~~ Lovely lonliness ??

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dkumars said:
Yoooooooh maraaaaaaaaa ... ibb bol bhai... ya shweta tai tera byah karwakai maanegi lagei sai
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Aaj 20-20 ka fever posts me bi chaa raha hai ! :oYe chauka tha ya chakka ye bi bata dijiye umpire ji ;)

Na na byah na karwa ke maanane ki, ibbe mai yo karungi ki jibbe Jit ji apna Matri add denge to moderators ki help se neeche likhwa dungi ye punya vachan

Wanted a suitable match but lemme tell u : "Beer is better than woman any given day" & " Ye aurten bhi Azeeb hoti hein.....Shaadi ke baad agar Husband kharab mil jaaye to zindgi bhar khud rotti rehti hai....aur agar kismat se achha husband mil jaaye to usse rulaati rehti hai!!:D:p:D:p:rolleyes:" & the likes

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Waise bi abhi to kaafi time hai Devendra ji add dene me tab tak kuch ache se quotes aur ikkhate ho jaayenge, Jit ji to 40-45 ke baad hi shaadi karenge & that too when he will get ready to spoil a girls life as told to us by him, or when the freely floating cloud gets tired of floating !!
Daawat gayi hamari to..........
 
After using every relation and resurce I love lonleness

Jab tak hamey jarurat hai hum sabhi ka istemaal kartey hai ur jab dusro ko hamari jarurat ho hum keh dey hamey akeley rehna pasand hai kanhan tak sahi hai. Jitna hamney samaj say liya hai utna vapas kery or fir akeley rahain
to kisi ko koi problem nahi hogi.

seemasindhu said:
sir there is nuthing unfair in it. ppl cn b alone in full-fledge family as well. credit goes to better aware ppl...nw we r mor individual thn just a shadow of relation's as it used 2 b in older times. nw our mental faculties r mor capable n d mor intellectual one is, d mor isolated he will bcum
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Karamveer Ji,

Baat apki bilkul sahi hai :)

Per Bhagwan Jaanay us ladkay kay Ghar ka kya mahol hai that he wants to live alone.

Deepak
 
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shwetadhaka said:
Confining :confused: Well, u r free to ponder ur unconfined, non-chaatkhaara types, non typical views, away from the man-woman relationships! Well, I was very clear with the discussion and it ranged from the people willing to live in nuclear families just for the reason of avoinding 'taka-taaki' to people who think that any kind of relation is a 'janzeer' sort of thing ! It ties their wings of freedom !

They find it tough even to give answers arising out of love & concern and owing to this they try escaping from such relations & find solace in their loneliness or relations without tags or names attached.
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Firts of all it was not aimed at you & was a general observation over flow of thoughts, at last, the way discussion has matured, looks like the only solution is :

उस छोरे को ढूँढो और पूरी तेह्किकत करो की - बेटा तू शादी के लड्डू को बिना खाए ही क्यों पछताना चाहता है, शादी तो ऐसा लड्डू है की जो खाए वोह पछताये, जो न खाए वो भी, फ़िर अच्छा तो इसी में है की खा लो, और संतुष्टि के साथ पछ्तालो ;)
 
सब्ताए घना मजा इस बात का जिस बेचारे नि न्यूं कही क कि "Leave me alone" उसी को तंग कराने पे हम सारे उत्तरे हैं :D:eek:
 
vikasgulia said:
सब्ताए घना मजा इस बात का जिस बेचारे नि न्यूं कही क कि "Leave me alone" उसी को तंग कराने पे हम सारे उत्तरे हैं :D:eek:
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Begani Shaadi main...Jatlander Deweena...Ha Ha Ha
 
skarmveer said:
Jab tak hamey jarurat hai hum sabhi ka istemaal kartey hai ur jab dusro ko hamari jarurat ho hum keh dey hamey akeley rehna pasand hai kanhan tak sahi hai. Jitna hamney samaj say liya hai utna vapas kery or fir akeley rahain
to kisi ko koi problem nahi hogi.
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Coudnt get u sir ... :confused::confused::confused:
 
"leave me alone........."..hehehe..hahaa...............urbans are too much exhausted by their surroundings..........traffic jam........overcrowded bus.....talkative colleagues....so always cry "leave me alone";)...........It is rare to listen "leave me alone" from rurals.......................
 
The chemical science says that single atom is highly unstable and therefore tries to form bond with the similar atom or a differrent of suitable symmtery. This is exactly true for the relationships as well where exist the positive factors (suitable for bonding) and negative factors (unsuitable for bonding).

Everyone has to grow and contribute for any relation to sustain. And if a person is not ready to share his own life and space in any realtion, he is going to end up with no one around at the end of the day.

Physical and materialistic factors are mirages which will eventually end up sooner or later.

So, person in question with the this point of view is ofcourse going to live an unstable life as no relation is perfect one, let it be with the family and friends or any one.

These people can only learn with the time and allow them to have such misconceptions. Pity on them, it will be too late for them to hold on to the any relation in their life as everything and everyone will move on!

Cheers!
 
cooljat said:


As for the very reason ur curious bout ....I dont wanna marry cuz Im free bird just like floatin cloud.....aaj yahan kal wahan!! So simply I dont wanna spoil ny gal's life....so am happy with beer cuz she atleast wont ever complain that u've spoiled my lyf ;);)
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Jittt... tu yeh seriously keh reha hai yaa majak kar reha hai :confused:
 
chhavi said:
The chemical science says that single atom is highly unstable and therefore tries to form bond with the similar atom or a differrent of suitable symmtery. This is exactly true for the relationships as well where exist the positive factors (suitable for bonding) and negative factors (unsuitable for bonding).

Everyone has to grow and contribute for any relation to sustain. And if a person is not ready to share his own life and space in any realtion, he is going to end up with no one around at the end of the day.

Physical and materialistic factors are mirages which will eventually end up sooner or later.

So, person in question with the this point of view is ofcourse going to live an unstable life as no relation is perfect one, let it be with the family and friends or any one.

These people can only learn with the time and allow them to have such misconceptions. Pity on them, it will be too late for them to hold on to the any relation in their life as everything and everyone will move on!

Cheers!
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Nice thoughts, nicely knitted Chhavi ! I agree, one cant expect to get associated with a perfect person and if one wishes to do so then this well thought out association may turn rocking for some time but pastures of life are so vast & full of many a ups & downs that can never be predicted but one has to walk along them and it will be lot easier if there is someone around always. Not necessarily a piece of perfection, but a reliable and an understanding soul.
 
shwetadhaka said:
Nice thoughts, nicely knitted Chhavi ! I agree, one cant expect to get associated with a perfect person and if one wishes to do so then this well thought out association may turn rocking for some time but pastures of life are so vast & full of many a ups & downs that can never be predicted but one has to walk along them and it will be lot easier if there is someone around always. Not necessarily a piece of perfection, but a reliable and an understanding soul.
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Well m not denying the fact u need someone to share ur life being a social animal n full of emotions.... but
Is spouse only the person who can give u support in tought time ????
Someone means only one person ... cant u get the same support from ur parent/brothers/sisters/friends ???
I feel i can share everything with my parents n my bro... i don find i will share something extra with that gal if any.
And moreover this is individual choice... its not like ppl r afraid of responsibilities or so... Y do we respect so much for sadhu sanyasi ???
Many of them stay unmarried but it doesn mean they r scared of respo, they have different motto in life ... so i just want to convey its individual choice. Some ppl go for more than 1 marriage dats their choice. As far as they are not hurting anyone they r not wrong iguess.... :)
 
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dkumars said:
Well m not denying the fact u need someone to share ur life being a social animal n full of emotions.... but
Is spouse only the person who can give u support in tought time ????
Someone means only one person ... cant u get the same support from ur parent/brothers/sisters/friends ???
I feel i can share everything with my parents n my bro... i don find i will share something extra with that gal if any.
And moreover this is individual choice... its not like ppl r afraid of responsibilities or so... Y do we respect so much for sadhu sanyasi ???
Many of them stay unmarried but it doesn mean they r scared of respo, they have different motto in life ... so i just want to convey its individual choice. Some ppl go for more than 1 marriage dats their choice. As far as they are not hurting anyone they r not wrong iguess.... :)
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M not denying ur point too ! Nor m an advocator of the view that marriage is essential or anything like that.... but as far as I can perceive or I have observed, I think that this relation is typical of its kind & the most close ! Ur frds, brother, parents, everyone is there & will be there but cant be with u forever & everyday owing to their own inherent issues. Marriage is an institution which gives a common platform to two persons for rest of the life! More so, generally these two ppl are from the same age group, similar background if its an arranged marriage. The intimacy, sacredness, bonding & responsibilty of this relation surpasses all other relations so as to the fact the couple is often looked at by the society even as a single identity, their identity merges..... and a lot more...... Its individual choice thats for sure, u will never be draged to ur shaadi venue I guess!:p

& abt the responsibility thing, is life all about responsibility? Its about loving someone, teasing someone, being possesive about someone, laughing at absolutely nothing, riding along without knowing where to go, holding hands when everyone else is busy, becoming boss for someone & at times a slave too!, missing someone, eating someone's head and lots more........ if u adore a sadhu life, its not bad too ! Individual choice u see!
 
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