jat movemment very urgent to save our heritage

[sunillathwal]

1. There is a basic difference between a Panchayat and a Khap. While
Khap represents only a particular section (Gotra) of any particular caste, Panchayats are more representative consisting of people from more than one caste and gotras of that particular village.

...and you know all this from "NEWSpapers". right?? In your assessment khap is un-democratic (and 'of and by' influential ppl), which you have mentioned more than once in your post.

2. Being a representative of different castes and gotras, Panchayats are constrained to be more democratic than the Khaps which do not follow any democratic system for electing their Pradhan who issues the dictates according to the whims and fancies of only the influential people in the Gotra.

So, how exactly the Pradhan of any Khap is 'elected' (if i can use this word)?
I mean, i go and say: Okay you puny humans, today onward i am the xyz Khap-Pradhan.. be submissive and full(fill) my whims.. eg, off with their heads!! Will ppl listen to me??

What baffles me more is, if Pardhan is so undemocratic elected (nay self-appointed), how come he command respect from other fellows ? what makes the masses follow his whim/fancies??

The word 'Influential' reminds me something about the Sarpanchs of your so called democratic panchayats; guess what they are mostly "influential". I am sure you know what happens in panchayat elections: liquor, money and other favors win the elections. [Yeah, sometime some good guys (retired lecturers, army personal) who have good reputation in village, who are a bit respected are also elected as sarpanch.]


Food for thought: Be it Khap or Panchyat, single person i. e, Sarpanch or Pradhan does NOT take decision. Mostly a group of influential people (NOT limited to panchayat members) selected from the audience (variety of criterion for selecting this group, ex-sarpanch, ex-member of panchayat, someone whom people thinks sensible and level headed) are given the job of settling the issue.
Many times, sarpanch is from reserve category or a lady (and hence dummy) same "influential people " take all the decisions.

There goes Democracy of your Panchayts!!!

3. Whilst Panchayats are democratically elected bodies having legal sanctity, Khaps do not enjoy the same status. Again, Panchayats have jurisdiction primarily in matters like civic management, developmental activities and some other welfare measures concerning the village.

Really?? Unfortunately, thats not all that panchayats do!! Anyone who is from village will tell you how many 'criminal cases' are settled by panchayats every year.
कोए न कोए सर फुड़ा रह सै आये हफ्ते.. कई की बहु दरखास (police reoprt) दिया पावेंगी .. किस के पानी पे लट्ठ बाजेगे एर कई की गाल (नाली ) के पाणी पे रोला: FIR ना लिखे पुलिस.. गाम आला ने बुला लेगी एर उड़े राजी-नामा करवा के छोड़ देगी. and everybody will be happy after sometime. Thats how villagers do (and don't do)!! Going by your definition, Panchayat should refrain from all this and let courts handle all this. Is it possible??

Guess what this is what precisely khaps also do (albeit on larger social/criminal issues)!! Ever wondered why khap-panchayat do NOT interfere in lives of people settled in city (even if one is married next door)??

Another grain for thoughts: Go to any khap (Or Sarv Khap) and have a look at the profiles of those INFLUENTIAL guys.. you will be (un)pleasantly surprise to see that they are the best of the lot... and not to mention majority of them sarpanchs and ex-sarpanch of respective panchayats!! Any thoughts here??

 

[singhvp]

...and you know all this from "NEWSpapers". right?? In your assessment khap is un-democratic (and 'of and by' influential ppl), which you have mentioned more than once in your post.

Sunil,

I need to read some more newspapers, perhaps, to be able to reply your thoughtful analysis. Thanks for your clarifications.

 

[vijay123]

...and you know all this from "NEWSpapers". right?? In your assessment khap is un-democratic (and 'of and by' influential ppl), which you have mentioned more than once in your post.

So, how exactly the Pradhan of any Khap is 'elected' (if i can use this word)?
I mean, i go and say: Okay you puny humans, today onward i am the xyz Khap-Pradhan.. be submissive and full(fill) my whims.. eg, off with their heads!! Will ppl listen to me??

You ask questions and when they are answered you dont like them or I would say dont like to accept the logic. Most of these khaps have chaudhar passed on from one generation to another in the same family. I would like to give you the example of the most widely known khap and that has done (is doing) very good work too. The baliyan khap. It is headed by Tikait and he become it's Chaudhary when his father died. He will be the head till he lives and then his eldest son will become head of the khap and then his eldest son's son. Though people could have their views on Tikait but I like and respect him a lot. I quoted his example only to answer your query on how Khap leaders are elected. They are born leaders by birth and remain till death and that is undemocratic.

Many times, sarpanch is from reserve category or a lady (and hence dummy) same "influential people " take all the decisions.

There goes Democracy of your Panchayts!!! [/B]

Doesn't matter. It's village people who chose them and if they made bad choice they would get affected. People also complain about the government but that does not mean they want to replace it with a monarchy or dictator.

Really?? Unfortunately, thats not all that panchayats do!! Anyone who is from village will tell you how many 'criminal cases' are settled by panchayats every year.

Appreciated the work of panchayats in this direction. The keyword is settled and not forced. If the affected parties are not satisfied then they can bypass the pachayats and go to police / court.

Guess what this is what precisely khaps also do (albeit on larger social/criminal issues)!! Ever wondered why khap-panchayat do NOT interfere in lives of people settled in city (even if one is married next door)??

They dont do that. They just force their insensible verdicts.

Another grain for thoughts: Go to any khap (Or Sarv Khap) and have a look at the profiles of those INFLUENTIAL guys.. you will be (un)pleasantly surprise to see that they are the best of the lot... and not to mention majority of them sarpanchs and ex-sarpanch of respective panchayats!! Any thoughts here??

Yes, they keep making news time to time with their good deeds and showing all of India their intellect (which by the way everyone sees as stupidity). They forget that we are living in 21st century and lynching is no longer considered as civilized.

 

[sunillathwal]

Appreciated the work of panchayats in this direction. The keyword is settled and not forced. If the affected parties are not satisfied then they can bypass the pachayats and go to police / court.

Same is true for khap's verdict too. Who is stopping

They dont do that. They just force their insensible verdicts.

go on..
Everything is relative, what seems to insensible verdict to you is JUSTICE to lot of people.
though you have not specified, but i reckon nullifying a marriage or asking couple to move out of the village is insensible to you (hundreds of 'outsiders' comments same thing comment section of various news sites). Classic case of assuming one to be the centre of universe. Wonder if you have really seen how a khap in action. It is not just 2-3 people who are passing that 'judgement'.. Believe it or NOT, this is what the People of those villages want. PERIOD. Of course there will be always someone is unhappy about that. Same is true for Courts.. same holds true for Panchayats. No??

can't help you if you think that khaps are passing verdict as per their whims. I am again repeating same thing I wrote some time back on jatland. Khap are a mere pale reflection of our society. People in general are far more uncivilized and barbaric (if sticking to their traditions qualify them for that)

I can bet above 99% ppl in any village do NOT approve same-gotra marriages. (Even anyone from outer delhi, sonipat, rohtak, panipat.) At least i never met some one.

Just because a bunch of neo-liberal people find it uncivilized , common folks are not going to change their attitude or feelings. People are NOT adverse to change but people/civilization/culture change at their own sweet pace. No one can impose his/her version of CIVILIZED behavior on anyone. If that cause 'churne' to someone.. better use to it!!

Yes, they keep making news time to time with their good deeds and showing all of India their intellect (which by the way everyone sees as stupidity). They forget that we are living in 21st century and lynching is no longer considered as civilized.

Which 21st century?? whose (!) 21st century??
Smooching on road is considered okay at Times square not in Gohana!! Wearing bikni and strutting 'stuff' may be cool there, it is NOT in Haryana.
No one is advocating the lynching here... It was never civilized.

As per Holy media there have been countless 'honour-killing' in Jat belt, how many times have you seen Tikaet lynching someone?? Did anyone see Khaps hanging someone in public ??

As per you these Insensible verdicts of Khaps are responsible for Honor-Killings. Right?? Khap- the entity is confined only to few northern states; Yet, everyday newspapers in south India report 'killings' for inter-caste marriages OR because girl refused to marry his real Uncle as he was quite old (Ohhh, it is COOL in south India for girls to marry his saga mama. JATs must start this as it is 21st century), OR just because some girl eloped with his brother's friend. Yes, Khaps are responsible for it (Globalization of khap's ideologies, you see ). Any comments??

These Bublas-Bubliiis, whom media is portraying as THE revolutionary, for common folks (sans enlightened ones at JatLand) they are FILTHY creatures.. not better than person 'xyz' who raped his own daughters.
We all despises 'xyz' but then everyone has different thershold, and Parents of such Bublaa-Bublis has lower than what is yours and mine and hence the honor-killing!!

Regarding your comments of khap intellect and their deeds (media-feeded to your screen):
Even on Jatland, hardly anyone supports the same-gotra marriage; and i don't have to tell you that anyone with a internet connection is ought to be more 'sensible' than those sitting on "Johad ke Kinare baithe bidi peen aale"; what does that tell you?
Every society has their our own tradition and values; If to someone outsider these rules seems uncivilized.. so be it. To me marrying one's real uncle seems absurd and filthy. be it is somebody's tradition. Why so much heart-burn over Jat's tradition of not marrying in their lineage??

P.S. i am not favoring the honour-killing, i have already posted in same thread that those 5 should be punished as per law. No one has the right to take anyone life. (But then to co-exist peacefully one has to follow the traditions and customs ala i do not believe in God but that does not mean i can go and urinate over someobody's God)

 

[vijay123]

Same is true for khap's verdict too. Who is stopping

No, same is not true. Example: Few months back a case happened where husband and wife were pronounced brother and sister. They were forced to tie rakhi, father of groom was asked to take shoes in mouth and had to aplogize. They were all forced because as soon as panchayat or illegal congregation disappeared the family moved for police protection. Had they not accepted the verdict in that congregation, they would have been killed. Otherwise, no couple would agree on such punishment. Few days later the bigger khap panchayats revered the decision and an acceptable solution is found.

Everything is relative, what seems to insensible verdict to you is JUSTICE to lot of people.
though you have not specified, but i reckon nullifying a marriage or asking couple to move out of the village is insensible to you (hundreds of 'outsiders' comments same thing comment section of various news sites). Classic case of assuming one to be the centre of universe!! It is not 2-3 people passing that 'judgement'.. Believe it or NOT , this is what the People of that particular villages want. PERIOD.

No one is in favor of same gotra marriages, and I am sure not even the family of such persons want these kind of marriages. They themselves wont allow these couples to return back.

can't help you if you think, khaps are passing verdict as per their whims. I am again repeating same thing I wrote some time back on jatland. Khap are a mere pale reflection of our society. People in general are far more uncivilized and barbaric (if sticking to their traditions qualify for that)

People dont go about killing others unless they are instigated. That's where the whole problem lies. Khaps pour that needed kerosene on the flame.

I can bet above 99% ppl in any village do NOT approve same-gotra marriages. (Even anyone from outer delhi, sonipat, rohtak, panipat.) At least i never met some one.

No one does. I can bet that 99.99% do not approve. Neither they approve rape which is committed every 54 mins in our country. But then they do not go about lynching every rapist.

Just because a bunch of neo-liberal people find it uncivilized , common folks are not going to change their attitude or feelings. People are NOT adverse to change but people/civilization/culture change at their own sweet pace. No one can impose his/her version of CIVILIZED behavior on anyone. If that cause 'churne' to someone.. better use to it!!

Attitude is changing very fast. I quoted the example of that incident where couple was pronounced husband and wife and the decision is reversed later. Few weeks back again a case happened in samaspur (Bhiwani) (google on samaspur if you have not heard of that) and the khap panchayats retracted from their stand on that too. You would rarely hear such cases in Western UP. Honor killings do happen there but you would hardly hear any khap panchayat name coming into those incidents. This is all because things are changing. People have been murdering people for ages, nothing new into that, but doing that in the name of social justice on the orders of a kangaroo court is not acceptable. With this verdict in Manoj Babli case we are definitely going to see a sharp decrease in khap panchayats passing such judgements in future. Govt is already in the process of making law to control them. So far these khap leaders have been doing whatever they wanted because they were not held accountable, but now they know that they will also face justice as an abettor. They are smart enough to avoid getting into legal troubles.

Which 21st century?? whose (!) 21st century??
Smooching on road is considered okay at Times square not in Gohana!! Wearing bikni and strutting 'stuff' may be cool there, it is NOT in Haryana.
No one is advocating the lynching here... It was never civilized.

Nobody is forcing US customs in HARYANA. Sex is everywhere, whether it is in US or sugarcane fields in Gohana. Love affairs bloom in New York and so do in villages too, and so do unwanted pregnancies. More rape happens in India than in US. Sex ratio (Male, Female raio) of Haryana has gone out of control not of US. This is what some of guys like you do at last, unnecessary bring US in your discussion and convert it into a RI vs NRI issue.

 

[vijay]

How many times these Khaps or Panchayats tried ( or successfully managed ) to bind together the separated/divorced couples as compared to their involvement in Honour Killing/divorcing/forcing them to behave as Brother-Sister ?

Is THEIR only job is ordering/provoking the killing/divorcing ONLY and rest issues are out of their syllabus ?

 

[sunillathwal]

.... Had they not accepted the verdict in that congregation, they would have been killed. Otherwise, no couple would agree on such punishment. Few days later the bigger khap panchayats revered the decision and an acceptable solution is found.

ha ha ha.. WOuld have....could have.. should have... And Khaps are evil

Nobody is forcing US customs in HARYANA. Sex is everywhere, whether it is in US or sugarcane fields in Gohana. Love affairs bloom in New York and so do in villages too, and so do unwanted pregnancies. More rape happens in India than in US. Sex ratio (Male, Female raio) of Haryana has gone out of control not of US. This is what some of guys like you do at last, unnecessary bring US in your discussion and convert it into a RI vs NRI issue.

No, i do NOT intended to bring the US/RI/NRI in it. My point was in context of regional sensitivities and local traditions. As simple as that. I did included south INDIA also.. read again.
and sex-ratio (???)

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//sex is everywhere.... Love affairs bloom in New York and so do in villages too, and so do unwanted pregnancies// It could very well be just your perception. whats your point, anyway.
seem to be contradicting yourself (99.99% and parents do NOT approve such marriage BUT love happens, sex happens). what are you trying to convey here?? Legalize same-gotra marriage?? incest (in a way) is okay?

and again how is this even relevant to khap issue??

 

[rocker88]

Pls note following things:
1] Pyaar karne wale will always love & they will always take birth again & again to be murdered by barbaric societies/khaps/panchayats/taliban any name you decide.
2] These khaps/panchayats/taliban will get tired killing them but they won't stop loving.

 

[anilsangwan]

Pls note following things:
1] Pyaar karne wale will always love & they will always take birth again & again to be murdered by barbaric societies/khaps/panchayats/taliban any name you decide.
2] These khaps/panchayats/taliban will get tired killing them but they won't stop loving.

भाई rocker ..... मेरे योह गाना सा याद आ गया तेरी पोस्ट पढ़ के......"प्यार करने वाले प्यार करते हैं शान से... जीते हैं शान से... मरते हैं शान से...." एर यो भी .... " यार जलने वालों को जलाएंगे... प्यार में जीयेंगे ...मर जायेंगे......" हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा..........


जमा फ़िल्मी अंदाज में लिख्या स भाई तेने.........एर फोटू में भी कोए फ़िल्मी स्टंट देता लागे स.... .रजनीकांत गेल काम करे करया करे? हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा ....

 

[vicky84]

Pls note following things:
1] Pyaar karne wale will always love & they will always take birth again & again to be murdered by barbaric societies/khaps/panchayats/taliban any name you decide.
2] These khaps/panchayats/taliban will get tired killing them but they won't stop loving.

hahahahahahahahahahaha.....kasoota stunt hai bhai teri is photo mai to..hahahaha

 

[vicky84]

भाई rocker ..... मेरे योह गाना सा याद आ गया तेरी पोस्ट पढ़ के......"प्यार करने वाले प्यार करते हैं शान से... जीते हैं शान से... मरते हैं शान से...." एर यो भी .... " यार जलने वालों को जलाएंगे... प्यार में जीयेंगे ...मर जायेंगे......" हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा..........


जमा फ़िल्मी अंदाज में लिख्या स भाई तेने.........एर फोटू में भी कोए फ़िल्मी स्टंट देता लागे स.... .रजनीकांत गेल काम करे करया करे? हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा ....

ke bera koye taliban pai baani movie mai role mil rehya ho..

 

[rakeshsehrawat]

भाई rocker ..... मेरे योह गाना सा याद आ गया तेरी पोस्ट पढ़ के......"प्यार करने वाले प्यार करते हैं शान से... जीते हैं शान से... मरते हैं शान से...." एर यो भी .... " यार जलने वालों को जलाएंगे... प्यार में जीयेंगे ...मर जायेंगे......" हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा..........


जमा फ़िल्मी अंदाज में लिख्या स भाई तेने.........एर फोटू में भी कोए फ़िल्मी स्टंट देता लागे स.... .रजनीकांत गेल काम करे करया करे? हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा हा ....

फोटू देख के एक बात समझ नहीं आयी की यु अपनी कब्जी तोड़े है के इस जीपड़ी की

 

[ranbear]

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Now do we know what wild animals think on this????? they shoo away their male child away to have a healthy gene pool and stop inbreeding.This is what is advocated in the vedas. In a country like USA people feel uncomfortable about having marriage relations with cousins or first cousins ,so they are also a little barbaric according to the elitist of our society?????

But this scientifically proven fact of maintaining a healthy gene pool of population is frowned upon by cousin matchmakers because of the stupid,ignorant and thoughtless panchayats.
By issuing killings and such acts they are themselves making the jat culture backward of which they claim to be the saviours .

Killings are not justfied but if a harsh judgement needs to be taken, then families which want intergotra marriages should themselves take a bold step by declaring that henceforth they are no longer interested in being called jats as jats are a backward lot of people who are not interested in intercousin marriages.
Then this whole issue of intergotra marriges would be solved.

But then people are not ready to give the JAT tagline ! why these double standards?

 

[samarkadian]

Honour and morality are entirely poles apart emotions in operation and in nature. Morality in most cases is a personal business and highly elastic while as Honour is associated with many things , and few of them are objective social conventions. Any person may do things that are apparently immoral/amoral in order to glue to the code of the honour. People, media would bark if Jats wouldn't be putting honour/respect on women but when that is violated somehow and go immoral to regain a bit of the honour, media/people props its ''super moral claws'' to vindicate the entire system of community and instead questioning the victim's acts they blindly do the sympathy business. Honur keeps on working for you even if you are gone up and it doesn't matter how much your reading was on moral-meter in creating that honour.

 

[singhvp]

After having gone through the posts under this thread, it seems to be amply clear that not a single member has tried to justify or propagate the same-gotra marriage so far. Over the issue of punitive or corrective measures in such cases, there is, however, clear divide. While majority is against killing (which has warranted adverse publicity), a few brothers have justified it, some of them lambasting ‘neo’ or ‘pseudo’ liberals with greying cells like me (fashionable adjectives nowadays for our ‘neo’ intellectual giants), while citing examples of Spartans. All kind of venomous salvos have already been fired by all of us (including myself) against each other without any rhyme and reason. After all, we need some outlet for flaunting our knowledge overflowing in our intelligent brain. Our overwhelming Jat chauvinism has prompted us to criticize alien cultures also which have nothing to do with the instant case. We have not even spared the ‘Time Square’ which has always been the most sought after and hottest destination for a majority of educated Jat boys and girls. For some like me it, of course, continues to be a forbidden place. But that does not entitle me to hate the bikini-clad harmless female Newyorkers who are a feast for eyes for many tourists from other countries with 'rich cultural heritage'.

Now, when no one is favouring the same gotra marriage, it is not understood whom (and why) are we making target of sultry sarcasm and ridicule, at the same time indulging in salacious gossip, but preaching unity in this hour of ‘crisis’ on the other hand.

Whatever unfortunate was to happen has happened and it has brought a bad name to all of us. Let us hope not many incidents of such type would happen in future. We must, now, be focused on how to restore the lost honour of the community due to this ‘honour killing’. If we feel that media has gone overboard in covering this issue to tarnish our community’s image, the onus lies on our community leaders to file defamation cases against the media. If anyone has any feedback on this, the same may be shared on this portal. Let us burry the hatchet, be united at least on this issue of reclaiming the lost ground leaving our acrimonious polemics behind and sue the erring journalists.


PS: For future, let us resolve to avoid mud-slinging, cheap, vulgar and sultry humour and derogatory remarks about other communities and cultures. Media and other communities are watching us constantly on this portal.

 

[jitender.singh]

Thanks VP for trying to summarize. A moderated version of the discussion is also available in the editorial section.

 

[vijay123]

Naaaa..., aisa nahi hai. I live in ny city and can tell you that people who will come to Times Square would be hugely disappointed if they come for such a feast . They should head to Miami beach instead.

But that does not entitle me to hate the bikini-clad harmless female Newyorkers who are a feast for eyes for many tourists from other countries with 'rich cultural heritage'.

 

[vir2703]

Jats are avoiding at least 3 gotras for marriage. There is strong scientific support behind it (Refer genetics).
So, here two situation arises i.e. inter (between) and intra (within) gotra marriages. We should avoid intra marriages as it results in weaker future progeny.
And rule of nature is "Fittest can Survive"
But I can't have reasons to contradict if someone marry outside the community provided the other race should not be inferior.
Killing is not the solution. Victims killed the couple and now judiciary giving order to hang the victims !!! The vicious circle.

The only thing permanent in world is CHANGE...

 

[samarkadian]

देश के बहुचर्चित मनोज-बबली हत्याकांड के आरोपियों को फांसी की सजा का खाप-पंचायतों ने एकजुट होकर विरोध करने का निर्णय किया है। इसके अलावा बबली के परिवार को आर्थिक सहायता उपलब्ध करवाई जाएगी। इस संदर्भ में 13 को कुरुक्षेत्र में महापंचायत होगी, जिसमें हरियाणा, पंजाब, यूपी, राजस्थान, नई दिल्ली, हिमाचल प्रदेश सहित खाप पंचायतों के प्रभाव वाले क्षेत्रों से सभी खापों के प्रतिनिधि भाग लेंगे। इसमें हिंदू मैरिज एक्ट में बदलाव की मांग की जाएगी। इसी क्रम में सोमवार को हरियाणा धनखड़ सभा के अध्यक्ष डा. ओमप्रकाश धनखड़ बबली के परिजनों से मिले तथा उन्हें आर्थिक सहायता देने का आश्वासन दिया। धनखड़ ने यहां जारी बयान में आरोप लगाया कि मनोज-बबली हत्याकांड के आरोपियों को सजा एक साजिश के तहत दी गई है। उन्होंने कहा कि इससे पूर्व कविता भारती केस, तंदूर कांड तथा मनु शर्मा कांडों में आरोपियों को फांसी की सजा क्यों नहीं सुनाई गई। उन्होंने कहा कि किसी भी खाप ने हत्या का फरमान जारी नहीं किया है। जाट महासभा के कैथल अध्यक्ष सुभाष बड़सीकरी, प्रदेश संगठन सचिव हरियाणा जाट महासभा जगपाल माजरा, आरक्षण समिति के प्रदेश सचिव रामफल जाखौली ने यह भी आरोप लगाया कि मनोज की मां चंद्रपति ने सामाजिक संरचना को तोड़ने में बच्चों का साथ देने का प्रयास किया।

Yes, amendment in Hindu Marriage Act will be the retort to the overly-sympathised aspiring incests. Along with that Khaps MUST come up with a central committee which addresses the issues of Gotra- Bhaichara code on the basis of genetics as in Bhaichara of Gotras , it is 4-7 generations which needed to be avoided and almost all of jat gotras are done with that. This will help immensely.

 

[sanjaymalik]

देश के बहुचर्चित मनोज-बबली हत्याकांड के आरोपियों को फांसी की सजा का खाप-पंचायतों ने एकजुट होकर विरोध करने का निर्णय किया है। इसके अलावा बबली के परिवार को आर्थिक सहायता उपलब्ध करवाई जाएगी। इस संदर्भ में 13 को कुरुक्षेत्र में महापंचायत होगी, जिसमें हरियाणा, पंजाब, यूपी, राजस्थान, नई दिल्ली, हिमाचल प्रदेश सहित खाप पंचायतों के प्रभाव वाले क्षेत्रों से सभी खापों के प्रतिनिधि भाग लेंगे। इसमें हिंदू मैरिज एक्ट में बदलाव की मांग की जाएगी। इसी क्रम में सोमवार को हरियाणा धनखड़ सभा के अध्यक्ष डा. ओमप्रकाश धनखड़ बबली के परिजनों से मिले तथा उन्हें आर्थिक सहायता देने का आश्वासन दिया। धनखड़ ने यहां जारी बयान में आरोप लगाया कि मनोज-बबली हत्याकांड के आरोपियों को सजा एक साजिश के तहत दी गई है। उन्होंने कहा कि इससे पूर्व कविता भारती केस, तंदूर कांड तथा मनु शर्मा कांडों में आरोपियों को फांसी की सजा क्यों नहीं सुनाई गई। उन्होंने कहा कि किसी भी खाप ने हत्या का फरमान जारी नहीं किया है। जाट महासभा के कैथल अध्यक्ष सुभाष बड़सीकरी, प्रदेश संगठन सचिव हरियाणा जाट महासभा जगपाल माजरा, आरक्षण समिति के प्रदेश सचिव रामफल जाखौली ने यह भी आरोप लगाया कि मनोज की मां चंद्रपति ने सामाजिक संरचना को तोड़ने में बच्चों का साथ देने का प्रयास किया।

Yes, amendment in Hindu Marriage Act will be the retort to the overly-sympathised aspiring incests. Along with that Khaps MUST come up with a central committee which addresses the issues of Gotra- Bhaichara code on the basis of genetics as in Bhaichara of Gotras , it is 4-7 generations which needed to be avoided and almost all of jat gotras are done with that. This will help immensely.

commendable step taken by Khap panchayat's leaders .