afairs before marriage-RIGHT OR WRONG--JOGI JAT

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BHAIYA NE RAM RAM JOGI JAT KI MEINE EK QUESTION BUJHNA THA TAMPE JAWAB HO TE DIYO BHAI :rolleyes:

Should one indulge in the afairs before marriage or not? this is a critical question take your time to vote because it happens in most of ours life in the young days and that sometimes effects the life of one's in the latter stage also this also effects us some when we don't want it to effect us so please share your views by giving the options you think right and also tell the india + nri society what is the right options your answer will be viewed by many ?
thanking you

JOGI JAT ;)

www.indiannri.com :cool:
 
Being a Jogi Jat u should not ask such questions, aapko to Sansar ki is moh maya se door kahin kisi jangal mein tapasya karni chahiye.

Please don't take is seriously.

Just an advice.

Regards,
 
Bhateeje,

Affairs are never bad as these are between two hearts. haan affairs me shayar ban janaa bahut dukh dene wala hota hai jogiya ...aur jis speed par tu shairee likh raha hai, use mujhe pakka yakeen hai ki tere saath jaroor kuch jor ka jhatka laga hai. aur ya fir wo teri non-stop shairee se saturate hogar tujhe chor gayee.....LOL

RK
 
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In our culture it is not acceptable but in Western culture it is not a big deal. If you want to follow their culture you did not have to ask this question. The fact that some where in your mind there is a thought that eventhough it is not allowed in traditional culture in the name of progress one can get an exemption. There is identity crisis here. First sort out who you are and you will receive your answer automatically.

From what I know about Jats you will not find many supporters of premarital or post marital affairs on this web site.
 
Jogi Jat

yaah te ghane theek kahi bhai, ;)
INDIA IS A CULTURED SOCIETY.
aer bhai yaa baat te pure ka pura sansar jaan se aak hum hindustani sache aadmi saan khaas kar jaat te sudhe bolan aale sen jo maan mein se boal diya

JOGI JAT :rolleyes:
http://www.indiannri.com :cool:
 
Jogi Jat

JOGI JAT ;)

bhai yaah baat te theek se ek yeh saab bekar sen par agar tum ne galti te marriage te pehla pyar kar bhi liya te usne nibhao aur puri trahe se nibhao.
PYAR WOH KARO JO NIBHA SAKO,
WARNA BHUL JAO. :mad:

JOGI JAT :cool:

http://www.indiannri.com :)
 
I think it is a personal choice of an individual. Socially, it is not an accepted norm in our society. But again how do we define an affair. Is a friendship between a boy and a girl called an affair? Each one of us have a different perception of an affair. Unless we define what one means by an affair, it is very difficult to comment on the topic. If affair means sexual relationship, then surely it is not a socially acceptable thing in our society. This definition of affair after marriage is also not acceptable in Western Society as well.
 
JOGI JAT :rolleyes:

yaah te ghani badhiya baat kahi aap ne COL sahab par ke karein kaye baar balak galti kaar jaya karen sein par agar unne galti kar bhi layee hai to bhi pyar mein kaara wada nibhake apna prayaschit kara ja sake sai.
mein te aap loga ke aage ek chot sa MODA balak sun naam se JOGI mane te yahe samaj se. :o
JOGI JAT :cool:
 
Hmmm...

Wasn't it some famous Indian figure who was behind the well
known quote:

"Having an affair is my birthright, and I shall have it !"

Surely, these enlightened souls could not be wrong !
 
My apologies here. Looks like I was a bit off on the quote. A little
bit of research revealed that it was actually "Swaraj is my birthright"
and can be attributed to some fellow called Bal Gangadhar Tilak, who
had something to do with the freedom struggle.

O' man ! To think that all this time one could live on a misquoted life
of alliances and dalliances !

But all said and done, I guess I wasn't all that off. "Swaraj" actually means
"Freedom", and from Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary (1913) [web1913],
we have the following definition for "freedom":

"
6. Improper familiarity; violation of the rules of decorum;
license.
"

Ah ! All's well that ends well ! Long live Tilak !

But seriously, moving away from the quote....

Having an affair (before or after marriage) is, by no stretch of the imagination,
wrong. If it were, it'd be a crime, and every time those little heart things
started percolating out of our chests, we'd be slapped silly and dragged into
those dingy little rooms with metal bars.

Having said that, every society, and the sub societies within them. have their
own set of dos and donts. And there are consequences. If you are
prepared to handle the consequences, then go for it ! If you can't...well...you
pathetic...

As they say, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime ! If you can't face the
consequences, then don't indulge in affairs. Or at least move to a place
that is more accepting (heard those Indian metros are just fine !). I mean
if you are gonna have an affair, and you are gonna have it with a Jatni from
a village, and that Jatni has two or three monstrously huge brothers, then you
better know what you are getting into before you come running to us with
your sorry behind asking for advice ! We ain't gonna be of much help !

But if you are gonna have one with that petite little Punjaban in that far
off place called Bangalore, and her brothers shiver at the very word 'Jat', well
then.."Way to go bro...you stud you !!"








raj_rathee said:
Hmmm...

Wasn't it some famous Indian figure who was behind the well
known quote:

"Having an affair is my birthright, and I shall have it !"

Surely, these enlightened souls could not be wrong !
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bhai suke maje leen ki na se re kade kade kime kaam bhi kara karo
AARE KADE KADAU MESSAGE BHI CHOAD DIYA KARO KE ANGREEGY MEIN KAHYA KAREN SE REPLY BHI KAAR DIYA KARO

JOGI JAT ;)
http://www.indiannri.com :cool:
 
nice job...



raj_rathee said:
My apologies here. Looks like I was a bit off on the quote. A little
bit of research revealed that it was actually "Swaraj is my birthright"
and can be attributed to some fellow called Bal Gangadhar Tilak, who
had something to do with the freedom struggle.

O' man ! To think that all this time one could live on a misquoted life
of alliances and dalliances !

But all said and done, I guess I wasn't all that off. "Swaraj" actually means
"Freedom", and from Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary (1913) [web1913],
we have the following definition for "freedom":

"
6. Improper familiarity; violation of the rules of decorum;
license.
"

Ah ! All's well that ends well ! Long live Tilak !

But seriously, moving away from the quote....

Having an affair (before or after marriage) is, by no stretch of the imagination,
wrong. If it were, it'd be a crime, and every time those little heart things
started percolating out of our chests, we'd be slapped silly and dragged into
those dingy little rooms with metal bars.

Having said that, every society, and the sub societies within them. have their
own set of dos and donts. And there are consequences. If you are
prepared to handle the consequences, then go for it ! If you can't...well...you
pathetic...

As they say, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime ! If you can't face the
consequences, then don't indulge in affairs. Or at least move to a place
that is more accepting (heard those Indian metros are just fine !). I mean
if you are gonna have an affair, and you are gonna have it with a Jatni from
a village, and that Jatni has two or three monstrously huge brothers, then you
better know what you are getting into before you come running to us with
your sorry behind asking for advice ! We ain't gonna be of much help !

But if you are gonna have one with that petite little Punjaban in that far
off place called Bangalore, and her brothers shiver at the very word 'Jat', well
then.."Way to go bro...you stud you !!"
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It lies in the eyes of beholder

Hi,
Like the saying goes " Beauty lies in the eyes of beholder", same is true about affairs. It's your personal choice. I'm not talking of boys/gals living in villages. There it could bring big problems. I'm talking of guys living in cities , getting higher education.
Before starting anything ( not just affair), think of it's repercussions, pros & cons, your expectations and their fulfillment. If you feel ok, go ahead. One has to make his decisions, do his mistakes and face the life.You can't just ask 100 people if it is right or wrong.They may tell what they feel. Still it may not be right thing for you.
Just don't cheat other person and also don't allow yourself to be cheated. Zindagi mein happy rahne ke liye pyar ( romantic love) aur paisa dono chahiye.But there has to be a balance.My personal view is that it is a source of joy, and one should taste it , if you can.
- Rajiv
 
see.......according to me nothing is good or bad.......everything is neutral........its upto people how they take it.....everyone has the right to decide what is good or bad for him.......and when it comes to such things one doesn't think twice about it.........for instance sage VISHWAMITRA and MANEKA's story......hope you got my point and will not get me wrong.
 
A Simple Truth...

Dear All,

If an individual can differentiate between 'An Affair', 'Pyar', 'Ishq', 'Mohabbat', 'Prem' and 'Hawas', the chances of going wrong are remote.

I also believe that a normal person does go through most of these emotions in his life time. An 'Affair' per se gives a negative vibe. 'Affair' happens when one is hiding something.

Another issue is that about the 'Right & Wrong' of it. It is as one sees it. What is right for you may be wrong for others or vice versa.

Lekin agar kisi ne apni jindagi mein sachha 'Prem' kiya hai to vo shayad yakinan ek bahut badi baat hai. Prem kisi se bhi ho sakta hai, not necessarily with a girl/woman only.

Regards,

JS Malik
 
Right

Premarrital relationship may or may not be there. But the way it is being discussed is not correct . Most of us are discussing it by centering their sexual relations. there are many more significant aspects of premarrital relationship. should not we cocentrate on that?

Kuldeepsingh
 
Go Ahead JOGI

Bhai JOGI :)

Just enlighten you "Affairs" had cost "Bill Clinton" his US Presidency. Baki all the best JOGI Bhai.... You are Innocent until proven guilty, and I can't start any inquisition here. Thus, you're honorably acquitted.

Go ahead Dear Khulli chuute sain. :D

Baljit :cool:
 
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