How to behave with our Parents...

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pragati

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An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45
years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.

The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"

The Son replied "It is a crow".

After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"

The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".

After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time,
What is this?"

At this time some ex-pression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when
he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".

A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?"

This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the
same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT

IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"

A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old
tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening

a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the
following words were written in the diary :-

"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a
crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and

I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly
each time h e asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I

did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".

While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had
felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when

today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt
irritated and annoyed.

So..

If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a
burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and

kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, "I
want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I
was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.
They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to
make me a person presentable in the society today".

Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will
say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.
 
Very Well written and its true tht we have to respect our parents.

Abhimanyu Phougat
 
God bless you

It was so nice to hear something once again which we have all known all our lives but Jindagi mein bhaajte bhaajte bhool jaavan saan. Keep on waking us up from time to time even on other moral and social responsibilities. Good work dear.
 
Kinda confused

We should respect our parents, there is no doubt about it.

But as far as your story is concerned, I think the reason that son flipped out; he thinks his dad is a grown up man and he shouldn't ask the same question again and again.

Moreover, when that son was a kid, he was not that intelligent and the dad knew about it, thats why he didn't mind it.

But the moral of story is "we should respect our parents".

Ajay
 
very well said.....

ajaychauhan said:
We should respect our parents, there is no doubt about it.

But as far as your story is concerned, I think the reason that son flipped out; he thinks his dad is a grown up man and he shouldn't ask the same question again and again.

Moreover, when that son was a kid, he was not that intelligent and the dad knew about it, thats why he didn't mind it.

But the moral of story is "we should respect our parents".

Ajay


very nice n touching words..........


arr bhaii ajay chauhaan sahb........ human being need help of parents or kids only when they r kid n wen they old...... both periods are same....... jab hum bache hote hain to kisi cheez ke barre me baar poochte hain .. arr maa baap pyaar se btaa dete hain... aur jab insaan budhaa ho jata hai tab bhi... uska MIND bacho jaisa ho jata......... te hume bhloo ke rakhne pade sain.....
 
pragati very nice bebe.ma baap ki barabri balak kaise kar sake s .par dukh hota h jab kise bude ma bap ke saath onke balak mis behave karte h.sab bhool jate h ki on ma bap n onke liye kya kiya tha.Ladikya phir bhi ma baap ki hamesha fikar karti h par ladke to aankhe moond lete h onki taraf se.sab aise nahi hote but generally dekha h aisa mane.
 
िरतु जी धन्यवाद

ritu said:
pragati very nice bebe.ma baap ki barabri balak kaise kar sake s .par dukh hota h jab kise bude ma bap ke saath onke balak mis behave karte h.sab bhool jate h ki on ma bap n onke liye kya kiya tha.Ladikya phir bhi ma baap ki hamesha fikar karti h par ladke to aankhe moond lete h onki taraf se.sab aise nahi hote but generally dekha h aisa mane.

िरतु जी धन्यवाद आप न आखर म यो तो कहया के सारे लडके एक िजसे ना होते ... अर कुछ नही ज्यादातर लडके सेवा कर ए स माँ-बाप की..... अर बाप की ना त माँ की त खुब िफकर कर ए स ....... अर जहाँ तक लडिकयाँ की बात स ...... करन आली खुब कुकरम कर ए स .... ना करती हो तो नाट जो .....!!!!!! अर जो बिढया इंसान स िजसने अहसास स के उसके के फरज स िफर जाहे वो लडका हो या लडकी कुछ ना फर्क पडता !!!!!!!!!! या तो रही बेटे बेटीयाँ की बात .......
इब करलो बाप के फरज की बात ....... ज वे गलत चाल ए तो बालक के कर ए ...... न्यू बताओ मने आप ???????
 
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ritu said:
pragati very nice bebe.ma baap ki barabri balak kaise kar sake s .par dukh hota h jab kise bude ma bap ke saath onke balak mis behave karte h.sab bhool jate h ki on ma bap n onke liye kya kiya tha.Ladikya phir bhi ma baap ki hamesha fikar karti h par ladke to aankhe moond lete h onki taraf se.sab aise nahi hote but generally dekha h aisa mane.
 
ritu said:
pragati very nice bebe.ma baap ki barabri balak kaise kar sake s .par dukh hota h jab kise bude ma bap ke saath onke balak mis behave karte h.sab bhool jate h ki on ma bap n onke liye kya kiya tha.Ladikya phir bhi ma baap ki hamesha fikar karti h par ladke to aankhe moond lete h onki taraf se.sab aise nahi hote but generally dekha h aisa mane.

Its a myth that daughters take better care of parents than sons. I can not think of of any single daughter who stands tall enough when one compares with sons like Sarwan Kumar, Ram Chandra Ji in Pitra Bhakti. Girls are certainly known for Pati Bhakti, but not for Pita Bhakti... showing concern for parents is not enough, one has to act also.

RK^2
 
Agree With You Sir

rkumar said:
Its a myth that daughters take better care of parents than sons. I can not think of of any single daughter who stands tall enough when one compares with sons like Sarwan Kumar, Ram Chandra Ji in Pitra Bhakti. Girls are certainly known for Pati Bhakti, but not for Pita Bhakti... showing concern for parents is not enough, one has to act also.

RK^2


Agree With You Sir......................
 
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rkumar said:
Its a myth that daughters take better care of parents than sons. I can not think of of any single daughter who stands tall enough when one compares with sons like Sarwan Kumar, Ram Chandra Ji in Pitra Bhakti. Girls are certainly known for Pati Bhakti, but not for Pita Bhakti... showing concern for parents is not enough, one has to act also.

RK^2
 
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