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devdahiya

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Realization has set in for good:




When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now,at the age 48, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
 
yu kaam to dahiya ji,,,,jarur karna thaa,,,,,,,karya kyun naaa,,,,,

saare desh ka bhala ho jaata,,,,,,,aap je yu kaam kar dete to,,,,,,,baaki 48 yrs bi koye ghani umar na se,,,,,,,,,bhot time padya se ibbe
 
devdahiya said:
Realization has set in for good:




When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now,at the age 48, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
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I feel that's the story behind every individual irrespective of our caste, creed and nation. As a young one we all think that the world revolves as per our own wish and will. But, I am sorry its not the same. Some people realize the above said concept in their early age but some of us fail to realize the same. So, I think we all should make an emphasis to at least change ourselves for not any body else in the world but for ourselves to spread peace and harmony. What say?
 
It indeed is a story of all of us the only difference is that some realize the truth sooner while some later. As a teenager we feel as if we can change the whole world as we are full of energy and enthusiasm at that stage. But then gradually our ideals strike on the hard rocks of life and they are shattered . Then we realize that we cannot change the world and we are left with no option but to change ourselves. To live in the society we have to change and accomodate ourselves according to its standards and if we cannot do that than we become rebels. The crux of the matter is that it aint easy to change this giant called society. Either we end up as changed individuals in its fold or we end up as an outsider.
 
Satinder its a nice gesture and for Sachinder....ibb ya jimmedaari thari sai. Yo seemed nt to grasp the MESSAGE(again) he might be wanting to convey that i COULD NOT but YOU CAN:)tanne ek doosri thread mai kahi thi na akk suthri dhaal samjhaya karo...bas jyahe tai:):)maddi si koshish karli

DEV Ji....like this response and your insight about the whole process of change and growing up. This is why i like a quote" Its never too late in life to do anything":)
ssgoyat said:
Don't loose hope.

we are with you..

It's still not that late...
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sachinb said:
yu kaam to dahiya ji,,,,jarur karna thaa,,,,,,,karya kyun naaa,,,,,

saare desh ka bhala ho jaata,,,,,,,aap je yu kaam kar dete to,,,,,,,baaki 48 yrs bi koye ghani umar na se,,,,,,,,,bhot time padya se ibbe
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sunitahooda said:
Satinder its a nice gesture and for Sachinder....ibb ya jimmedaari thari sai. Yo seemed nt to grasp the MESSAGE(again) he might be wanting to convey that i COULD NOT but YOU CAN:)tanne ek doosri thread mai kahi thi na akk suthri dhaal samjhaya karo...bas jyahe tai:):)maddi si koshish karli

GOYAT BIRA SAMJH LE NA TAE DUBARA AUR DHAAL SAMJHAN PADEGA....................................CHOH ME MANNA AAVE.........GG SUN TERI BADDI PYAR TAE SAMJHUNGI:)
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sachinb said:
yu kaam to dahiya ji,,,,jarur karna thaa,,,,,,,karya kyun naaa,,,,,

saare desh ka bhala ho jaata,,,,,,,aap je yu kaam kar dete to,,,,,,,baaki 48 yrs bi koye ghani umar na se,,,,,,,,,bhot time padya se ibbe
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God bless you and satyender dears.I may sustain with my determination.....thanks!
 
You are great that atleast you learned with your experiance.

Ram-Ram Dev Sahab,

You are teaching us a good lesson but we are not that much intellegent who understand the real meaning of the lesson. I will try my self to change as early as possible acourding to my wish for my comunity.

Thanks and regards


devdahiya said:
Realization has set in for good:




When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now,at the age 48, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
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mere aachhe beechhe naam ka ke kar diyaa apne:D

sunitahooda said:
Satinder its a nice gesture and for Sachinder....ibb ya jimmedaari thari sai. Yo seemed nt to grasp the MESSAGE(again) he might be wanting to convey that i COULD NOT but YOU CAN:)tanne ek doosri thread mai kahi thi na akk suthri dhaal samjhaya karo...bas jyahe tai:):)maddi si koshish karli

DEV Ji....like this response and your insight about the whole process of change and growing up. This is why i like a quote" Its never too late in life to do anything":)
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show must go on

devdahiya said:
Realization has set in for good:




When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now,at the age 48, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
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kaks itni taawli kyu juaa baga diya....48 mein to sanju baba ney byah karya sey aur nyu kehwey sey life ibbey shuru hoyi hai;);)..........you have a fauji lying inside you...keep the spirits high....dont look back
 
devdahiya said:
Realization has set in for good:




When I was a young man, I wanted to change the world.

I found it was difficult to change the world, so I tried to change my nation.

When I found I couldn't change the nation, I began to focus on my town. I couldn't change the town and as an older man, I tried to change my family.

Now,at the age 48, I realize the only thing I can change is myself, and suddenly I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
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Thanx oldie fr this story..;) God gv me strength to bring those positive changes in ma life n around..!!
 
gaganjat said:
deer aye durust aye , aa tai gaye ae ! ibbbe tai bhaisaab ghani baata ka aur bera pateega :D
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Mei te usnei bi seekh lyunga bhai....i am reseptive that way....par loggan kei meri baat samajh mei e na aai.....letcure.....lecture den lag ge saare......koe na...life teaches every one in a natural way....
 
devdahiya said:
Realization has set in for good:




I realize that if long ago I had changed myself, I could have made an impact on my family. My family and I could have made an impact on our town. Their impact could have changed the nation and I could indeed have changed the world."
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The message is loud and clear, "You could change self, family and together could make an impact on society and the nation" But that would depend on realization and time of a specific change. Nature has bestowed abundant ability upon most of us but only a few realize and utilize.
Whenever you attain realization is the right time! पश्चाताप , बची खुची उर्जा को क्षीण करने के सिवा कुछ भी नही और ये आप जैसे प्रबुद्ध व्यक्ति को समझाना सूरज को रौशनी दिखने जैसा होगा !
I strongly believe that you have done and satisfied with what you have attained in personal life and helped your family , relatives and all concerned!
But, am curious to know, what type of change would have you you contemplated in self, family and society or nation as whole?


cheers!
 
after reading the title of your thread again , I realised that, पश्चताप सही सब्द नही है बल्कि यूँ कहिये, एक टीस सी उठती है ,
काश ऐसा हुआ होता या किया होता !
 
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