I recently watched a documentary about the caste system in India and got into a discussion with my husband
(also a Jat btw but unlike me, not just born but also bred in India).
I thought it would be interesting to find out the views of fellow Jats about this subject, especially those of you living in India (who are perhaps more directly confronted with this issue).
My personal conclusion is that despite all modernization and westernization of Indian society (or even Indians living abroad), there will always be a caste system. The only factor that may be slowly changing this ancient system is the fact that the younger generations, who are more educated and more open-minded, have a different attitude towards it. Even though people of all castes are mixing together socially nowadays, it does not mean that the caste system has ceased to exist. The best example is marriage within castes. If there is no such thing as the caste system, then there would not be marriage advertisements and directories of Indians with their castes specifically stated, and there would not be the emphasis on marrying someone in the same caste.
But my contention is that people of the same caste sticking together is normal, it just happens. And you have a certain pride that goes along with it too. Like a certain tradition that you want to keep going. It's the same as when you join an association of the same ethnicity cos you want to keep the culture together; you want to keep the culture alive. As with any other traditions, it depends strongly on the parent’s teachings for the traditions to survive. Ultimately, it depends on the upcoming generations to carry on the tradition and if they do not believe in it, will the great walls of the caste system soon be crumbling down ???
But I would be a hypocrite if I would not admit to you that despite all my education and having been brought up in the west, I would still freak out if one day my son would come home and announce that he will be marrying someone from SC (but well, I have time on my side; my son probably will not be contemplating marriage for at least 25 more years, give or take a few, so I still have all these years to work on my enlightenment!
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I thought it would be interesting to find out the views of fellow Jats about this subject, especially those of you living in India (who are perhaps more directly confronted with this issue).
My personal conclusion is that despite all modernization and westernization of Indian society (or even Indians living abroad), there will always be a caste system. The only factor that may be slowly changing this ancient system is the fact that the younger generations, who are more educated and more open-minded, have a different attitude towards it. Even though people of all castes are mixing together socially nowadays, it does not mean that the caste system has ceased to exist. The best example is marriage within castes. If there is no such thing as the caste system, then there would not be marriage advertisements and directories of Indians with their castes specifically stated, and there would not be the emphasis on marrying someone in the same caste.
But my contention is that people of the same caste sticking together is normal, it just happens. And you have a certain pride that goes along with it too. Like a certain tradition that you want to keep going. It's the same as when you join an association of the same ethnicity cos you want to keep the culture together; you want to keep the culture alive. As with any other traditions, it depends strongly on the parent’s teachings for the traditions to survive. Ultimately, it depends on the upcoming generations to carry on the tradition and if they do not believe in it, will the great walls of the caste system soon be crumbling down ???
But I would be a hypocrite if I would not admit to you that despite all my education and having been brought up in the west, I would still freak out if one day my son would come home and announce that he will be marrying someone from SC (but well, I have time on my side; my son probably will not be contemplating marriage for at least 25 more years, give or take a few, so I still have all these years to work on my enlightenment!