Swaich, I think you need practical understanding more than theoritical facts. So to start with peaceful muslims I would suggest you to go to any of these countries like Syria,Pakistan,Afghanistan,Saudi Arabia, Yemen, Somalia, Sudan, Nigeria, Lebanon, Iraq, Palestine, and many more. They all are predominantly muslim countries and I believe you that muslims living in those countries must be peaceful.
If you even dare to worship ur goddess n gods inside ur own house , the religious police will come and join ur peacefull because u r a extremist hindu and they are peaceful islamic.
Just because my opinions are different than yours, you think I am basic my opinions on theories alone?
Have you been to these countries that you ask me to visit?
FYI - many of these countries that you quoted, their govts do not force people to follow Islam only. Other religions are followed by many people. And NO police will come into your house and bust your idols.