Didi kisko bola ?

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Well Vivek this is my real self....people trying hard to crash....coming to the point its a matter of percetion how that girl looked at it and may be that girl was dwindling between good n bad Old n Modern and for her being modern means only FRIENDSHIP :)
vivekdh said:
ibb bera pat gaya ke aap katti sahi ho aaj naa to apki baatan te lagge tha ke sunita ke naam te koi badiya chori login ker rahi hai :D:D
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sunitahooda said:
Kah ley-kah ley....mera sayyam itni tawli na tuttya kare....arr dhakossley mere bass ke konya....jit suthri jaruri ho udde suthri karya karu arr jiss baat pai khoon khollna ho udde bhoondi bi karya karu....nakli meethas tapkaani manne na aata....arr Kameen tu ibb Rohtak aave tai jarur batayiye....tere tattey chimttey laane sain;):p
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Bebey ye sab off topic chal rhya se...battanna merra farraz se...bakki thhari marjji.
 
hahahahahaha
main to ji aaye sat-sun aaya karu hu rohtak per nu to bata do tattey chimttey kyu lane hain mere me ke sunita bad rahi hai :p:D


sunitahooda said:
Kah ley-kah ley....mera sayyam itni tawli na tuttya kare....arr dhakossley mere bass ke konya....jit suthri jaruri ho udde suthri karya karu arr jiss baat pai khoon khollna ho udde bhoondi bi karya karu....nakli meethas tapkaani manne na aata....arr Kameen tu ibb Rohtak aave tai jarur batayiye....tere tattey chimttey laane sain;):p
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sunitahooda said:
Manisha point no-1....How can she know that she's is younger than Mukesh if they are unknown and Point No-2... Mukesh has a very kind and polite tone which being a Rajasthani always sound SWEET for sure 3. I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)
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Yes Di..:) You know him well but not necessarily that girl might have known him. But i dont know wat might have transpired between the girl and Mukesh becoz neither I nor you were present thats y ive used may be or might be while talking these are just my assumptions . Even I happen to travel a lot daily to my work place and encounter lots of guys and girls during my journey so i have reached up.
As you have said "now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN" we respect others then only we call them bhaiya, didi aur behan be it a stranger or persons known to us that was the point even i have tried to convey at the end...:)
 
Lekin Vivek chahe din mein kitney bhi bhai banayein par galat bhawna to nahi hoti hogi aur rahi uss ladki ki baat to jawab mai pehley de chuki hoon ki uss laddki mein aur bohot si laddkiyon aur aurton mein sada jawan ban-ney ki laalsa itni strong hoti hai ki biffar uthti hain...Mai tumhey Didi lagti hoon kya? ya fir Haye-Haye mujhe Auntie matt bolo....:D:p pata nahi inn shabdon se itna dar kyu lagta hai:o Mujhe college ki ak ghatna yaad hai Meri badi bahan ki classmate jisko mai Didi kehti thi....2 saal ke gap ke baad B.Ed me Jat college me classmate ban gayi to maine puraney tareekey se Didi bolna shuru kiya 2-3 ke baad bolli Haye Hooda please tu manne naam le kai bolya kar chhorey ke kahaeingey akk mai tere tai baddi su:D arr manne mushkila si Anju kahan ki aadat gerri:o
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Sunita ji apki last wali baat se thoda saa asehmat hu main
e.g.
rikshwa wala bhaiya
dhud wala bhaiya
kisi bhi dukan pe chale jao bhaiya wo wala suit dhikana
bhaiya ye wali nahi wo wale chips chaiye
bhaiya tamter kaise diye nahi bhaiya mhange de rahe ho

issi terha 1 din me shahar ki ladki hazaron bhaiya banati hai per koi ladka didi bol de to galat baat ho jatti hai :D
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guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)


devdahiya said:
Bebey ye sab off topic chal rhya se...battanna merra farraz se...bakki thhari marjji.
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I strongly disagree atleast LET MUKESH BE WHAT AND HOW HE WANTS TO BE.... sirf ek ladki ke galat expression ki wajah se Mukesh ko apni Prakriti kyu tyagni chahiye? May be that girl will later realize that she was wrong. Why should we get swayed just BY 1 BAD INCIDENT AND CHANGE OUR YEARS OLD HIGH MORALS....we need More and more guys like Mukesh:) A BEST MAN IS WHO CAN RESPECT AN UNKNOWN LADY....APNI MAA-BAHAN KI IZZAT TO SABHI KARTEY HAIN:)
vivekdh said:
guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)
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neerajrana said:
ha bhai mukesh --Insaan vahi joo Thokar khakar sabhal jayeee.....too jo hua so to galat hii hua tere saath...par ab se Ravii aur sandeep kii baat koo samagh lenaaa................aur follow .........
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bhai maie yo thread majak karne ke liye nai dala tha..na hi suggestions ke liye..i'm enough capable to decide the right way for me... here I just wanted some serious discussion on this topic that where we went wrong in our learning process that the level of social behaviour coming down to its lowest point day to day.. why we can't take things in their positive way..
 
vivekdh said:
guruDev sunita ji jabbe baka ke le jya hain offtopic

haan to hum baat ker rahe the ki mukesh ke sath jo anhoni gatna hui uss se kaise bacha jaa sakta hai....

mera sujav hai khabi kisi ladki ko didi nahi kehna chahiye agar hum usse naa jante ho to.

hum mukesh ki baat ko alag terha se keh sakte hain

"suniye, aap thoda rasta de dijiye muje aage jana hai"

no "didi" no "madam" no "bhagwan" no "e chori" no "aunti" :)
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mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye
 
1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her...

ab yeh pata to nai chal sakta lakin this was the case then she should have corrected me instead of launching a rocket

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

jeha tak mujhe yaad hai maine koi rude tone use nai kari..lakin is case maie bi yeh reply odd hi lagta hai kyoki jab bi koi hamse rude tone maie baat karte hai to generally ek hi reply hota hai... ki bhaishaab dang se bi to bol sakte hooo

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

ab jab soch hi itni low hai to phir to kuch ilaj bi nai hai..ya to gharwalo ne sehi siksha nai di yaa phir sangat hi aisi rehi ki isse jyada kuch sochne ko mila bi nai... lakin aise soch wali ladkiyo ke wrong representation se kai sarif ladkiya faltu maie preshani maie padh jati hai..

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.


ab jab aisa hi friend circle hai to isme to kya kiya ja sakta hai..
 
sunitahooda said:
M I dont think that no matter how modern are boys nowadays that they can tease a girl by calling DIDI and what i strongly feel is that the girl was suffering some kind of COMPLEX thats why she over reacted and took the rage out on Mukesh:) and now tha last point we don't call Didi/Bahan/Bhaiya just because people are stranger its because WE HAVE DEEP-ROOTED RESPECT FOR THESE WORDS AND WE MEAN TO REGARD THAT PERSON....EVEN IF THEY ARE UNKNOWN:)
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thanx did.. here i got the answer..
 
mukeshkumar007 said:
1. May be she is younger to you, so your calling Didi may irritate her...

ab yeh pata to nai chal sakta lakin this was the case then she should have corrected me instead of launching a rocket

2. May be you had used some rude or mischeivous tone while referring her as Didi.

jeha tak mujhe yaad hai maine koi rude tone use nai kari..lakin is case maie bi yeh reply odd hi lagta hai kyoki jab bi koi hamse rude tone maie baat karte hai to generally ek hi reply hota hai... ki bhaishaab dang se bi to bol sakte hooo

3. May be she is thinking that by referring her as Didi you are teasing her.

ab jab soch hi itni low hai to phir to kuch ilaj bi nai hai..ya to gharwalo ne sehi siksha nai di yaa phir sangat hi aisi rehi ki isse jyada kuch sochne ko mila bi nai... lakin aise soch wali ladkiyo ke wrong representation se kai sarif ladkiya faltu maie preshani maie padh jati hai..

5. May be she is conscious about her being called Didi bcoz once you have left the place her other friends may taunt her being called Didi that might have caused her to say Didi kisko bola.....tere ko didi dikhti hoo kya.


ab jab aisa hi friend circle hai to isme to kya kiya ja sakta hai..
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Hey Mukesh..:)
Jst leave it Dear.. Aap jante hai ki aapne kuch galat nahi kaha so Y are u getting agitated by thinking abt the same. Jaisa Sunita Di ne kaha jst be the Best :)
God bless U ..!!:)
 
rathee.sandeep said:
mere mutaabik to kissi ladki ko
raasta chhodne ke liye kehna hi nahi chaaiye
apna rasta badl lyo,agar mumkin nhi h to
uske raaste se hatne ka intezaar krna chhaaiye
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unfortunately Rathee I don agree with u... why we consider gals special or weak or so different... they are just like boys... this is our stupid society who creates these differences... Politely asking for anything is no wrong and applicable for both the genders....
Even in busses i don appreciate vacating a seat for a girl(m not mentioning needy, like oldies, pregnant, lady with kids)... treat them just like boys... she can travel standing also if boys can... if equality is concerned keep space for it everywhere.

And abouth that didi... i wud like to say... it depends... upon the mood, individual behaviour, background etc etc... so no point to judge...

i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...
 
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dkumars said:
unfortunately Rathee I don agree with u... why we consider gals special or weak or so different... they are just like boys... this is our stupid society who creates these differences... Politely asking for anything is no wrong and applicable for both the genders....
Even in busses i don appreciate vacating a seat for a girl(m not mentioning needy, like oldies, pregnant, lady with kids)... treat them just like boys... she can travel standing also if boys can... if equality is concerned keep space for it everywhere.

And abouth that didi... i wud like to say... it depends... upon the mood, individual behaviour, background etc etc... so no point to judge...

i have seen lotta ppl become furious if u call them uncle although they are elder to ur father even... and some gaon ke dehati log feel it a matter of proud when u call them kaka or tau or dada...:)
So the best thing... address a stranger as a stranger only... sir or madam or just excuse... dats all i can suggest... call them didi, bhaiya or something after gaining his/her confidence...
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Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........
 
Te Bhaiyo ebb te hospital me bhi jange to nurse ko bhi dhyan se bolna padeg sister.............. bol na de, oa sister kisko bola be ??????????


Rathee dyan rakhiye. kade vahi admit karwa de.:D:D:D


All the best.

To all.............Just a joke, please don,t take seriously.
 
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shwetadhaka said:
Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........
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hmm.. :rolleyes:
 
shwetadhaka said:
Girls r like boys ! Well, Devendra ji, here I must say that girls & boys are totally different & are meant to be different, but when it comes to be regarded as a human, they are and should be at par!

Girls & boys, or for that matter males & females are very different as regards to their physical capacities, psycological frame of maind, attitude etc !Society also differentiates between the two sexes, but that differentiation is usually on an unhealthy note, but a healthy differentiation between the two is necessary in my opinion because of numerous reasons which u will understand the more, as u will travel more on the path of your life ! Will continue........
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well Shweta... i didn mean that differences physically or something... i do understand that differences... i just wanted to highlight their capabilities and our day to day behaviour...
More over that differences are not or being boy or gal ... those differences are coommon in all species... thats y we call one male and other female... hehe...

And mentallity, attitude, psychology they are all gifted by our society... if u r told u r weak and u r a gal... u shoud behave like a gal ... one day u will also feel awkward if u will not behave like a gal... coz thats not ur style... u r not used to with that behavior...

Like we say "Mard ki Jubaan" --- words/principle of a man... why cant a gal keep her words... coz somewhere our society in the background is pressurizing males to keep their words and giving liberty not keep to gals... so all these doubts r in kopadi... but their is nothing that both the genders cant do ... mee to running short of time... so will continue later
 
arre mainne te neu laage se ke wa tadke tadke pit k aayee hogi.........
na te koi hamne didi kahwe te hum te rakhi ki baat dekhaaaaaaaaaa(hahahaha)
 
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