Again - A Marriage in Same village

Should someone marry within his/her village?


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3rd option approximates your this stand! :) I am a software engineer as well ;) Did my requirement specs :eek: meticulously! :D

The problem with 3rd option is that it doesn't specifies about gotra ..... and i am not in favor of same gotra .... so among all the available options (so far ) first one is favorable for me.
 
इसका मतलब है के हमे सहनशील हो कर इंतजार करना चाहिए के गाव में शादियाँ होने लगी है....ये विकास की अति-आधुनिक परिभाषा है:o? इसके बाद एक से अगले दुसरे घर में शादी होगी. फिर हम अत्यंत सहनशील हो कर उस दिन का इंतजार करें जब हमारे बच्चे आपस में शादी करने लगेंगे? चलो अच्छा है फिर हम मुसलमानों से नफरत नहीं करेंगे कि वोह आपस में चाचा-ताऊ या बुआ-मामा के बच्चो की शादी करते हैं. फिर ये कहावत जाटों पर भी लागु होगी- इतनी भली होती तो काका- ताऊ कै रहती :mad:

i m very much against such marriages, infact these kinds of acts are spoiling our culture and are threat to our society (hindu society,jat society)...we need to incorporate moral values in our next generations and our younger brothers and sisters..this is not at all tolerable to marry in the same village (or even guhand)..!!!!


but Madam Hooda please dont blame any other religions for there customs and traditions..India is a diverse country and infact we say "UNITY IN DIVERSITY"......saying this that i hate muslims or any other religion for so and so reasons is definately a threat to India's Unity....u may say that i dont like so and so traditions or customs...or any thing ..
A feeling of hatred for a specific community may give rise to Anti India movements (which we have faced earlier in Punjab, Assam)which indeed a couple of nations will support or infact they want these things to happen so that they fulfill there own ill wills....India is seen as a super power after a couple of decades..but only if all the Indians are First Indians and than may be hindu,muslim,sikh christian,buddhist,jain,parsi..etc..
 
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Leel jo-jo bahar desh jaa rey sain wey ghane liberal paak rey sain. Iss tai ghana kimme likh dyungi to chiraddki lagegi arr nyu kahngey akk PERSONAL attack kare sai....asal mai jis ney theek bataya sai wey sab USA/UK mai baithey sain arr agar mai galat nahi hoon to SHADISHUDA bhi hain, warna shayad apne hi gaam mai byah kar kai misaal kayam kar detey:o Par pata nahi kyu mujhe lagta to nahi ke woh aisa kartey kyunki LIKHNEY MEIN LAGTA HI KYA HAiI....after all its about using FANCY WORDS only;) like the opposing members did?
But let Courts take that hard decision brother... Not any illetrate Sarpanch who represents a very small crowd ... :)


Tsk, Tsk, Tsk!!!.... :rolleyes:
Owwww............That was below the belt!!! :D:rolleyes:;)
 
Breaking News !!

Jitender,

This runaway couple is with me now. They read my post on Jatland and instantly knew that I was sympathetic to their cause.
I am enrolling that boy and the girl to my gym today in the evening. I will also provide for their weapons training - Chhora keh ryha that Rambo jaisa banna chahta hai ... er keh rhya that ke isse death warrant pe kutte mutte sein.
The girl cooks really good gulgulas and raabdi. We will have a feast tonite. Gulgule, raabdi and Royal Challenge.
They will stay with me till Raksha bandhan. On that day she will tie a rakhi on my wrist and her husbands wrist. The next day they will descend on the village with 50 Cal automatic weaponery and blow the crap out of that sarpanch. I also found some bicurious ex-con black guys locally who were sympathetic to their cause, they will also join the couple in exacting revenge in the ways I suggested earlier. Now all the members who are opposing the couple - you better stop or the couple will put your name on their naughty list.
 
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Jitender,

This runaway couple is with me now. They read my post on Jatland and instantly knew that I was sympathetic to their cause.
I am enrolling that boy and the girl to my gym today in the evening. I will also provide for their weapons training - Chhora keh ryha that Rambo jaisa banna chahta hai. The girl cooks really good gulgulas and raabdi. We will have a feast tonite. Gulgule, raabdi and Royal Challenge.
They will stay with me till Raksha bandhan. On that day she will tie a rakhi on my wrist and her husbands wrist. The next day they will descend on the village with 50 Cal automatic weaponery and blow the crap out of that sarpanch. I also found some bicurious ex-con black guys locally who were sympathetic to their cause, they will also join the couple in exacting revenge in the ways I suggested earlier. Now all the members who are opposing the couple - you better stop or the couple will put your name in their naughty list.




Haahhahhahaahhaha.......:D:D:D:D

Hey Sid, Why dont you start writing fiction..Ofcourse..comedy..;). Thx for the laughs as always.



BTW, just out of curiosity, were they frm the same gout?
(And shocked to see some poll responses in favor of 'honor killings'!)
 
You are saying all this just because you are in USA. I just learnt today from a worthy member that only if you are in US/UK, you can believe in such highly immoral things like right to life....:D (Though I am still not able to recall when the immigration officer gave me these lessons)

Oh I see...:D
 
Haahhahhahaahhaha.......:D:D:D:D

Hey Sid, Why dont you start writing fiction..Ofcourse..comedy..;). Thx for the laughs as always.



BTW, just out of curiosity, were they frm the same gout?
(And shocked to see some poll responses in favor of 'honor killings'!)

I will definitely ask them that over raabdi and gulgule tonite. I will get back to you on that.

Good thing you mentioned the poll ... Anil, can you please add an option for Honor killing of Sarpach?
 
Haahhahhahaahhaha.......:D:D:D:D

Hey Sid, Why dont you start writing fiction..Ofcourse..comedy..;). Thx for the laughs as always.



BTW, just out of curiosity, were they frm the same gout?
(And shocked to see some poll responses in favor of 'honor killings'!)

You are welcome .. yeah 1/3 are really blood thirsty... suno doston.. Murder te achha blood bank te blood ki thailli lya ke pe lyo..... gur er thoodi malai ger liyo badhiya taste ho jyaaga.
 
small variations in words nd you can have more options... heck its now confusing... :confused: let me clarify my stance nd finally i wud stick to this ;)
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i'm crossed btwn option 1 & 3. ideally spkng (... obviously tht includes moraly as well) i'm against such acts, but if some one decides to go tht way (gotra nd village irrespective) then in tht case it is their personal choice... wise men (... one with तुर्रा's) can only TRY (<< note this word) to explain on terms of morality nd genetics, but they have no right to issue death warrants. later, if you feel like, you can neglect/expel them frm the society.

among all options available, let me be the 1st one to stamp/stand for option 3 with above explanation. ;):)
 
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Voted option 3- "Against honor killings irrespective".
Can the poll results include names of the people against each option?

I didn't like the way the options are framed. I am not in favor of marriage in the same village, that is I won't do it myself for personal reasons. But doesn't mean I am going to go out against it and oppose someone tooth and nail. Honor killing is too general a term. There can be circumstances when a victim might be justified in avenging a gross personal honor violation (I know cases where even the law has given a much smaller than usual punishment when someone avenged his brother's murder). This is definitely not one of those circumstances. And in such cases, I oppose honor killings irrespective.
 
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