Anybody wants to Discuss the Accountability of Members???
I have had issues earlier too regarding the use of such words especially with Mr Sid Chhikara.
I greatly admire his writing skills, his command over the language and knowledge on various subjects. But when I objected to his using some obscene words in his posts, he went to the extent of making a personal comment like – I behave this way since my daughter too visits the site. So I do this moral policing.
Yes, I was hurt by this comment.
I wanted to write to him then gave up thinking – maybe when he has kids, he might someday realise… But I have no hard feelings for him.
This is all part of the job I do here. Before agreeing to be a Mod, I was ready for these brickbats too. So many times I just choose to ignore rather than responding.
BUT my silence should not be mis-understood as some weakness.
My daughter no longer visits this place. She hardly has time for this.
There was a time she used to learn some Haryanvi thanks to the Humor section. But I do not encourage her to read any jokes here any longer.
5. If members have any problem/ grievance, they need to write to the Admins/
http://www.jatland.com/forums/sendmessage.php
Then they can use the PM facility as well to contact the Mods.
Besides being a Mod, I too am a member of this site.
My scrapbook is Not for anybody and everybody to come and paste anything there. Just like any other member,
it is My wish whom I choose to write scraps for me. I cannot allow everybody. Period.
It was I who asked Satyeshwar ji to close the option for Friend request for the Mods as this would lead to people accusing us of being biased towards our Friends. Moreover, it would be annoying to those whose friend request I would reject. Then the Mod would be termed arrogant too.
I did not think it necessary to respond to the PM. People would want to know Why??
Here is the PM sent to me by the person questioning my accountability:
shame on you
ch ch ch so said...who made u the editor...
cant hv guts to reply me back...even deleted the option of visitor's msg...so tht no one can see wat i posted...shame on you...pathetic.
I thought it better to Ignore.
(no regrets here, cos being a MOD u’ve to stand tall nd while doin’ so u r answerable to all JATlanders)
REST IS ALL ON JATLANDERS TO DECIDE...WHETHER IT WAS A JAT/NON JAT JOKE ND WHETHER THE DELETION WAS JUSTIFIED???
I WUD LIKE TO CONCLUDE HERE SAYING…लागा चुनरी में दाग, छुपाऊँ कैसे
ND SORRY FOR WASHING MY DIRTY LINEN IN PUBLIC…ALL JATLANDERS, I GUESS, BY NOW KNOW THE REASONS AS TO Y I WAS FORCED TO DO THT.
MY HUMBLE APPOLOGIES, HERE AGAIN IF WHILE PUTTING MY POST(S) I’VE OFFENDED ANY ONE’S FEELINGS (ESPECIALLY MR. GULLIYA) WCH WAS NEVER MY INTENTION…I JUST FOLLOWED ON MY THREAD…
MY APPOLOGIES ALSO TO ALL SNR. MEMBERS FOR MY MISDEED IF AT ALL U FEEL IT IS --> MY WISDOM CAN NEVER TOUCH YR. STANDING…
ND APPOLOGIES TO MADAM SAHEBA MS. BHARTIJI (JATRA NARI PUJYANTE TATRA RAMANTE DEVTA)
GOD BLESS U ALL
6. And Jatland does not run on any one members’ personal opinion. Its about taking more than 10,000 people together. Is it not an achievement in itself?
7. Regarding Mr Goyat’s crap
I did not want to make it public but since that issue has come up, I need to talk.
What does it mean when you want to talk to a person in PM in Chaupal and the other person does not respond?? Does it not mean that the person is trying to Ignore you??
But Mr Goyat would not understand this. He tried talking to Ritu in PM which she did not like and asked him to talk in Main( this PM issue has been discussed in another thread too). Ritu and some other members present there including myself tried to make him understand this but he would not listen. After arguing with him for quite some time, Ritu left. Then he started commenting on her and when he refused to stop, I had to
Kick(yes, this is the command) him out of Chaupal. He was given almost an hour before he was kicked out.
I don’t need to bring in witnesses here to justify my action.
I think this is the longest post I have ever written on Jatland.
It should not be seen as emotional outburst of a Female Moderator.
I am a Jatni from Haryana. (madam yahan sab jat aur jatni hi hein koi SC nahin...jahan se aap ho wahin se mein bhi hun...pakka JAT (16x2=8) [FONT="]
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This is all I have to say.
Regards,
Bharti.
...there is/was no personal vendetta involved.
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