Baap bada nah bhaiya sabse bada rupiayaa

[scsheorayan]

Dear All,

Rather interesting topic but some very poor reasoning by those who are speaking ‘for the topic’ (That Paisa is everything), indicative of a paradigm shift in the societal thinking and behavior. May I also advice some of the unmarried members who think that ‘Money is Everything’, to be a bit discreet in making definitive statements! Paisa is everything – pher to dahej len mein Choori aalon ka bakkal taar dyoge…

In my view money can never take the place of genuine love and respect one has for one’s blood relations, whether they have money or not. How can you say that only those who have a lot of money respect each other? How can you be so forgetful? Forgot Ambani brothers! Itna paisa hone ke bavzood bhi na bantee. But those of you who consider money to be everything then there is no way you will be convinced by other’s arguments. But take my words my friends, at the end of the day what matters is what you have achieved in terms of genuine goodwill of people around you. I have seen enough younger brothers, who are very rich, seeking only love and affection from their elder brothers who are still very poor. Also JATS as a community are known to care two hoots for material things when it comes to ‘Bhaichara’.

On ‘Rakshabandhan’, a sister just wants to see her brother, rich or poor. One just longs for that one appreciative nod from an elder brother, not money, when it comes to ‘just being there’. A friend is a friend, money or no money.

Money is important, no doubt, but it can’t substitute emotional bonds that exist between friends, siblings and other blood relations. However, those who think otherwise, my advice would be to earn as much money as possible, by whatever means too because money is important, and then decide for yourself as to where do you stand.

Best regards,

JS Malik

Very pertinent topic and reflects each side with equal conviction. It is the matter of values in your life. It will not be unrealistic to say that with money you can certainly buy things but not necessarily enjoy them."Bhagyawaan hain wo, paisa jinka gulam hai; Abhage hain, jo paise ke gulam hain" ( Meaning : Fortunate are those, whose slave is money; Unfortunate are those, who are slaves of money). Sooner or later one realises the imporatnce of money, usually when it is scarce. Similarly, sooner or later one realises the futility of chasing money at the expense of other things which are even more important e.g. health and family. " Pahla sukh nirogi kaaya; Duja sukh Tabar teekar; Teeja sukh Dhan Maaya". This old adage seems to be losing relevance for some people. Balance in life is the most important thing and priorities in life do affect our attitude towards money or any other subject for that matter. I would agree with Col. Malik on this topic.

 

[fateh]

hammmmmmmmmmmm baat tho aapki theek hai bhai saab

ye sab baatien books main hi rhe gyi hai
In today life money is everything for us
without money we can't do manymore


or tho or pasie hi insaan ki personality bante hai
uska sochne tak way change kar deta hai

pasia ho to dunia ko nacch le

sab agge picchr gumege.................

Dear Manjeet, I did mention that money Bahoot kuchh hai & I donot deny the importance of the money. Also my openion is not based on paper knowledge but certainly based on hard facts & trueth. In general, at one stage moneny is considered very important & one works hard, sacrifices his/her comforts, leave house, leave near & dear & at times donnot bother for health & even respect. Once the money comes, he starts spending the same on comforts, health, enjoyment, respect etc. The third stage, when the person fall sick, no relief inspite of changing many dr & hospitals, he realises the real worth of money & tells the dr you take my all money but cure me & now he understands that money is not every thing. Also dear money can only improve ones appearence & not personality. The fact is that the real development takes place when one get rid of weaknesses like money. money can bring comforts but not joy, it can buy good food but not test/ satisfaction, you can get admission in costly school with money but cannot learn without hard work. Anyway earn money, use it but donot allow it to climb to our head. Money is certainly an important resource, it must be earned by legal & proper means and must be used for self & public good. regards