problem now. I can train her in editing, proofreading, translation etc. I can provide her a lot of work to do at home. If they have 10 rs. property I too have 7 rs. property. Not a big difference. Actually problem is not this that I threaten them. I am not any mafia don and they are not so weak. Actually if hardwork, good deeds, austerity have any effect, then I am surely going to win this battle. Look at the period mate, 13 years of self control. Do you think that it is a co-incidence that I am talking such crazy stuffs here and there she is single yet? It can't be a co-incidence. What about the knowledge I have got in my mind. Had your friend too got such knowledge in his mind? Read the lines below I got in my mind.

This world has some rules to follow. One of these rules is that if all are given hapiness here then what will those be given who work hard. And if hard worker is given happiest life here then what will that person be given who will also perform austerity (penance).
Understand this with this example:
There is a landlord who has 1000 acres of land and has employed thousands of workers to work in that land. Some workers work hard for 2 hours, some for 4 hours, some 6, and so on. Now who should be given more salary? If the landlord gives 3000 Rs. to all then they will oppose who work hard for more than 2 hours. So landlord will have to give the salary according to the hard work. 3000 rs. to 2 hours, 6000 to 4 hours and so on.
This whole world (earth) is like a 1000 acre land. The creater of this world is (some invisible power or god) is employer or lord of this unniverse and we are workers here. Who will be best here he will be given best.

These are some of the points. I have a lot more. I am following these rules. Do you think that abovewritten lines are just logicless and foolish thoughts? If it is so then what do you think about this world? Do you think this world has no rules? If yes, then what are your thoughts about life? Is hardwork, self control, austerity etc. rubbish?
But yes, I agree. Anything may happen. The guarantee of my success is 50.1%, but 49.9 % chances are also there. I have gone far in river. To cross it is easy or not, but coming back is surely tougher and foolishness. If I had to come back, I should have thought about it 8-9 years ago. Now I can't come back, mate. I succeed or fail, I can't.

That is great learning Upendra ji! Hardwork is the one and only thing which brings the satisfaction to our hearts inspite of failure.
Wish you all the best!!
 
I noticed the bold/color quote were found objectionable by many members, as they pointed in aother thread. By this most probably the writer meant the means n ways people OPT to reach at higher level in JOBS/ BUSINESS. Its so very common in corporate n it really sucks. Genuine employees always suffer due to people like these who pretend to be in love with colleagues at senior level like team leader/ boss. Need i request not to raise your brow if I say it was such a stinking affair in an MNC I worked for as for a particular project we hired youngsters/freshers....even married men were not spared by so called modern girls:( yahi to hota hoga kaam kadhan aala pyar. Is the writer wrong? One incident was so bad that the girl was terminated and I made sure that the man was also terminated. Why ONLY GIRL should be terminated?
This a masala thread for 18+ fun loving audience to share all things about romantic love.

Dear all,

During our life time we do fall in and out (or kicked out) of love, get dumped, dump others, saccha pyar, jhoota pyar, bewafa pyar, काम काढ़न आला प्यार, बिना प्यार का प्यार.

Feel free to discuss your views about various aspects of love, tips and tricks of love, how to fall in love, how to cope with जालिम दुनिया, प्यार के अलसी किस्से कहानिया, प्यार में करेड़ी आल्बाद, प्रेमिया के गैल करेड़ी आल्बाद, any thing and everything related to romantic love.

आण दो इब.


PS: This thread has been created on जनता की मांग पर.
 
I noticed the bold/color quote were found objectionable by many members, as they pointed in aother thread. By this most probably the writer meant the means n ways people OPT to reach at higher level in JOBS/ BUSINESS. Its so very common in corporate n it really sucks. Genuine employees always suffer due to people like these who pretend to be in love with colleagues at senior level like team leader/ boss. Need i request not to raise your brow if I say it was such a stinking affair in an MNC I worked for as for a particular project we hired youngsters/freshers....even married men were not spared by so called modern girls:( yahi to hota hoga kaam kadhan aala pyar. Is the writer wrong? One incident was so bad that the girl was terminated and I made sure that the man was also terminated. Why ONLY GIRL should be terminated?


Oh......What a co-relation!

New Defination of "Kam kadhan ala pyar"

Atlast you got it after so many days of discussion. No way Writer can be wrong.
 
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Oh......What a co-relation!

New Defination of "Kam kadhan ala pyar"

Atlast you got it after so many days of discussion. No way Writer can be wrong.

Now we must discuss how one can get laid with boss to get promotion.

Akshay, don't assume that everyone is bearing the same high moral character as you (and me, of course) bear. If you want to have a reality check, I can provide you a vivid narration of some more success stories which I am unable to do here on JL due to certain restrictions.
 
Akshay, don't assume that everyone is bearing the same high moral character as you (and me, of course) bear. If you want to have a reality check, I can provide you a vivid narration of some more success stories which I am unable to do here on JL due to certain restrictions.

VP singh ji, its not about character of mine or yours. It is about right or wrong and representing our deeds/ideas to younger ones.

Are we encouraging "do what you can to achieve your goals"?

Then we have no right to blame others. They are within their rights of achieving goals by their own means.
 
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