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malikseema

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Hello Frns ,
Yesterday i was watching New Channel n was shocked to see a news about the suicide of kids of 9-11 yrs age .I found it very shocking .....
According to news the kids attempt suicide due to studies pressure ,it was really shocking for me that a 11 yr old boys attempted such dangerous act just under pressure of studies .
I just remmembered my time wen i was in school..........at that time till 10'th standard we were so innocent n ignorant that we even were not aware of such words ,"Suicide,Pressure related to studies etc."n now kids r committing these dangerous acts.
But Alas ! how much time has changed just in 10 yrs .
But today Cut Throat Competition has made it very hard for the students n than the over expectations of parents,teachers n relatives had made it really miserable for students to cope up with.I'm not against the Competition as i kno it is a key to bring out the best out of a human being but in this way ....is it fair ?
We want our siblings to b at best place in profession n lyf n somtimes for this desire they r pushed towards the course/study in which he/she is not interested......n which leads a pressure on the student.
Though I kno its not easy every time to let the kids act according to their own will but instead of just forcing them into studies ,I think they should also b given some liberty to choose their own desired field to work on .
I think demand of present time is to propose some changes in our Education system ...
Aim of studies system should b on encouraging the existing Talent of a child......as every child is born with a talent ....the need is to just look out for that n encourage it .
Two Movies "Taare Zameen Par " n "3 Idiots " is a gud creative effort to highlite this issue .
these movies stress on the encouragement of creative talent of a child instead of getting just scores on marksheets.
May god rest the souls of the late kids in peace !
 
malikseema said:
Hello Frns ,
Yesterday i was watching New Channel n was shocked to see a news about the suicide of kids of 9-11 yrs age .I found it very shocking .....
According to news the kids attempt suicide due to studies pressure ,it was really shocking for me that a 11 yr old boys attempted such dangerous act just under pressure of studies .
I just remmembered my time wen i was in school..........at that time till 10'th standard we were so innocent n ignorant that we even were not aware of such words ,"Suicide,Pressure related to studies etc."n now kids r committing these dangerous acts.
But Alas ! how much time has changed just in 10 yrs .
But today Cut Throat Competition has made it very hard for the students n than the over expectations of parents,teachers n relatives had made it really miserable for students to cope up with.I'm not against the Competition as i kno it is a key to bring out the best out of a human being but in this way ....is it fair ?
We want our siblings to b at best place in profession n lyf n somtimes for this desire they r pushed towards the course/study in which he/she is not interested......n which leads a pressure on the student.
Though I kno its not easy every time to let the kids act according to their own will but instead of just forcing them into studies ,I think they should also b given some liberty to choose their own desired field to work on .
I think demand of present time is to propose some changes in our Education system ...
Aim of studies system should b on encouraging the existing Talent of a child......as every child is born with a talent ....the need is to just look out for that n encourage it .
Two Movies "Taare Zameen Par " n "3 Idiots " is a gud creative effort to highlite this issue .
these movies stress on the encouragement of creative talent of a child instead of getting just scores on marksheets.
May god rest the souls of the late kids in peace !
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Seema,

11 saal ka bachha kaun si class me hoga 5v ya 6thi me , 5v 6thi me uspar kis cheez ka pressure aaya hoga uspar jama ghata ke sawalan ka, ya english ke essay, ya naitik siksha ki kahaniya ka, ye te kahan ki baat se yo sab Cable TV ka asar se, pehlam Maa baap bawley hoya kartey ib balkaan pe asar hon lagya

& do you believe in the theme of 3 idiot (movie me Aamir ki acting kai jagah bakwaas thi spe shuru me, scene kai bakwaas they waise bhi movie time paas ke liye hoti hain dekho aur bhul jao)

Tarey jameen par was no doubt a gud movie par aise bachhey hotey kitney hai ginti k.
 
Major reason for this is the parents itself as they put so much pressure on the children regarding studies being too much career conscious which is then reflected in these acts .From the beginning,children tend to carry so much stress and focus for their studies which gradually turns into frusteration specially if they are unable to bring good results.
Right from the childhood,the children are shaped to be alone due to nucleur families and less socialising that they keep themselves busy in tv or computer games or novels due to a kind of isolation that they go through rather than playing with friends and being lively.So this is the another reason that they simply lose their childhood infact i would say they never get a chance to see it.
 
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