Now if this is the state of affairs of Haryana, can we think of a more balanced sex ratio which is already at the bottom among all states???
Lately there was a law passed by Hooda government that those who won't take care of their elder parents shall be punished and jailed.Link could be found anywhere on internet.
Now in first look it appears as a good step. But on other lines, state has taken power in to family matters which is surely going to widen the gap of already bruised ego's in family.
How this is related to PNDT and similer laws:
Why govt. should have to come up or precisely held responsible for fetous abortion or punishing children who care or dont care about their parents?
I was surprised to see the report that only medical practisnor are being held guily? Where are those mothers who stepped in to clinics and laid on bed to get the another human being out of womb? They shall be prosecuted with same or more intensity legaly as well as socialy. It is very easy to sit and find flaws in Govt's on goings? It is funny and pathetic to think that Govt would be deciding about people's intercourse and consequences in the form of a girl child.
Instead of a symptomatic treatment of female foeticide though a long legal procedure, people are not calling government on a strict
ban over medication, equipments especially used in abortion.
Thank you for raising this gender concern.
Staying on the topic:
Yes, with Pre-Natal Diagnostic Techniques (PNDT) Act,
there SHOULD be an improvement in the gender ratio. However, people would still find a way to get what they seek if not legally then illegally. They will find some unscruplous, quick buck doctor, somewhere and somehow. Or some quack will come up with an ingenious technique!!!
I agree with Karmveer ji. On similar lines, its the attitude of the people with regards to the female child/ adult that needs to change to promote a respectable ratio. People would say education and financial independence should help in this, however, how effective can be these efforts if the society at large does not have the attitude that promotes unbiased growth for both the genders?
# Average child sex ratio in SC/ST communities has always been higher than in the general population and better than the national average.(a side-effect of RESERVATION?)
So SC/ST's mindless coupulation took you the point of availing reservation as a tool of social upliftment? They have been doing it before Ambedkar got his enlightment.
# Many women believe that their value would increase with fall in their numbers, as men won't find matches for marriage.(So, men are seeking brides from other states. A good step in national integration as well?)
Any data/report where a single woman quoted this in her 101 means of increasing value? Lets assume you are right for a while, don't you think that value of desperation would hit the rooftop resulting in molestation, rape etc rather than 'her' value in institution of marriage.
Jat society as in terms of social ethics is on downward spiral. Jat Mahasabhas, Sarv Khap are only socio-religious outfit we have at the moment. Every one in a rural area is aware about them unlike other laws. Their decisions( good or bad in taste) are being taken as orders. In my opinion, they have a serious role to play here in this case. Govt can not reach to every home and bait people moraly. If attitude of couples could be improved then only these organisations could become a catalyst It is the responsiblity of these OLDEST REPUBLICS in the human history to take care of a problem which is not generated by Govt rather by people itself. So their leadership and vision(
or lack of it ) about Jat population's imbalance shall be discussed in deep to avoid survival issues in future. I would not be wishy-washy here about them. Its a work and challange to these organisations. If they can be highly strict on similar gotra/same village marriage
WHY not in case of different gotra/different village marriage and kids being produced out of that.? Why they have been treating this issue as
achhut?
It is a collective responsblity with more weigthage towards an educated Jat and Jatni, Oldest republics, Panchayts and in last Govt.