We are Like This Only...
Dear Friends,
First of all let me request Ritu Ji not to take these things seriously. Duniya hai or iss duniya mein kya sahi hai or kya nahin, kise pataa. The first principle one should follow here is not to take things 'personally', even if you get a PM...
Now let us understand human psyche too. No, I am not qualified to speak on this subject but may be what I am going to say has some truth in it.
No one knows the 'Real Persons' with whom we interact on this site. The exceptions are those who have met personally or those who are related. Even one or two meetings don't reveal the 'Real You & Me'. We are of all types here. Bored or should I say desperate and happy husbands & housewives, happy & unhappy employees, struggling students, neglected or loved individuals, jealous or appreciative kind of people and all other types. Koi aisa hai jisko kabhi pyaar nahin milaa or koi jisko kabhi mil hi nahin saktaa. No one knows for sure as to which agenda one is following. Even the identity of some of us is questionable. This is the milieu we must learn to survive in. Koi aadha pagal hai ar koi poora hon ne ho rya hai. Koi apni biwi se khush hai, koi naukri se. Ar koi biwi se pareshan, koi chokri se. Kissi ki girl friend bhaaj gi ar koi koi to aisa hai jis ki kade girl friend banay hi nahin sakti. Saari kism ke insaan hain yahaan.
And if there was something missing: We are all JATS. Saare LEADER hain. EGO himalaya jitni unchee. Gussa naak pe. Ek doosre ko neecha dikhane ka jaise koi competition jeetna ho. Char paanch ek taraf ho kar kissi ek ne gher lyo ar uskaa banaa do murga. Jo becharaa sharmaata chup chaap kuchh na boltaa, uska katai jee kadh dyo.
And then we discuss about mitigating the problems of the community. Bhai, kisi ko buraa lage to lagnaa chahiye. People should at least try and behave with greater maturity. Do we have to go to a training institute to learn that we need to respect women, physically challenged, old & elderly? And a request to even women members. Since you want equal status in every sphere, please be bold enough to sort out such problems privately. Ignore people whom you don't want to interact with but please understand that you can't stop people from sending you a PM.
Meraa te weekend ka naash kare e diya tam ne. Aare Bhai DEV, ibb kuchh aap hi badhiya sa sunaa dyo.
Regards,
JS Malik
Dear Friends,
First of all let me request Ritu Ji not to take these things seriously. Duniya hai or iss duniya mein kya sahi hai or kya nahin, kise pataa. The first principle one should follow here is not to take things 'personally', even if you get a PM...
Now let us understand human psyche too. No, I am not qualified to speak on this subject but may be what I am going to say has some truth in it.
No one knows the 'Real Persons' with whom we interact on this site. The exceptions are those who have met personally or those who are related. Even one or two meetings don't reveal the 'Real You & Me'. We are of all types here. Bored or should I say desperate and happy husbands & housewives, happy & unhappy employees, struggling students, neglected or loved individuals, jealous or appreciative kind of people and all other types. Koi aisa hai jisko kabhi pyaar nahin milaa or koi jisko kabhi mil hi nahin saktaa. No one knows for sure as to which agenda one is following. Even the identity of some of us is questionable. This is the milieu we must learn to survive in. Koi aadha pagal hai ar koi poora hon ne ho rya hai. Koi apni biwi se khush hai, koi naukri se. Ar koi biwi se pareshan, koi chokri se. Kissi ki girl friend bhaaj gi ar koi koi to aisa hai jis ki kade girl friend banay hi nahin sakti. Saari kism ke insaan hain yahaan.
And if there was something missing: We are all JATS. Saare LEADER hain. EGO himalaya jitni unchee. Gussa naak pe. Ek doosre ko neecha dikhane ka jaise koi competition jeetna ho. Char paanch ek taraf ho kar kissi ek ne gher lyo ar uskaa banaa do murga. Jo becharaa sharmaata chup chaap kuchh na boltaa, uska katai jee kadh dyo.
And then we discuss about mitigating the problems of the community. Bhai, kisi ko buraa lage to lagnaa chahiye. People should at least try and behave with greater maturity. Do we have to go to a training institute to learn that we need to respect women, physically challenged, old & elderly? And a request to even women members. Since you want equal status in every sphere, please be bold enough to sort out such problems privately. Ignore people whom you don't want to interact with but please understand that you can't stop people from sending you a PM.
Meraa te weekend ka naash kare e diya tam ne. Aare Bhai DEV, ibb kuchh aap hi badhiya sa sunaa dyo.
Regards,
JS Malik
sukh shanti tai shuru key din likadd gey jibb manne post na gerni aavein thi
par kaiyan kai to ignore ka matlab bi na samjh aata....
