Intercaste Marriages.

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If you dont believe in caste system then why did you join the jatland??

arvind1069 said:
i completely agree with what u said. its all about compatibility. same caste ki shadiyan bhi toot jaati hain. same caste is not a guarantee of compatibility. aur hamare dost sab castes se hote hain. not only jats. infact doosri caste valon se friendship jyada gehri hoti hai.
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Kaun parents chahte hai ki unke bachche preshan rahen????

shwetadhaka said:
Marriage at the first place is a unison of two persons or two families ??

Do both the families have to take common decisions always, share the same bed, sleep with each other, share their earnings, eat the same food...........???? :rolleyes:

Families shaadi karwa deti hain aur bechaare do panchii lad ke mar bhi ja hain kayi baar (I am aint saying always !) so the contention that it is a unison of two families is viable BUT to an extent .....

Insaan khud khush rahega tab hi gaam ki sochega ....

Waise bhi aajkal jyadatar sab akele hi rehte hain .... relatives ke paas roj roj ke jhagde suljhaane ka time nahi hota .....
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Pyar karne se pahle nahi socha tha bapu ghar se nikal dega.....aisa isliye jis samaj main hum rahte hain wo accept nahi karta .. aur jo samaj main nahi rahata wo ya to bhagwan hai ya fir pashu..main nahi aisa manu ne kaha tha.. isliye agar hume samaj main rahana hai to uske rule bhi follow karne padenge wo kisi vyakti visesh ke liye sahi ho ya galat..

arvind1069 said:
dekho bhai agar kisi se love affair nahi hai to naturally apni community main shadi karna asaan hota hai. kar lo koi buri baat nahi hai.

lekin agar do log aapas main pyar karte hain, mature hai, unme understanding hai, aur shadi karna chahte hai to unhe aapas main shadi karne se kyun rokte ho sirf isliye ki caste same nahi hai...
kyun parents apne jhoothi shaan, ego ke liye apni aulad ki baat nahi maante.

har koi apne dil se pooche ki pyaar kya caste dekh kar kiya jaata hai...
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bislas said:
If you dont believe in caste system then why did you join the jatland??
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Who said I dont beleive in caste system !!

I believe in caste system but I follow it to an extent so as not to offend people from other castes !

We are here to co-exist inspite of our differences. I acknowledge my caste & also of others.

Jara sochiye koi aisa insaan hai jisme koi bhi kami na ho ? Ek naam de do pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee :confused:

Nahi de paayenge aap ..... har insaan ko upar waale ne adhoora banaaya hai .... kisliye ? Isliye ki wo auro ke saath rehkar us kami ko poora kare na ki akele rehta jaaye ....

samooh banaana achi baat hai par doosre samooho se chid ke rehna thik nahi ...... samjhe ya aur bolu :rolleyes:
 
aisa nahi hai.. wo isliye kyonki unhe social experience humse jayda hain . aur ye experience umar ke sath hi aate hain...
shwetadhaka said:
Kayii saare !!
actually aapke jaise hi kuch log jab parents ban jaate hain to unko apni aan baan ke aage bacho ki khushi dikhti hi nahi ....:o
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bislas said:
Pyar karne se pahle nahi socha tha bapu ghar se nikal dega.....aisa isliye jis samaj main hum rahte hain wo accept nahi karta .. aur jo samaj main nahi rahata wo ya to bhagwan hai ya fir pashu..main nahi aisa manu ne kaha tha.. isliye agar hume samaj main rahana hai to uske rule bhi follow karne padenge wo kisi vyakti visesh ke liye sahi ho ya galat..
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FIRST : Jo soch ke kiya jaaye wo pyar ho hi nahi sakta !

SECOND : Kya is samaj me antarjaatiya prem karne waale log hain ya nahi ?

ye to aap mannenge na ki aise log har jagah maujood hain ..... aise log to fir khud me ek samaj ho gaye na :rolleyes: ..... SAMAJ hai kya...... group of like minded people na .... wo log aapko pashu keh denge is philosophy ke hisaab se to ....:o:thappad .... wo kahenge ki unke samaj me aap rehte ho aur unki baato ko accept nahi karte isliye aap ...... :D
 
bislas said:
aisa nahi hai.. wo isliye kyonki unhe social experience humse jayda hain . aur ye experience umar ke sath hi aate hain...
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har jagah aur har samay social experience kaam nahi karta !

Aeroplane udaane me technical experience chahiye, khaana bananne me paak kala ka experience chahiye aur shaadi me social experience nahi compatibility judging experience chahiye - aur ye social experience se related to hai par uske directly proportional nahi hai ! :o:cool:
 
Ye humari fidtar hai ki hume apne baat apni cheezen apne log hi achhe lagte hain. to jab koi humare samooh se dusre samooh main jata hai to bura to lagta hi hai... Aur agar ye intercaste marriage ka chalan aam ho jaye to caste ka meaning hi khatam ho jayega..

shwetadhaka said:
Who said I dont beleive in caste system !!

I believe in caste system but I follow it to an extent so as not to offend people from other castes !

We are here to co-exist inspite of our differences. I acknowledge my caste & also of others.

Jara sochiye koi aisa insaan hai jisme koi bhi kami na ho ? Ek naam de do pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee :confused:

Nahi de paayenge aap ..... har insaan ko upar waale ne adhoora banaaya hai .... kisliye ? Isliye ki wo auro ke saath rehkar us kami ko poora kare na ki akele rehta jaaye ....

samooh banaana achi baat hai par doosre samooho se chid ke rehna thik nahi ...... samjhe ya aur bolu :rolleyes:
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Where is that guy/girl??????

Guys I havn't heard of anybody who are participating in this thread, if they have married out of caste or are planning to ................guys m asking again why the hell this discussion thn, if u can't follow it urself..............stop adding number of posts in your profile. I am dying see a sinlge name fromthe participants about there intercaste marriage.

roopak said:
I think this has been stretched too far in this thread. Let us cut the long story short and come to the point, instead of debating for the sake of it.:p

How many of us, those who have participated in this thread have actually got married out of caste. PLease come forward and share your name with all of us.:confused:

I think its easy to share thoughts, but it is of no substance unless one follow it.

We have no right to debate on this issue unless we really mean it.
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bislas said:
Ye humari fidtar hai ki hume apne baat apni cheezen apne log hi achhe lagte hain. to jab koi humare samooh se dusre samooh main jata hai to bura to lagta hi hai... Aur agar ye intercaste marriage ka chalan aam ho jaye to caste ka meaning hi khatam ho jayega..
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to ye aapki kami hai isme hum jyada kuch nahi kar paayenge ..... :p
jisko raasta na mil raha ho usko raasta dikha hi to sakte hain .... ab rassi se baandkar to fenka nahi jaata kisi ko raaste pe .... ;)
 
shwetadhaka said:
to ye aapki kami hai isme hum jyada kuch nahi kar paayenge ..... :p
jisko raasta na mil raha ho usko raasta dikha hi to sakte hain .... ab rassi se baandkar to fenka nahi jaata kisi ko raaste pe .... ;)
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Madam g can u please answer my question that can't u find a quality person in the same caste that u r looking for ??????????????????
 
Aeroplane udaane me technical experience chahiye because this is a technical machine....
khaana bananne me paak kala ka experience chahiye because of taste

shaadi me social experience nahi compatibility judging experience chahiye
this is a social institute not judicial

shwetadhaka said:
har jagah aur har samay social experience kaam nahi karta !

Aeroplane udaane me technical experience chahiye, khaana bananne me paak kala ka experience chahiye aur shaadi me social experience nahi compatibility judging experience chahiye - aur ye social experience se related to hai par uske directly proportional nahi hai ! :o:cool:
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bislas said:
ye humari fidtar hai ki hume apne baat apni cheezen apne log hi achhe lagte hain. To jab koi humare samooh se dusre samooh main jata hai to bura to lagta hi hai... Aur agar ye intercaste marriage ka chalan aam ho jaye to caste ka meaning hi khatam ho jayega..
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to achhi baat hai na ki khatam ho jai..
Humne caste system ko follow kar ke kya ukhar liya...pehle 800 saal tak muslims ke aur phir 200 saal angrezon ke gulaam hi to bane...
Aur dekho jo countries caste ko follow nahi karti, unki tarakki dekho. Physically bhi humse tagde aur hatte katte hai vo..unke blood main to koi kharabi nahi aayi intercaste mrg karke...
 
If you are in love (don't confuse it with a crush, infatuation, attraction, fascination, etc etc... love means 'love') with someone outside the community please let your parents know about it... in time. If they feel shattered... convince them. If you cannot convince your parents then you cannot love your new-found 'loved one' for a lifetime irrespective of your present day love for her/him...mostly!

So, all those people out there in love with someone outside the community... please act in time... don't be late!

All the best...!!

P.S.: Love attached!!
 
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Mujhe history nahi aati per maine ye site isliye join kari hai kyonki main jat hun....and i froud on my caste.

arvind1069 said:
to achhi baat hai na ki khatam ho jai..
Humne caste system ko follow kar ke kya ukhar liya...pehle 800 saal tak muslims ke aur phir 200 saal angrezon ke gulaam hi to bane...
Aur dekho jo countries caste ko follow nahi karti, unki tarakki dekho. Physically bhi humse tagde aur hatte katte hai vo..unke blood main to koi kharabi nahi aayi intercaste mrg karke...
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