Dr sahab, similar thing happened with me with BJP, Mr Rambilash sharma, president Haryana BJP Party, we knew each other from school days, never spoke to me/met after 1970, last year on 25 aug, when I won ex-services league elections, next day morning he gave call and invited to a function to preside over the function, there was time gap of 6days, third day one my class mate of college met me and asked me whether I was joining BJP, BECAUSE THERE WAS ANNOUNCEMENT AT MOHANDER TOWN THAT COL FATEH SINGH IS JOINING BJP, I immediately declined to attend the faction with some excuse, next day received the request of Santosh madam who had been MLA from our constituency and now BJP candidates, to visit my house in village, I accepted the request, she was to come after three days, next day my brother was told by one person that col sahab is joining BJP santosh madam is going to declare in our village one her visit to the village, I had to cancel her program, so brother these political parties are like this only