Love - whether it emanates from heart or brain?

Yes, why not Riya? What I would like to suggest is that you can add above caption to the original title of the thread instead of changing it. Love should remain the main theme but you can expand the area of discussion. You will have to specify what kind of decisions you are going to discuss here because there are certain decisions which do not offer any binary choice of yes or no.
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Thanks VP singh Ji, Taking love as the main theme lets move it to Marriage,
I think everyone has to undergo a situation of choosing his or her partner for life, that time what you consider heart or mind?

Here are some Situations
1-all your options are good.
2-you don't have a preference for any of your choices and yet you still can't seem to decide.
3-you see gains and losses in all of your options. Because of this, it is not clear which course you should take.
4-all the options have unpleasant consequences (like choosing between keeping silent or speaking up about a family secret that some relatives don't know about -- but perhaps should).
5-the consequences are unclear (as in the case of whether or not to have a risky operation).
 
Where is the dilemma, let your parents decide.
riyaa said:
Thanks VP singh Ji, Taking love as the main theme lets move it to Marriage,
I think everyone has to undergo a situation of choosing his or her partner for life, that time what you consider heart or mind?

Here are some Situations
1-all your options are good.
2-you don't have a preference for any of your choices and yet you still can't seem to decide.
3-you see gains and losses in all of your options. Because of this, it is not clear which course you should take.
4-all the options have unpleasant consequences (like choosing between keeping silent or speaking up about a family secret that some relatives don't know about -- but perhaps should).
5-the consequences are unclear (as in the case of whether or not to have a risky operation).
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riyaa said:
Thanks VP singh Ji, Taking love as the main theme lets move it to Marriage,
I think everyone has to undergo a situation of choosing his or her partner for life, that time what you consider heart or mind?

Here are some Situations
1-all your options are good.
2-you don't have a preference for any of your choices and yet you still can't seem to decide.
3-you see gains and losses in all of your options. Because of this, it is not clear which course you should take.
4-all the options have unpleasant consequences (like choosing between keeping silent or speaking up about a family secret that some relatives don't know about -- but perhaps should).
5-the consequences are unclear (as in the case of whether or not to have a risky operation).
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As Anu has also rightly said, you must involve your parents whenever you are faced with some dilemma. Our love for parents should have paramount importance in our lives because that is the only love which is unselfish. It is our sacred duty to keep them happy at any cost.
 
Where is the dilemma, let your parents decide.
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Vp singh ji i am agree to your statement, But when parents will decide a partner for there childeren they will obviously ask them too, there these situations can arise..
 
I dont know where to put it but not a new thread....

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/...rry-off-wife-to-lover/articleshow/8882887.cms

MEERUT: In a bizarre tale of marriage without consent, a 21-year-old supervisor in an IT company has got his newly-wedded wife tie a rakhi to him — symbolically making her a sister — after learning that she had earlier secretly married another man. The 'groom', Nitesh Tyagi, has also vowed to get the girl, Aarti, married to her lover despite alleged threats from her family. The girl, meanwhile, is living at the supervisor's house in Meerut's Devlok Colony.

"Even an animal brought against its will to a new owner will run away. This is a case of a sensitive and educated girl, forced to marry against her wishes. I am proud of my son's stand and support him wholeheartedly," said Nitesh's father Anil Tyagi.

Tyagi has declared that Aarti was now his 'daughter'. "Earlier, she was my daughter-in-law. Now, she is my second daughter. And my wife is equally happy to have her as a daughter," said Tyagi, a transporter by profession.

According to the family, Nitesh's marriage plans were fraught with complications from the start. He was initially engaged to be married to Aarti's elder sister. "But the girl eloped with a trainee police sub-inspector before the marriage, which was scheduled for May 6. Aarti's father, himself a sub-inspector with the Provincial Armed Constabulary in Rudrapur, told us that Nitesh should marry Aarti, to which we agreed. The wedding took place on May 6," said Tyagi.

But the family then learnt that Aarti had been forced into the alliance. "Aarti told my son that she had a lover whom she met during her graduation. They had even quietly married in a temple. Her family possibly drugged her on the night of the wedding. I had seen her weeping and unsteady on her feet," Tyagi said.

Aarti, too, told TOI that she may have been drugged during the wedding ceremony. "On the morning after the wedding ceremony, I told Nitesh I was already married and could not be his wife," she said.

"His reaction, and that of his parents, was unbelievable," Aarti said. "Nitesh made me tie a rakhi to him so that I could openly continue to live in the house as his sister. Even Nitesh's mother accepted the situation readily. Now she treats me like her daughter."

Nitesh claimed Aarti's family had threatened to turn the Rudrapur PAC force against the Tyagis if they arranged another wedding for Aarti. "We have decided to formally seek police protection on Friday. And then, we will hand over Aarti to her lover and rightful husband. I have no regrets," Nitesh said.

The Tyagi home, meanwhile, has virtually become a tourist destination, with admiring or unbelieving visitors flocking in from Meerut and elsewhere.
 
OMG OMG OMG .... chaala paat gya,.... aasman pat gya..dharti paat gyi ...


VP Singh ji, aap ki ess post te lugaiyan ki izzat lut gayi ... yo jurm karan ki jurrat kaise hui aap ki ke JL jaise dakiyanoosi sanskari site pe taaaga chaap diya jis me "LOVE" word shamil kar diya ... oooohoooo oohooo...

ade sab aurat eeb sharm te paani paani ho jaya gi ... he ram.... dekho kise din aa gaye aaj kaal, log JL jise sanskari (kai members taliban jaise pavitr sanskar rakhney wale) site pe LOVE shove ka prayog karan lage... oh hooo ....

re Modeyo, katto yo tagga, Jat samaj ka stayanash ho liya, mahri sabhayta lut gayi, jluam s julam ... tawle karo.. maro baddha VP Singh ji ke post pe ...

aap ne LOVE shabd ka prayog kar ke Jat sanskriti ke HONOR ki KILLING kar di ... im surprised ke Moddeyan ki khaap ne action na liya eeb tak aap ke tagge ki KILLING karan ka
 
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You have been strictly warned not to ever use the objectionable
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what kind of rule is this all have replied happily..
dishonorable and utter shameful word like LOVE
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Lolz...Love is not a shameful word..but people and there ways are shameful..
Its also a social factor..BTW then what to discuss here Politics..or history..??

Do not promote humanitarian values, right of freedom to chose (of couples), freedom of expression (our mods will butcher the posts), rational and liberal values (our Talibani sanskriti ke rakshak (beti-bhaskshak honor-killers type) members will disrobe you of any honor)
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they are promoting honour killing.
 
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But why Heart only? Why not eyes, nose, ears, lungs or other organs?


anusha said:
Scientifically all the emotions emanate from brain because suitable chemicals are released,whether it is love or hate.But we tend to asociate the emotions with our heart,and so we say that love emanates from heart.
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