Compliment giving :(-:-):

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No adjectives sort of things for Sunita ji , but i am a big fan of her.
 
Every individual has his/her own Genre.

I think most of the people here are Kind Hearted, Supportive, Avuncular, Eloquent, Phlegmatic & Loaded with deserving Aplomb.

But the problem is, sometimes Sarcasting nature gets dominated over all the qualities...:):):)

After all hai to Jat hi naa hum sab...hahahahhha:):):)
 
Someone learned told me that we must not keep with us any good thing we notice about someone, rather we must compliment him or her genuinely.

We, the people over here come from diverse kind of backgrounds and everyone has something or the other exclusive in him or her! Some are great writers while some are great fighters! Some are oceans of knowledge, some just searching for some such drops. Lets give compliments to each other for anything worth it, anything good we notice about each other ! Compliment must preferably be given in style, and that will be the fun part! Lets give it a try ! :)
Very interesting, again!

Although it doesn't quite come naturally to me, It's an Art! and I'm still trying to learn...

It feels wonderful to recieve a 'Straight from the heart' compliment & the manner it's given if is like the perfect icing on the cake, sweeps you off your feet.

Equally joyous is to watch the person you just complimented erupt into a spontaneous 'cheek to cheek' smile. A sure fire sign to know it really worked!

Does anyone know of any books/URLs which teach this art? :)
 
Very interesting, again!

Although it doesn't quite come naturally to me, It's an Art! and I'm still trying to learn...

It feels wonderful to recieve a 'Straight from the heart' compliment & the manner it's given if is like the perfect icing on the cake, sweeps you off your feet.

Equally joyous is to watch the person you just complimented erupt into a spontaneous 'cheek to cheek' smile. A sure fire sign to know it really worked!

Does anyone know of any books/URLs which teach this art? :)


Ans still all this ended up with no compliments !! Just your usual exclaimation of an interesting topic :) Well, try, try and you will suceed will surely work ! And the URL you asked is : www.hey-dont-shy-just-give-compliments.com ! Moreover, they are absolutely free to begin with!!
 
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rajendar sir bilkul sahi baat kahi hai

Someone learned told me that we must not keep with us any good thing we notice about someone, rather we must compliment him or her genuinely.

We, the people over here come from diverse kind of backgrounds and everyone has something or the other exclusive in him or her! Some are great writers while some are great fighters! Some are oceans of knowledge, some just searching for some such drops. Lets give compliments to each other for anything worth it, anything good we notice about each other ! Compliment must preferably be given in style, and that will be the fun part! Lets give it a try ! :)

Jis din Jat compliments dena seekh lenge, us din Duniya par Jatton ka Jhanda na lehra jayega... Kash ki wo din jaldi aaye...

RK^2

Or aisa bhi nahi hai ki we jats never tried to give compliments..I tried many times but people around me felt very strange.... example..

During my college time..my friend cooked matar poolaav and bring it in the college for me. I ate one spoon and really that was good enough to finish the whole tiffin :) . I smiled and said its awesome and very tasty..And you know what she did to me...she took the tiffin away from me and said (sounding very low).."mujhe pata hai...ye acha nahi bana...itna mazaak udaane ki kaya zaroorat thi..tum agar chupchaap kha lete to vahi bahut tha" :)

And from next day she stopped bringing lunch for me. eb bolo ise compliment ne ke chaatoon..jo bhookha e maar de....
and the same is happening with me till today...par bhaiyoo himaat ni haarii... jab bhi jo acha laga appreciate zaroor kara hai...

And Shweta Ji...you are a pool of creativity...always bring new ideas here to discuss on and to share our thoughts and top on that I really enjoyed ur posts.

Dayanad and Rajendra Sir -- to be very frank--u r enough mature and idol for me to learn how to keep ur life full of joy and knowledge with positive atitude.

All inventers of sundoo -- Bhaiyoo aap log to gajab hi ho...shabd nahin hai mere paas aap logoon ke liye...bas itna hai -- many times when I am alone and when I m lost...I use to read your posts and that always bring smile on my face....thanks...

All Shayars/Poets -- You all have a pure heart..keep pouring it...its my favorite part on jatland.....thanks for sharing the pure/deep/touching/meaningful stuff. It always reminds me - Jats are somewhat similar to coconut -- Hard and soft both together.

All readers always ready with comments -- Aap logoon ke bina to Jatland bilkul adhoora hai...aap hi ho jo kisi bhi thread ko itna interesting bana dete ho..ki bas zindgi main maja aajata hai...you all are enough capable to make a heavy stuff into a light one and know how to enjoy the life in a bad worst situation. Mere hisaab se jaan ho jatland ki...apne andar se is chanchalta ko kabhi khatam na hone dena....

Last but not least -- All who thought of making the Jatland.com are very wonderful people.Its because of you only that we all are together on this site and know so many good jats in different parts of India and world to share and with dare.

Ar saaroon ko ek e compliment -- Ghane kasoote Jat so saare ke saare...

Keep it up. Eb aap bhi isne mazaak na maan liyo.. :)
 
Ek yaha pe superman bhi hai ,jo kaafi hasta hai !! 'No pun intended' bol ke fun hi fun karta hai !! Melodrama pe baat kare to kabhi cricket ke par kutartaa hai !! Kehne ko vo Videsh me bastaa hai, par dil me poora bhaarat rakhta hai !! Lekhni ke unki kya kehne, poora Jatland unko pasand kartaa hai !! (Any guesses ! So much tough to tell na? Who is that TAU ji now?) :) ;)

Bhaiyee-re, ebbae to Beraa konya kunn sai! Per jad bera paat gya to buss uski khaer konee....
Yunkae...Yunkae 'Sholya-ki-Basanti-ki-Mausi', hum keh rahe hein kae ek Jatland pae DO superman to ho nahee saktae, kyun theek hai na
!?! (Kya? Hum pyaara nahee bahaut SAARA bolte hein???... ama Meraaaa to dil hi kuchh aisa hai, Mausi...)

No Pun intended! ;):D:rolleyes:

Anyways, jokes apart Shweta- you seem to have put together quite a cool 'prose' there (and I on the other hand seem to have completely missed it all this time!:o)
The words rhyme very well and are quite nicely put (even if I have to say so myself!) :D ... and you know what- I think it's evident that YOU definitely seem to be maturing as a blogger with each and every successive posts and/or thread of yours!... (and yes, THAT was a genuine compliment!) ;)
 
Bhaiyee-re, ebbae to Beraa konya kunn sai! Per jad bera paat gya to buss uski khaer konee....
Yunkae...Yunkae 'Sholya-ki-Basanti-ki-Mausi', hum keh rahe hein kae ek Jatland pae DO superman to ho nahee saktae, kyun theek hai na!?! (Kya? Hum pyaara nahee bahaut SAARA bolte hein???... ama Meraaaa to dil hi kuchh aisa hai, Mausi...)

No Pun intended! ;):D:rolleyes:

Anyways, jokes apart Shweta- you seem to have put together quite a cool 'prose' there (and I on the other hand seem to have completely missed it all this time!:o)
The words rhyme very well and are quite nicely put (even if I have to say so myself!) :D ... and you know what- I think it's evident that YOU definitely seem to be maturing as a blogger with each and every successive posts and/or thread of yours!... (and yes, THAT was a genuine compliment!) ;)

Yunki........ ye kaun bolaa ? awaaz se to laagat hai ki superman hai, par vichaar se dhanno ki basanti ki mausi laage hai re ye to ;) !!! Ye to wohi baat hui......... ki kuch bhi bolo bas has lo kas ke kyonki sunaa hai ki hasi badi mehngi ho rakhii hai, aur agle Finance Act ke baad shayad ispe bhi FBT lag jaaye :) !! No pun intended, believe me or not~~ !! Now, pun apart, I mean jokes apart, thanks for the compli (....ment) And thanks for finding the prose "Cool" as is the weather here nowadays (...inspired by weather !!) and for finding me getting mature (As a blogger :) ...... ) !! BTW, ibbe khaier konyi aapki...... ibbe to udd ke dikhaaana ki padega, superman ki tariya ;)
 
Or aisa bhi nahi hai ki we jats never tried to give compliments..I tried many times but people around me felt very strange.... example..

During my college time..my friend cooked matar poolaav and bring it in the college for me. I ate one spoon and really that was good enough to finish the whole tiffin :) . I smiled and said its awesome and very tasty..And you know what she did to me...she took the tiffin away from me and said (sounding very low).."mujhe pata hai...ye acha nahi bana...itna mazaak udaane ki kaya zaroorat thi..tum agar chupchaap kha lete to vahi bahut tha" :)

And from next day she stopped bringing lunch for me. eb bolo ise compliment ne ke chaatoon..jo bhookha e maar de....
and the same is happening with me till today...par bhaiyoo himaat ni haarii... jab bhi jo acha laga appreciate zaroor kara hai...

And Shweta Ji...you are a pool of creativity...always bring new ideas here to discuss on and to share our thoughts and top on that I really enjoyed ur posts.

Dayanad and Rajendra Sir -- to be very frank--u r enough mature and idol for me to learn how to keep ur life full of joy and knowledge with positive atitude.

All inventers of sundoo -- Bhaiyoo aap log to gajab hi ho...shabd nahin hai mere paas aap logoon ke liye...bas itna hai -- many times when I am alone and when I m lost...I use to read your posts and that always bring smile on my face....thanks...

All Shayars/Poets -- You all have a pure heart..keep pouring it...its my favorite part on jatland.....thanks for sharing the pure/deep/touching/meaningful stuff. It always reminds me - Jats are somewhat similar to coconut -- Hard and soft both together.

All readers always ready with comments -- Aap logoon ke bina to Jatland bilkul adhoora hai...aap hi ho jo kisi bhi thread ko itna interesting bana dete ho..ki bas zindgi main maja aajata hai...you all are enough capable to make a heavy stuff into a light one and know how to enjoy the life in a bad worst situation. Mere hisaab se jaan ho jatland ki...apne andar se is chanchalta ko kabhi khatam na hone dena....

Last but not least -- All who thought of making the Jatland.com are very wonderful people.Its because of you only that we all are together on this site and know so many good jats in different parts of India and world to share and with dare.

Ar saaroon ko ek e compliment -- Ghane kasoote Jat so saare ke saare...

Keep it up. Eb aap bhi isne mazaak na maan liyo.. :)

Baaki baate udhaar rahi, nagad me ye bataaiye ki aap aisa kya karte the ki ladkiyaan aapke liye khanaa banaa ke laaya karti thi ;) Aur aaj tak aapke saath aisa ho raha hai...... kamaal hai !
 
Compliment giving is also an art ! At times I have noticed people fighting like anything, just by a mis-interpretation of a genuine compliment ! While at some other times, I have seen some very great people like many of us here, who give compliment just to pull someone's leg in style :) Such experiences can also be shared !
 
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I second ur thought bhai Mukesh!!

CA Sweta Ji ke निबंधो का कोई मुकाबला नही है !! lekin ye mere to sir ke upar se hi nikalte hein.... :(



Rock on
Jit



आपके लिखे हुए निबंधो का कोई मुकाबला नही है :):)



umeed hai apki likhi huwi koi book jaldi hi padhne ko milegi :):) but just one request please provide the appropriate meaning of difficult words on the left side of every page :):) taki koi mere jaisa bechara dhang se kuch padh sake :):)
 
I second ur thought bhai Mukesh!!

CA Sweta Ji ke निबंधो का कोई मुकाबला नही है !! lekin ye mere to sir ke upar se hi nikalte hein.... :(



Rock on
Jit

Naam Jitendra par khud ko 'Jit' batlaate hain ........ Kabhi is thread pe kabhi us thread pe paaye jaate hain........ Beer is better than women keh ke zor se haste jaate hain......... par jo woman inki 'beer' banegi uskaa naam chupaate hain ! ....... 'Rock on' 'Kudos' karte karte ye na kabhi thakte hain.......Mere nibandh sie ke upar se nikalte hain fir bhi ye aksar reply karte hain :)
 
Wah! Wah! Suban Allah :D:D
Hummm... aapke Ish Shayrana Andaaz se to hum waakif hi naa the!! :p:rolleyes:

Rock on
Jit


Naam Jitendra par khud ko 'Jit' batlaate hain ........ Kabhi is thread pe kabhi us thread pe paaye jaate hain........ Beer is better than women keh ke zor se haste jaate hain......... par jo woman inki 'beer' banegi uskaa naam chupaate hain ! ....... 'Rock on' 'Kudos' karte karte ye na kabhi thakte hain.......Mere nibandh sie ke upar se nikalte hain fir bhi ye aksar reply karte hain :)
 
Naam Jitendra par khud ko 'Jit' batlaate hain ........ Kabhi is thread pe kabhi us thread pe paaye jaate hain........ Beer is better than women keh ke zor se haste jaate hain......... par jo woman inki 'beer' banegi uskaa naam chupaate hain ! ....... 'Rock on' 'Kudos' karte karte ye na kabhi thakte hain.......Mere nibandh sie ke upar se nikalte hain fir bhi ye aksar reply karte hain :)

Very well said Shweta....:)

Salutations to You for ur all posts.
 
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