First of all I feel sory and seek your forgiveness for breaking my self imposed stop against taking part in the discussion on jatland,but since the topic is important which not only effecting the thinking of national public but jats in perticular, I decided to pen my views based on my knowledge and experience, Though, more than 12 years have pased after my retirement and lot of coloured water has crossed over the society andthe defence services after my retirement but still,
A) The relationship between oficers and jawans is of family type like parents and children or elders and youngers,relationship of trust, faith,confidence, love, mutual respect, brotherhood, comeradeship and not at all as some of members are immaging, generally mostof the. most of the officers love their jawans like their children, lookafter interest/training/safty/progress/welfare liketheir own children , officers look after health/food/feelings and well being of ladies and childrensof jawan like mother of the house
In defence services the main method of teahing is by self examples,self disciplineisconsideredthe best discipline, Itis only in defence services where for same offence seniors and specially officersare given severe/more punishment, theorganisation demands more from officers whether it is discipline/behaviour/professional competence, at times an officermay abuse a juniorofficer but not to jawan/JCOs Ill treating a subordinate isa serious offence indefence services and it is practically implemented onground when ever/where ever required, the principle of ruleof law isfollowed strictly,,many officers were given punishment even for not returning the salute of a jawan. Gentilemen,it good leadership, honest/just/fair/effectionate dealings,good behaviour, good conduct, good discipline and good professional competence of officers which motivates and make him willing toto die happily on the directions of his officer,other anyonecan try even with hisson/any family member, no body will obey the directions of death. Due to requirement service, role of the service, the command structure,strictdiscipline and powers to verious ranks/appointments have been given and I can tell 99% these powers/legal provisions are used in positive manner,I am sure no democratic or fauj with powerless command will fight any war and even,misuse the fire power available against each other only.
Now as far as the batman/sahayak isconcern, the impression expressed by some people here is totally wrong,sahayak is givento officers and to the JCOs to help them in performing their official duty and 99% they are used for help only, atlist I have not/not seen sahayak being used in kitchen, for washing cloths, looking after children, making beds, offering drinks/water/snacks to guests etc, my sahayak through out my service, never polished even shoesofmy wife and children, . sahayaks are given proper treatment andrespect by the officer, his wifeandchildren, generally unwilling fellow is not detailed for sahayak duty,after every oneyear or so, the sahayak is changed But there is some dissatisfaction/indicipline among officers as well as inJCOs and jawans probably due to following
a) fivefingures are not equal/exceptions are every where.
b) all defence personnel come from civil society, they are connected with civil society,their family members are civilians and stay in civil society thus influance of the society can not be avoided 100%.
c) Breakingof joint family system has effected the standredof happiness/satisfaction/ his requirement at home for his family/children.
d) materialstic thinking of the society.
e) increase of communication facilities.
f) political interferience invarious matters including promotions.
g) poor intake in both officers and jawans cadrethe organisation in many ways
Fnally i do agree that officers from refugee community have demaged