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sansanwalamit
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Mhare Jaatan main mane dekhya hai ki maa-baabu balkaan ne kuch ghanya hi peete karein.
I am no exception meri bhi bachpan te leke late teens tak maa ne kai baar khoob chitai kari aur meri maa mane ibe bhi dhamkaaye kare te ib aayie tu India pher bataoongi, but like everyone else I am fortunate to get out of that chitaai age.
So the question is why Jat parents behave like this, I dont think that chitaai had any impact on me or did me any good. I even know some people of my age whose fathers wouldnt stop or be reserved about insulting their kids or hitting them. And I have mostly seen this phenomenon amongst Jats.
In villages the situation is so bad that women beat their kids for no reason, as in jib kiye aur te ladaai hoja yeah bhens kum doodh deve to uka cho balkan pe taar de hain.
This all only makes the kid agressive and violent, I dont have kids of my own so I cannot say anything whether it is necessary or not. Even in western world they say "Spare the rod and spoil the child, spank the child and go to jail". Is spanking really necessary?
And please share your spnking or chitaai experiences, whether you are a parent who has spanked kids now and then, or a chitaai veteran like me who did get his/her share of chitaai as a kid
I am no exception meri bhi bachpan te leke late teens tak maa ne kai baar khoob chitai kari aur meri maa mane ibe bhi dhamkaaye kare te ib aayie tu India pher bataoongi, but like everyone else I am fortunate to get out of that chitaai age.
So the question is why Jat parents behave like this, I dont think that chitaai had any impact on me or did me any good. I even know some people of my age whose fathers wouldnt stop or be reserved about insulting their kids or hitting them. And I have mostly seen this phenomenon amongst Jats.
In villages the situation is so bad that women beat their kids for no reason, as in jib kiye aur te ladaai hoja yeah bhens kum doodh deve to uka cho balkan pe taar de hain.
This all only makes the kid agressive and violent, I dont have kids of my own so I cannot say anything whether it is necessary or not. Even in western world they say "Spare the rod and spoil the child, spank the child and go to jail". Is spanking really necessary?
And please share your spnking or chitaai experiences, whether you are a parent who has spanked kids now and then, or a chitaai veteran like me who did get his/her share of chitaai as a kid
....arr Dada Ji ka haath issa janu Sher ka panja....aangli chapp ja kati....par wey bas bhoondi handwriting pai peetya kartey....mahrey ghar mai bohot baddi chat thi arr 4 jeeney they tai mai pakdaai mai na aaya karti....koi mai chadd kai koise mai utar jaya karti....
par mere maa-babu ne kaddey nahi mare mere maare chacha ne, mera chacha thoda Hitler se type ka hai , aaj bhi koi ook chook ho jya te rehpat maaran mein vaar nahi lave, unke hi strict behaviour ki wajah se mein apne Kunbe mein pehla engineer bana hun , nahi to baaki bhaiyo ki tarah main bhi BA karke baith jata.
