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If two persons are not same in your life. Who would be the more important for u:
- the one whom u love madly and
- second one that who loves u madly

Pleas reply with a strong reason.
 
suneet_rana said:
If two persons are not same in your life. Who would be the more important for u:
- the one whom u love madly and
- second one that who loves u madly

Pleas reply with a strong reason.

I will go for the person who loves me madly.

Reasons ?????????????

If ur really an intellectual u can understand that !
 
vijay said:
I will go for the person who loves me madly.

Reasons ?????????????

If ur really an intellectual u can understand that !

No, we are not intellectual, please explain...::D :p
 
For me the person whom i love madly will be my choice:

Reason: Onus of proof is with me and i am certain that i love the person more than anything else and hence my concience is clear and i am not under any obligation to prove that point.....To myself..[forget about this world ofcourse] and as i am only responsible for my actions and feelings the burdon of proof of reciprocation lies on the object of my true feelings.......irrespective of what the net result might be. I stand to loose nothing as i am in control of things and expect nothing in turn but if i get it,it will be a bonus and ofcourse....pleasure...else thank you,i did my best!
 
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poonam said:
No, we are not intellectual, please explain...::D :p

Ok i am explaining my point of view.

The person who loves me madly in the real sense will be faithful for me for sure no doubt about that. She is madly in love with me and can't think anything else !!!

What a guy need more than that if he is a really an honest man in actual. A girl who loves him by heart and soul and ready to do anything for him. What else is the "tammanna" about a lover and a soulmate for life.

She is mine and faithful to me forever what else i should expect from my love. NOTHING.

All said i think.

Still open to debate !!!!!!!!!!
 
suneet_rana said:
If two persons are not same in your life. Who would be the more important for u:
- the one whom u love madly and
- second one that who loves u madly

Pleas reply with a strong reason.
Abeeeeee:eek:
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Hayellaaa JATLAND mein SMS itni jaldi aate hai
 
poonam said:
No, we are not intellectual, please explain...::D :p
lemme explain cause i would have chosen the same.

I feel someone who is loving me selflessly, deserves my attention compared to those who dont give a damn about me. Where do you find selfless and true love in this world? Very hardly, and ir you meet that person even by chance, dont just let it go.

As far as my love is conecerned, i find it really awkward to do things which pleases me but hurts 10 otherr people, am pleased to do something which makes 10 people happy.

I hope any one(f) reads this good lecture:(
 
vijay said:
What else is the "tammanna" about a lover and a soulmate for life.



Still open to debate !!!!!!!!!!
Tammana ne zindagi ke anchal mein sar rakh ke pucha mein kab puri houngi?
Zindagi ne has kar kaha ...... Jo puri ho jaye wo tammana kaisi?
 
Go for the one you love madly: why do you want to lose control over the minimal
level of love that ensures some kind of survival. I mean you can predict your behavior (that you will continue to love someone) than hope to take somebody's love for granted.
Advice par excellence.
 
hunnnnn

After Gehan Chintan mujhe kuch mehsoos hua hai .......Jo aapko madly pyar kare , agar aap uski jageh reh kar uske najarie se sochen to bilkul ulta hoga na.. uske liye bhi to ye hi rules hona chiye ki aapko jo pyar kare uske sath jana chahiye..then what is the result????? Wo bhi to apne pyar ko bhool ke ye hi chahega na jo aap chahte hain..

On the other hand chalo maan bhi len ki aapko uske sath jana chahiye jo aapko pyar kare madly. but can anyone assure me ki aap bhi uske prati utne hi vishwasaniye honge? Jaruri thode hi hai ki aap uske bhi utna hi pasand karen jitna wo aapko kare.

Same condition aapke case mein bhi apply hoti hai.

Mere khyal se pyar not a samjhota or like that ki aapko jo madly pyar kare you have to go with him/her or vice versa. I think it is a beautiful ehsaas which has been given to us by GOD. It should be equal from both sides. But aajkal ye nahi hota we falls in love on first meeting, or kahin ek jhalak dekhi ke pyar ho gaya pyar ho gaya chillana shuru. Sari duniya te suna denge ke manne falane chore/chori te pyar ho gaya hai. I think pyar ek dusare ke sath waqt bitane sei, ek dusare se feelings share karne sei, ek dusare ko gehrai sei samjhane sei hi do dilon ke bich panapta hai.

These are my thinkings i dono what all thinks about the LOVE.
 
I would say one should go for the one who loves you.
Because "We make them cry who care (love) for us, we cry for them who never care for us and we care for them who will never cry for us". This cycle continues. In order to avoid this situation, either the two persons should be the same, or one should go for the the person who loves you, at least some one is not crying, aur yeh chakkar toot jayega.
 
suneet_rana said:
If two persons are not same in your life. Who would be the more important for u:
- the one whom u love madly and
- second one that who loves u madly

Pleas reply with a strong reason.
Well as far as importance goes, both are important :D.

I think i have strong reasons...haha
 
suneet_rana said:
Ramesh ji i cud not understand your reasonnnnnnnnnnnnnnn......
Suneet bhai
sabke nut bolt dheele karaan lag re, nu to batao, aap ke is topic pe PHD kar re ho?:confused:
Apna jawab bhi to bhejo
 
I would like to choose for the one who would love me madly....because good chances are that i'll learn to love him after feelin his love for me....its a famous saying....if you love someone let it free...if it comes back to you...its urs....if it doesn't it never was....so i'll prefer to wait for someone who will come back to me....rather than i have to run after someone....:)
 
Can Someone Clarify...

Very Interesting!!!

Can someone or the originator of this thread please explain the difference between 'Love' & 'Madly in Love'? It would be easier to answer the question then.

Reading the comments, I also have a feeling that Love or Mad(ly) Love here is only supposed to be between a boy & girl.

Are there certain things for which a person can leave all loved ones?
 
Good question!
My answer is u can go for both. Jo bhee mil jaaye use hee apna lo bass kam ho jayega. Baaki bhai agar choice hee karni hai toh i say kee uss cheez ko paane ka kya faayda jo apke pichee hee hai agar paana hai to use paao jiske peeche aap ho. Really isme jyada maja aayega. I think i made myself very clear.

Abhimanyu Phougat
 
jagmohan said:
Very Interesting!!!

Are there certain things for which a person can leave all loved ones?
Malik uncle
As seeing today's generation, i feel we are very much influenced by the movies which shows the guy and girl in love as a role model, and parents against them as villain.

But i feel reality is totally different, atleast with me. Attraction to a girl is good, understanding is better, and love is perfect, but why should someone betray his own family, his parents for a girl who he just gotto know a couple of years back?
I cant betray the one's who love me for the one i love.
 
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