I Wonder....??
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Dear Rajendra Ji,
What you had written in the first post is reasonably true, not only to our community but I guess to all human beings. I am lucky not to get a stick so far.
But I personally feel, that as a valuable memeber of the society, we need to advise our fellow members, even at the cost of getting hit and that to badly at times.
The point here is that we all can contribute some thing more valuable then the initial discussion that started on this thread by our honorable members.
I have noted your advise though would try to practice it. Personally, I found it to be good.
What you had written in the first post is reasonably true, not only to our community but I guess to all human beings. I am lucky not to get a stick so far.
But I personally feel, that as a valuable memeber of the society, we need to advise our fellow members, even at the cost of getting hit and that to badly at times.
The point here is that we all can contribute some thing more valuable then the initial discussion that started on this thread by our honorable members.
I have noted your advise though would try to practice it. Personally, I found it to be good.
rkumar said:
devdahiya said:
Arrey mian 4-5 hi kyoon...upnee taraf se sab ki koshish to durust hi baat karne ki hotee hai...aur mian asal baat to yeh hai ki 4-5 ka sunkar hume hi dar lag raha hai ki kahin hum 4-5 ke under hain ya fir bahar...LOL..
Saanson me mahak ho, hoton pe lachak ho
saamne wo hon, aur bas dil me kasak ho..
Mian mast rahiye...waise bhi holi nazdiq aa rahee hai..thora bahut rang gir bhi jaaye to laga rehne do...LOL
RK^2
ratananmol
Banned
Dear kulkhande ji,Major Singh and Col.Tewathia:
With due respect I apologise for any excesses that i may have done.But I wish you could have read his threads which are missing due to server crash.It is difficult to justify without those posts the stance i have taken.
I have raised my concerns from time to time about quality issues etc on this site and generally do not end up making myself clear enough.
To me this site is a public good available to the community just like a community park which ends up in bad shape as long as everybody has unrestricted access to it.This is precisely what is happening here:nobody has an incentive to be frugal and fruitful as long as no limits are imposed.
Imagine the days of paper mails when every letter used to make sense just coz there was effort and cost involved in transporting the media.(Since I am a trained economist i see a lot of issues here which are lying unattended and it just a matter of time before right incentives will tend to produce automatic corrections);E.g. if it becomes mandatory to explain your education and expertise it will become faster and easier to screen what to read and what to ignore.
There are also few ppl out there who are keen to exploit this network to their advantage (read my earlier posts).It might become a strictly dominant startegy of most capable "benevolent" types to not believe what comes up here in sometime as i see it.(One example is Prof.Birbal Singh who has restricted his posts to education section (barring a few concerns raised about the BJP-bharat jalao party)
I think as members we can discuss optimal policies for administration since this website is a baby of members as well as the administrators.
Regards and luv
Anmol.
(Anil Chaudhary i will get back to you on a later date because i know your type and will keep track of your "fundraising efforts")
With due respect I apologise for any excesses that i may have done.But I wish you could have read his threads which are missing due to server crash.It is difficult to justify without those posts the stance i have taken.
I have raised my concerns from time to time about quality issues etc on this site and generally do not end up making myself clear enough.
To me this site is a public good available to the community just like a community park which ends up in bad shape as long as everybody has unrestricted access to it.This is precisely what is happening here:nobody has an incentive to be frugal and fruitful as long as no limits are imposed.
Imagine the days of paper mails when every letter used to make sense just coz there was effort and cost involved in transporting the media.(Since I am a trained economist i see a lot of issues here which are lying unattended and it just a matter of time before right incentives will tend to produce automatic corrections);E.g. if it becomes mandatory to explain your education and expertise it will become faster and easier to screen what to read and what to ignore.
There are also few ppl out there who are keen to exploit this network to their advantage (read my earlier posts).It might become a strictly dominant startegy of most capable "benevolent" types to not believe what comes up here in sometime as i see it.(One example is Prof.Birbal Singh who has restricted his posts to education section (barring a few concerns raised about the BJP-bharat jalao party)
I think as members we can discuss optimal policies for administration since this website is a baby of members as well as the administrators.
Regards and luv
Anmol.
(Anil Chaudhary i will get back to you on a later date because i know your type and will keep track of your "fundraising efforts")
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ratananmol said:
Ratan Bhai,
Your points well taken. ..Mian bas ek shikayat hai hume aap economist logon se..aap log baat ko itna technical tareeke se rakhte ho ki hamare jaise aam aadmi ke wo palle bilkul nahi partee..No wonder most economists make poor public speakers...LOL..tabhi to har budget ke baad kitne bahas hote hai parliament mai bhi...We know you all economists mean well...bas thora sa implementation ka method aisa karo ki aam aadmi bhi aapki baat ko samajh sake..Mian thora dheere dhree remove kijiye subsidies ko..... LOL
RK^2
My Promise
I have promised to a very respected and elderly member of the site that from my side, i will exercise utmost restraint as regards to the reply in response to certain posts coming from a particular member and hence inspite of a strong incling to reply due to certain threatening language used towards a respected member of this site and very absurd and irresponsible statements made out here, i choose to keep my comments reserved. I leave it to the worthy members to judge for themselves.
Warm regards
I have promised to a very respected and elderly member of the site that from my side, i will exercise utmost restraint as regards to the reply in response to certain posts coming from a particular member and hence inspite of a strong incling to reply due to certain threatening language used towards a respected member of this site and very absurd and irresponsible statements made out here, i choose to keep my comments reserved. I leave it to the worthy members to judge for themselves.
Warm regards
ratananmol said:
My strong belief is that when there is war, many new technologies emerge and new thinking emerges.. So let us take it all in good spirits. My own personal experience has been that most my best friends are the one with whom I had bitter fights in the begining. Anmol has come out with a very good suggestion in his latest post. May I take this opportunity to invite Anmol and request him to start a thread similar to the one by Dr Birbal Singh ji. Need of the hour for we jats is how to change village economy and make it viable so that the life of fellow jats in villages improves. I would really appreciate if Anmol can spare some of his valuable time and start a thread on Indian village economy. Today we are facing many issues like dwindling income levels, lack of affordibility of even basic amenities like medical care, education, housing etc..Can we start a debate here on this very important topic and come out with practical solutions?
RK^2
Aur Bhi Gum Hain Zamane Main...
Dear All,
Fortunately I missed most of the posts beacuse of being away from the computer and the crash. To be frank I am pained by what I got to read. We all represent a community that is known for very many good qualities and it is indeed very sad to see as to how and why we reach a stage where we can't communicate with each other. I know it is best to keep quiet when two or more members get involved in a verbal war or sorts. But I must say what I have to, even at the risk of being on the receiving end. It is good to divert attention sometimes!
Firstly, I hope you all know that we are all related to each other in one form or another. I am more than 100% sure of that. Any two members, picked up at random, would turn out to be related should someone carry out very preliminary research. The answers to few questions like "Kunsa Gaam ka se Bhai'', "Teri Bua kit Bhya Rakhi se", "Tere Mama kit Ke Sain" etc etc would prove the point I am trying to make.
Secondly, why don't we truly become TOLERANT of each others views. At least let us understand what the other person is trying to say. The most stupid thing one can do is to become personal.
Thirdly, in a population of nearly EIGHT BILLION people who 'Eat & Shit' on this planet, so few of us here must consider ourselves lucky to be interacting with each other on this site almost daily. At least I consider most members, whom I can see through this site, as my relatives. Therefore let us behave like that.
Fourthly, each household has a fight every now and then on small issues. These issues are forgotten the next moment. Let us move on. Like I have said umpteen No of times in my posts that we all have to work very hard to make our place amongst educated communities of the world. Otherwise what use is all this 'Padhai - Likhai'.
Wishing each member, elder & younger, the very best for you and your loved ones.
Regards,
JS Malik
Dear All,
Fortunately I missed most of the posts beacuse of being away from the computer and the crash. To be frank I am pained by what I got to read. We all represent a community that is known for very many good qualities and it is indeed very sad to see as to how and why we reach a stage where we can't communicate with each other. I know it is best to keep quiet when two or more members get involved in a verbal war or sorts. But I must say what I have to, even at the risk of being on the receiving end. It is good to divert attention sometimes!
Firstly, I hope you all know that we are all related to each other in one form or another. I am more than 100% sure of that. Any two members, picked up at random, would turn out to be related should someone carry out very preliminary research. The answers to few questions like "Kunsa Gaam ka se Bhai'', "Teri Bua kit Bhya Rakhi se", "Tere Mama kit Ke Sain" etc etc would prove the point I am trying to make.
Secondly, why don't we truly become TOLERANT of each others views. At least let us understand what the other person is trying to say. The most stupid thing one can do is to become personal.
Thirdly, in a population of nearly EIGHT BILLION people who 'Eat & Shit' on this planet, so few of us here must consider ourselves lucky to be interacting with each other on this site almost daily. At least I consider most members, whom I can see through this site, as my relatives. Therefore let us behave like that.
Fourthly, each household has a fight every now and then on small issues. These issues are forgotten the next moment. Let us move on. Like I have said umpteen No of times in my posts that we all have to work very hard to make our place amongst educated communities of the world. Otherwise what use is all this 'Padhai - Likhai'.
Wishing each member, elder & younger, the very best for you and your loved ones.
Regards,
JS Malik
Well Said
Dear Col Malik
Very well said. I think we all need to be torerant and should avoid becoming personal (post 9).
I think the issue has been amicably settled. I am sure we all will take lessons from posts on this thread.
Some one on Jatworld.net (Sonu) had posted about this thread in the humor section. That is what others feel when we fight. Even though Sonu is one of us, but I am sure, any one who will read this thread will make fun out of our posts.
Dear Col Malik
Very well said. I think we all need to be torerant and should avoid becoming personal (post 9).
I think the issue has been amicably settled. I am sure we all will take lessons from posts on this thread.
Some one on Jatworld.net (Sonu) had posted about this thread in the humor section. That is what others feel when we fight. Even though Sonu is one of us, but I am sure, any one who will read this thread will make fun out of our posts.
shailendra
New member
Kamaal Hai!
...Bhai yo server mein bhi kimme esi tu-tu main-main tae pala to na pad gaya tha???
Yaaro ke baat ho gayee
? Phela jhatka tae log-on karan pachche mil ja sae (Posts lost due to server crash!) aer rhaa-shaa doosra jhatkaa kati es post ne padhe pachche mil gaya!!!...
Anyways, nothing like a good ol' jaatu toofan to get the things going and take the mind off the server crash I think, what say Mr.Kahlkhunde ji!?! (Aer haan; I think congratulations to you too on the new Haryana CM. I think you need to bring back the 'jhule-waali' photu now! Ha! Ha!
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...Bhai yo server mein bhi kimme esi tu-tu main-main tae pala to na pad gaya tha???
Yaaro ke baat ho gayee
? Phela jhatka tae log-on karan pachche mil ja sae (Posts lost due to server crash!) aer rhaa-shaa doosra jhatkaa kati es post ne padhe pachche mil gaya!!!...Anyways, nothing like a good ol' jaatu toofan to get the things going and take the mind off the server crash I think, what say Mr.Kahlkhunde ji!?! (Aer haan; I think congratulations to you too on the new Haryana CM. I think you need to bring back the 'jhule-waali' photu now! Ha! Ha!
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ratananmol
Banned
Dear Dahiya:
I did not get time to read all your responses carefully before; but now it seems it was not wortwhile to engage in a debate with you.Just look at the words and adjectives you have used.You should be ashamed of yourself.
If not....then I wish this could be settled in the real world rather than a virtual setting.
AR.
I did not get time to read all your responses carefully before; but now it seems it was not wortwhile to engage in a debate with you.Just look at the words and adjectives you have used.You should be ashamed of yourself.
If not....then I wish this could be settled in the real world rather than a virtual setting.
AR.
Dear members,
Leave everything behind. It's not good for the BROTHERS in engaging these types of things.
We all are here as a community. We all should be like ONE.
Everybody should obey the honesty of each other.
Thanks!!!!
Shailendra Tokas
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-Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength…. loving someone deeply gives you courage.
-Lord, make me an instrument of peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love.
Leave everything behind. It's not good for the BROTHERS in engaging these types of things.
We all are here as a community. We all should be like ONE.
Everybody should obey the honesty of each other.
Thanks!!!!
Shailendra Tokas
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-Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength…. loving someone deeply gives you courage.
-Lord, make me an instrument of peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love.
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