Successfull Marriage

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ravinderpannu

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What is a successful marriage...???

Is it what used to be three four decades back when both boy-girl were mostly illitrate that's why they had a kind of bonding..!!

OR

Is it in today's scenario when boy girl are well educated, even living standard of families have gone up, but nowadays we see a lot of cases of relationships TEARING APART..!!
WHY SO when there is financial stability..???

OR
Is it just spending a lifetime with one whom a boy/girl ties a knot..?

OR

Is it the second name of making adjustments only..??
if so, than why entering into the institution of marriage.

This is an OPEN ENDED discussion, Let's see where it ENDS..!!!!!!
 
ravinderpannu said:
Nyu laage hai ak manne ghana MUSHKIL sawal poochh liya ,,..??
nahi to nyu b ho sake hai kise ne samajh me e na aaya ho..!!!
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Bhai Yaha to saadi hone se pehle ke sawalo se pareshaan hai .... eb jo sawal kara hai uska jabab to baad me hi de payenge..... waise successful to wo hota hai jo khus rehta ho !! apani success ko Enjoy karta ho :)
 
shivamchaudhary said:
Bhai Yaha to saadi hone se pehle ke sawalo se pareshaan hai .... eb jo sawal kara hai uska jabab to baad me hi de payenge..... waise successful to wo hota hai jo khus rehta ho !! apani success ko Enjoy karta ho :)
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bahi, success b kayi dhal ki ho sai..!!
education me,
job me,
carrier me,
marriage me,
personal life me,..
success in terms of wealth,
in terms of health....
 
ravinderjeet said:
खाली बेठे माणसआँ ताहि काम देवन खातर बढ़िया विषय स |
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khali baithe ge to kharab ho ja ge Ravinder ji,,
is bahane kime dhande pe laage rawe ge..!!
or koi mere barga aap bargya k gyan ka fyda tha le ga..!!!
 
Slightly off beat, However the message is clear Say sorry if you want the marriage to last.

Bls31
Say sorry if you want the marriage to last![FONT=&quot]
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“They’re are so sorry” by Nancy Gibbs – ‘ An apology is that rare instrument that restores strength through an act of surrender. This is not a matter of etiquette. It is a matter of survival”
Perhaps a message too subtle to penetrate the proverbial thick skin.[/FONT]
 
Marriage is a drama, success and failure thereof depends on the strength of its main characters and their onscreen chemistry. The drama being female dominated, hero is made to surrender in the very first act and rest of the drama revolves round the heroine, her family and finally the children. After a few pre-marital romantic scenes, hero’s role is restricted to merely of a bread earner in the remaining episode where he has to say sorry frequently, even for minor slips, as dictated by the script for the sake of drama to be successful.
 
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bls31 said:
Slightly off beat, However the message is clear Say sorry if you want the marriage to last.

Bls31
Say sorry if you want the marriage to last![FONT=&quot]
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“They’re are so sorry” by Nancy Gibbs – ‘ An apology is that rare instrument that restores strength through an act of surrender. This is not a matter of etiquette. It is a matter of survival”
Perhaps a message too subtle to penetrate the proverbial thick skin.[/FONT]
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Are women so dumb, just by saying sorry one can get away?.....i think not!
 
vpsingh said:
Marriage is a drama, success and failure thereof depends on the strength of its main characters and their onscreen chemistry. The drama being female dominated, hero is made to surrender in the very first act and rest of the drama revolves round the heroine, her family and finally the children. After a few pre-marital romantic scenes, hero’s role is restricted to merely of a bread earner in the remaining episode where he has to say sorry frequently, even for minor slips, as dictated by the script for the sake of drama to be successful.
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You surrendered easily then.
 
तम किम्मे लिख ल्यो थारी श्याणी बाताँ का तोड़ अक्षय पाड़ेगा आधी लाइन मै...यो जज है:p
 
akshaymalik84 said:
Are women so dumb, just by saying sorry one can get away?.....i think not!
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Women are, of course, not so dumb but the word "sorry" helps a lot in their mood swing. If people are not shy of saying sorry to boss even for minor slips, then what is the harm in saying so to a wife who is a better well-wisher than the boss.
 
You bet!

Some times I did asks, having said sorry,as to what I was being saying sorry for?Possibly it is the feeling of insecurity they may be having, Sorry works even in day to day social /business environment , but only if it is genuine , BLS31
 
ravinderpannu said:
What is a successful marriage...???

Is it what used to be three four decades back when both boy-girl were mostly illitrate that's why they had a kind of bonding..!!

OR

Is it in today's scenario when boy girl are well educated, even living standard of families have gone up, but nowadays we see a lot of cases of relationships TEARING APART..!!
WHY SO when there is financial stability..???

OR
Is it just spending a lifetime with one whom a boy/girl ties a knot..?

OR

Is it the second name of making adjustments only..??
if so, than why entering into the institution of marriage.

This is an OPEN ENDED discussion, Let's see where it ENDS..!!!!!!
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Bhai question to kasuta puch liya.......
bhai iska answer 3 saal pache dunga , tab tak shadi bhi ho legi aur 2-3 balak bhi.......
 
vikasJAT said:
Bhai question to kasuta puch liya.......
bhai iska answer 3 saal pache dunga , tab tak shadi bhi ho legi aur 2-3 balak bhi.......
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मै भी कहू या जनसँख्या क्यूकर बढती जावण लाग रही से ?:tamatar
भाई विकास ३ साल में ३ टाबर!!

Definitely your marrriage will be successful, kyuki tamne baalak sambahalan te fursat koni mile, lado te tum jab ge!
 
vpsingh said:
Marriage is a drama, success and failure thereof depends on the strength of its main characters and their onscreen chemistry. The drama being female dominated, hero is made to surrender in the very first act and rest of the drama revolves round the heroine, her family and finally the children. After a few pre-marital romantic scenes, hero’s role is restricted to merely of a bread earner in the remaining episode where he has to say sorry frequently, even for minor slips, as dictated by the script for the sake of drama to be successful.
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ha hah a,,quiet humorous VP ji....!!
but may be some hero's are romantic after marriage too...!!
 
vikasJAT said:
Bhai question to kasuta puch liya.......
bhai iska answer 3 saal pache dunga , tab tak shadi bhi ho legi aur 2-3 balak bhi.......
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malikdeepak1 said:
मै भी कहू या जनसँख्या क्यूकर बढती जावण लाग रही से ?:tamatar
भाई विकास ३ साल में ३ टाबर!!



Definitely your marrriage will be successful, kyuki tamne baalak sambahalan te fursat koni mile, lado te tum jab ge!
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MAlik bhai ,,kasuta conclusion kaad diya...!!!

Vikas bhai,,..teri marriage to super hit rahwegi..!!! :P
 
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