Ai Waqt Rukja......

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Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........

DDLJ (Dilwale Dulhaiyan Le Jaayenge) ke ek gaane ki ye line main jab bhi sunti hun to mann mein ek khayal aata hai.....Kaash vakai waqt thehar sakta,,, kaash wakai main kisi beete waqt mein fir se ja sakti.....!!!

We think very often that if gone times can come back, and we can live it in a different way. I ve found myself brooding many times,,,, IF I wud ve done that way at that particular time,,,,If I wud ve not taken that decision that time,,, If I wud ve chosen differently than what i did at a certain time in life.

Sometimes I wish,,,, Kaash Waqt ruk sakta, peeche laut sakta.... haalanki jeevan aage chalne ka naam hai.. and we all know whatever is gone, is gone, time never comes back..... still the desire to go back to old times never ends.
It's not that I regret any of my decisions in life, but as it always seems that perhaps The Road not Taken had been more attractive, uselful, and appropriate than the one we took on the paths of life.

Aap sab ke mann mein bhi kabhi aisa khayal aata hai kya......?? kabhi kisi pal ko fir se jeene ka mann kerta hai kya...??
Is there any intersting incidence yu like to share... the way it happened.. n yu wud ve liked it to happen otherwise.

Any Intersting Memory... You like to share with all.
 
pal jo beet jaye aut rah gaye jo bahut peeche
gar ja saku me kabhi daud ke onme pichhe
kitne hi lamhe hai jinko me ultta kar daalu
jindagi ko gar aaj se beete kal me badal daalu
par unn lamho me jo thi kya me vo fir se ho pauugi
on lamho se judde os ehsas ko me kya fir se jee paaugi
fir socha kal ko kal hi me rahane dena behatar hai
beete lamho se sabak leke yaado me sajona hi behtar hai
 
Hota nahin na yaar....

Eh waqt wapis jara dhod peche........Kash I could have all my dear friends back in my life .....I tell you they were real gem...........we shared so many good moments.......but then time and situations do not leave things same forever...In this worldy race lost many of them with bitterness and pain....Koi jadoo kei jhadee hotee to i could have taken out that bitterness from past just to retain some of those good old dear buddies as my good friends forever.......with no khatte yaadee.
 
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ये दिन जाइयो ना ओर दिन आईयो ना....।

neels said:
Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........
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जो वक़्त चला जाता है उससे हमे एक सीख मिलती है के हमने क्या अच्छा किया और क्या बुरा किया....जो वक़्त गुजर जाता है वो अच्छा ही होता है......क्युन्के उसमें प्रेरणा के सरोत्र छुपे हुए होते हैं....गुजरे वक़्त की खट्टी-मीठी यादें भर रह जाती हैं.....जो हमे पुराने अनुभवों से आगे ओर अच्छा करने की सीख देते हैं |

पीछे मुड़ कर देखते हैं तो बचपन से आनंदमई कोए काल नज़र नही आता .....कोए फिकर नही ...कोए जयादा खवाब नही ..बस मासूम से....कुछ ग़लत हुआ तो भी माफ़ी.....सब का प्यार.....निश्छल जीवन.....।

जवानी.......हर कदम फूंक-फूंक कर रखना.....सही करोगे तो तार्रिफ करने वाला कोए बिरला ही मिले आप ने....और जाने या अनजाने मे किमे ग़लत हो गया ते कई पिढियां तक पछताना पड़े ......|

जवानी के बाद जिम्मेवारी काल.......यो ते घणा खतरनाक काल सै जी.......कुछ भी घाटा-बाधा सीधे आप के नाम ते जुड़े सै जी......इसमे ते ना कौवा में न हंसा में ......माफ़ी का ते याहा कोए खाता ही ना है जी.....|

वैसे जो भी वक़्त आज तक जिया है या गुजरा है.....वो बहुत ही बढ़िया.....सुखदाई...आनन्द और गर्व से भरा हुआ ही बिता है....मैं तो बस इतना ही कहूँगा जी........

*******ये दिन जाईयो ना ओर दिन आइयो ना *******

इससे आगे का मेरे अनुभव ना है जी .........|
 
neels said:
Ai Waqt rukja , Tham ja , Thehar ja,,, Waapis zara daud peeche..........

DDLJ (Dilwale Dulhaiyan Le Jaayenge) ke ek gaane ki ye line main jab bhi sunti hun to mann mein ek khayal aata hai.....Kaash vakai waqt thehar sakta,,, kaash wakai main kisi beete waqt mein fir se ja sakti.....!!!

We think very often that if gone times can come back, and we can live it in a different way. I ve found myself brooding many times,,,, IF I wud ve done that way at that particular time,,,,If I wud ve not taken that decision that time,,, If I wud ve chosen differently than what i did at a certain time in life.

Sometimes I wish,,,, Kaash Waqt ruk sakta, peeche laut sakta.... haalanki jeevan aage chalne ka naam hai.. and we all know whatever is gone, is gone, time never comes back..... still the desire to go back to old times never ends.
It's not that I regret any of my decisions in life, but as it always seems that perhaps The Road not Taken had been more attractive, uselful, and appropriate than the one we took on the paths of life.

Aap sab ke mann mein bhi kabhi aisa khayal aata hai kya......?? kabhi kisi pal ko fir se jeene ka mann kerta hai kya...??
Is there any intersting incidence yu like to share... the way it happened.. n yu wud ve liked it to happen otherwise.

Any Intersting Memory... You like to share with all.
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Hindsight is always a wonderful thing..isnt it.:)

Guzara hua waqt bilkul yaad aata hai....per ab kum aata hai.

Will I change anything? ... yes but only that part where I have hurt the other .
 
God blessed us with every thing at the time of birth to explore,to think,to struggle,to feel pains and happiness,to observe and see,to learn and forget,to live and exist but he did not give the over all control to live on our terms and that is the beauty of his creation.To control this world he set the time clock rolling in a very fair manner...with a precondition that it will not stop[come what may...not even by the GOD if he wished it to stop]



If it was possible to stop/reverse the time then repercussions would have been severe for the living beings as millions of people/creatures are in a different stages of grief/happiness in a given moment and if i want to increase my happiness duration by stopping/rewinding the clock.......the many who are suffering during those moments will find their ordeal also extended and that would not have been fair by any standards and hence God did not keep that choice even with himself to prove the point that IT IS A FAIR...ABSOLUTE FAIR GAME OF LIVING.



Hence we ought to cherish our memories of past happy moments,learn from our silly mistakes committed in past,develop greater wisdom and equip our selves better to advance into an uncertain future unfolding unto us second by second as there is nothing permanent on this earth and around.



'Manttra' of life thus should be: Live life the way it comes as action is inherent in us and time ticks in a fair manner...same for all.
 
In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?
 
kabir said:
In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?
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Hmmmm...... to aap Dinkar bhi padhte hain.....!!!!
 
kabir said:
In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?
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Bhai Kabir Singh ya Rashmi kuun sei....hadde te koe na..........? Yo tei mann mei bassya oodd naam deekhkhei se...?Hey-2.
 
Adhik jaankari....

devdahiya said:
Bhai Kabir Singh ya Rashmi kuun sei....hadde te koe na..........? Yo tei mann mei bassya oodd naam deekhkhei se...?Hey-2.
...........Mujhhe gyan ki tlash hei..........
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Dev Saab:p, Ya Rashmi us Gyan ki gharwali hai jiske chakkar mein aap phir re;). See I can't help you find 'em but adhik jaankari ke liye, neeche like pate par sampark karein:

Gumshuda Talash Kendra,
Nai Kotwali, Daryaganj,
Nai Dilli - ek ek shoonya shoonya shoonya ek.

Doorbhash hai: teen dau saat cheh teen shoonya.:D:D:D
 
kabir said:
In his masterpiece "Rashmi Rathi", Dinkar sums up Karna's dilemma regarding the same as:

Jo beet gaya, main kaisey wapas paaunga;
Loutunga kitni dur, kahan jaaunga?
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Rashmirathi (रश्मिरथी) (1952), meaning 'the Sun's charioteer', is one of the most popular works of the great Hindi poet, Ramdhari Singh 'Dinkar'.
 
Okay, I come back to point.

Well when I had this thought in my mind,,,, it wasnt just for the sake that I wish that gud times shud carry on... n bad times shud be shortened.
There are many small n big incidences in life,,, when something happens, which you cant overturn, and as an afterthought on such instances, you tend to keep thinking if only you wud ve acted otherwise.
I share a very intense n sad incidence of my life here,,, which still keep haunting me with an if only.... but what we are left with is "kaash"....

I lost my brother to illness. n due to certain reasons I cudnt meet him in the last time. Till date this memory haunts me,,, Had I gone few hrs earlier, wud ve met him last time. But who had thought this ll happen...!!!!

Well when I started this thread,, didn't intend to bring any sad aspect upfront,,,,,But the message's clear... sometimes nothing is left in your hand except this "kaash........". Time wudnt ve stopped at tht moment, the one who had to leave us, could nt ve been stopped,,, but yea at least this cud ve been possible if only.............!!!

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Anyways.... coming back to simpler aspects.... many times we regret later that,,,,, why we said so,, why we acted on impulse,,, why we cudnt maintain our calm when someone instigated us,,,as well many other such feelings.
If only we think for a while before reacting,,,, we may avoid many such minor but regrettable situations in life.

Yea we want that time may stop n go back to the times where we can make the things happen in a different way... but as we all know... time can not be stopped, the gone times never come bak,,, so we can work only on our present to make it better n worth memorable.
 
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neels said:
[If only we think for a while before reacting,,,, we may avoid many such minor but regrettable situations in life.
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Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)
 
poonam said:
Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)
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I agree that retrospection always provides with a much fair analysis. And in no way, I mean to say that we can be perfect with too much ponderin' before implementing.
This was just for a very minor reactive state,,, when we react(not act) out of impulse without giving any thought.
The real big situations of life can never be manipulated by working out on the best possible options. They are most uncertain n unexpected. I ve already realized things doesnt go ur ways at times,,, how so ever you may plan for them.
Here the reference was for very minor things,,,, n li'lle bit out of frame from this big context....but I tried to relate it having some other issues in mind.


And the incidence I mentioned was just a case when we just keep thinking ki ye hua hota.. ya aise hua hota.... kinda kaash... situations.... wher we can do nothing except pondering that if time can come bak ever....!!!
 
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poonam said:
Nope, I disagree with ya here. In retrospect, its easy to analyze a given situation and its easy to come up with a perfect plan of action which could have been done at that given point.

But, the truth is we do our best at that point, among those circumstances. You will realise the truth of this truth in your future life as well even after you are prepared now and have been pondering over being more "rational" before acting...:)
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Agreeeeeeeedddddddddddd
 
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