hahahahaha..main to ladkiyan ka paksh lyoon tha..
..makha ek point aur add kar dyoon hoon..strong argument banan khatar..ke ladkiyaan ke jeans pai ban nahi lana chahiye 
Decision to ban girls from wearing jeans
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hahahahaha..main to ladkiyan ka paksh lyoon tha..
..makha ek point aur add kar dyoon hoon..strong argument banan khatar..ke ladkiyaan ke jeans pai ban nahi lana chahiye jyotikohar
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It was interesting debate which I happened to watch yesterday on 'Big Fight'.
You are right Atish people in India, in general, are nurturing prejudices against the fairer sex. As Suhel Seth rightly said during the debate, 'morality is something contextual'. It is unethical to impose our perceived morality on others unless they encroach upon our domain of privacy, liberty and civility. In my assessment, after a certain age when a person's lower half stops secreting 'feel good hormones' and the fluid energy, they tend to become irritating and jealous of the gen next. They conveniently forget their days when they used to seek opportunities to have a glance of the 'veiled village beauties' on their way to 'Panghat'.
ravinderpannu
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tomarhitesh23
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VPsingh sir bhartiya dhoti ki itni beijjatti thik nahi... aap krapya google karain aur jeans ki disadvantages ko dekhe... doctors has also admitted the disadvantages and bad impacts of tight jeans ... or haan bra ka waise to koi jikra tha hi nahi par apne chheda hai to.. krapya share jeans ki bra bhi hoti hai kya???
cutejaatsandeep
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meree jaat bhahiyoo ko sandeep sahrawat ka raam raam.....bhahiyoo meree khayal tee ab hummee nayaa thread start karnaa chahiye wid d heading-jat agitation in jind for mirchpur violencee.news to aap sab ne pad hi li hogi kee jato ne harayna ke jind mai pichleee 9dino se rail track jaam kar rakhyaa see.yee muhimm 42 khapo nee start kari diii n isse aab 121 khap support kar rahi hai....jind kaa sab raaste jato ne block kar diye hai..n jaldi hisar ke bhi block kar dengee...yoo dekh kee acha lagya ke jat kissi matter pee to eek hue...i hopeee arakshan ke liyee bhi aise hi unity show karee....thanxx bhaiyoo
tomarhitesh23
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हितेश,
धोती का अपमान करने की कोई मंशा नहीं भाई I धोती के भी अपने फायदे हैं परन्तु comfort level , functional convenience और cost effectiveness के हिसाब से jeans ज्यादा अच्छा पर्याय (substitute ) है I बाकी तो किसी पर कोई पहनावा थोम्पा नहीं जा सकता चाहे वो jeans हो या धोती I और भाई jean की ब्रा बन तो सकती हैं पर ज्यादा लोकप्रिय नहीं है I इसका जिक्र तो वैसे मिसाल के तौर पर किया गया था I वैसे धोती और साड़ी के जो फायदे हैं उनका जिक्र खुशवंत सिंह ने भी किया है अपने लेखों और चुटकुलों में परन्तु उनका विस्तारपूर्वक वर्णन यहाँ नहीं किया जा सकता I
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ravinderjeet
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डीप सी
jiji naam ki spelling sahi likhe ae tae suwad aa jyate
haryanvi me likhaa s
bijendermalik
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भाई हरेंद्र तोमर: आपने weekend पर sabko व्यस्त हर रखा :rock
In my opinion being a parents we should be doing following (not because of khap panchayat)
• Keep an eye on your kids dress/activities/education/emotions/behavior, what they are doing, give enough time to them so that they never feel neglected and instead of getting an opinion from you will find answers of their questions from other kids or take things in own hand to decide what is good or bad.
• Be a friend of your kid (be it watching movies, game, discussion, news) – not a stubborn parent: try to explain things with reasons they will listen. Set your parameter for 50% success not 100%, if something goes wrong try to be a friend not an egoistic parents. If we follow this our kids will come to us for opinions.
• Education is a must and no compromise specifically for girls as girls play a vital role in overall progress of society.
• When you get married be against of the dowry customs: boys have to take this decision, deny with respect (don’t be rude with in-laws but explain with respect, still if they say this is we are giving to our daughter explain with regards: her needs are for me to fulfill and if we need we will ask you).
When we were kids there were limited resources but now we have enough info(internet/ media/elders/ money) around us to make use for the growth of our kids - they are our real gem.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/6/t061300.asp
www.parenting.com
www.kidsdevelopment.co.uk
http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/index.html
It’s a good wearing apparel in office can go for it but still for villages I will try to avoid it (jaisa desh waisa bhes). Eat what you love but wear what other like: but it should be a decent dress.
In my opinion being a parents we should be doing following (not because of khap panchayat)
• Keep an eye on your kids dress/activities/education/emotions/behavior, what they are doing, give enough time to them so that they never feel neglected and instead of getting an opinion from you will find answers of their questions from other kids or take things in own hand to decide what is good or bad.
• Be a friend of your kid (be it watching movies, game, discussion, news) – not a stubborn parent: try to explain things with reasons they will listen. Set your parameter for 50% success not 100%, if something goes wrong try to be a friend not an egoistic parents. If we follow this our kids will come to us for opinions.
• Education is a must and no compromise specifically for girls as girls play a vital role in overall progress of society.
• When you get married be against of the dowry customs: boys have to take this decision, deny with respect (don’t be rude with in-laws but explain with respect, still if they say this is we are giving to our daughter explain with regards: her needs are for me to fulfill and if we need we will ask you).
When we were kids there were limited resources but now we have enough info(internet/ media/elders/ money) around us to make use for the growth of our kids - they are our real gem.
http://www.askdrsears.com/html/6/t061300.asp
www.parenting.com
www.kidsdevelopment.co.uk
http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/index.html
I think, jeen is much batter than salwar/ghaghra. Secondly, it is not understood as to why our panchayats are wasting their time in such useless so called solutions. I personally feel, a good education, good bringingup & good examples by parents & elders is the answer. regards
agar koi ladki jeans pahanti hai.gaon mai thoda ajeeb to lagta hai, but uske parants dekhenge.khap panchayat ko is bata kojyada tool dene nahi chahiye.
I agree with bijendra.Education is must.
jaha tak dowery ki bata hai to agar parants api ladki ko dena chahte hai to isme koi dikkat nahi.mna nahi karna chahiye but demand nahi honi chahiye.
next topic was about paranting. jitne resource bade hai utna hi bachpan kho gya.aaj se 15-20 saal pahle ka dekho to bachpan tha aj to computer game and internet mai hi kho jaate hai bachche.bachche ko bachcha rahne do use time se pahle bda mat bnao.yahi life ka best time hota hai.
najar rakkho us par jisse kuchh glat na kare.
I agree with bijendra.Education is must.
jaha tak dowery ki bata hai to agar parants api ladki ko dena chahte hai to isme koi dikkat nahi.mna nahi karna chahiye but demand nahi honi chahiye.
next topic was about paranting. jitne resource bade hai utna hi bachpan kho gya.aaj se 15-20 saal pahle ka dekho to bachpan tha aj to computer game and internet mai hi kho jaate hai bachche.bachche ko bachcha rahne do use time se pahle bda mat bnao.yahi life ka best time hota hai.
najar rakkho us par jisse kuchh glat na kare.
Jagmohan bhai is khap panchayat me koi biology me itna strong na hai jo aapki tarah itna soche........... ye to bus ye dekhe hain ki chorri jeans pehar ri hai aur 4-5 chorra ne va dekh li to samjho owner killing ki vajah ya jeans hai.
jabki aisa na hai, time k sath sab change hona chahiye, jeans pehno usme bhi body dhak k rehti hai na ki open hoti hai, ladki jeans pehne ya suit-salwar agar kisi ki nazar me khot hoga to vo inme k bhi kuch galat e dekhega.
yaha jeans ya tops pe ban lagane ki bajaye apni soch badalne ki jyda jarurat hai.
The Hypo critic society does not allow that. Indian society is a male dominated society
Atish bhai aapki baat sahi hai ki Indian society is a male dominated society , ye baat gaav me clear dekhne ko mil jati hai.
Lekin main baat ye hai ki koi kya pehata hai vo us pe depend hota hai, har koi apni sahuliyat k according pehanta hai.
lekin ye baat sahi ni hai ki gaam ki ladkiya jeans pehanne lage to unka chal-dhall badal jata hai. balki ye kehna chahiye bi gandi nazar walo ki nazar aur gandi ho jati hai.
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Bhai main to ek baat sochu hoon ki na jeans ban karo aur na tops ban karo, agar khap panchayat ne kuch karna hai to aisa rule banao ki jo insaan kisi ladki k sath koi galat harkat kare use gaam se nikal do ya uska vo haal karo ki koi aur aisa karne se pehle soche.
kyuki jo ye rape case hote hain unme sari chorri jeans na pehri hoti, balki logo ko apni havas mitane k liye na jeans dikha kare aur na suit-salwar........ isliye in kapdo pe ban lagane te koi fayda na se, acha yo e hai ki pehle apne apne gaam ne ache te dekho ki kis kis te unki bahu-batiya ne khatra se, jab koi solution niklega.
baki kuch galat kaha ho to bhai bata diyo.
bijendermalik
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I hope we always think: we Jats are knowledgeable, laborious, faithful also trustworthy than still why we are backward: - one short answer is we participate in bullying (physical, verbal, emotional) also with both hands and don’t know the limits when to stop.
We must know all the facts, hear all the alternatives and listen to all the criticisms - let it be khap panchayat but never be a part of bullying, one should listen to others but must do things with her/his own analytical ability.
Few days back I read one article in local newspaper about teachers “The role of a teacher in nation building” and ladies play a vital role in that. Beacuse in comparison to men ladies have more patience, forgiveness, kindness, emotional boost, motherly nature, sensitive – which every kid (3-15 years) needs always. So let’s forget about what Khap guys are doing let’s think how to contribute to our society and make it healthy.
Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country/society: John f Kennedy
We must know all the facts, hear all the alternatives and listen to all the criticisms - let it be khap panchayat but never be a part of bullying, one should listen to others but must do things with her/his own analytical ability.
Few days back I read one article in local newspaper about teachers “The role of a teacher in nation building” and ladies play a vital role in that. Beacuse in comparison to men ladies have more patience, forgiveness, kindness, emotional boost, motherly nature, sensitive – which every kid (3-15 years) needs always. So let’s forget about what Khap guys are doing let’s think how to contribute to our society and make it healthy.
Ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country/society: John f Kennedy
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Na bhai teri saari baat thik sain :rock :rock
I agree that girls should not wear tight fight (specifically in villages or small towns, not applicable in metropolitan cities or offices if suite is not a dress), the reason is most of us (young guys 14-30) are not mature enough to decide where/when to stop in case of distractions. And if a girl is not exposing herself chances of eve-teasing are very low.
As per the sperm count goes studies don’t blame jeans for that. http://health.ninemsn.com.au/whatsg...3/does-wearing-tight-jeans-make-men-infertile
So if tight pants don't cause infertility, what does?
"The cause of infertility in males can vary, often we don't find a reason why sperm counts are reduced but the obvious ones are certainly poisons and toxins that we're exposed to such as smoking cigarettes, social drugs but also other chemotherapy agents, infection, trauma to the testes — lots of things can upset the way the testes normally produce it's sperm," says Dr Gordon.
And if you happen to like hot baths, think again. Studies in Japan and the US suggest taking a bath at 42 degrees, three times a week, can significantly lower your sperm count.
The good news is, it's reversible. Just wait six to eight weeks and your body will make a new batch of healthy sperm.
दामन और स्किर्ट में क्या फर्क है? : I think below images may be a help:
Ooo bete ... kim kardashian toh ke laya hai ... ghana internet surf mat karya kar ... achha na hai sehat tahi.