Astro Marriages

Riyaa jee, I am not saying do it like this, but this method is the sure shot way to know whether 2 people are compatible or not. Other methods are a guess game.
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Dear urmila, this method is not approved socially,kundli matching is done to check the compatibility only..
 
duhan said:
Riyaa jee, I am not saying do it like this, but this method is the sure shot way to know whether 2 people are compatible or not. Other methods are a guess game.

Regards,

Urmila.
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And if they think that they are not compatible then next try and then next............?
 
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duhan said:
Riyaa jee, I am not saying do it like this, but this method is the sure shot way to know whether 2 people are compatible or not. Other methods are a guess game.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Living together before marriage is taking a risk. So is getting married to someone in an arranged marriage situation. It is a risk. In the first situation, only 2 people are involved in the risk. In an arranged marriage, 2 families are involved. Due to the involvement of more people, the chances of failure are less, I think, even though the the two people getting married are not compatible.

If I am getting you correctly, you are trying to figure out a situation where one can find a person whom one loves and also the security that a marriage provides. Pardon me if I am wrong.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
riyaa said:
Dear urmila, this method is not approved socially,kundli matching is done to check the compatibility only..
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Few decades ago, it was customary in Indian society to not have the prospective bride and groom to even have a look at each other. These days it is common for them to meet and talk to each other before marriage. Social customs change with time because some people start the change process and others start following it. If compatibility in a marrige is high on priority, then suitable action needs to be taken to fulfill the priority.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
Rakesh jee, why do you think extra marital affairs happen? Largely due to compatibility problem. Extra marital affairs are trying out other people.
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Compatibility Problem is a little excuse for extra marital affairs which can be removed, If your partner is not Compatible to you, you can make him/her like you, I know its also a tough task but not impossible,And What I think about Extra Martial Affairs is, IF the person Indulge himself/herself in many love affairs in his teenage, relationship becomes addiction to them and they keep on moving next to next...Some how it also depends on which Environment they are bought up.


If I am getting you correctly, you are trying to figure out a situation where one can find a person whom one loves and also the security that a marriage provides. Pardon me if I am wrong.
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I just wanna say kundali matching is not guess making...Its important, failures and success depends on person to person.
 
Few decades ago, it was customary in Indian society to not have the prospective bride and groom to even have a look at each other.
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Thats why the marriages decades ago stayed longer than todays..
becoz without knowing you can fight, aadhi jindgi ek dusre ko samajhnae me aur aadhi gar samah naa paaye tou ladne mai..
then suitable action needs to be taken to fulfill the priority
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Which action should be taken??
 
duhan said:
Rakesh jee, why do you think extra marital affairs happen? Largely due to compatibility problem. Extra marital affairs are trying out other people.

Regards,

Urmila.
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Extra Marital Affairs due to compatibility issue???? who gave this theory?

From very begning human being is the greedy most creature in this world. Greed for more and eagerness to try something new is the main reason behind most of extra marital affairs divorce is result of noncompatibility issue.
 
riyaa said:
Compatibility Problem is a little excuse for extra marital affairs which can be removed, If your partner is not Compatible to you, you can make him/her like you, I know its also a tough task but not impossible,And What I think about Extra Martial Affairs is, IF the person Indulge himself/herself in many love affairs in his teenage, relationship becomes addiction to them and they keep on moving next to next...Some how it also depends on which Environment they are bought up.



I just wanna say kundali matching is not guess making...Its important, failures and success depends on person to person.
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Comeout of those fairy tales and movie stories this world in realty is too harsh for dreams. An advice for you if want to live a peaceful life never ever try to change a man after marriage. This thing is next to impossible.
 
Comeout of those fairy tales and movie stories this world in realty is too harsh for dreams.
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I am already out of them, Making your partner compatible to yourself is adding something good to them, and that not hurts anybody's self respect..
An advice for you if want to live a peaceful life never ever try to change a man after marriage. This thing is next to impossible.
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Life is peaceful if both partner co-operate, not only girl...i don't think there is thing like man can't change after marriage..
 
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rakeshsehrawat said:
Extra Marital Affairs due to compatibility issue???? who gave this theory?

From very begning human being is the greedy most creature in this world. Greed for more and eagerness to try something new is the main reason behind most of extra marital affairs divorce is result of noncompatibility issue.
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Rakesh jee, what you have stated is also true. In Indian society, divorce rate is still quite low. That does not mean people in most marriages are happy and have found compatible partners.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
duhan said:
Rakesh jee, what you have stated is also true. In Indian society, divorce rate is still quite low. That does not mean people in most marriages are happy and have found compatible partners.

Regards,

Urmila.
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That doesn't mean extra mrital affair either. This is fear of "LOG KYA KAHENGE"
 
rakeshsehrawat said:
Comeout of those fairy tales and movie stories this world in realty is too harsh for dreams. An advice for you if want to live a peaceful life never ever try to change a man after marriage. This thing is next to impossible.
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ha ha ha, Rakesh jee!!! 'Never try to change a man... '!!! Is this your fear?

Regards,

Urmila.
 
rakeshsehrawat said:
That doesn't mean extra mrital affair either. This is fear of "LOG KYA KAHENGE"
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Extra marital stuff is all hush hush, I think, So many a times, people around don't know it is going on- as you rightly said - 'Log kya Kahengae'.
I do not buy the theory (if someone has extended it) that people who go in for arranged marriage are somehow more moralistic than people who have live in relationships.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
riyaa said:
Thats why the marriages decades ago stayed longer than todays..
becoz without knowing you can fight, aadhi jindgi ek dusre ko samajhnae me aur aadhi gar samah naa paaye tou ladne mai..
Which action should be taken??
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Riya jee, it is a fact that in the past, the divorce rate in India was almost nil. Education of women, earning capacity of women, nuclear families etc all are contributing factors to the changing social scene these days.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
riyaa said:
Thats why the marriages decades ago stayed longer than todays..
becoz without knowing you can fight, aadhi jindgi ek dusre ko samajhnae me aur aadhi gar samah naa paaye tou ladne mai..
Which action should be taken??
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Action that leads to satisfactory goal fulfillment i.e., action that ensures that the 2 people are compatible.

Regards,

Urmila.
 
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