a brother have never imagined in his worst nightmares that he will cremate his sister on day before rakshabandhan.this was the day his sister was supposed to come for the rakshabandhan instead her dad body came.on the shelf in her parents drawing room were all the medals for her achievements displayed so proudly and outside her house was her dead body saying story of a failed cruel society.she was the topper of tawaru town in 12th grade.she was at 4th place in mdu university in bcom.she was a independent woman working as teacher in gov school.she was never happy from the day she got married.she has come to her parents her tau ji with tearfull pleadings but all the family instructed her to adjust.she left a 2 yr old son and died at young age of 25.she died of internal injuries and postmortem report is yet to come......she is my husbands cousin and as eldest bahu i was asked to do some of the major rites.i felt so shame on me that why i could not save her instead of doing that....i felt like a failure along with all the people who were there.
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a bright girl murdered by inlaws
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a brother have never imagined in his worst nightmares that he will cremate his sister on day before rakshabandhan.this was the day his sister was supposed to come for the rakshabandhan instead her dad body came.on the shelf in her parents drawing room were all the medals for her achievements displayed so proudly and outside her house was her dead body saying story of a failed cruel society.she was the topper of tawaru town in 12th grade.she was at 4th place in mdu university in bcom.she was a independent woman working as teacher in gov school.she was never happy from the day she got married.she has come to her parents her tau ji with tearfull pleadings but all the family instructed her to adjust.she left a 2 yr old son and died at young age of 25.she died of internal injuries and postmortem report is yet to come......she is my husbands cousin and as eldest bahu i was asked to do some of the major rites.i felt so shame on me that why i could not save her instead of doing that....i felt like a failure along with all the people who were there.
Really sad to hear about this Ritu. Once the post mortem report is out please do let us know. Tragic !
anilsangwan
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ऋतू जी, दिवंगत आत्मा को श्रद्धांजली | काफी बार हमारे हाथ बंधे होते हैं ...और चाह कर भी हम कुछ नहीं कर पाते... शायद इंसान को काबू में रखने के लिए यह सब बंधन भगवान् ने बनाए हैं....!!!! भगवान् आप को और बाकी परिजनों को ये दुःख की घडी सेहन करने की क्षमता दे...!
Inko dekho..Jat family lagti hai....
Unbearably cruel parents who tortured their little Indian boy until he was physically deformed face jail
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...sically-deformed-face-jail.html#ixzz22SGxIydr
Unbearably cruel parents who tortured their little Indian boy until he was physically deformed face jail
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...sically-deformed-face-jail.html#ixzz22SGxIydr
Inko dekho..Jat family lagti hai....
Unbearably cruel parents who tortured their little Indian boy until he was physically deformed face jail
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...sically-deformed-face-jail.html#ixzz22SGxIydr
Horrifying truth ! Very disappointing news indeed.
sanjeev1984
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sun kar bahot bura laga ritu ji... gunahgar bhi aaram se nahi ji payangae...
a brother have never imagined in his worst nightmares that he will cremate his sister on day before rakshabandhan.this was the day his sister was supposed to come for the rakshabandhan instead her dad body came.on the shelf in her parents drawing room were all the medals for her achievements displayed so proudly and outside her house was her dead body saying story of a failed cruel society.she was the topper of tawaru town in 12th grade.she was at 4th place in mdu university in bcom.she was a independent woman working as teacher in gov school.she was never happy from the day she got married.she has come to her parents her tau ji with tearfull pleadings but all the family instructed her to adjust.she left a 2 yr old son and died at young age of 25.she died of internal injuries and postmortem report is yet to come......she is my husbands cousin and as eldest bahu i was asked to do some of the major rites.i felt so shame on me that why i could not save her instead of doing that....i felt like a failure along with all the people who were there.
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ravinderjeet
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Inko dekho..Jat family lagti hai....
Unbearably cruel parents who tortured their little Indian boy until he was physically deformed face jail
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...sically-deformed-face-jail.html#ixzz22SGxIydr
बिना किसी गलती के यदि कोई किसी की ह्त्या करता हे या यातनाएं देता हे उसको अधिकतम दंड मिलना चाहिए | ताकि दुसरे उस से सबक ले सकें | अगर कानून से बच भी जाएँ तो उन्हें अपने स्तर पर जरुर निपटाना चाहिए | ऋतू जी की ननद के बारे में पढ़ कर अत्यनत क्षोभ अवम वेदना हुई | और बल्हारा दम्पति को भी शायद इंग्लेंड का कानून उचित सजा जरूर देगा |
malikdeepak1
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सामाजिक शर्म के नाम पर हम अपनी ही बेटियों की बलि चढा देते हैं | गुनाहगार हम खुद है | इस समाज से डरते हम जान बूझकर गलत फैसले करते है|
जरुरत है इस संकीर्ण सोच से मुक्ति पाने की ताकि हम आगे ऐसे गलत फैसले न करे जो हमारे घर की बेटियों को ही लील जाए | भगवान आपको इस दुःख की घडी में सहनशक्ति प्रदान करे| पूरा jl परिवार आपके साथ है |
जरुरत है इस संकीर्ण सोच से मुक्ति पाने की ताकि हम आगे ऐसे गलत फैसले न करे जो हमारे घर की बेटियों को ही लील जाए | भगवान आपको इस दुःख की घडी में सहनशक्ति प्रदान करे| पूरा jl परिवार आपके साथ है |
sanjeev1984
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completely agree with you sir... lakin thoda sa sujhav dena chahunga... galati karne ke baad bhi kisi ki hatya karna or torture karna galat hai... doosre bhi vikalp hote hain humare saamne... galati ho ya na ho, mera maan-na hai ki sirf kamjor log hi baccho or aurto pe haath uthate hain... or aapne bilkul sai kaha aise logo ko maximum punishment honi chahiye...
बिना किसी गलती के यदि कोई किसी की ह्त्या करता हे या यातनाएं देता हे उसको अधिकतम दंड मिलना चाहिए | ताकि दुसरे उस से सबक ले सकें | अगर कानून से बच भी जाएँ तो उन्हें अपने स्तर पर जरुर निपटाना चाहिए | ऋतू जी की ननद के बारे में पढ़ कर अत्यनत क्षोभ अवम वेदना हुई | और बल्हारा दम्पति को भी शायद इंग्लेंड का कानून उचित सजा जरूर देगा |
rekhasmriti
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" galati ho ya na ho, mera maan-na hai ki sirf kamjor log hi baccho or aurto pe haath uthate hain"
I wish everyone think the same way-------
more than half of issues would get sorted
I wish everyone think the same way-------
more than half of issues would get sorted
completely agree with you sir... lakin thoda sa sujhav dena chahunga... galati karne ke baad bhi kisi ki hatya karna or torture karna galat hai... doosre bhi vikalp hote hain humare saamne... galati ho ya na ho, mera maan-na hai ki sirf kamjor log hi baccho or aurto pe haath uthate hain... or aapne bilkul sai kaha aise logo ko maximum punishment honi chahiye...
completely agree with you sir... lakin thoda sa sujhav dena chahunga... galati karne ke baad bhi kisi ki hatya karna or torture karna galat hai... doosre bhi vikalp hote hain humare saamne... galati ho ya na ho, mera maan-na hai ki sirf kamjor log hi baccho or aurto pe haath uthate hain... or aapne bilkul sai kaha aise logo ko maximum punishment honi chahiye...
Sanjeev, kuch dhyaan original post pe bhi bhai.
sanjeev1984
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thanks for the suggestion bhai... but original post ke bare mai pehle hi bol chuka hu (see post 6 of this thread)... it was a shameful act of inlaws of deceased sister and i dont think they will enjoy a peaceful life... jitna torture unhone us ladki ke saath kiya hai... us se kahin jaya mushkil ab unki zindagi hone wali hai...
Sanjeev, kuch dhyaan original post pe bhi bhai.
thanks for the suggestion bhai... but original post ke bare mai pehle hi bol chuka hu (see post 6 of this thread)... it was a shameful act of inlaws of deceased sister and i dont think they will enjoy a peaceful life... jitna torture unhone us ladki ke saath kiya hai... us se kahin jaya mushkil ab unki zindagi hone wali hai...
Sorry my fault. Apologies.
she died of internal bleeding dueto injuries to her abdomen area.her husband is in police custody right now!.thanks!!
Really sad to hear about this Ritu. Once the post mortem report is out please do let us know. Tragic !
you are right exactly samething happened.why we caree too much of society.our own kid and her well being should be the only priority!
सामाजिक शर्म के नाम पर हम अपनी ही बेटियों की बलि चढा देते हैं | गुनाहगार हम खुद है | इस समाज से डरते हम जान बूझकर गलत फैसले करते है|
जरुरत है इस संकीर्ण सोच से मुक्ति पाने की ताकि हम आगे ऐसे गलत फैसले न करे जो हमारे घर की बेटियों को ही लील जाए | भगवान आपको इस दुःख की घडी में सहनशक्ति प्रदान करे| पूरा jl परिवार आपके साथ है |
the worst part in the whole situation is that girls parents are told not to bring her 2 yr old son bcoz afterall he is the blood of killer.no body cares for the emotion of the mom who has died.actually what i felt most of the ppl who were at her funeral not touched by this tragedy.people have forgotten to empathize!!
ऋतू जी, दिवंगत आत्मा को श्रद्धांजली | काफी बार हमारे हाथ बंधे होते हैं ...और चाह कर भी हम कुछ नहीं कर पाते... शायद इंसान को काबू में रखने के लिए यह सब बंधन भगवान् ने बनाए हैं....!!!! भगवान् आप को और बाकी परिजनों को ये दुःख की घडी सेहन करने की क्षमता दे...!
It was like talking about the welfare of 2 yr old was forbidden!! i was feeling like that not only the husband who killed his wife was merciless even others have lost their sense of humanity!! very very disappointing!!
the worst part in the whole situation is that girls parents are told not to bring her 2 yr old son bcoz afterall he is the blood of killer.no body cares for the emotion of the mom who has died.actually what i felt most of the ppl who were at her funeral not touched by this tragedy.people have forgotten to empathize!!
sumitjattan
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Ritu ji bahut dukh hua ye sun ke ...ki ek nek intelligent insaan nein apni jaan khoo di ... bhagwaan unki aatma ko shanti de.....kai baar yahi lagta ki kamjoor pe haath uthana kahan ki bahaduri hai ..usnein apna ghar choda apna naam badla aur uske baad bhi iss had tak majboor kar diya jaat hai vo appni jaan tak ko bhaar samajhne lagti hai ..... mein koi scholar nahi hoan par ye jaroor kahonga ki hume aaj bhi peechde hue hai aur sharam aati hai jab aisi ghat naayein hoti hai ......
a brother have never imagined in his worst nightmares that he will cremate his sister on day before rakshabandhan.this was the day his sister was supposed to come for the rakshabandhan instead her dad body came.on the shelf in her parents drawing room were all the medals for her achievements displayed so proudly and outside her house was her dead body saying story of a failed cruel society.she was the topper of tawaru town in 12th grade.she was at 4th place in mdu university in bcom.she was a independent woman working as teacher in gov school.she was never happy from the day she got married.she has come to her parents her tau ji with tearfull pleadings but all the family instructed her to adjust.she left a 2 yr old son and died at young age of 25.she died of internal injuries and postmortem report is yet to come......she is my husbands cousin and as eldest bahu i was asked to do some of the major rites.i felt so shame on me that why i could not save her instead of doing that....i felt like a failure along with all the people who were there.
you are right exactly samething happened.why we caree too much of society.our own kid and her well being should be the only priority!
Ma'm, the people who are being morally responsible in raising their children, have already made a beautiful contribution to the betterment of the society.
And, those people (both — men and women) who say to their daughters, "बेटी, जिस घर कै अन्दर डोली मै बैठ कै जाए करै, फ़ेर उस घर तै अर्थी मै लेट कै ए बाहर आया करै । जा, पहला कफ़न मै लिपट कै आ, फ़ेर तन्नै घरां भित्तर बाड़ागे", are no less than a challenge to the civil society.
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