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[dkumars]

Is drinking(controlled) a bad habit.
Is there anything objectionable in this ?
Why our society look it with a cheap sight ?

People who don drink are more cultured or civilized ??? Why we respect more those who do not drink ???

Here, i do not mean drinking like our Jat bros who r talliiii and torture their families n create problems for others... This is infact bad but what i mean to ask is in our society if someone is drinking calmly just for enjoyment then we call them sharabi... aur gandi nazar se dekhtein hai... why ???

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Welcome all....

 

[cooljat]

Bro very gud thread started


Well my say

Occasionaly n Social drinking is Gud
Light Drinkin' with friends is Better
But Drinkin' Beer with Buddies n chillin' out is better then best

but on a serious note -

Drinkin alone is bad,
makin it habbit is worsen,
n being Talli n Torturin family is worst!!

hope it makes sense!!

Drink for fun but not on others cost!!! :


Rock on
Jit

 

[prashantacmet]

Is drinking(controlled) a bad habit.
Is there anything objectionable in this ?
Why our society look it with a cheap sight ?

People who don drink are more cultured or civilized ??? Why we respect more those who do not drink ???

Here, i do not mean drinking like our Jat bros who r talliiii and torture their families n create problems for others... This is infact bad but what i mean to ask is in our society if someone is drinking calmly just for enjoyment then we call them sharabi... aur gandi nazar se dekhtein hai... why ???

Please participate...
Welcome all....

aachhaaa ji......

 

[dkumars]

aachhaaa ji......

Yes brother ... i have seen many cases ... i used to go to Sonepat(my maama's house) by train... there i used to see our brothers and their activities... in my village and others village... and splly when they drink in some marriage parties or same kinda functions... i dunno how much u r aware of... but for me it was disgusting.

Wot say brother ?

 

[neels]

Yes brother ... i have seen many cases ... i used to go to Sonepat(my maama's house) by train... their i used to see our brothers and their activities... in my village and others village... and splly when they drink in some marriage parties or same kinda functions... i dunno how much u r aware of... but for me it was disgusting.

You gave the answer yourself why they are looked down who drink alcohol. Well I know your querry was in concern to those who r controlled,civilized n social drinkers. But the general perception of the beings is made by the ones as you ve described, and then it becomes a case of wrong generalization made on some bad encounetrs n experiences. Otherwise can notice, society don't degrade the drinks or the behaved takers, If not so,,, there wont ve been any Bar in any of the reputed n classy restaurants n hotels.

Well now about serious effects of alcohol,, then it does no good to ones health, rather impairs it.

And the general myth regarding alcohol is that its considered an intoxicant or stimulant. To be factual, alcohol is depressant in nature. It suppresses the functioning of inhibitory neurons, and in turn letting the brain overexcited.

 

[dkumars]

You gave the answer yourself why they are looked down who drink alcohol. Well I know your querry was in concern to those who r controlled,civilized n social drinkers. But the general perception of the beings is made by the ones as you ve described, and then its becomes a case of wrong generalization made on some bad encounetrs n experiences. Otherwise can notice, society don't degrade the drinks or the behaved takers, If not so,,, there wont ve been any Bar in any of the reputed n classy restaurants n hotels.

Well now about serious effects of alcohol,, then it does no good to ones health, rather impairs it.

And the general myth regarding alcohol is that its considered an intoxicant or stimulant. To be factual, alcohol is depressant in nature. It suppresses the functioning of inhibitory neurons, and in turn letting the brain overexcited.

Yeah u r cooect Neelam but here the main question is if a family is looking for a groom they prefer not to be alcoholic, even ocassionally/socially drinker... y so ??? and if ask gals also most of them also prefer an unalcoholic guy ... why so ??? wtz wrong in this ???

 

[rkumar]

Depending upom whether alcohol enjoys us or we enjoy alcohol. In my view its a good human invention if taken in moderate quantity and occasionally. Problem comes when we want to enjoy it all the time... Someone defined the evil as " Good carried out in excess". I this should explain it..

RK^2

 

[rkumar]

Yeah u r cooect Neelam but here the main question is if a family is looking for a groom they prefer not to be alcoholic, even ocassionally/socially drinker... y so ??? and if ask gals also most of them also prefer an unalcoholic guy ... why so ??? wtz wrong in this ???

I don't quite agree here. Most professionally qualified girls and exposed to outside world accept social drinking these days. Rum and Vodka is not uncommon even among girls these days. I feel there are other evils which are much worst than social drinking.

RK^2

 

[neels]

Yeah u r cooect Neelam but here the main question is if a family is looking for a groom they prefer not to be alcoholic, even ocassionally/socially drinker... y so ??? and if ask gals also most of them also prefer an unalcoholic guy ... why so ??? wtz wrong in this ???

Becus they ve seen mostly the ill effects of alcohol n the alcoholics in bad shape- socially, physically n financially as well.
But not all,, those who ve seen cultured drinking in their families, they don't avert to it e.g. in the military families. N other than this,,, some to girls are too advanced these days, they don mind drinks,, wine is very common,,,beer, n hard liquors also for some.

 

[devdahiya]

Peene mei koi burai nahin par rojj na pi
Madhosh na ho pi ke,jara soch kar ji

2 peg burre nahin kabhi-2
Maine bhi liye hein abhi-2
Madhosh.....................

Dhhikaar hei gar kabhi behko nashe mein shraab ke
Aur kha jao dodde 40 kababb ke
Dekha hei bottal ko nachte kabhi
Madhosh.............

Na nikal galat shabd pee ke 2 ghuntt kissi ke shaan ke khilap
Nahin tou todd dega sarre daantt koi baap
mahine mein ek baar dil khol ke pi
Madhosh..................

Ye udhhari takat hei kuchh kaam nahin aati
Aadatt gar padd jaye tou sudhhari nahin jaati
issliye na khushi mei pi na gamm mei pi
Madhosh..................................

 

[dkumars]

Becus they ve seen mostly the ill effects of alcohol n the alcoholics in bad shape- socially, physically n financially as well.
But not all,, those who ve seen cultured drinking in their families, they don't avert to it e.g. in the military families. N other than this,,, some to girls are too advanced these days, they don mind drinks,, wine is very common,,,beer, n hard liquors also for some.

Thanks

 

[dkumars]

Peene mei koi burai nahin par rojj na pi
Madhosh na ho pi ke,jara soch kar ji

2 peg burre nahin kabhi-2
Maine bhi liye hein abhi-2
Madhosh.....................

Dhhikaar hei gar kabhi behko nashe mein shraab ke
Aur kha jao dodde 40 kababb ke
Dekha hei bottal ko nachte kabhi
Madhosh.............

Na nikal galat shabd pee ke 2 ghuntt kissi ke shaan ke khilap
Nahin tou todd dega sarre daantt koi baap
mahine mein ek baar dil khol ke pi
Madhosh..................

Ye udhhari takat hei kuchh kaam nahin aati
Aadatt gar padd jaye tou sudhhari nahin jaati
issliye na khushi mei pi na gamm mei pi
Madhosh..................................

Kaka sach bolu toh mujhe pata tha aur intezaar tha aapki kavita roopi jawaab ka... bahut badhiya kaka... khair aap pee kar aur bhi achhi likhte hai... hehe

 

[dkumars]

I don't quite agree here. Most professionally qualified girls and exposed to outside world accept social drinking these days. Rum and Vodka is not uncommon even among girls these days. I feel there are other evils which are much worst than social drinking.

RK^2

Yeah ... bahut achha sir.

 

[netrapalsingh]

ek kahavat sunee thee kahi

"pyale se peete the jee bhar ke jeete the
gilaas se peete the murde se jeete the
lagayee jo botal hee muh se
mayat me pade najar ate the................

1. bahiyo daroo peene ke kai bahane hai ye shadee, party,.....etc.....
enjoyment ke liye peena jarooree hai mai ye nahi mantaa.

2. Sharab kee badboo muh se atee hai to logo nafrat hee karenge chae roj peo ya kabhi kabhi.... or ho sakta hai joot bhee pad jaye... bade budho ke..

ek kahavt or bhee hai nashediyo ke liye:

Bhang mange bhungda
Ganja mange ghee
Daroo mange Khussda (Jutte)
n mane to pee...............

Netra.....

 

[yudhvirmor]

Is drinking(controlled) a bad habit.
...

I think socially drinking is acceptable in urban areas across the castes and religions. Rest depends upone how someobody started drinking.. Gernally guys start in colleges and they hide from parents and then they create brawls everywhere. Most of people have the preception that after drinking they are authorized to create panic among others.

I think better approach is if parents tell their wards about advantages and disadvantages. All depends upon how open is the communication channel between youngsters and parents.

 

[sunitahooda]

Devendra You have questioned and answered yourself. But drinking SENSIBLY and BEHAVE is simply out of control and context for MOST of jat/Indians. People purposefully drink to abuse to let others down f they have some rage in their mind towards someone in friends or family. MOst of the parents lie that boy doesn't drink and never even smoked then later he's found to be a DRUNKARD. But if one keeps himself in senses then there's no harm in drinking. But seriously most jats/Indians don't even look and behave like Men after drinking Aur sharabi ko sabhi Sharabi hi kehtey hain.... the Quanitity of Intake doesn't count

Is drinking(controlled) a bad habit.
Is there anything objectionable in this ?
Why our society look it with a cheap sight ?

People who don drink are more cultured or civilized ??? Why we respect more those who do not drink ???

Here, i do not mean drinking like our Jat bros who r talliiii and torture their families n create problems for others... This is infact bad but what i mean to ask is in our society if someone is drinking calmly just for enjoyment then we call them sharabi... aur gandi nazar se dekhtein hai... why ???

Please participate...
Welcome all....

 

[yudhvirmor]

Devendra You have questioned and answered yourself. But drinking SENSIBLY Aur sharabi ko sabhi Sharabi hi kehtey hain.... the Quanitity of Intake doesn't count

Because booze is aliegn thing to our culture. We are not like french dat we take it everyday with meal, so we gernalize everybody as Sharabi. However, Quantity and attitude does matter, when somebody booze.

 

[pnauhwar21]

While everyone agrees that excess drinking is bad, the problem is even with social drinking - even 2 pegs of beer can diminish your thinking power and an iota of error can cause accidents if you drink n drive..I don't understand any logical reasoning of even social drinking when we have seen 70% of the social drinkers exceeding the intake and creating scenes at either party, marriages etc. On top of that, if someone doesn't drink, they say that you are not enjoying life - how come drinking liquor became a parameter of enjoying life? Frankly speaking my dad drinks beer socially but I have always questioned him why its needed..you are going to smell bad..its not even tasty..n you can't drive properly endangering both yours as well as others life..

In marriages n parties, I have seen lot of my friends drinking uncontrollably (Socially) just coz its free (!!) and doing all kind of foolish things..and I enjoy more seeing their antics and laughing at their sorry state..If you want to know truth from someone, give him 4 pegs of rum/whisky and there you have it..

All you drinkers out there, give some real good reasons of drinking besides quoting '2 pegs are good for health' - we all know no body stops at 2 pegs. Give some serious reasons..

 

[skarmveer]

I agree with Prashant 100%.

Why its really needs at social functions? why its required even a single pag?

What is the test of it ? log peetey samy naak-moonh keu sikodtey hai ?

Jab koi sawad nahi hai, sehat key liyea theek nahi hai, Samaj mein bhee achchh nahi mana jata or peeney key baad hamara apney uper hee control nahi rehta fir peeney ke kya jarurat hai ?

While everyone agrees that excess drinking is bad, the problem is even with social drinking - even 2 pegs of beer can diminish your thinking power and an iota of error can cause accidents if you drink n drive..I don't understand any logical reasoning of even social drinking when we have seen 70% of the social drinkers exceeding the intake and creating scenes at either party, marriages etc. On top of that, if someone doesn't drink, they say that you are not enjoying life - how come drinking liquor became a parameter of enjoying life? Frankly speaking my dad drinks beer socially but I have always questioned him why its needed..you are going to smell bad..its not even tasty..n you can't drive properly endangering both yours as well as others life..

In marriages n parties, I have seen lot of my friends drinking uncontrollably (Socially) just coz its free (!!) and doing all kind of foolish things..and I enjoy more seeing their antics and laughing at their sorry state..If you want to know truth from someone, give him 4 pegs of rum/whisky and there you have it..

All you drinkers out there, give some real good reasons of drinking besides quoting '2 pegs are good for health' - we all know no body stops at 2 pegs. Give some serious reasons..

 

[prashantacmet]

Yes brother ... i have seen many cases ... i used to go to Sonepat(my maama's house) by train... there i used to see our brothers and their activities... in my village and others village... and splly when they drink in some marriage parties or same kinda functions... i dunno how much u r aware of... but for me it was disgusting.

Wot say brother ?

bhaii............main chup-chupalla hi pada rahu.....nuhi theek rahegaa.... na to fer rolla hogga .......iss socialize arr moderate drinking ka byara majhe. ...kasek ho ya