Kahu ya nahi...............

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Kahu ya nahi:confused:.............. hmmmmm dont stare like this!

I guess its time to say now! Well, a serious question ahead...........

" Duniya ek mela hai jisme har koi akela hai..........
koi kaam se pareshan koi bilkul vella hai............"

Hey!......... serious thing now! As Shakespeare said.........this world is a stage & we all are here to play our parts....... the world is full of innumerable characters playing their roles, governed by the Director GOD! The colours of humanity are so vibrant yet vivid! We meet many a persons each day and come across various different shades of humanity!Many a times in our daily lives we often find ourselves in a fix as regards to whether we should say what we are willing to say & what is coming to our minds or should just keep quite & refrain ourselves from any comment owing to the simple reason of avoiding saying anything if it can be!! Why to get into mess ! or whats the use!........ such dialogues just pop up in our minds & we advertantly or inadvertantly succumb to this feeling........ & we keep quite.........There can be many a reasons for this usual attitude like many a times we tend to think
that our saying anything will not be of any use because the person concerned will surely turn my words down! or may be because we think "kya fayda koi panga ho gaya to!' etc etc.......... and we walk out quitely........

Question is should we come up with what we feel and how often, should we always think to whom we are talking to, will the person take our words as we want him to, will he understand, will it be of any use at all,will it make a difference,is it the right time, is it the right person to say to........ list is endless......... everyone can add to this list what hovers in one's mind when it comes to saying something important or may be something which may sound bitter or something which may give rise to a controversy!!

Any opinions....... anything u wanna say now!!:):p
 
Let me put it in another way..............

At times I come across ppl who are great reply givers! They r ready with a reply anytime but they are not aware about the basic addicates of how to talk, how to reply politely so as not to offend anyone and the likes. If we come across a situation when the other person or persons, whom we are interacting with is being rude & offensive and we are about to lose our temper too, then whats the way out? How long can we keep quite in such a situation? What should we do? Can anyone please suggest a way out?
 
Ask Yourself!!!!

Well Shweta V must avoid these kind of people and situations.All of us must think before we speak and ask ourselves -
1.Is it true?
2.Is it necessary?
3.Can it hurt anybody?

and than atleast we can separate ourselves from that kind of people.:)
 
very well said ashok ji .
The best answer for your quen. is already here shweta ji .
 
nittoo said:
Well Shweta V must avoid these kind of people and situations.All of us must think before we speak and ask ourselves -
1.Is it true?
2.Is it necessary?
3.Can it hurt anybody?

and than atleast we can separate ourselves from that kind of people.:)
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Ya i do understand Sir, but what if we find ourselves offended & hurt coz of others' actions? Arent we escapist if we do not try making them understand........ is there no way how we can make such persons understand that it hurts...............
 
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arre bhai yo shakespere ke bala seh????mhare toh kuch bhi samajh na aayi...kuch samajhane ka kast karenge:)
 
Acha......

vipinrathee said:
arre bhai yo shakespere ke bala seh????mhare toh kuch bhi samajh na aayi...kuch samajhane ka kast karenge:)
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Shakespeare ke bala seh jaruri na sabne samjhani, agar simajh na aayi te na simjho, simajhne ka koi inaam na seh aade! Jisko simajh aagi vo jawab de dega aap kast mat na lo simajhne ka, pehle hum aapne simjhawe fir aap hamne hal batao....... iste to aap taal hi rakho na:)
 
everyday issue

i really liked ur idea line and except the picture of peculiar behaviour you trying to show case . all of us fall in this trap sometime or other .And you know shweta i personally follow on the fact that not to react on everything too fast at the same time not to miss out on right action if required .and so by this to larger extent one can save oneself from getting hurt by others loss talk as well as avoid hurting other's by our callous manners and words.
 
i think u r asking this question at wrong place from wrong people.
u should have asked this question on some baniya land aur panjju land.
to not to lose temper...........and jat......not a very good combo:eek:
shwetadhaka said:
At times I come across ppl who are great reply givers! They r ready with a reply anytime but they are not aware about the basic addicates of how to talk, how to reply politely so as not to offend anyone and the likes. If we come across a situation when the other person or persons, whom we are interacting with is being rude & offensive and we are about to lose our temper too, then whats the way out? How long can we keep quite in such a situation? What should we do? Can anyone please suggest a way out?
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nittoo said:
Well Shweta V must avoid these kind of people and situations.All of us must think before we speak and ask ourselves -
1.Is it true?
2.Is it necessary?
3.Can it hurt anybody?

and than atleast we can separate ourselves from that kind of people.:)
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Dear Ashok,
I don't agree with your third point. You know true and necessary hurts most of people.
So, if you want to speak or write true and necessary then don't care if it hurts any body.
 
Kahan se laati ho itni saari baatein CA ji

shwetadhaka said:
Kahu ya nahi:confused:.............. hmmmmm dont stare like this!

I guess its time to say now! Well, a serious question ahead...........

" Duniya ek mela hai jisme har koi akela hai..........
koi kaam se pareshan koi bilkul vella hai............"

Hey!......... serious thing now! As Shakespeare said.........this world is a stage & we all are here to play our parts....... the world is full of innumerable characters playing their roles, governed by the Director GOD! The colours of humanity are so vibrant yet vivid! We meet many a persons each day and come across various different shades of humanity!Many a times in our daily lives we often find ourselves in a fix as regards to whether we should say what we are willing to say & what is coming to our minds or should just keep quite & refrain ourselves from any comment owing to the simple reason of avoiding saying anything if it can be!! Why to get into mess ! or whats the use!........ such dialogues just pop up in our minds & we advertantly or inadvertantly succumb to this feeling........ & we keep quite.........There can be many a reasons for this usual attitude like many a times we tend to think
that our saying anything will not be of any use because the person concerned will surely turn my words down! or may be because we think "kya fayda koi panga ho gaya to!' etc etc.......... and we walk out quitely........

Question is should we come up with what we feel and how often, should we always think to whom we are talking to, will the person take our words as we want him to, will he understand, will it be of any use at all,will it make a difference,is it the right time, is it the right person to say to........ list is endless......... everyone can add to this list what hovers in one's mind when it comes to saying something important or may be something which may sound bitter or something which may give rise to a controversy!!

Any opinions....... anything u wanna say now!!:):p
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Well.... Yeah in our daily life we see people doing so many things ... some we like or some we dislike((that may be morally wrong or anything wrong in them ) ... Most of the time I shud say all the time .. we pass by ignoring them saying its not our matter .... But personally i appreciate the good things and deeds of really anybody n i mean it ...

And Well Criticizing takes some work ... as if we ourselves are very reluctant to digest criticism .. same thing applies on others ... And remember Baapu Gandhi was only One me n you cant be baapu ..slap on one give other .... her insaan main Bhagwaan toh hai per uski nahin chal paati hai aajkal ...

Agree somewhat ?????
 
Hi Ravi,

Well my third point is about saying things differently .......daily we come across situations when we need to comment on something or someone.We can say truth in a very subtle way ...that may not sound offensive.for ex. if a doctor knows that patient is about to die ...he says keep watching old tv serials but dont start new ones........:)
 
Hi shweta,

Whenever in life u feel being pulled down or critisized always remember-

NOBODY KICKS A DEAD DOG.
 
dreamer said:
Well.... Yeah in our daily life we see people doing so many things ... some we like or some we dislike((that may be morally wrong or anything wrong in them ) ... Most of the time I shud say all the time .. we pass by ignoring them saying its not our matter .... But personally i appreciate the good things and deeds of really anybody n i mean it ...

And Well Criticizing takes some work ... as if we ourselves are very reluctant to digest criticism .. same thing applies on others ... And remember Baapu Gandhi was only One me n you cant be baapu ..slap on one give other .... her insaan main Bhagwaan toh hai per uski nahin chal paati hai aajkal ...

Agree somewhat ?????
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Hmmmmm see Ravi ji, koi Gandhi ji nahi hota hai aur hona bahut mushkil hai no doubts! Handling criticsm & even refraining ourselves from critcizing someone when we badly feel like doing it requires much patience and sensibility & it is a tedoius task indeed. But I believe that good deeds never die even if they go unnoticed or even if they are criticised for wrong reasons! We must try checking our actions and try doing good ignoring the wrong actions of others doing good ourselves!
 
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