Jatland Matrimonial NRI Frauds...

@Vijay Singh...do you have a suggestion for members or ADMIN Vijay Ji? We would for sure not question your valued suggestion.Please do suggest.
 
Suggestions do come out of discussions, if they do happen positively.

I hope you have read the earlier discussion ( I posted a link ) and how people take it GENERALLY.

I don't know the exact ratio but its all about Few People's Lives Vs FUN UNLIMITED. :)
 
In old days our parents used to meet many people in various occasions and finding a match was too easy. Earlier our relatives used to suggest matches for marriages.
But now a days no one has so regular visits to their relatives and relatives do not suggest matches easily because they do not want to be responsible for anything.
So matrimonial site are very good and helping.
In matrimonial adds, people just gathers a few information;Everything else used to be completed in the former manner.
 
NRI Grooms no longer in demand.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/NRI-grooms-no-longer-in-demand/articleshow/10726123.cms


The charm of the NRI groom is fading in the marriage market as overseas economies continue to be unstable.

Indian brides, it seems, are paying attention to what the song, "Pardesiyon Se Naa Ankhiyaan Milana", preaches. Girls from NRI families too, are humming "Yeh Mera India". It's India shining for both when it comes to seeking life partners, as Indian and NRI girls want matches in India. Now, while 50% of Indians as well as NRIs discreetly mention in their wedding profiles on matchmaking portals that they are not interested in an NRI match, the remaining 50% don't put 'NRI' as even one of the options in the preferences.

Gourav Rakshit from a wedding portal says, "During recession in 2008 and 2009, 60% of the people registering on our portal mentioned 'no NRI grooms'. In 2011, after America was stripped of its AAA rating and many NRIs returned home looking for jobs, this year too, 50% have mentioned they don't want NRI grooms." Rakshit adds that things have gotten worse as even NRI girls are now looking for India-based grooms. "Many NRI families seeking a match for their daughters too have mentioned they don't want an NRI groom," he says.

Faced with declining salaries and job cuts, an increasing number of NRIs is moving to India. The Doshi family in New Jersey is one such. Their daughter, Hetal, who is married to an IT professional, recently shifted to India after her husband lost his job. Her parents have now decided to look for an Indian groom for their younger daughter, Shikha. Her father, Jigen Doshi, told us, "Many NRIs are shifting to India. Western economies are unstable."

Murugavel Janakiraman, founder and CEO of another wedding portal, says, "With the Indian economy booming, Indian grooms are looking as attractive as the NRI ones. Indian brides are realising that professionals in India are as smart, qualified and well-paid as their NRI counterparts."

Says Anushree Pal, who is looking for a groom for her 26-year-old daughter, "After 9/11 and other terror attacks around the world, there have been so many reports where Indians have not been treated well. I don't want that to be the case with my daughter. Also, we have everything here now - from top brands to supermarkets. My daughter will have it all, so why go for an NRI?"

For research analyst Preeti Vats*, 26, India is where the heart is. "Given the recession that's hit the foreign market, my parents haven't looked for a match outside India. India is progressing at an amazing rate - we have everything here, including our families." Says Suggandha Mehrotra, 26, 'I would rather marry a desi because they are a safer bet. There are fewer chances of them being handed the pink slip."
 
NRI frauds.................

rajninarwal said:
There are people who are posting there matrimonial adds on Jatland and ditching girls. Specially NRI's are doing it. Some of them are already married or into relation with other girls but they still post their matrimonial adds on Jatland. Its not only about posting adds, they marry girls and after spoiling there lives they are running back to abroad. Is there any way Jatland can help those girls?
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Dear Friend

JL is doing a great service to the jat community , otherwise all the other communty matri sites are the biggest fleecers of money and dupe you just for small amount of money

I am also using JL, other sites for my daughter's matri, but you should take up the responsibility of investigating, even if the proposal is through a known person
 
rajninarwal said:
There are people who are posting there matrimonial adds on Jatland and ditching girls. Specially NRI's are doing it. Some of them are already married or into relation with other girls but they still post their matrimonial adds on Jatland. Its not only about posting adds, they marry girls and after spoiling there lives they are running back to abroad. Is there any way Jatland can help those girls?
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rajninarwal said:
Bharti...
I have a scenario for you.If there is an NRI...His family wants him to marry an Indian JAT GIRL so that they can show in their circle or society k dekho humara ladka humare kahe main chalta hai, ye humare sanskaar hi hain k humara ladka videsh jaake bi nahin badla,humare kahe anusaar chalta hai, pata nahin wo kaise maa baap hote hain jinkey bachey bahar jaakar wahin k ho jaate hain,humara beta aisa nahin hai...but the boy is either already married or in relation with a girl in abroad...now the boy love his family very much and doesnt want to hurt them either,wo chahta hai k uskey maa baap ki naak nichi nahin honi chahiye...so only for their happiness and so called respect in society he comes to India and marry a girl...he will stay with the girl for some time and will go back to abroad...wat you suggest in this scenario...obviosly kahin na kahin, koi na koi jaan-pehchaan ya rishtedaari jaroor nikal hi aati hai...lekin har family ki jaan pahchaan videshon main nahin hoti naa....
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This scenario finally has happy ending, the girl is also abroad now with the said NRI :-). Wonder if she ever gets time to log on to Jatland now.
 
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NRI or No NRI
BGV or No BGV
Referred by relative or not
JL matrimonial or No JL matrimonial

Blah .... Or No Blah....

Marriage is the biggest gamble ever . Jiski kismat mei harna likha hai usse duniya ki koi takat nahi jeeta sakti .

PS : It applies to both the players Guy and Gal .
 
rekhasmriti said:
NRI or No NRI
BGV or No BGV
Referred by relative or not
JL matrimonial or No JL matrimonial

Blah .... Or No Blah....

Marriage is the biggest gamble ever . Jiski kismat mei harna likha hai usse duniya ki koi takat nahi jeeta sakti .

PS : It applies to both the players Guy and Gal .
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true to certain extent but when you play gamble you take stpes very carefully you dont step blindly. When someone suggest anyone, verify by yourself as well.
 
ssgoyat said:
This scenario finally has happy ending, the girl is also abroad now with the said NRI :-). Wonder if she ever gets time to log on to Jatland now.
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Ebbb to NRI bann ke ....muh chikdda chikdaa ke angrejji kaategi :) ...... !! People have many faces!
 
hahah means one girl's gain on the loss of another..... that guy is still in win-win situation and got the upper hand in choosing the one he want to spend his life with.... i hope this relationship lasts longer happily......
ssgoyat said:
This scenario finally has happy ending, the girl is also abroad now with the said NRI :-). Wonder if she ever gets time to log on to Jatland now.
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Its everywhere , not only in Jat matrimonial sites but also in others too..

So pyar andha hota hai...so do greed of a humen being.

i am talking abt both factors chahe "NRI" tag dekh kr shadi ki ho ya pyar main "andhe" ho kar..
here "andha" means neglecting advise of ur parents or your closed friends or not doing cross checks.

The rest is here...a thread that started a few months back but still people are enjoying it rather than taking a lesson out of it.

May God bless the poor girl who suffered a lot .

this is why we need a "society" that can help and protect the rights and life of such girls and shd also do cross check of the guys who just made false matrimonial profiles and play with emotions of innocent girls.

At the end , only a girl suffers ..

No one is ready to marry such girls kz our man dominated society always try their best to find the fault of a girl and play jokes on her tears.

Jis din admi ko khud chot lagti hai oos din wo dusre ke dukh ko samzta hai


Thanks for your patience and time ,
Saurabh Jaglan
 
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" can help and protect the rights and life of such girls and shd also do cross check of the guys who just made false matrimonial profiles and play with emotions of innocent girls"

May be I an ignorant person but why only gals ........why not we have society which protect so called rights of an individual irrespective of they being gal or guy .
Unless you are trying to say only " guys " make fake profiles and gals are too innocent .

" At the end , only a girl suffers .. "

I here disagree , the kinda cliche society we are talking about is full of so called educated ( in terms of degrees only ) people who without any reasons for the sake of gossip accuse women . However we also have educated people who understand the situation and be a support instead accusing gal / guy .

Who gives a damn about that - Cliche society full of uneducated people . I believe start changing urself , society itself be changed . Its people like me n u make society .


 
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"you are trying to say only " guys " make fake profiles and gals are too innocent ."

Really i never had encountered a single girl who is involved in fake profiles...cd be u r better judge.

we also have educated people who understand the situation and be a support instead accusing gal / guy ."

Where are those guys smriti?please let us know such live examples.

You could be right as you are more of "theoritical" educated and i am "practically" educated.

Girls cd be 1% or less involved in fake profiles and ; as per your def of "educated" guy there cd be .001% such educated guys in society.but % of such girls who are suffering is more than 1 % in our society.

You are pretty very intelligent but we have to look analyze society on a more practical grounds rather than theoretical Bookish moral value lectures.


There is a Huge difference between being an "HR of a company" and understanding "HR of our society."

Do you know how much time a girl gets to get the justice from our courts?
do you think parents also supports 100% to these girls?and what abt society?
have you ever accompanied such girls in courts?do u know how much they suffer?

Come to practical facts ...what matters to me is only Facts and fgures..and live examples.
i hv seen so many cases cnt name them here..
so i support girls on practical grounds by Legal help(Police,women cell,Court) rather than bookish words on JL threads.

But yes your Advice,replies,suggestions makes our threads more alive.

So please keep posting..replying

Thanks for your patience and time,
Saurabh Jaglan

rekhasmriti said:
" can help and protect the rights and life of such girls and shd also do cross check of the guys who just made false matrimonial profiles and play with emotions of innocent girls"

May be I an ignorant person but why only gals ........why not we have society which protect so called rights of an individual irrespective of they being gal or guy .
Unless you are trying to say only " guys " make fake profiles and gals are too innocent .

" At the end , only a girl suffers .. "

I here disagree , the kinda cliche society we are talking about is full of so called educated ( in terms of degrees only ) people who without any reasons for the sake of gossip accuse women . However we also have educated people who understand the situation and be a support instead accusing gal / guy .

Who gives a damn about that - Cliche society full of uneducated people . I believe start changing urself , society itself be changed . Its people like me n u make society .
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saurabhjaglan said:
"you are trying to say only " guys " make fake profiles and gals are too innocent ."

Really i never had encountered a single girl who is involved in fake profiles...cd be u r better judge.


Thanks for your patience and time,
Saurabh Jaglan
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The very first thing one will find fake on a girls profile is the pic..... i won't say fake, but very very deceptive.

waise bhi 'apne baalak ne ke koe bhunda bataya karei"
 
" Really i never had encountered a single girl who is involved in fake profiles...cd be u r better judge "
I have no clue about either guy or gal fake profile . I was referring natural human tendency here irrespective of gender .

" Where are those guys smriti?please let us know such live examples. "
Come on now u sounded like a pessimist , please I m not judging somebody as per ur posts u seems to be like one . Though I do not know many people but I m sure there would plenty more .

" You could be right as you are more of "theoritical" educated and i am "practically" educated " -U may be right , no practical knowledge about same

Do you know how much time a girl gets to get the justice from our courts?
No , agar ladki court ke chakkar kat rahi hai toh ladka bhi toh kat raha hai . We are using suffering word for gal why COZ she is a gal -----

do you think parents also supports 100% to these girls?and what abt society?
Such cliche society -----I do not care . If parents not supporting gals so .........what can I say sue the parents for finding bad match .
All find the best match they can .........

Yar itna padhane likhane ke bad bhi , independent banane ke bad bhi , social aware banane ke bad bhi , confident banane ke bad bhi ( all coz of parents )
+ laws ( by govt ) ke bad bhi
Still agar LAKDI suffer kar rahi hai , toh I do not know what else we can do to fix it . It is much of the mind set irrespective of anybody's fault or may be nobody's fault ,
always BECHARI ladki .
This BECHARA word is what I am talking about .

Marriage is a gamble , bad luck things do not work out goes for both . I may be wrong but in order to avoid this so called " BECHARI " tag gals remain stuck with awful marriages ( i m referring to domestic violence here ).
 
Dear Madam,
Its not at all Bechari or Behara...We do suffer in life because lack of self confidence and less maturity in life.
We must develop ourself other wise all education, all best wishes, all caring from relatives will not help and will continue to be called like Bechari or Bechara. So wake up and improve the self confidence. Improving self confidence will give power to fight in life.
 
It's better to be safe than sorry. Likewise its better to do a good BGC. 100% to kisi ka pata nhi chalta but if you give it a try 70-80% percent bedh to sabka lagja se.
 
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