yahi baat mai bolna chahta hu ravinder sir... logic to tha or ab bhi hai... par kuch logo ki ya to galat harkat ne, ya for jayada samajhdari ne... us logic ko aprasangik bana diya...
mai to athiest hu par jo maante hain unko kabhi ulta-seedha nahi bolta...
upar ek bhai ne ved-shastro ka jikar kiya.. or aise hi poorane kisse-kahino mai ek kisaa "sharvan kumar" ka bhi hai... is samaj ka yahi durbhagaya hai ki jisne pehli kawar uthai, sab ko uske jaise bacche chahiye... par agar koi sharvan kumar ke rate pe chal ke kawar lene gaya to... sabne ulta-seedha bolna suru kar diya... aare kawar le kar aane mai kya burai hai!!! agar burai hai to unke sufa pine mai hai, ya fir agar vo kisi se misbehariour karte hain to usme hai... or ye bhi maan lo ki bahot sare kawad lane wale ulte-seedhe kaam karte hain.. iska ye matlab to nahi ki sare ek jaise hi hain... mere kuch dost hain.. padhe likhe hain vo bhi le ke aate hain... mai to unko yehi bolta hu ki jitni effort tum uske leke aane mai karte ho.. utni auntie-unkle ki sewa kar liya karo... or vo karte bhi hain.. vo kuch maangne bhi nahi jate... mere poochne pe ek ne to kaha ki jo mila hai uska dhanayawaad karne jate hain... we should have any problem about it, as far as they are going with a clean heart and behave in a decent way... humari concentration or thought process isko bandh karwane ke bajai... is baat pe honi chahiye ki jo ladke bigad gaye hain ya galat harkatein karte hain... unko sahi raste pe kaise laya jaye... or unke sahi raste pe aane se hi bhala hoga... agar kawad lana bandh bhi karwa diya jaye to is baat ki koi surety nahi hai ki vo ladke sulfa chood dengae... or agar hum unko nahi sudhar sakte ya humara usnke upar koi control nahi hai to, humein is baat ka bhi koi haq nahi hai ki hum kavad lane walo ko ulta seedha bole or ya le kar aana bandh karwa de...
ek bhai ne bola wastage of efforts, time and money : aare mai or aap apni next generation ke liye... jo hardwork kar ke paise or property bana ruhe hain... or wahi bacche agar uske barbaad kar de to ye wastage hi to hai, to hum kaam karna bandh kar de kya??? ... wastage to isme bhi hai ki mai mehnat kar kar paise kamau, fir sarkar to tax du, fir sarkar us tax se army/police/intelligence agencies ko salary de... or fir jab mai kabhi market jau to wahan bomb fatne se mar hau!!!!! Ye efforts, time and money ki wastage hum kahan tak avoid kar sakte hain, mugjhe to samajh hi nahi aata...
or jo logo ki 5-7 din tak social life disturb hone wali baat hai... vo t mugjhe joke lagi... humari social life to terrorism, corruption, social and emotional violence, road rages, inflation or bahot sare reason se already itni disturb hai, or kitni hogi...
or agar kawad lane walo ke traffic ke reason se humari social life disturb hoti hai to... mere sikh bhi bhi kuch aisa hi julus nikalte hain (ye to nahi pata ki kyon nikalte hain but dekha bahot bar hai)... or mere muslim bhai har Friday ko rajiv chowk ke paas NH-8 block kar dete hain.. or highway pe namaj padhte hain... or aisa scene or bhi bahot sai jagah pe hota hai... or id ke din to koi wahan se nikal ke dikha de to mai usko 11 rupee inaam dounga(from my hard earned money)... traffic jam to mai bhi jheelta hu but mai kisi ko ulta-seedha bolne ke bajai, ghar se jaldi nikalna suru kar deta hu... ye traffic wale issue pe ya to humein uniform civil law lagu karwane ki maang karni chahie ya thoda adjust karna chahiye...
humare samaj ka sab se baya durbhagya yahi hai ki hum hamesha root cause ki taraf to dhayan dete nahi or jo ho ruha hota hai us par kataksh kar dete hain... aisa hi yahan hua... humne kawad lane wale apne bahiyo ki galtiyo ko sudharne pe to koi vicha diya nahi or unko koosna suru kar diya... agar hum is baat pe discuss kare ki unko or unke moral ko upar uthaye to behtar hoga... shayad JatLand website ka exist hona bhi tabhi sarthak hoga jab hum apne samaj mai koi sakaratmak badlaav le kar aaye... or agar humari efforts se un par koi asar hoga to ya to vo ladke kawad lene hi nahi jayenge... or agar gaye bhi to sulfa peete huae nahi layange...
Bhai..ek sire se discussion start hota hai tabhi to saare pehlu nikal ke saamne aate hain. Maine kaha traffic mein problem aati hai, disturbance hoti hai to kisi aur ne kaha ke yeh log bhatke huye hain...agar yeh thread start hi nahin hoti to hum discussion karte hi na...isi tareeke se har ek discussion kisi ek point se start hoti hai aur hum sab iske root cause pe pahunchne ki koshish karte hain...aur hum aa hi chuke hain ki religion se judi andhvishwas hi problem create karti hain...
Aur bhai public money kahin bhi waste ho usko discuss karne mein kya haraj hai...? This thread is about Kanwars so we are discussing public wastage due to Kanwars..simple. If it was another thread on another kind of wastage at another source we could talk about that.
Aur bhai halakin main khud Sikh hun par main juloos se ittefaq nahi rakhta...mere hisab se juloos jaisi show-off karne wali cheezon ki zaroorat nahin hai...agar karna hi hai to kisi khule maidan mein Sunday ke din ho jisse kisi ko koi problem naa ho...Par main yeh bhi kahunga ki agar saal mein 2 din juloos nikalta hai to 365 din logon ko free langar bhi khilaya jaata hai..to cost-benefit ke hisaab se it comes out alright...but we cant say the same about kanwars..woh anpni khushi ke liye nikalte hain aur problem sab ko hoti hai...hence the discussion..
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